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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by hisMrs(f): 2:00pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
GreatChizzy:shebi dey were not together all that time. na so dem dey quick dump person? Oya o OP dump her o and another man will cherish her. just remember OP said he knew she was not a V |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ariklawani(f): 2:02pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Ask her if there's anything u still need to know. If non. then don't underestimate the power of compatibility. I mean prayer .u should understand better...speaking from experience. I just left my marriage of 10yr. because I didn't take my time to know if truly we are meant for each other. so so important.[quote author=womanofsteel post=58719026]She told you a dark secret in confidence and you came here to tell us. Bia young man, you're not ready for marriage. By the way, she had a stillbirth unlike you that committed murder deliberately. Its even your own that is the "dark secret" if you don't know. Mtcheew.[/qu 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by imustsaymymindo: 2:03pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
oshaosha2014: No kill me with laugh abeg. At the end of the day, na one nice guy go get the demented hole. Funny how life works, forgiveness is truly for the strong. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by hisMrs(f): 2:03pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
ritababe:did she say she slept with d secondary school boyfriend in secondary sch? |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Bobby808: 2:04pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy:Some people are inteligent sha. Am sure your observation is most likely to be the truth. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Frankyboy1: Man this your analysis is over too much |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by dowjones(m): 2:06pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lovelygurl: From all the comments you've made on this thread its clear you didnt read between the lines. Yes. Most women lack comprehension. Look at the few women who have replied logically to this thread. Very few. THey realize its not the Girl's past that the OP is concerned about Many people have tried to pass this point to your thick skull but you're still typing rubbish. now go back to the kitchen 6 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by delishpot: 2:07pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
mapist: I don't think he made mention of her cheating on him. Those happened before they met. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
dowjones: I can't believe you are judging women from all over the world, be it Asian, European, American based on Nairaland But then again, your go back to the kitchen comment say it all |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by GoodGod2017: 2:10pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
This is reason some ladies keep secret to themselves, you want a house material now you are asking why she had stillbirth, do you think stillbirth is a good thing instead of you to stand by her and make her happy you are say rubbish, remember you abort for some one too,if you know she will regret marrying it's better leave her for another man that will take her for whom she is and appreciate her love and honest, later some men will start blaming ladies anyway I felt hurt and bad for the lady. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by victorking: 2:11pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
For even bringing this matter here on nairaland, my brother dont marry her. cos u are already judgemental of her and u will never trust her if u marry her. Marriage is not i love u i love u alone. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Funtan(m): 2:15pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
DrinosBlog:Na the only thing wey you fit point out for the post be that.
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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Yabsun(m): 2:15pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
[quote author=rosalieene post=58711572] [Only we guys know how painful the scenario is when things like this happen. Y depriving him sex n gave it freely to someone else with the same fact that she was yet to marry them?] |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ifyboy60(m): 2:16pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy: So u get sense madridguy: So u get sense |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by elmagnifico411(m): 2:20pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I can still go on if u want to marry her, after all whatever happened then was in the past. U got someone pregnant and made her Abbott the baby, she got pregnant too, wanted to keep the baby, but had a still birth. In my opinion, she is better than u sef. U room a life, while she tried so hard to keep one but lost it eventually. If u really love this girl, forget all those times she never gave u sex and stay with her. Who knows, it could be for some obscured reasons. What am I even saying sef, you've always loved her. If not, u wouldn't have been going back to her, and I think she loves u too.. that's really not a dark secret to me jare.. just check it: does she make u happy? If yes, bros, no wait for another thing wey no follow. My 2cent. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by dowjones(m): 2:22pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lovelygurl: this is the last time i'll reply your low life. MOST doesn't mean ALL. Most refers to a majority. or Mode in statistics. (please read that sloooowly) Women judge from the heart and are sentimental. A few however are logical. You, dumbwit are not among that few. Now die in that kitchen 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
