Ziinno:
Novelty. There's something about someone new that excites you. The Chase, the hunt, the word play, the show off...all of it.

I'm not married but I've been dating the same person long enough to know it gets boring eventually...the inevitability of time.

The statement is actually a big problem people don't even talk about. Especially if both of u are always working.

Op, u lack life experience. You dont know what u talking about. U may love/like a woman for any reason - could be because she spanks u or is hard to sex, while your wife is too kind and too easy.

OmoManU:
It's just the natural thing about men to be polygamous, if u think am not making sense, check the social status of male animals.

will you accept the polyandry of the female and confirm it from the animal kingdom?

ivolt:
Morally bankrupt cheaters always blame their partners for the choices they make.
What stops the husband from moving on ?
And some of those unrepentant cheaters will fight tooth and nail to "save" their
marriage while blaming the devil for the consequence of their actions.

It is logical to dump the devil when you meet an angel, but cheaters won't do that
due to cowardice and stupidity, they want to eat their cake and still have it.

cheater KO leopard ni

Deffymanu:
Guy man this is an abstract list... The guy no ready for marriage. Most side chicks aren't as good as the op is painting them. Most of them are just tools for sex.

i gree

Vikings55:
When his wife calls, he will turn to u and say quit or shhhhhuuuu :-Xmy wife is calling, remember that is all u are shuuuu to him, u play dummy while they talk about the kids and important stuff, continue wasting your time

But meanwhile you buy house for am, buy car for am, go on expensive vacation with am

Reasons why your wife fvcks your friend and your first son doesn't belong to you.

askseunoladele:
WHY YOUR HUSBAND IS CRAZY ABOUT HIS MISTRESS AND IS NOT READY TO LET HER GO...

I do not support an affair. Singles can also learn to prevent future adultery. But here are are the possible reasons your husband is crazy about his mistress and is not ready to let her go...

1. SHE LISTENS TO HIM while you are busy attending to the children, the chores, the business and forget that he even exists. You ignore him a lot and sometimes shout at him!

2. SHE RESPECTS, SUBMITS TO HIM AND TOTALLY ADORES HIM: She hangs to his words like the words of divinity. Celebrates him, admire him, praises him silly and is very fond of him.

3. SHE IS ROMANTIC: She goes completely crazy for him. While you are calling him by his first name or "baba Bayo", she gives him a sweet pet name and coos all those sweet nothings: "I love you", "I'm crazy for you...", "wanna die for you honey", "you are the sweetest, cutest thing in my world, etc." Into his ears.

4. SHE BUILDS HIS SEXUAL FANTASIES, she knows how to turn him on. Men are crazy for wives who turn them on.

5. SHE IS PASSIONATE IN BED. Come on, while you are lying down there like a log of wood completely dis-interested, she takes charge in bed! Energetic, passionate, wild, sweet to touch, versatile, switch into different styles like a pro and makes your husband scream her name over and over again. She makes sex so delicious he practically thinks about her 24/7.

6. SHE IS GETTING SLIMMER WHILE YOU ARE GETTING FATTER. Your husband hate the fat though he is not telling you.

7. SHE NEVER SAYS NO TO SEX. She is eager and ready any time, Mayday, any how, any where!

8. SHE SMELLS GOOD while you ooze body odour from morning till night.

8. SHE SHAVES AND IS SPARKLING CLEAN FROM HEAD TO TOE. You are bushy and dirty.

9. SHE TREATS HIM LIKE A LOVER BOY YET RESPECT HIM. You treat him like a grand dad and stop being romantic. She brings out the boy in him and play with him excitedly. At 50, she makes him feel 25. Men are completely crazy for women who play with them.

10. SHE PACKAGES HER BODY LIKE A SWEET SIXTEEN while you always dress like his great grand mother.

11. SHE IS GENEROUS while you are stingy.

12. SHE BELIEVES IN HIM, you despise him.

13. SHE PRAISES HIM, you despise and abuse him.

14. SHE SERVES HIM DELICIOUS FOOD WITH VARIERIES, your food is bland, tasteless and lacks variety.

15. SHE IS ALWAYS HAPPY TO SEE HIM, HEAR HIM ON PHONE AND EAGERLY WAIT FOR AND SEND HIM CHATS while you ignore him at the door after a hard day work at the office...

These and more are the reasons your husband is madly in love with his mistress and is not ready to let her go.

Once again, I do mot support an affair but trust me, if your dear hubby is not getting satisfied at home, there is a tendency to fall into temptation out there.

Some women complain they've done everything they knew how to do, yet their husbands still chase his mistress. Trust me baby, you've not done EVERYTHING you need to do. There are still MORE to do to get your husband back. It is not only sex a man wants in a mistress, he wants much more that he is lacking at home, find out and deal with it.

You are in real competition with the LovePeddler! Don't let her win. If she uses charm, you add prayer to your weapons and in no time you win your husband back. Read HIS NEEDS, HER NEEDS (How to build an affair proof marriage) by Gary Chapman, it will help you a lot. You will not lose your husband to another woman in Jesus name.I love you so much baby. Keep working at it. Feel free to share. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
www.askseunoladele..com

NO MATTER WHAT STORIES AND REASONS U ADVANCE,ITS A ABERRATION AND UNGODLY ACT,WHICH NEEDS DELIVERANCES FROM GOD.

