I saw this post on Facebook on how Nigerian ladies ask guys for transport fare when traveling to visit the men, and I decided to share.

Australian girls will travel from Australia to Canada and spend $2,000 for flying ticket which is nearly N1 million and travel a distance of 17 hours by air to visit a man.

American girls will spend over $2,500, which is over N1 million to buy air ticket and travel almost 18 hours in the air from America to England to visit a man and also buy expensive gifts for him.

European girls will spend over 2,000 Euros, which is around N900,000 and buy a plane ticket to fly 17 hours all the way from Europe to Asia to visit a man.

But a Nigerian woman cannot pay[sic] N500 to visit a man inside her own country; but she will tell a Nigerian guy to send her transport fare and that she needs good and caring man..Absolutely incredible...This is a fact without argument

Papiikush:
What do you expect from a jobless, broke, boyfriend depending liability who thinks guys can throw money at her whenever she asks because she's got a hole between her legs .

Lol.

But a counter argument will be that the Nigerian economy is harsh, and they find it difficult to live day to day

One guy said posted that while he was still a corper, he used to pay N10,000 as transport fare for his ex-girlfriend to visit him in Cross River, while the lady lived in Lagos. On top of all that, he would give her additional money to buy recharge cards. Bear in mid that his only source of income was his N19,800 NYSC allowance.
One day, the ex made the usual request, but this time he told her he couldn't afford it because he had to clear some debts. You know what happened next? The ex-girlfriend never called him; he later discovered that she was sleeping with another man in Lagos

But now that he is a relatively successful business man, she keeps asking for financial assistance. He, however, has refused to even lend her i kobo.

It should depend on the status of the relationship. If a married man who lives in Abuja, invites his side chick, then he should pay for her ticket
But if it's a boyfriend, she should be able to pay her air fare.

Mcowubaba:
Most Nigerian girls present themselves as only Sex Objects.
I saw a post on Facebook about whether a Girl can date a guy without asking for Money.
Most of the Nigerian females responded "can a guy date a girl without asking for Sex"

So the equated Sex to Money. Interesting
This has proved the popular school of thought, that most Nigerian girls only offer Sex in a relationship.
Nigerian girls are still the same people that will say "he used and dumped me"

What's the used in this context, SEX, SEX...
As if the didn't enjoy the Sex, probably the guy only benefitted from the Sex.

Many years ago, I invited a lady to visit me, the first thing she told me was "I don't have transport, I should send", I told her, when she comes I will give her Transport money, she was reluctant, but she later agreed, can you believe that immediately she came, she requested for the money before we even started talking anything.
What Made me crazy about the whole thing was that the transport in question was just #200

Hardly before most Nigerian girl can pay the bills when you guys go on date, the hardly pay for anything, nothing, the say to themselves, after all he is fvcking me.
So Sex is equated to money. Isn't this prostitution

Relationship to most of them is like Job opportunity and Npower youth empowerment

I have had the time to mingle with many Nigerian girls, different classes, Tribes and status quo, believe me, it's the same thing.
Even the so called miss independent, miss Feminist, miss Gender Equality aren't left out, the just deceive themselves ONLINE, when it matters in REALITY, they are no where to be found.

Some Nigerian girls are good though, but I'm yet to be in a relationship with one..
I don't know where I can find them, I just hear about the goodness of Nigerian girls online.

Preach it bro

U said it all bro, I only hear about the good girls online. That means good girls are almost extinct in Nigeria.
If you think your wife loves you wait till you lose your source of income.

Some Norms in this country is just crazy, you coming to see the guy you claim to love and you still want to collect transport what are you sacrificing in the rship? Sex I guess, as if they are not the ones that moan and raise their legs in the air during sex.

bakynes:
U said it all bro, I only hear about the good girls online. That means good girls are almost extinct in Nigeria.
If you think your wife loves you wait till you lose your source of income.


