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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 12:53pm On Dec 09, 2017
Spot on
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Oxster(m): 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2017
Only what de know how to ask is:::When are taking me out again#oloshi

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by deco22(m): 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2017
So if she didn't ask the question,u wouldn't have married her undecided
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by olawamide042(m): 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2017
Who is ready to Marry me ? Please kindly let me know
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by MxFactor: 12:56pm On Dec 09, 2017
Bose come and hear and learn oooo.

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by byemx06(m): 12:56pm On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:
BabbanBura grin
When are we getting married? wink
omooba969 grin When are we getting married? wink
Lemme stop here grin
I believe u kn d meaning of that name #babbanBura
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 12:56pm On Dec 09, 2017
ChiefPiiko:
Evaberry when are we getting married??

when u reply my message on whatsapp
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by mikejj(m): 12:59pm On Dec 09, 2017
grin c those ones for up i raf n pass
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by lawalosky(m): 12:59pm On Dec 09, 2017
1001 it mins under na bolehole!
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by oodua1stson: 1:00pm On Dec 09, 2017
The problem with these stupid SJW is that they fall on their hypocrisy and contradict themselves.



You said if your wife didn't ask you you wouldn't be married now, but here you said......



..... Stop assuming you are dating because he calls you all the time and takes you out, let him ask you to be his babe the right way, don't make excuses for him, men know how to ask when they really want something, if he needs you that much he will ask!




So you didn't ask. Does that mean you didn't want her then? Idiot

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Konquest: 1:00pm On Dec 09, 2017
Angelanest:
A Nigerian man who has been married for about three years now - has shared a word of advice for some unmarried ladies. According to Adewale Aladejana, he wouldn't have been married if his wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?".

The man who is apparently enjoying his union is urging ladies to stop assuming that the guys they are dating will marry them and ask the right question because they they deserve to know.

Below is what he shared on Facebook;

I have been married for over 3 years now but we wouldn't be married when we did if my wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?"

Ladies if you have been dating a man for a year or close to a year, you have EVERY right to ask him "when are we getting married?" Two things will happen; it's either he gets pissed or both of you will work on a date immediately. In my own case we picked a date and by the end of 2013 we had our court wedding and by February 2014 we were married.

Ladies STOP ASSUMING, ask questions, you DESERVE to know. Stop assuming you are dating because he calls you all the time and takes you out, let him ask you to be his babe the right way, don't make excuses for him, men know how to ask when they really want something, if he needs you that much he will ask!

May common sense fall on you in Jesus name.

You too can be a social media evangelist kindly share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed. Thank you for reading.


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/12/wife-asked-crucial-question-got-married-nigerian-man-reveals.html
^^^^^^
^^^^^^
OK!

This is a very brilliant advice! grin

Ladies should not act like mercenaries when
in romantic relationships but should also
define what they want by asking that
question, "when are we getting married." This
should be done within one year of a romantic
relationship and not further than that!

It helps to jump-start a man's brain chemistry
if he is really serious about you, and he starts
to prepare. It is so simple but often overlooked
by women!


Enough said.

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by megareal: 1:01pm On Dec 09, 2017
I didn't ask my hubby THAT question. grin

I simply told him I was tired and wanted to move on, guy proposed with alacrity. cheesy

But truth be told, that question is what unmasks the truth in most relationships.

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:02pm On Dec 09, 2017
most ladies don't ask these days because they already know where they stand, imagine a guy singing, it to you everyday, that he has to own a property in banana island, and acquire millions before dreaming of settling down, ask him that dreaded question and your nickname becomes desperado.
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by coolfredo(m): 1:04pm On Dec 09, 2017
MhizzAJ:
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max
u are technically telling us that diffrent men enter ur something every two years

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Safiaa(f): 1:05pm On Dec 09, 2017
After 6 months of serious dating, the topic must come into the picture. I don't date for play. 23 is knocking around the corner.
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 09, 2017
Nice idea, I will ask him when we are getting married. Let me know if we are on the same page.
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 1:07pm On Dec 09, 2017
byemx06:


I believe u kn d meaning of that name #babbanBura

Yeske grin
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Yinxies(f): 1:07pm On Dec 09, 2017
@Romoruyi when are we getting married? grin
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:07pm On Dec 09, 2017
Safiaa:
After 6 months of serious dating, the topic must come into the picture. I don't date for play. 23 is knocking around the corner.

Wow!
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:07pm On Dec 09, 2017
Stupidity, after they have finished with their prostitution business they call "runs" they come to look for a young man to wear their burden and stupidity...

Animalistic women everywhere...

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:07pm On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:


Yeske grin

What's the meaning?
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by khome(f): 1:08pm On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:

Babes, no more "tuale" o Na "buate" grin grin grin
Lol. Wetin dt one come mean
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:08pm On Dec 09, 2017
Make that silly mistake and ask me; I won't fail to dump u immediately to the trash u belong...
acme6:
Nice idea, I will ask him when we are getting married. Let me know if we are on the same page.

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by khome(f): 1:08pm On Dec 09, 2017
MhizzAJ:
grin grin I even told her to dash me one She say she gonn think abourrit cheesy Very stingy gal grin
Lol

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Safiaa(f): 1:09pm On Dec 09, 2017
Blackfyre:


Wow!
kini
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Safiaa(f): 1:09pm On Dec 09, 2017
TheTrueApostle:
Make that silly mistake and ask me; I won't fail to dump u immediately to the trash u belong...
Why?
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 09, 2017
Because I'm not ready for it and I hate that topic like weeeeeettttttiiinnn!!! Girls are just too deceptive for my liking....
Safiaa:
Why?

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by jy2kbeyond(m): 1:10pm On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:


Lols.

Witch. Are you the general secretary or minister of sadness? embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Ishilove: 1:10pm On Dec 09, 2017
FortifiedCity:
shocked

Honestly ladies need to start asking necessary questions when it comes to relationships. How will you be dating someone for years without bringing up the topic of marriage. You will stay there and be assuming that he will suddenly propose to you by kneeling down. Keep waiting you hear.

I understand some ladies really don't bother about sharing their toto but please thread with caution. That's why after dating a guy for years and probably cheating intermittently, you dump each other and he moveĀ§ on, then you carry your slacked kini to the next person.

"When are we getting married' is a question that will make a guy think and decide if he actually wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Don't encourage relationship time wasters, ask the question Now!!!!!!!!!!
Truth

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by byemx06(m): 1:11pm On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:

Yeske grin
hmmmm.....ooo NLA.....
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by enemyofprogress: 1:11pm On Dec 09, 2017
I have been asking iyinda1599 to marry me for the past 25 years but she is using me to do ritual
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 1:11pm On Dec 09, 2017
TheTrueApostle:
Make that silly mistake and ask me; I won't fail to dump u immediately to the trash u belong...
Why some people dey like carry matter for head like gala? you are not the one I will ask, he already said we will marry and I know that, so why are you so pained? I just want to ask him when.

Like I said previously, leave all those prostitutes you patronize, find a responsible lady from a humble home and marry, stop whiling away your life on prostitutes.

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