Tolexander:
I don't think the lady meant it that way o

I think what she was trying to say is that, she believed in her fiance's potential and future before marrying him, and didn't have to consider his condition then as a reason not to walk down the aisle with him.

We can't always pretend to be naive of what is happening in our society today. How many ladies will agree to marry that kinda man? Virtually, very few.

and what Evaberry is saying is that - she opened her gate and the guy slammed his joy rod in, discharged some millions and pumped her. She therefore was left with two options: either stay put with the poor guy and take her chance at thinga getting better or walkaway from the poverty into the stigma of a single mum carrying the burden of child upbringing all alone - check the wedding pix, the woman is pregnant. The woman is smart to habe done her SWOT analysis and picked the better decision.
In summary, Evaberry is saying the woman gat no better option, hence the decision.

okerekeikpo:
that one u dey talk na ur own if my wife disgrace me like this I go divorce am

See threat

A poor man threatening to divorce his wife is like a person threatening to lock a gay man in a cell full of fellow honey gay men

I'm sure you've heard of something called divorce party

As she's leaving you somebody is opening the car door for her

It's only when the man carry the threat holds weight my dear so don't fool yourself

Harrynight:
u mean the guy was empty and poor yet could afford to...
1) pay ur bride price
2) organized and financially sponsor ur Traditional marriage
3) organized and finacially sponsor the white wedding

a poor and broke guy cant afford that

Sigh! If only you know how many women sponsor their own weddings in Naija. Not that it is bad but it is not something that never happens. They just won't tell you.

SAMBARRY:
enle o Mr silent mouth

Nobody was there when her friends were making jest of her for marrying a broke ass when there are better suitors
Nobody was there when she was chopping embarrassment from their landlord on behalf of her husband for not paying houserent
Nobody was there when better men were flaunting cash to her face when she was still married to her husband yet she said no

Please blow your trumpet my dear.if you don't blow it who Will after all these same men also boast to their friends and whoever cares to listen that they dated omo baba olowo to make them feel GOOD and massage their egos now infebriority complex they worry them

lol

ColonelDrake:


A broke biattch spotted! In as much as I'd like to avoid giving a deadshit attention, I'll take exception. Only lazy slobs see marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme. Are you so dumb and incapacitated not to work your ass off for your own money? Are you hands cut off to clothe yourself? Only douchebags from poverty ravaged home like you think it's the job of a man to feed them and clothe them while they add no value to a man's life other than to come and reap where they did not sow and grow fat like a rhinoceros. What value are you adding? What are you bringing to the table other than your over rammed rotten stinky pussy? If you were an independent woman, you wouldn't masturbate yourself to coma over my post. But you are what you are - a leech!

To start with slowpoke, i am a man and married too so i know better that your self pitying ass. she didnt mention being jobless as at the time they met did she? 1 sign you lack comprehension. 2. why are you so bittered and fools like u jumped at the topic gender equality. As much as i flame up at the topic gender equality, sometimes so young morons like this give women the upper arm to say stuffs to us. You want to be the head of your home, call shots and yet you see women using you as an escape route to poverty Obviously you are allergic to successful women and this is coming straight from the heart of a failed man. buckled up and make money, then you might realize spoiling your woman is just the right thing to do. Mumu talking on here, did your mum came to your dad loaded?? fool. didn't your own dad run around to feed and cloth your family even while your mum had a job (thats if i'm right) weaklings trying to change the norms of our society and still lazy.

Afonjashapmouth:



Shes celebrating her man's success and also her decision to struggle with him, is that too much for her to do?

Struggle?

Pray tell, how do you know she "struggled" with him. Based on an "empty" apartment? Her narrative did't tell us enough to draw such a conclusion as it didn't also divulge enough to also draw a conclusion that she didn't struggle with him.

My take on this issue is based on the narration and nothing more. I'm questioning why she believes she needs to be celebrated for marrying a guy with an "empty" apartment. I'm saying the system is so warped that she feels a sense of pride in accomplishing this "feat" knowing that her womenfolk won't abide with such conditions in a relationship which is so unfortunate.

DJperdurabo:


Which true love?!