Some Norms in this country is just crazy, you coming to see the guy you claim to love and you still want to collect transport what are you sacrificing in the rship? Sex I guess, as if they are not the ones that moan and raise their legs in the air during sex.

My brother, this is the phobia of every unmarried dude and it was the same thing my friend was complaining about yesterday

Just imagine when everything is going well but when things no longer flow like it used to be, then your wife unleashes frustration on you and makes your life unbearable.

Lol.# chews corn.

That is how one random guy online asked me to visit him. with my own hard earned money. I wonder if sugar dey him D. tfu

seriously Nigerian girls don't think Nigerian boys are worth wasting any money on.

In Europe after the girl has bought the tickets and travelled down, they go on romantic dates, sight see and it's so fun for both.

But if a naija girl waste money to come and see y'all, she gains nothing. she go cook tire like say u don marry her, then steady knacking till day break.

so tell me, are you worth a girl spending 2k to come and see you!!?

Nigerian girls and money are like 5&6. As for me all I know is that I don't expect unconditional love from anyone but my mom

HannahHitler:
Lol.# chews corn.

That is how one random guy online asked me to visit him. with my own hard earned money. I wonder if sugar dey him D. tfu

seriously Nigerian girls don't think Nigerian boys are worth wasting any money on.

In Europe after the girl has bought the tickets and travelled down, they go on romantic dates, sight see and it's so fun for both.

But if a naija girl waste money to come and see y'all, she gains nothing. she go cook tire like say u don marry her, then steady knacking till day break.

so tell me, are you worth a girl spending 2k to come and see you!!?

Lmao

I wouldn't expect a lady if just getting to know to "cook tire" for me.
Of course, we can go on great romantic dates in order to have deeper knowledge of each other's personality, dreams and aspirations.
If she wants to cook on our very first meeting, nothing will prevent her from doing so

There are many loopholes in this argument but a daft guy will rush it without going over the details in his brain.

Let me get this straight.
You invite a girl over, and she would pay her transport fare to and fro?, what are you as her boyfriend doing?.
She should as well take you out and pay for your orders.
She should shower you with gifts.
You want to be on the receiving end without offering anything beside your dick, and because she's a Nigerian girl she should do all these in a relationship you won't think twice cheating or terming her desperate.

Personally, I can't spend my money on a Nigerian guy, perhaps my husband.

PDPGuy:
It should depend on the status of the relationship. If a married man who lives in Abuja, invites his side chick, then he should pay for her ticket
But if it's a boyfriend, she should be able to pay her air fare.

Don't b dumb pls. These white ladies have d means, you can't b dating an undergraduate and expect her to pay for flight. I don't even know how some people reason

Nma27:
Don't b dumb pls. These white ladies have d means, you can't b dating an undergraduate and expect her to pay for flight. I don't even know how some people reason

Of course, if the girl genuinely doesn't have the means to pay for her fare, nothing stops the guy from assisting her in that regard. For instance, if I live in Lagos and the girl I'm wooing lives in Enugu, and she is a 300L student at UNEC, I have no qualms paying her bus or air fare.

I guess the writer's ire is directed to working class ladies who have the means to pay their own transport fare.

PDPGuy:

Of course, if the girl genuinely doesn't have the means to pay for her fare, nothing stops the guy from assisting her in that regard. For instance, if I live in Lagos and the girl I'm wooing lives in Enugu, and she is a 300L student at UNEC, I have no qualms paying her bus or air fare.

I guess the writer's ire is directed to working class ladies who have the means to pay their own transport fare.

Are u not the op?

The truth is,some Nigerian girls don't see the average Nigerian guy as worth any stress. So, while dating...they will try to milk them as much as possible, which itself is bad. Relationship here isn't what I am very proud of.

Instead of complaining of Nigerian girls, why don't you guys reflect on why you are wanted only for the dikc and money. Nigerian girls are not the only ones that feel that way about you guys. Date and marry foreigners, una refuse...still come back to these bad Nigerian women, the only women that can tolerate your inadequacies.

