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Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by kowalsky: 3:41am On Aug 27, 2017 |
soberdrunk: exactly. you're smart |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by trumpcoat(m): 3:50am On Aug 27, 2017 |
It's easier for ladies or wives to forgive a cheating spouse, but men hardly forgives the ladies, have seen case presently that the wife even saw nude pictures of different ladies on her husband's phone, pictures of husband having fun with ladies but what can the woman do, she zero her mind and moved on with their marriage can any man tolerate that the answer is capital NO |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by kowalsky: 3:50am On Aug 27, 2017 |
plessis: if it happens once. it will happen more than once. you might not have the privilege of uncovering subsequent occurrences though |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Nobody: 4:21am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Zero. A cheating partner can kill you or make you kill. 1 Like |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Nobody: 5:06am On Aug 27, 2017 |
I may forgive all sins but NOT cheating! #case closed! 1 Like |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by dingbang(m): 5:20am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Its a different game when it comes to marriage The kids come into play As well as the family |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Jabioro: 5:35am On Aug 27, 2017 |
You cheat once, I will cheat four times, because I have forgive your colleague once and she never stop cheating until I sent her of my sight. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Obason22(m): 5:41am On Aug 27, 2017 |
stop saying spouse should be forgiven if only she cheat once, is like u encourage them to try once in all their life so that they shall be forgiven, but the whole truth is that it depends were one came from and the nature of tradition that guide ur clan, I no its very common to some people to cheat cos its sound like their hobie good example is Yoruba its common to their women sorry to call u out but that is the truth, on like my clan member they will tell u the tradition that guide us in terms of cheating incase u may cross red line , if u dare it the next time u travel to market may be ur last chance , except the market by name (NKWO) forgives u then u survive but if at last I found out that u cheated on me , I will forgive u as person but the marriage between us is over. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by InvertedHammer: 6:17am On Aug 27, 2017 |
/ Forgive the temptation. ...but not the act. \ |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by henryhemon(m): 6:33am On Aug 27, 2017 |
soberdrunk: Good for you. Don't then make your opinion a law for others by saying someone shouldn't expect his partner to be faithful. If that's what works for you.....thumbs up allow others to choose what works for them. 1 Like |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by henryhemon(m): 6:44am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Nice to know there are people who have morals but if most people believe cheating is evil how come it's now a norm in the society? These days singles stay more faithful than married folks. It's a complex issue,not a saint but once a notice a sneak peek of cheating it's Au revoir. 2 Likes |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by abfalkolly(m): 6:55am On Aug 27, 2017 |
MzHolly:Continuum |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Deback2018: 7:31am On Aug 27, 2017 |
To forgive is not always easy but if she gives me de reason to do so y not,moreover nobody is a saint,we sometime make mistakes in relationships not to hurt our partners but for de reason beyond our own normal control |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Deback2018: 7:36am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Seenyo:what if ur action push her into it |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by ekaidem10(m): 7:39am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Considering where I come from, even if i feel like doing that my tradition will nt allow me.infact i lack reasons for such 4giveness. I will send her packing immediatetly. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by mikedimeji(m): 7:39am On Aug 27, 2017 |
bettercreature:Luke 12:15 |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by mikedimeji(m): 7:44am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Deback2018:Take heed less u become the architect of ur own problems. What happen to respect and dignity, the absence of respect for oneself, spouse and the marriage can result in anything. That's why one of my policy is No close Male friend. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by mikedimeji(m): 7:48am On Aug 27, 2017 |