A girl is dating a fresh Chevron intake who just got a pad and as is common with folks of that fit this description, he's yet to furnish the pad. 18 months down the line they get married and she comes online to say what the OP posted. Now, pray tell, what is "true love" about this scenario? She will stay even if the guy is squatting self!

Hahahha, you are so right with this description too!

PatriotTemidayo:
Those lazy slay minions who parade naked bodies on social media or take photos of their expended butts and boobs upandan wouldn't like this..........

They'll tell you how much they hate broke guys when they themselves are so broke to the level of brokenness.

Kudos Girl, God Guide your home.

DJperdurabo:


Struggle?

Pray tell, how do you know she "struggled" with him. Based on an "empty" apartment? Her narrative did't tell us enough to draw such a conclusion as it didn't also divulge enough to also draw a conclusion that she didn't struggle with him.

My take on this issue is based on the narration and nothing more. I'm questioning why she believes she needs to be celebrated for marrying a guy with an "empty" apartment. I'm saying the system is so warped that she feels a sense of pride in accomplishing this "feat" knowing that her womenfolk won't abide with such conditions in a relationship which is so unfortunate.

If you people will close your book of sentiments and reason above it ok? SHES SAYING LADIES STOP LOOKING FOR MADE MEN. BROKE MEN DONT MEAN BROKEN FUTURE. kai why is this things hard to see for our people? and if Michele Obama post a picture of them hustling to make ends meet back then, ya'll will be drolling over it. We Nigerians can twist a story to make our point justified even if it will cost us abandoning our morales and principles of life. bro i am a practical person. done

annnikky:

So u want to c all that b4 u beliv abi?

Am being sarcastic. But hey God and science got proofs.

If she prides in their story to be able to announce it in the social media like that, we should see the proof. It's no logic.

If I come here and rant or open threads like 'see big python I killed in my farm' and lala comes and take a peek and sees no pictures, my thread is not going to the promised Land, even you will hate me for such post and tag me attention seeker. But you will see how I have arrived if I put a pics there as proof of my claims.

Don't even try opening a snake thread without a pics. Lala on a bad day may ban you, feel me?

Rubbish, so u didn't step a foot in his house before he married u? Where has he been fvcking u?

Afonjashapmouth:




If you people will close your book of sentiments and reason above it ok? SHES SAYING LADIES STOP LOOKING FOR MADE MEN. BROKE MEN DONT MEAN BROKEN FUTURE. kai why is this things hard to see for our people? and if Michele Obama post a picture of them hustling to make ends meet back then, ya'll will be drolling over it. We Nigerians can twist a story to make our point justified even if it will cost us abandoning our morales and principles of life. bro i am a practical person. done

Please see franky826 post on the 4th page to better grasp my point.

Congrats sha,r u sure? Like empty,
empty?

I see a lot of pained people in this thread . Be happy for others so that good things will come to you also. Congrats girl.

SAMBARRY:


See threat

A poor man threatening to divorce his wife is like a person threatening to lock a gay man in a cell full of fellow honey gay men

I'm sure you've heard of something called divorce party

As she's leaving you somebody is opening the car door for her

It's only when the man carry the threat holds weight my dear so don't fool yourself

u don't know me so I don't blame you for talking trash

Even the title was funny ""SHE WAS SHOCKED"" what of if you were the one paying for the apartment as at that time? That means you would be electrocuted not just shocked.

Cute couples.....




In another news, MILITARY BARRACKS TO BE USED FOR DISTRIBUTING NPOWER DEVICES IN THESE STATES

Franky826:


Am being sarcastic. But hey God and science got proofs.

If she prides in their story to be able to announce it in the social media like that, we should see the proof. It's no logic.

If I come here and rant or open threads like 'see big python I killed in my farm' and lala comes and take a peek and sees no pictures, my thread is not going to the promised Land, even you will hate me for such post and tag me attention seeker. But you will see how I have arrived if I put a pics there as proof of my claims.

Don't even try opening a snake thread without a pics. Lala on a bad day may ban you, feel me?

Lol... Ok ooo

aldrick:
Congrats babe. Patient is a virtue.

