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Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by blingxx(m): 11:53am On Dec 17, 2017
Bunch of confused people using religion to cover face....
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by ayoxxzbaba(m): 11:56am On Dec 17, 2017
U go be genius o... But how u take know?

MhizzAJ:
You are simply confused
I guess Fornication is your major stumbling block
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Vintage94(m): 11:57am On Dec 17, 2017
In the book of Matthew chapter 13 the Lord Jesus talks about the parable of the sower. All apart from those who fell on the good turned back to their evil ways because they had no roots in themselves. The psalmist said thy word have I laid in my heart that I may not sin against you. Now my question is how much of the word do you know. As a christian you need to read the word to know the mind of your creator. The bible is like the manual (manufacturer's mind on paper) and except you read it you will not know how the product (you) is expected to function. Secondly you need to find a church where sin is blatantly forbidden and need to make friends with those who are serious with their faith as evil company corrupts good manners. Thirdly engage in envangelism yourself. Try to win souls for God. Finally be serious with your faith. Jesus said in matt 10:39 that "he who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for my sake will find it". The preceeding verse talks about carring your cross and following him. As a christian there are certain things you need to avoid. Work out your faith my brother. See you in heaven

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Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Pierohandsome: 12:01pm On Dec 17, 2017
bomsilaga:

i didnt have to do anything and i was born a sinner by one man's sin
now i have to do something to become righteous even after one man's forever sacrifice?

Romans 5:17  For if by one man's offence death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one, Jesus Christ.)

its a gift my brother, that car you gave to me you wouldnt start giving me conditions on how to receive the gift na. it then ceases to be a gift
NO CONDITION TO RECEIVE GRACE AND RIGHTEOUSNESS
you are getting it wrong my dear. U have to confess ur sins and accept Christ with ur mouth b4 u can be saved. That Christ died does not give u automatic salvation, salvation Is not automatic . U must do something to be saved and that is ur confession if Jesus as ur Lord and saviour . That is why the bible says ' with the heart man believeth unto righteousness and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation'. Romans 10:10.
And after receiving salvation u stil need grace to maintain it. That is why the bible says in Philipians 2:12 that u work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.

What grace does is to enable u mauntain ur salvation thru faith

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Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by kastroud(m): 12:03pm On Dec 17, 2017
as someone who was in your shoes I'll recommend you read the book the overcoming life by watchman nee. basically you will come to the understanding that there is nothing you or me can do to save ourselves no matter how hard we try we cannot save ourselves it's only God that can save us. so here's the way say a sincere prayer to God that u leave it all to him even the ability to make u leave the old things behind and In a few days come and thank me
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by people4rmVillag: 12:03pm On Dec 17, 2017
tayooluwole:
I don't know if any body here is in my shoe... Since I was born I have attended many crusade and church services. During any of the services, any time the instruction is prescribed that all who wish to denounce sin and become born again should come out to receive prayers, me no they carry last to follow go out to be born again at that moment. The issue is, my being born again at any point in time doesn't take much time before it expires. Just at the moment I decide to be born again the holyholy will be there but by the time the holyholy run into 2 to 3 days it begins to desolve till I go back to the status quo. The logic behind this is that, if Jesus is to come withing the shortest time that follows the moment of my being born again that means heaven sure me die but if na after it has expired OYO is my case but Jesus will surely consider my seriousness by looking at the number of times I have come to him...

Pls how can someone be permanently born again without much sin ?

Note: he get some things wey Christians go count as sin and wey if ah no do na hunger go kill me...

Christian brothers over to you...
Bros from your writeup and comments it's quite obvious that you are not yet serious to live a christian life. When you are ready God will help you from within to bear good fruits and remember that you don't receive Christmas two times, if you have received him you have received him so the next stage is stop what is evil and start doing the things that are right. Shalom
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by bomsilaga(m): 12:08pm On Dec 17, 2017
Pierohandsome:
you are getting it wrong my dear. U have to confess ur sins and accept Christ with ur mouth b4 u can be saved. That Christ died does not give u automatic salvation, salvation Is not automatic . U must do something to be saved and that is ur confession if Jesus as ur Lord and saviour . That is why the bible says ' with the heart man believeth unto righteousness and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation'. Romans 10:10.
And after receiving salvation u stil need grace to maintain it. That is why the bible says in Philipians 2:12 that u work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.

