HarunaWest:

N*gga your a blaady fool....she isn't married to yah she doesn't owe you any loyalty..she has a right to sleep about,if you decided not to,ain't her fault.....I hate when some guys come here to say a girlfriend cheated on them, like they were married to her,...mtscheeeeeew

HarunaWest:

N*gga your a blaady fool....she isn't married to yah she doesn't owe you any loyalty..she has a right to sleep about,if you decided not to,ain't her fault.....I hate when some guys come here to say a girlfriend cheated on them, like they were married to her,...mtscheeeeeew

Rozaytee:
Take heart...shit happens...and please dont kill your self over some dumb ungrateful bitch..better days will come

Ericsunday619:
are you faithful to your guy?

Ericsunday619:
are you faithful to your guy?

Rozaytee:
i dont even date

Omalichaa2:
Dear op wateva this will mean to u.
I for one don't emulate or respect couples that haz had it rosy, i mean it makes its easy enof to stay married.
I salute couples that have bin broken, squeezed, ridiculed and judged by others, trust me nothing can pull them down again.
U can't claim to love someone if u cant forgive the dirtiest of secret or wrong, in short u shud give them that free rent in your head.. life iz easy don't make it complicated in your head.
Will u b hurt? Yes, will u go crazy? Yes, would u feel blah blah yes... but move on from it, dare to love even more.
I mean u ain't a juju that shouldnt be wronged , even God
get wronged on a daily. And how ever little or big the matter is, is just exactly how u make of it.
No one is a monster and no one is overlyholy, the fact that some pple handle certain things(temptation) beta than others don't qualify them for a judge post.
Except its already a habit or there are other factors not in place in the relationship , I don't c any big deal here, cos its not enof to b one in my head, that is what i have made of it.
P.s what she has done is reallyyy still very wrong, and any action should be based her attitude towards how u feel. Oya lemme run along

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

HarunaWest:

Accept the reality of today's world..don't be yesterday's men

GudPpleG8Nation:

So you mean it's right she's having sex with another man? 26 years ago.

Truckpusher:
The werey boyfriend even went ahead to ask her to confirm if she's been sleeping with the guy.

Some boys and mumu be like monkey � and banana �

omenka:
Baba, shebi you been say since you "give your life to Christ, visiting romance section has become a taboo"? Wetin you find come here again

Seems I'd go on a short sabbatical from that other side come dey do this taboo with una here sef. Tired of the fight. Too much bad blood down there.

Truckpusher:
I told you !!

Always come here to clear your head sometimes - This place is like a bar, after the day's wahala wherever you're working or whatever business you're managing you come over here to unwind. Welcome, I give you Rozaytee free of charge .Thank me later

omenka:
Hmmm. Who is she? Is she some kind of shrink or something?

Why aren't you keeping her to yourself?

GudPpleG8Nation:

Do you think she would be willing to give me back the phone? I forcefully collected the phone, drop my phone with her and went out.

Truckpusher:
I told you !!

Always come here to clear your head sometimes - This place is like a bar, after the day's wahala wherever you're working or whatever business you're managing you come over here to unwind. Welcome, I give you Rozaytee free of charge .Thank me later

Rozaytee:
cannabis @ work

HarunaWest:

N*gga your a blaady fool....she isn't married to yah she doesn't owe you any loyalty..she has a right to sleep about,if you decided not to,ain't her fault.....I hate when some guys come here to say a girlfriend cheated on them, like they were married to her,...mtscheeeeeew

Truckpusher:
The thing sweet you abi ?

Truckpusher:
The thing sweet you abi ?

Rozaytee:
i weep for u....u have mental problem

Hopefulman:
Op, lemme contribute too,


This exact same thing happened to me December last year, I even opened a thread here asking for opinions not cos I couldn't handle shit but cos I was emotionally broken. Same 6 years, I deflowered her too, taught her basically all she knows, force my parents into liking her, I was to wife her up traditionally this year ending, I am 30, same age as you she will 26 by December.



My brother forgive her that's she's sincerely sorry about it and shows great remorse, you dump her and hop to another woman you don't know what that one has done too , the devil you know is far better than the angel you don't know, besides reason life well, you will discover sex is not love.

I don't know about you, but my case I wasn't perfect myself cos me sef run few packages just cos I caught her of which she only wanted to explore knowing just one man all her life doesn't make her bad.


Do to others what you want them to do to you, good people sometimes make bad decisions making terrible mistakes which they tend to regret all their lives.


How many times our dad don jonse where our moms dey but yet dem still hold still, if na so God dey cut all of us off for our sins daily, then the world would have been empty.


Mine showed great remorse, her family and friends came to beg, she cried her eyes out for almost 6 months, but it's not the tears, I just couldn't throw 6 years away cos of one mistake, that makes you a better person and a man, I love her for the sacrifices and things we have both been through, I can't begin to mention them.


Finally, no matter what anyone writes here,, at the end you still will do your own mind, you wear the shoes and know the situation better, the decision still lies in your hands. Truth is that event made us got even better, and stronger. And stop allowing people tell you once a cheat is always a cheat, cos it is not true. He who is holy without blemish should cast the first stone.


Be wise. Stay safe. Sex ain't love.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)