... that's how one uder graduate girl I was managing sef, open her mouth call my one room sef contain I pay #120k annually a student room! I no blame her sha na my eyes wey no focus na e cause am! But today she dey beg me anyhow...patient is the key!

annnikky:

Lol... Ok ooo

Afonjashapmouth:



To start with slowpoke, i am a man and married too so i know better that your self pitying ass. she didnt mention being jobless as at the time they met did she? 1 sign you lack comprehension. 2. why are you so bittered and fools like u jumped at the topic gender equality. As much as i flame up at the topic gender equality, sometimes so young morons like this give women the upper arm to say stuffs to us. You want to be the head of your home, call shots and yet you see women using you as an escape route to poverty Obviously you are allergic to successful women and this is coming straight from the heart of a failed man. buckled up and make money, then you might realize spoiling your woman is just the right thing to do. Mumu talking on here, did your mum came to your dad loaded?? fool. didn't your own dad run around to feed and cloth your family even while your mum had a job (thats if i'm right) weaklings trying to change the norms of our society and still lazy.

You are so shameless than I thought you pussy asslicking nigga...I swear by the God that made me that I am better than you, richer than you, have a better job than you in all ramifications. Let's put this to the test if you are game you fool. Only dumb and gullible people here won't see that you're playing to the gallery - just to amass cheap likes from the opposite sex. You think coming here to as-slick the female folks will endear them to you. You can only garner cheap likes. No pussy for you, you rotten piece of sh..it.

At my young age, I am better than you in all ramifications. Pick up the challenge and let us put this to the test you dumb fool. I don't mean to brag but I won't even touch you with a 10 ft pole in real life. I'm sure at my age, you were still staying with your senile parents, choping free food and collecting pocket money. Old man, you should be ashamed of yourself. Oh, I see, you're one of those lazy broke men like teebillz who were lucky enough to find themselves a rich woman, hence, losing their sense of purpose and self esteem. No wonder asslickingg is what you do for a living to get the day's meal from your wife. I pity you old man. Better go find yourself a better job cos she would soon dump your silly pathetic broke ass one day.

FYI, I have a very good woman in my life - hardworking and has a very good job. And she knows I am a no nonsense man. I don't take shit and I don't see dating as a favor No matter how beautiful she is. it's a mutual benefit stuff and we both understand that, so let no one come say they're doing one another a favor by being with them. That sucksss big time. You are either in or out - no one is doing anyone a favor.

The said lady wants us to clap her for staying with a strugling guy like she had done what no one had done before. You my friend really need a mental evaluation if you cannot see that.

Broke ass guy like you. If you don't mind, I have work to do.

You feel you're better and richer than me, let's put it to the test, okay pusssysuckerrr?

SHE SHOULD BE LUCKY THAT HE HAS AN APARTMENT

[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=61271358]any deluded person who thinks an empty HOUSE is "nothing", should have their head check, as having an apt of your own is what is important here... and furnishing it is just the cherry on the cake.

NO woman should be glorified for doing the RIGHT thing, thats what she is SUPPOSE to do. what she wrote is as stupid as men bragging about taking care of their kids.... ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!

[/quote aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh easy...99 -0

[s][quote author=ColonelDrake post=61278007]

You are so shameless than I thought you pussy asslicking nigga...I swear by the God that made me that I am better than you, richer than you, have a better job than you in all ramifications. Let's put this to the test if you are game you fool. Only dumb and gullible people here won't see that you're playing to the gallery - just to amass cheap likes from the opposite sex. You think coming here to as-slick the female folks will endear them to you. You can only garner cheap likes. No pussy for you, you rotten piece of sh..it.

At my young age, I am better than you in all ramifications. Pick up the challenge and let us put this to the test you dumb fool. I don't mean to brag but I won't even touch you with a 10 ft pole in real life. I'm sure at my age, you were still staying with your senile parents, choping free food and collecting pocket money. Old man, you should be ashamed of yourself. Oh, I see, you're one of those lazy broke men like teebillz who were lucky enough to find themselves a rich woman, hence, losing their sense of purpose and self esteem. No wonder asslickingg is what you do for a living to get the day's meal from your wife. I pity you old man. Better go find yourself a better job cos she would soon dump your silly pathetic broke ass one day.

FYI, I have a very good woman in my life - hardworking and has a very good job. And she knows I am a no nonsense man. I don't take shit and I don't see dating as a favor No matter how beautiful she is. it's a mutual benefit stuff and we both understand that, so let no one come say they're doing one another a favor by being with them. That sucksss big time. You are either in or out - no one is doing anyone a favor.