You get angry when girls ask if you can date without sex, but keep ranting how they can't date you without money. If relationship isn't about giving money, is it now about sex?

Till these nagging Nigerian guys can tell me how they have influenced all the girls they dated positively, I will suggest you all stop acting like you are any better. You are what you attract. Dazzall...

Nma27:
Are u not the op?

I copied the post from fb

u see a random babe on facebook or badoo and u invite her over to come spend the night or two nights with u.why wont she ask for money.u have to compensate her na for the intended bulala of her snail .internet prostitution shanigans.

We're very sorry, dear unkus. We wee ask our parents for transport fare next time.




















Ori yin gbale danu

Infact eh, everything relating to Nigeria is phucked up. From relationship to economy, education, health just name it...

pocohantas:
The truth is,some Nigerian girls don't see the average Nigerian guy as worth any stress. So, while dating...they will try to milk them as much as possible. Relationship here isn't what I am very proud of.

Instead of complaining of Nigerian girls, why don't you guys reflect on why you are wanted only for the dikc and money. Nigerian girls are not the only ones that feel that way about you guys. The problem is, most of you are stuck in your hood. So, you think you are hot cakes for some non superficial reasons.

I look forward to the day Nigerian guys would start marrying from other countries or continent in mass...but they won't. They still come back to these bad Nigerian women, the only women that can tolerate their inadequacies.

You get angry when girls ask if you can date without sex, but keep ranting how they can't date you without money. If relationship isn't about giving money, is it now about sex?

Till these Nigerian guys can tell me how they have influenced all the girls they dated positively, I will suggest you guys stop acting like you are any better. You are as useless as the girls you attract.
Dazzall...

Instead of milking a man that you don't have feelings for, just tell him point blank that you aren't interested in him. Even if he asks you a second or third time, repeat your answer.
There is no need stringing a guy along. If a lady truly loves a guy and vice versa, there should be no milking of anyone.

PDPGuy:


Instead of milking a man that you don't have feelings for, just tell him point blank that you aren't interested in him. Even if he asks you a second or third time, repeat your answer.
There is no need stringing a guy along. If a lady truly loves a guy and vice versa, there should be no milking of anyone.

That's why I said our relationship here is flawed. The guys talking like they are innocent, lots of them also go into relationships to have a steady lay. If we date more for love, things will be better.

PDPGuy:


Instead of milking a man that you don't have feelings for, just tell him point blank that you aren't interested in him. Even if he asks you a second or third time, repeat your answer.
There is no need stringing a guy along. If a lady truly loves a guy and vice versa, there should be no milking of anyone.

CFCfan?

Mcowubaba:
Most Nigerian girls present themselves as only Sex Objects.


Many years ago, I invited a lady to visit me, the first thing she told me was "I don't have transport, I should send", I told her, when she comes I will give her Transport money, she was reluctant, but she later agreed, can you believe that immediately she came, she requested for the money before we even started talking anything.
What Made me crazy about the whole thing was that the transport in question was just #200

!!

Benita27:
Let me get this straight.
You invite a girl over, and she would pay her transport fare to and fro?, what are you as her boyfriend doing?.
She should as well take you out and pay for your orders.
She should shower you with gifts.
You want to be on the receiving end without offering anything beside your dick, and because she's a Nigerian girl she should do all these in a relationship you won't think twice cheating or terming her desperate.

Personally, I can't spend my money on a Nigerian guy, perhaps my husband.

Take my own case for instance: Two years with a girlfriend. I initiate dates and pay the bills. I get gifts on both our birthdays. Would it be so evil for me to expect a date where she handles all financing ( no matter how little)?

Ishilove:

CFCfan?

who is that?

PDPGuy:

who is that?

Someone I know here. You write like him.

Ishilove:

Someone I know here. You write like him.

Hmmm
Was he a notorious guy on this forum?

PDPGuy:

Hmmm
Was he a notorious guy on this forum?

Nope. He was actually a nice, young gentle man.