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Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by YelloweWest: 6:09am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Fabulocity:My dear I'm all for gender equality which is equal opportunities for all irrespective of gender. This has nothing to do with marriage but societies perception about women general. Even if they want to bring gender equality into marriage, I each party would still have to play there own respective roles. For the man it's being the breadwinner. For the woman it's being the caretaker. These roles never really change. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Yoshy: 6:28am On Jul 03, 2017 |
mylander: Women are strange, Mum kept a record of all the money she spent on me in the University, i still love her though. What do you expect your wife to do? Sorry o, try and get a job. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Gamusgamus: 6:31am On Jul 03, 2017 |
mylander:Destiny mismatched If you a Muslim just divorce her if you are a Christian , carry your cross if you a traditionalist use your hanky |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Collyno82(m): 6:46am On Jul 03, 2017 |
cococandy:same is applicable to u ma. I suggest u go back to school n learn COMPREHENSION in English language. the passage we read according to the OP didn't say THAT THE HUSBAND SELFISHLY LEFT THE BREADWINNING AND HOMEKEEPING DUTIES FOR THE WIFE as u opined rather he lost his job due to circumstances beyond his control not out of his carelessness. Take note. Good morning to u n do have a gr8 day ahead 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by ebere100: 6:58am On Jul 03, 2017 |
mylander: This is what you get when you marry a bad woman. A good woman builds the home. Don't break your marriage. I strongly belief that your job is on it's way. Now you have known the kind of woman you married. Goodluck. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by mrjojo: 7:00am On Jul 03, 2017 |
TinaAnita:and 4months is a long period of time? Can u Atleast pretend u have a working thinking faculty madam? 7 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Collyno82(m): 7:02am On Jul 03, 2017 |
kaziblake:by their utterances u shall no them n the stuff they are made off. good morning |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 7:08am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Find something to do fast, she only married you for your money. So get something doing to make more money or she will dump you soon. Its always good to marry someone who loves you for who you are not what you do for a living. Learn the lesson and move on. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by kaziblake(f): 7:09am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Collyno82:Morning and I am only being sincere. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Hectorsam(m): 7:12am On Jul 03, 2017 |
That's ladies for you when things are going well with a man they we behave normal but when things goes wrong then you we see their tru colour both goes to married women and gf even during courtship |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 7:22am On Jul 03, 2017 |
I'm sure his shikiny bank job salary deceived him not to look the way of modest ladies when getting married rather he went for a killer slay queen, she is actually a killer not a wife at all. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Collyno82(m): 7:33am On Jul 03, 2017 |
is in lake:are u sure? okay ooh let me take fear believe naw |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by sekem: 7:38am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Hectorsam: I don't like it at all when I hear you guys say that's women for you No That's definitely a bad person for you Anybody who can easily forget whatever good you have done for them in the past and easily turn against you because the goodies are no longer coming or guaranteed is definitely not a person you can have by your side for any reason at all Don't condone any form of silliness from anybody around you whatsoever Be ready to correct any form of stupidity as well as selfishness or greed emanating from any woman in your life You owe the human race that duty freshvine: Remain blessed madam freshvine Thank you so much for speaking some sense to that bitter woman Unfortunately, she seems to have gone so far in her tomfoolery so there's every possibility that she won't even be able to understand the point you are trying to make to her 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by emynike2001(m): 7:43am On Jul 03, 2017 |
GodsLastBorn:You see my brother, in this life we live in NOTHING JUST HAPPENS, sometimes God Almighty allows this kind of problems to come up so we can see A clearer picture of who we are and what others will see US as when we no longer operate in levels we once were, so many men who read this will better learn and adjust their thinking and perception of who women are ((NOT ALL WOMEN)) Remember Job's wife in the bible told job to curse God and DIE, indirectly telling Job that he IS a curse, can u imagine, the same God that gave u riches, THAT God placed Job in such a mess did Not mean he will not restore him. Thank God we all learn everyday from other people predicaments and on this forum what people would voice out for others to consume, I KNOW that young man will be restored back to his feet again and so many who are currently passing through the valley right now. This too SHALL PASS. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Temmy5050(m): 7:55am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Sorry for the lost of your job bro, this is actually part of the problem every struggling guys are facing. Your woman should be your friend, confidant and mostly helper in most daring situation. Your story is jus like a story of a man leaving a flat close to mine, he lost his banking job this year January so the family now depend on the small shop he opened for the wife outside the aos and now that he has lost his job the wife turned him to an errand boy she will insult him at every slight provocation and this still continues..... I jus hope our women can realise the pain men face when situation like this happen losing a job is lot of psychological problem for man a good woman should be there to encourage, intercede in prayers for the husband and help him through good advice..... And for her to be keeping bills of what u both spent it's wrong every sane person won't pay a dime when things finally start picking up u will sure get over it bro good luck. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by corpershun: 8:38am On Jul 03, 2017 |
