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Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by somehow: 8:44pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
According to Catholic tradition or the bible? adetayo234: |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by abike12(f): 9:06pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
somehow: i'm sure you had a head injury over the weekend to come online and start generalizing and calling people names. wishing you a speedy recovery. try aromatherapy for that anger that is eating your insides. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Chikwado1991(m): 9:13pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
the husband should then finish up by wedding her if that's what she wants na |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by somehow: 9:22pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Is this the best you could come up with? abike12: |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by charlsecy(m): 10:05pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Chikwado1991: Andrewkinggg:Christian second wife? |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by rossyc(f): 11:15pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Arysexy:You have said it all.. 1 Like |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by rossyc(f): 11:21pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Fourwinds:You can only receive communion when you are married in the church that is when it comes to married people. Even after traditional marriage as a Catholic ,Church wedding or marriage blessing is a criteria for receiving Holy communion. The problem here is she was married traditionally as a second wife and christianity doesn't support polygamy. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by gemale(m): 11:52pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Bobbybube:So many articles of our Christian faith are not explicitly stated eg the trinity but Spirit - led, intensive word study & revelation led to their discovery as they were implicitly mentioned in the bible. It's the Spirit of God that gives understanding to the treasures contained in scripture. The letter killeth. To answer your question, genesis 2:24 which says "therefore shall a man leave his father & his mother, & cleave unto his WIFE (singular not wives): & they shall be 1 flesh". That was the will of God for marriage in the beginning. If God intended that a man should marry more than 1 woman, He wouldn't have made just eve for adam. These words were repeated by our Lord Jesus Christ in Mark 10:7-8, however with a more specific definition of who consisted of the "they" from the verse from genesis "and the two (not 3,4,5,6) will become one flesh.’So they are no longer two (again) , but one flesh" (Mark 10, verse eight). So you see that God instituted marriage to be between 2 persons, a man & a woman AKA monogamy. Anyone doing otherwise is not doing God's will & remember Jesus said that only those who do God's will would enter the kingdom of heaven. Another verse that refers to this is 1 Corinthians 7: 2 "...... Let every man have his own wife (again not wives) & let every woman have her own husband (not husbands). If you look at the life of St paul (the author), he was an ex persecutor of Christians but was converted by Jesus Himself & most of his teachings were by the revelation of the Holy Spirit. He had little physical contact with the apostles hence none of the 12 preached to him. True, people in the bible practiced polygamy but did God instruct them to do so? No, they all did it in opposition to God's will & if you study the bible well, you would see that it had a negative effect on them. In fact let me chronicle them for you, the 1st polygamist, Lamech ended up being the successor of the curse of Cain (the father of murderers), the next was Abraham, who because of impatience for the arrival of Isaac , listened to Sarah & married her slave hagai. Ishmael, the product of that union is the patriarch of the Arabs & the entire world is still suffering from the repercussion of that decision today. Then we had Jacob, who wanted to marry just Rachel but because he was deceived by laban mistakenly married Leah. He went ahead & made Rachel his 2nd wife. Because He favoured Rachel, God made her barren & made Leah fruitful & like Sarah, they both made him marry their slaves. God finally relented & gave Rachel Joseph & Benjamin. We see how Joseph's half-brothers nearly killed him if not for Reuben. Still they sold him into slavery. I can go on & on to list the tragedy men in the bible brought on themselves by engaging in polygamy. Is it Solomon whose wives led him astray to serve other gods which led to him losing 10 tribes of israel & only keeping 2 because of God's love for david or david himself whose children from different mothers started killing each other. The list is endless but look at men who walked with God like enoch, Moses (who God spoke with like a man speaks with his friend), Samuel (who spoke with God from his childhood), elijah, elisha, isaiah ... No polygamist. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Bahddo(m): 1:52am On Aug 22, 2017 |
eyinjuege:no, not religion... Her Catholic faith is what she found after many years of marriage. People worship whatever they worship and still steal, kill and sleep with their pastors/church members. Why is marriage as second wife impossible? Yes, people do change, but lions hardly ever turn into sheep. It's usually people who hardly think for themselves that keep looking for a reputable or powerful religious leader to think for them, and vice versa. The day my wife chooses to become unrepentantly stupid, it's over. The day I choose to be unrepentantly stupid, she should feel free to walk away too. There should be no space for third parties in a marriage, except God. No way I'm letting pastors or priests or imams or witch doctors control me through my wife, not if I can help it. 1 Like |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by desire222(f): 4:25am On Aug 22, 2017 |
abike12:Thank you so much for this. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by dasparrow: 4:35am On Aug 22, 2017 |
