temi4fash:


No be here oo...

But i have meet ladies who have same believes of No sex before marriage too..

Never say never bro

where are they?

hartson:
where are they?lai mohammed

@bennyann

temi4fash:



@bennyann

Dear, what I do?

bennyann:


Dear, what I do?

finger is being pointed @ U.explain ya self

Destined2win:
90% of the times when you ask a lady the attributes she wants in a man, you will see amongst others, "he must be God fearing"! But what baffles me in actuality is that a lot of them do not act accordingly.

It leaves me wondering if they have a totally different meaning to God-fearing. I know a guy who tried to live to his dream lady's expectation of being a God-fearing young man. He goes to church always and tells the lady, he always talk about the Bible. He doesn't talk about Sex or like things. But at the end, the lady abandoned him for a guy who didn't really care much about church or related things.

Even slay queens are not left out of desiring a God-fearing man yet you see their lifestyle saying completely opposite.

Ladies maybe you can let us understand what you mean when you say, "I need a God-fearing man"!

If there is also a limit to how God-fearing your man can be, please what is it.

Thanks!

Haba!


Nothing new na!..

Every real man knows

You should never take the advice of what females say they want as regards relationship. Just listen and nod your head when they " pull" out that long list.

They themselves don't even know what they want.

hartson:
finger is being pointed @ U.explain ya self

Please make it easier for me. I've not been following this thread.

I could only trace it to this:

temi4fash:


No be here oo...

But i have meet ladies who have same believes of No sex before marriage too..

Never say never bro

The image explains my meaning of a God fearing man and why I desire such.

Like seriously? Na romance section this topic dey?

No wonder! Temi4fash

HungerBAD:
They simply mean MAGA.

If they want to get married to a Pastor, they should simply signify that. But the "God Fearing Man" Format is old, and i doubt if they even say it again, since it never worked for them anyway.

I still wonder when women will learn that there are some certain things a man looks for in a wife in women, and 19 out of 20 times the men never say it, but just look out for those traits. And this is why it is almost comical when women start listing everything they want in a man, which is not limited to stuff like(God fearing man,already made man,Lekki Landlord man,tall dark and handsome man,must know how to cook man)and so much.

Women should learn to shut up, and look for the "Good Husbands" Traits in the men, instead of running their mouths.

They should learn to shut up? I get you but please mind the way you admonish them and don't let the little bad ones you've met cloud your way of communicating with/to them.

You want them to shut up, yet you guys will still be the ones to ask what kind of man do you desire. How many of them just start giving answers without being asked questions?

Don't you think it's also time to stop telling ladies to shut up and rather look for the 'good wives' trait in women instead of running your mouth against them?

Well, whether we speak out what we desire in a partner or not, we eventually settle down with someone. Running your mouth or not running it will not stop you from settling down with whoever you've decided to settle down with.

Some spoke out their desires but they couldn't achieve them. Some also didn't speak them out but it doesn't mean they achieved them. I pray and hope it won't be so for the good and Godly ones.

bennyann:


Please make it easier for me. I've not been following this thread.

I could only trace it to this:

ok

hartson:
gender identification first.so you r a he or she?

She. I hope I'm safe?

bennyann:


Please make it easier for me. I've not been following this thread.

I could only trace it to this:

It started here

Destined2win:
90% of the times when you ask a lady the attributes she wants in a man, you will see amongst others, "he must be God fearing"! But what baffles me in actuality is that a lot of them do not act accordingly.

It leaves me wondering if they have a totally different meaning to God-fearing. I know a guy who tried to live to his dream lady's expectation of being a God-fearing young man. He goes to church always and tells the lady, he always talk about the Bible. He doesn't talk about Sex or like things. But at the end, the lady abandoned him for a guy who didn't really care much about church or related things.

Even slay queens are not left out of desiring a God-fearing man yet you see their lifestyle saying completely opposite.

Ladies maybe you can let us understand what you mean when you say, "I need a God-fearing man"!

If there is also a limit to how God-fearing your man can be, please what is it.

Thanks!

Then i got to these part

Humility017:

I think you're very right...
I once had one who always...love talk such..
and even told me....she can't stay in a relationship without kissing and cuddling...
she makes me know she was just being sincere...and that she can't be wit me...in a relationship and I don't give these...and that she will even go seduce me to yield to it...
I was so devastated bro...
I am really tired of everything....
I think relationships was not meant for my kind

then i replied

temi4fash:


No be here oo...

But i have meet ladies who have same believes of No sex before marriage too..

Never say never bro

Then, These guy accused me

hartson:
where are they?lai mohammed

So i called you out....

hartson:
finger is being pointed @ U.explain ya self

So, Now we get to where you let us know that all hope is not lost and we still have ladies who believe NSBM

tamethem:
A man that they will disobey and yet still love and worship them in their stubonness

The one that will listen to all their advice and a single advice from him they wont take.

A man when they were still dating they visited and never helped to cook or wash plate for but when he marries them they would call " dear please can you join me in the kitchen. Thanks. Please can you wash those plate for me while I make this Eba"

A man that none of his family members must visit their house but her own mother sister and brother would make their house their second home.

A man that keeps a devilish joint account with them that would alwsys need to seek her opinion just to buy himself a boxer's.