dowjones: You don't want get me angry, trust me Most = 50% and above. Even if you have been in 10 countries and all those women were dumb. It still doesn't speak for 10% of the world's population when it comes to women. Stop being a fool,especially not 1 who thinks he is intelligent. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by imustsaymymindo: 2:25pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
smithsydny: Testing someone with this sort of thing is too expensive o. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by madridguy(m): 2:34pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy: Kudos bro, You re OG My brain ur brain |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Eluwilussit(m): 2:37pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: If you are sure she is not testing you, then there is a problem. She doesn't love you. She denied you her body while other men ravished it, and you actually wanted it more than anything. Unfortunately, man you are the one in love with her. You may be in for a lot more surprises. I will not marry a woman that refused me sex while sharing it freely to others. It does not matter what you have done yourself. At least you have been honest with her from the beginning. She is not an honest person. Honesty is about being true and not about making confessions. Watch well before you leap. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by jamesbridget13(f): 2:39pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Pls go ahead n marry her except there is something else u aren't saying |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
In my opinion, she didn't give into you because she was irritated by you constantly putting her under pressure for sex and you were also very promiscuous. She didn't see a future with your kind of person back in the days. In my own opinion again, she also had sex with other men because you kind of pushed her into it with your constant irritating sexual advances, irritating lifestyle and constant breakups. She didn't see the need to be faithful to you. Mind you, she is only now with you because her parent didn't like the other man and she had a stillbirth. You are not her number one choice. The truth be told. Moving forward: The truth hurts but you can't move forward in this relationship when you are fixated on the past. If it bothers you soo much, please dedicate some time to seek the face of God and then; only you can decide. AND I do hope you are a changed man. I hope you make the right decision to enable you move forward. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by PNEUMA0001: 2:51pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
obyrich: and that the lady knows too well hence her celibacy stance. OP cannot handle letting the lady go as well as letting her stay. But if OP could bed this lady he will know what he really want of the two. Rather funny! |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 2:53pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
jamesbridget13:He cannot just go ahead and marry her. He has to know why she was having sex with others but not with him at different times. It could be that she is not attracted to him and that is a big red flag. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by optimismlaz(m): 2:54pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
My brother you have succeeded in getting a good wife |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: The fact she denied you sex means she never loved you. You are just a last option since the first ones didn't work out. Not wishing you bad but I don't think this marriage has any future. There are so many decent girls around, just take your time and search. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by okeyfermod(m): 2:56pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
OP, a lot of the time, nairaland is the worst place you can ever get advice, cause there are lots of inmature people here, lets tell ourselves the truth. i laugh when people try to compare a woman and a man. there is no comparison, nature , God and society knows. A woman who denies you sex, but was sleeping with others is strong!! women are not meant to be that strong. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nwabundo38(f): 2:59pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:So that is your problem?? What if she didn't feel like having sex with you.. OP u don't have a point.. How can someone who killed an innocent baby have the mind to judge someone else.. If she agreed to have sex with you in those days, she might be the one that aborted a baby for you because if she gets pregnant you won't be ready for the baby then |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: you that consciously killed a human soul is putting someone who lost a dear soul under contempt. she should be the one contemplating over marrying yhu, considering yhur a murdering of defenceless foetus . charcoal stove can not be calling white chalk black. quit being a subtle anti-feminist. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 3:02pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
NoToPile: On the different occasions that they dated she denied him sex while she was having it or had had it with other people; It is too weak to say that it was because she was a virgin that she denied him sex in the first place and later on that it was because of her bad experience. In a court situation the evidence will be weak. The main thing here is that there is a huge possibility that she is not sexually attracted to him and that is going to make for a disastrous wedding. That she has good qualities is not going to keep the marriage if she goes about cheating cos she has no sexual attraction to him. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nwabundo38(f): 3:07pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Kobicove:There are so many girls who have not been pregnant before marriage.. Am not judging the girl but I just want to correct u.. Don't term all girls as the same..There are so many decent girls out there and the fact that you have been meeting bad girls doesn't mean all girls are bad |
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