SalamRushdie: lol ; |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by oz4real83(m): 5:44am On Aug 22, 2017 |
manci:you are very correct!!! As a muslim,she would have been married at age 10(since according to islam ''age isnt a criterion for marriage''), had her first child (which is put under the almarjiri system) by age 11,contact vvf by age 14,separated and abandoned by the husband by age 15 and the husband goes to hunt another victim(s) again and the cycle continues!!! 1 Like |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Chinagurum1995(m): 5:45am On Aug 22, 2017 |
Hmmm that a sin how dey go sleep na Church during Holy Communion hmm dey go commit sin. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by engrhorla(m): 7:07am On Aug 22, 2017 |
jashar: Ok o> Eleyi gidi gan sha |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by NoToPile: 7:47am On Aug 22, 2017 |
Bibically a man is not allowed to marry 2 women and vice versa as long as the first spouse is still alive, the marriage convenant is broken only by DEATH. I am not a catholic but the woman just did a form of restitution , let the man go back to the first wife and stop having marital relations with the 2nd woman. If we are to look at it sef, the marriage to this 2nd woman is not valid because he has a living spouse , they just had children together. Let her go and look for her own husband she married another persons husband shikena. Let her live apart and he should continue taking responsibility for his children that's all. Christains be deceiving themselves up and down. 2 Likes |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Fourwinds: 10:43am On Aug 22, 2017 |
rossyc:so she should divorce the man right.... |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by rossyc(f): 11:15am On Aug 22, 2017 |
Fourwinds:Biblically a man is not allowed to marry two wives. As long as the first wife is alive that marriage is invalid so she should marry her own husband legally and in the church too as a christian. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Fourwinds: 11:32am On Aug 22, 2017 |
rossyc:ok but she has committed fornication or adultery and the man adultery...so what will they do now |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by rossyc(f): 12:37pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
Fourwinds:The man should stick to his first wife while she moves on and marry her own husband. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Fourwinds: 12:43pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
rossyc:is that not fornication or adultery? |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by mechanics(m): 1:17pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
pocohantas:hahaha, funny. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by shumax: 4:41pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
She's made a good move, God and the Holy Virgin will help her overcome the storm. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by rossyc(f): 6:05pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
Fourwinds:How?? If she isn't married to the man legally that's fornication that's why I said she should marry her own husband. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Fourwinds: 9:05pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
rossyc:i mean she will be committing fornication or adultery since she was married before or if you put it unmarried |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by rossyc(f): 9:20pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
Fourwinds:I believe God forgives all our sins, secondly she is a convert according to the story so old things are passed away if she truly understands the call to Christianity. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by Fourwinds: 9:24pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
rossyc:hmmmmm...ok thanks for your response... are you a Catholic? |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by rossyc(f): 9:26pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
Fourwinds:You welcome.. Yes iam. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by khiaa(f): 1:54am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Andrewkinggg: I thought Catholics don't believe in divorce, in order for them to get married in the church her husband would have to divorce the first wife and Catholics don't recognize divorces. Correct me if I am wrong. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by somehow: 9:52am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Where can I see this in the bible? NoToPile: |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by tooclean(m): 12:23pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
sonnie10:dat is y i said is not true. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by NoToPile: 3:34pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
somehow: 1 Corinthians 7:39King James Version (KJV) 39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. Romans 7 1-3 King James Version (KJV) 7 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Mark 10:2-12 2 Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” 3 “What did Moses command you?” he replied. 4 They said, “Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away.” 5 “It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,” Jesus replied. 6 “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ 7 ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8 and the two will become one flesh.’So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” 10 When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this. 11 He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” 1 Corinthians 7:11-13 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. |
Re: Church Forbids Wife From Sleeping With Hubby Over Holy Communion by somehow: 3:52pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
After all these, you failed to show me where in the bible its forbidden to marry more than one wife! I am waiting for where the bible called marrying more than one wife a sin. NoToPile: |
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