A man that she would rain insults upon that will quietly take his shirt and go out and come back home when her madness has subsided.

A man that she would deny sex for months all in the name of shes a career woman and shes tired after work and would still be faithful to her. Satisfying himself with masturbation because truely he loves her and dont wanna sin.


That is a Woman's God fearing man.

Lmao! That's a very detailed and venomous post.

[quote author=MarieSucre post=59684409]
What do you mean 'doesn't know his right in the relationship dancing to all their tunes without looking back

Beemhan:

'A man that has right a standing with God"
In other words, a man that when they're dating will not touch, kiss or sleep with her. He'll be prayerful and include her in it... He'll read and share the word of God with her as often as he can and they won't share the same bed until marriage so that they don't get tempted...?
Is this what our ladies mean?

definitely not my brother...

temi4fash:


It started here




Then i got to these part



then i replied




Then, These guy accused me




So i called you out....




So, Now we get to where you let us know that all hope is not lost and we still have ladies who believe NSBM

Of course there are ladies who do not just believe in no sex before marriage but they practice it also. It's not just part of our culture but it's also what God demands from us.

But temi4fash, the way you called me out, what if I've deviated? How would you know? Please save me o

I'm just wondering how I would have felt if seeing this after deviating from the path. Hmmmm, toyobaby comes to mind..

Please save me and I wasn't expecting it from the romance section but thanks a lot for believing in me still. God forbid but if there's anytime I want to deviate, your believe in me will keep me on my feet. I'm encouraged

But a Godly character/attitude is much more than gold to me compared to that.

bennyann:


Of course there are ladies who do not just believe in no sex before marriage but they practice it also. It's not just part of our culture but it's also what God demands from us.

But temi4fash, the way you called me out, what if I've deviated? How would you know? Please save me o

I'm just wondering how I would have felt if seeing this after deviating from the path. Hmmmm, toyobaby comes to mind..

Please save me and I wasn't expecting it from the romance section but thanks a lot for believing in me still. God forbid but if there's anytime I want to deviate, your believe in me will keep me on my feet. I'm encouraged

But a Godly character/attitude is much more than gold to me compared to that.

Well..

God would keep you standing and help you not to.

And i pray that the answers to your prayers wuld quickly manifest and the right guy would come along quickly and speedily.

Stay safe..

Would not call you out next time..

Hope you having a great time at work??

temi4fash:


Well..

God would keep you standing and help you not to.

And i pray that the answers to your prayers wuld quickly manifest and the right guy would come along quickly and speedily.

Stay safe..

Would not call you out next time..

Hope you having a great time at work??

Amen dear. Thank you so much

Brother, if anything should happen to me now, i don't know what I will do to myself but I believe and know that God hasn't brought me this far to fall eventually. He who has brought me this far will give me the grace to end victoriously. And I'm also determined to be a vessel in God's hands to show forth His glory. It hasn't been all rosy but God is on the throne.

About work, I can say it's OK but I need something better. Only when I get that better one can I start thinking of involving myself in a relationship because I don't want to be a liability, I hate it.

So please remember me in your prayers. Hope you're good too?

.

bennyann:


Amen dear. Thank you so much

Brother, if anything should happen to me now, i don't know what I will do to myself but I believe and know that God hasn't brought me this far to fall eventually. He who has brought me this far will give me the grace to end victoriously. And I'm also determined to be a vessel in God's hands to show forth His glory. It hasn't been all rosy but God is on the throne.

About work, I can say it's OK but I need something better. Only when I get that better one can I start thinking of involving myself in a relationship because I don't want to be a liability, I hate it.

So please remember me in your prayers. Hope you're good too?

sweet heart time is ticking oh, let's tie this knot Na

onyenze123:


sweet heart time is ticking oh, let's tie this knot Na

My first love, you came here? Please let's go to our house because I don't want to be active in the romance section.

bennyann:




My first love, you came here? Please let's go to our house because I don't want to be active in the romance section.

OK dear, let's go to the other room

OrdercityWeb:

He said the truth. I don't see the need for your question.
I am a Virgin and i plan to remain so till i marry and I'm never going to settle for a lady that has hopped from one d!ck to the other.
This technique you ladies use when we bring up the claim that we want morally upright wives by asking us if we were virgins is stale.
Some of us still have our heads intact and would NEVER settle for a h0e (in this context: NON-VIRGIN)

Then my comment does not refer to you. it really refers to those men who are prostitutes and change women like boxers and expect to still marry virtuous women.

OrdercityWeb:

Honestly. I just confirmed once again that a majority of Nigerian girls are hypocrites and weild double standards.
You know quite well he isn't talking of "Husband and Wife". He is talking of "boyfriend and girlfriend" and you know you just on purpose chose to manipulate the whole context.
Please some of us are intelligent enough to see through y'll wimps and caprices. You don't always have to go against the truth when its staring at you in the face.
PLEASE CHANGE!

You have also confirmed to me that you DO NOT know what he is talking about. You only presumed with your own understand that it is "boyfriend and girlfriend" thanks for wasting my time.

Ameeria:
A God fearing man is a man who believes in a higher authority and thus respect humanity. He takes God's greatest commands of : Love God and love your neighbors seriously. This forms the basis of his behaviour and dealings. He needs not be a religious fanatic. All he needs is to live right and treat others right.

hmm sweet truth