OP Sorry about the job ish, I would advise you if you are a Christian to seek the face of God in prayer this period, let her know you are not staying idle, comfort her too don't just wear a long face all day, join in the house chores and care for your Son. In the Bible Job faced more than this and we saw the attitude of his wife. Naturally Women cannot handle so much burden and everyone has their breaking point. Secondly, if you wedded in church, try to get her in a good mood to read the wedding program I do that once a while, Infact one of the day I read it, the phrase "Forsaking all others" struck me like I didn't see it on my wedding day. Finally I hope you weren't always rubbing it in her face the period she was jobless, if you did that then this is your own Karma. *You know the true character of a man when he's in money and a woman when there's none* Modified...I would have said you should buy rabbits and rare but trust women, she may use that one to abuse you ehnn, so a job seems feasible cos it seems that's why she married you... Security. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Tenny05(m): 8:38am On Jul 03, 2017 |
mylander:My brother we are on the same page, I lost my job last year and it'sbeen from one quarrel to another, she tells everybody in the community and her family about the financial assistance she renders at home, she has left for her sister's place with my kid. My brother please just be patient with her so that you won't be traumatized emotionally. It's not palatable. It will end in praise. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 03, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: You started well but ended badly...50% agreement THIS IS SPECULATIVE that that the man did not have the foresight to save or diversify (in two years, no savings) in order to protect his family from this. Bad decisions have led them to this point. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Amhappy(f): 8:48am On Jul 03, 2017 |
chibuzorAbia: Good for you bro. I am a proponent of War against laziness. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by fitzmayowa: 8:58am On Jul 03, 2017 |
hmmm |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by andyanders: 9:19am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Rossikki: Well spoken. Don't mind @Yellow because most men don't reason with their brain but their anus. Op lost his job and then? Must he kill or steal to take care of his family's need? He had job and everything was moving on fine and later he lost his job and the wife started acting. That is women for you. 90% of women are wicked in nature even from the time of Adam and Eve. If your partner is having financial issues, the other should come in and help without raising issues up.Partners should pray and encourage each other in order for God to intervene.Only few women are virtues in nature and are very rear to come by. Only God can give you a real woman. When you look at 90% of ladies these days, their taught are centered on material things hence they even start sleeping outside while married just to collect money. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by GodsLastBorn: 9:22am On Jul 03, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:lol lmao good, even if she was my gf I'm not married yet and will always pray that ur kind never cones near my radar. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by SmartyPants(m): 9:28am On Jul 03, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Are you telling me you didn't see the part where he financed her entire post graduate education? The wife was jobless up untill recently so you dont need to ask him to give details of what he did since it is obvious he did everything! |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by mathew247: 9:43am On Jul 03, 2017 |
sonnie10:honestly... Mathew is not my name plus the email too not mine. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by mathew247: 9:46am On Jul 03, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Amen... I'm single anyway and I'm not going to hurt my wife no matter what...there's a good occult out there... Keep going in a circle... You will realize the truth later in life. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Jman06(m): 10:03am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Rolly83:Many of you have the misconception that if a lady ''loves'' you she will take everything from you. That's a fallacy of the highest order. Marriage is what opens the eyes of many. The lady gets used to everything that attracted her to you, and the whole thing turns boring and she starts seeing other dudes with better qualities. Don't be surprised the lady was madly inlove before marriage. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by ifko: 10:43am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Zilifish:how can I register my car on taxify |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by YelloweWest: 10:48am On Jul 03, 2017 |
SmartyPants:My point is I just disagree when I spouse paints his or herself like an innocent victim and there other half like a wicked witch. I'm sure we'll get a different story if we hear from the wife. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by CapitalCee(m): 10:52am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Amhappy: Anybody that worked in a bank for 2 years is not lazy, moreover the man is only out of job for just 4 F.ucking months. So when does not securing another Job after 4 months becomes laziness? When he foot her bills and education for 2 years he is a sweet husband, now he is lazy? Women are just silly with fish brain 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by YelloweWest: 11:03am On Jul 03, 2017 |
freshvine:Madam you're the one who sounds bitter. The lady said the truth. If the man can no longer provide financially, he should at least ensure he relives his wife of some Street by taking up house chores. The primary role for the man is to be the breadwinner while the woman is the caretaker. If for any reason he can't provide what's wrong with taking care of his FAMILY and household? |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 11:11am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Jman06: It's not a misconception,its a fact!!! Look when you love someone(weather man or woman) you're ready to share n comfort your loved ones both in sickness n health,in riches n difficulty. That's the way it is.... If u like believe it or not.. That's the plain truth. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 11:12am On Jul 03, 2017 |
jaychubi: You daft for calling me that!!! It's not a misconception,its a fact!!! Look when you love someone(weather man or woman) you're ready to share n comfort your loved ones both in sickness n health,in riches n difficulty. That's the way it is.... If u like believe it or not.. That's the plain truth. 1 Like |
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