IamKashyBaby:


Once a manwhore is always a manwhore sha..

While he is banging his sidebitches, did he ever realised being a mother and a wife is NOT juz an easy task... CHAAAAIII!

abeeeg, i will open the door for him and he can leave...

chai you aff lost the battle,she aff tooked over your horseband

Oziahete:
A married man is not supposed to have a mistress in the first place.

exactly they should have a concubine

enemyofprogress:
chai you aff lost the battle,she aff tooked over your horseband

Hahahaha...i will make sure i will always have the last card

Yet another dumb write-up pinning the blame of philandering men on their wives. NOTHING JUSTIFIES INFIDELITY. It takes two to make a marriage work, not just the woman only. God forbid I go out of my way to try and please a cheating horseband. Every time women are given tip after tip on how to how to be a good wife "keep her husband", when will men start getting such tips? Oh! I forgot, keeping the marriage is the sole responsibility of the woman. The man can misbehave as he likes, when he knows he's being prayed for. Rubbish!

Men are getting too indiscipline and irresponsible in this part of the world these days. They know they won't be held responsible for their idiotic habits, because of idiotic write-ups like this.

AntiIPOB:
Now let me ask you this vital question,as a married man anytime your dic is hard and you want to be intimate with your wife but instead you hear things like,please iam tired, I want to sleep,iam not in the mood etc and this continued over the years,what do you do in this regard?
You report her to her parents, sisters and even your pastor have to come and yet nothing change,what do you do in this regard?


I need an urgent answer for this is a situation i found myself,my wife has been doing this for the past four years of our marriage, she was not like this before it all started after our marriage.


I believed that others too and suffering this in silence,she will even Bragg that I should go ahead and report her to anybody she don't care,I should go ahead and sleep with girls outside she don't care,but if any woman come close to me is war.


Iam not afraid of her but God,and the love I have for her.

Hmmm, as ure afraid of God....put in prayers, any other thing I tell u would be a contradiction of ur fear of/for God.

baseless. Female animals are also polygamous and never stick to one partner. So what was your point?

OmoManU:
It's just the natural thing about men to be polygamous, if u think am not making sense, check the social status of male animals.

You are attacking the wrong person. And ladies not people's mothers, sisters, aunts , nieces etc? When that guy said so was he not insulting people's mothers?

Lothario:
You should have attacked him personally and not his mom

this writer is a confirmed tolotolo OGA suen I no mention ur nah OooO

Deffymanu:
Guy man this is an abstract list... The guy no ready for marriage. Most side chicks aren't as good as the op is painting them. Most of them are just tools for sex.

Yes

Men are a lot more weak than women. To men they have the monopoly of cheating and its all fun and games until their wife has a child/children for their best friend and they find out 20 years later.

Never give what you can't take.

NL always giving sttuupid people audience.

Ndidikante:
Apostle must hear of this





Abeg any latest on Apostle and Stephanie etebo saga? Abi dem Don settle out of court?

They settled out of bed in romantic way.

Ndidikante:
Apostle must hear of this





Abeg any latest on Apostle and Stephanie etebo saga? Abi dem Don settle out of court?

They settled out of bed in romantic way.

When a man wants to cheat there's nothing you can do to stop it.All we all need is prayer.

Men will forever be men.

Let the mistress get pregnant and have kids, all this yeye men who lack self control and have placed them selves in a border line between a man and an animal that will fvck without discretion will go to any length to justify their weakness. Imagine making fun of baby fat,nonsense,you think hormonal changes is the same as taking off your boxers?, absolutely BS

TheLogicalMind:




What garbage is this?

Everyone who has ever committed to a monogamous marriage knows that it has its challenges. There is nothing that this fool of an OP wrote that cannot be overcome by a couple who know how to communicate and who want to make their marriage work.

OP why not just take sniper and end your poisonous existence before your poisonous existence puts an end to someone's marriage?

The logical mind. Please shut up.. Your husband won't stop if you don't change your ways

I am sorry I have to admit this but my fellow women this is so true.....

You must have be a man before (last life, etc) to really know this.

Safiaa:
Absolute nonense. A woman can be everything and more yet they'll still be a mistress. Men just like the thrill of new things. Its that simple.

keepingmum:
Words of a manchild

When it doesn't suit them, they go ballistic with insults

haske7:
I am sorry I have to admit this but my fellow women this is so true.....

Let those who wanna hear....

frenzyduchess:
Let the mistress get pregnant and have kids, all this yeye men who lack self control and have placed them selves in a border line between a man and an animal that will fvck without discretion will go to any length to justify their weakness. Imagine making fun of baby fat,nonsense,you think hormonal changes is the same as taking off your boxers?, absolutely BS

A typical lazy girl. Na only you naija girls dey get hormonal changes, stretch marks, cellulite etc?

IamKashyBaby:


Once a manwhore is always a manwhore sha..

While he is banging his sidebitches, did he ever realised being a mother and a wife is NOT juz an easy task... CHAAAAIII!

abeeeg, i will open the door for him and he can leave...

Really?