kowalsky:Fallacy of the highest order |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by girl4rmspace(f): 7:58am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Honestly it's real hard for me to forgive the act of cheating cos I know for sure that I won't cheat when in a relationship. So I expect my partner to do the same I could break up easily if I caught him cheating. For me it's once a cheat always a cheat. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by ReinaPHIL: 7:59am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Please are the men responding to the ladies and the ladies responding to the men? Cheating as a single person is different from a married spouse cheating |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by tosyne2much(m): 8:09am On Aug 27, 2017 |
It's girlfriend that will metamorphose into a wife. If a woman derives pleasure in cheating while in relationship, she will equally do the same when married |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Nobody: 8:10am On Aug 27, 2017 |
0. Cheat once and we're done |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Nobody: 8:13am On Aug 27, 2017 |
#i' ve been there, done that before....she claimed my action pushed her into it, i pardoned her but guess what?....she still cheated un-provoked! Hence my final decision NEVER to forgive cheating again, NEVER! 1 Like |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by omari5(f): 8:18am On Aug 27, 2017 |
iamJ:but if you cheat, you will expect her to forgive you...smh |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by nightingalee: 8:20am On Aug 27, 2017 |
tomdon: |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by KingEbukasBlog(m): 8:50am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Happy Sunday |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by bejick(m): 8:57am On Aug 27, 2017 |
MzHolly: na your bweast be that for you profile. if yes no wonder......... |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by vivienD: 9:11am On Aug 27, 2017 |
hmmm..see hw d guys r chanting 'will not forgive, will not forgive' as if dey r not d ones dat cheat more..ladies cheat mostly bcoz of sexual reasons, probably bcoz u're not satisfying dem..on d other hand, guys cheat for varieties of reasons, ranging from a mild argument to jst wanting to lay off..bt d ladies are always expected to forgive my bf cheated on me once, twas terrible coz she was a friend..bt I forgave, don't even knw why till now..however, we're gud now nd I hope it continues dah way coz if it happens again, I wnt jst leave..I'll give him rat poison.. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by ekpesa(m): 9:50am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Most people commenting are insincere, truth be told, African men are polygamic in nature. WE All CHEAT! Ladies just trust you man to be loving and caring, but when it comes to cheating? Forgive him in advance in other to keep your home happy. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by komekn(m): 9:59am On Aug 27, 2017 |
bamisepeters: All this rhetoric is individualism and personal ideology, preference that emanates entirely from self. Because it is self based it is self justified and therefore SELFISH. The self is constantly inconsistent and therefore dependent on emotional sentiment which goes up and down. It's like happiness which is dependent on what's happening around you. So what you feel is a product of you environment and circumstantial experiences. Operating and being led by what you feel is a recipe for disaster. Using the infallible and unquestionable standard which is set by God. Which is in the Bible, there is no end to forgiveness it's never ending, it's intrinsic to your Christian walk. Forgiveness doesn't leave bitterness, rancour, animosity, discontent, rage, revenge, hatred it redeems you from all that. It enables you to love truly. However, if you are not a Christian or you are just church goer or member. Then you can follow what you feel. In this case this adopted assumed superior Eurocentric ideology. The same ideology that has birthed the bestial, perverse and unnatural practice of homosexuality and now crowned with same sex marriage. These Ideologies are totally alien and an affront to Afrocentricity and our Nigerian norms and values. In my experience responding to your husband cheating with divorce will never lead to SATISFACTION in most cases you will lead a life of discontent and unhappiness and may never remarry. Well for absolute certainty no Christian will EVER be married to a divorced woman. On the contrary Forgiveness will allow you to experience JOY which comes from God and is indeed great strength. There is no limit to forgiveness. Because the joy of the Lord hath no understanding it's beyond the limited intellect of man. FORGIVENESS is a precursor to the Joy of the Lord. |
Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by wickedworld: 10:13am On Aug 27, 2017 |
ekpesa: Indeed, can a man too forgive her in advance? The world is changing daily saying africa men are polygamic in nature sound excuse for men to cheat. If a woman can endure one dick a man can too it called discipline. Men will say they can't eat particular food all the time but has it ever occure to them that even women can get tired of one dick all the time but she still endure her marriage. A cheating man will never forgive his wife if she cheated once. Men are selfish |
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