The said lady wants us to clap her for staying with a strugling guy like she had done what no one had done before. You my friend really need a mental evaluation if you cannot see that.

Broke ass guy like you. If you don't mind, I have work to do.
[/s]



All i see is a sad broke man bragging about emptiness. i am a happy ceo with a wife and kids what would i want to put to test? Only teenagers put money to test my dear. imagine the long epistle you wrote and all we could phantom was swear and pain. Work hard and stop being threatened at the mention of success.

Painment.who are you?

Bill gate,Donald.trump,Oprah winfrey,Mark zukerberg,mrs alakija,dangote?

Mshewwww

It's typical of poor men to use that line when.their ego is not been massaged.How many times have you heard the likes of Tyler Perry or rich men say "you don't know who I am or do you know who I am.very common among broke ads nighas

okerekeikpo:
u don't know me so I don't blame you for talking trash

Afonjashapmouth:
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please ignore him

Have you seen billionaires always announcing they are one?

Amhappy:
I see a lot of pained people in this thread . Be happy for others so that good things will come to you also. Congrats girl.

exactly.as simple as that

Afonjashapmouth:
[s]

You couldn't even quote well. Quite embarrassing for an acclaimed "CEO".

CEO?

We all know wretched stinky broke ass niggas like you claim CEO on facebook. It's nothing. Everyone is a CEO on facebook. You mean CEO of one IDP camp or cyber cafe in Oshogbo?

You are only a "CEO" in your wildest imagination. You my friend are nothing but an unemployed lowlife! Tagging people who are better than you and everything that you will ever hope for in real life "broke ass" is disrespectful. but I will pass. You can't compete where you don't compare

Afonjashapmouth:




If you people will close your book of sentiments and reason above it ok? SHES SAYING LADIES STOP LOOKING FOR MADE MEN. BROKE MEN DONT MEAN BROKEN FUTURE. kai why is this things hard to see for our people? and if Michele Obama post a picture of them hustling to make ends meet back then, ya'll will be drolling over it. We Nigerians can twist a story to make our point justified even if it will cost us abandoning our morales and principles of life. bro i am a practical person. done

don't mind them.the ego has blinded their sense of reasoning

MrBrownJay1:
any deluded person who thinks an empty HOUSE is "nothing", should have their head check, as having an apt of your own is what is important here... and furnishing it is just the cherry on the cake.

NO woman should be glorified for doing the RIGHT thing, thats what she is SUPPOSE to do. what she wrote is as stupid as men bragging about taking care of their kids.... ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!

You made a point but the abusive words were uncalled for. She actually did what was right for other women to be encouraged by especially as the economy bites even harder, and she is encouraging men who have found true love to not lose it because they have not arrived. Overall, she is telling the society that, although times are hard and bad, we must always follow what is real. About 70% of young women today may not even think twice before saying 'no' to such bondage marriage. So I applaud her, and we all should. Some will even come to your house and see you have a big generator and maybe no petrol, and they will be troubling you as if you are the poorest of the poor for not having fuel at that moment. And they want to be loved! Believe me, they are many. They lack faith and their love (though they do not know but are only probably reacting to their own poverty and that of their family) is worthless, cash-and-carry.

pcguru1:


Reminds me of that Chris rock joke, I think its the times we find ourselves in, we gone that low that's why, normally that type of guy won't get attention from most girls knowing his financial status.

Lmao...

I thought of the Chris Rock joke...

ColonelDrake:


You couldn't even quote well. Quite embarrassing for an acclaimed "CEO".

CEO?

We all know wretched stinky broke ass niggas like you claim CEO on facebook. It's nothing. Everyone is a CEO on facebook. You mean CEO of one IDP camp or cyber cafe in Oshogbo?

You are only a "CEO" in your wildest imagination. You my friend are nothing but an unemployed lowlife! Tagging people who are better than you and everything that you will ever hope for in real life "broke ass" is disrespectful. but I will pass. You can't compete where you don't compare

Ahan why the matter pain.you pass the owner of the matter?

I thought you said you have "better things to do with your time"

How come you're still barking on nairaland