What grace does is to enable u mauntain ur salvation thru faith

in the old covenant, you have to believe but in the new covenant you must confess - didn't say confession is invalid all i have been trying to say is that grace is automatic once you are in the household of faith through confession and when you have gotten this grace, then you have nothing to do again on your part. WITHOUT THE NUDGING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, no man can ever be righteous on his own
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by talk2percy(m): 12:08pm On Dec 17, 2017
Oboy forget that thing, na wash. The person Wey dey call u out to be sinless and be like Jesus, him no dey sin?? All na wash.
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by tayooluwole: 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2017
Farmerforlife:
Don't let those doing holier than thou here deceive you. Most of them are far worse than you, especially all these pentecostals. There is virtually no day that you will not hear the Pastors embroiled in one show or the other. What do you expect to achieve in those churches? they are only increasing you in sin. I am personally acquainted with 2 pentecostal pastors who confided in me that they are secretely maintaining more than one wife (they think I will approve because I am a Muslim, but it is hypocrisy).

You better become an observant Muslim if you want to truly repent. If you insist on staying a Christian, JW is the only moderately non-hypocritical Christian sect. All the others fornicate Monday to Saturday, then go to church on Sunday to 'ask forgiveness'. They cannot help your case.

I gbadun you bro
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Tosinkez2626(m): 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2017
My dear i understand wat u r gng tru ryt nw. All u need is simply an understanding dat cums 4rm God's word dat bn a christian u must grow and dat it is of desire of God for you to move frm just bn a milk drinker 2 a person strong enuf to crack bone. Ds d problem thr. Secondly, watch and b mindful of the things that still makes u keep & constantly cumin for restitution den u will grow. Just add me up on fbk #Tosin Richard ave passed tru wat u r gng tru nw[color=#990000][/color]
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Pierohandsome: 12:12pm On Dec 17, 2017
bomsilaga:


in the old covenant, you have to believe but in the new covenant you must confess - didn't say confession is invalid all i have been trying to say is that grace is automatic once you are in the household of faith through confession and when you have gotten this grace, then you have nothing to do again on your part. WITHOUT THE NUDGING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, no man can ever be righteous on his own
we are stil on the same page jst that ur issue of not doing anything is the argument here which i am trying to correct.

If u don't have to do anything hw do people accept christ and stil go back to sin? Didnt they receive the grace?

U dnt have to do anything to receive grace, but u have to do something with the grace to to maintain ur salvation
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by tayooluwole: 12:16pm On Dec 17, 2017
Tosinkez2626:
My dear i understand wat u r gng tru ryt nw. All u need is simply an understanding dat cums 4rm God's word dat bn a christian u must grow and dat it is of desire of God for you to move frm just bn a milk drinker 2 a person strong enuf to crack bone. Ds d problem thr. Secondly, watch and b mindful of the things that still makes u keep & constantly cumin for restitution den u will grow. Just add me up on fbk #Tosin Richard ave passed tru wat u r gng tru nw[color=#990000][/color]

thanks bro
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Nobody: 12:18pm On Dec 17, 2017
What You Need Is Assurance Of Salvation. You Also Need To Join A Church Where The Word Of God Is Preabhed Without Fear Or Favour. Christ Has The Power To Make You 'Go And Sin No More' Like It Is In John Chapter 8. Read And Meditate On The Word Of God And Be Mindful Of The Preachers You Listen To. You Can Reach Me On 07033356616 For Further Help. You Can Be Totally Free From Sin. Read 1 John 3:1-10. God Be With You.
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Davoj: 12:29pm On Dec 17, 2017
Finstar:
Op, please enjoy life... This is the only life you've got for now..
I'd this is the only life you've got, then don't make the mistake of facing God after death in sin, you'll regret ever being born.

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Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by yourstar: 12:36pm On Dec 17, 2017
You are born once.. And this means you ve a new spirit but an old mind and body which is full of old habits and takes time to be transformed by the daily renewal through the word of God...Its takes time but I can assure u that God is a patient God.. First make new godly friends.. Do not stay in the mist of wrong company because u can never change with them around you...find a good church where u can fellowship in a cell and get committed, find a good woman who can help you in character and in prayers, above all pray and study the word of God little by little..talk to God like you talk to urself ( that's my kind of prayer). Whatever be the sin, there is a gradual step by step way out. Just pour out your soul unto God and He will reach out to u... More Grace to u

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Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Nobody: 12:37pm On Dec 17, 2017
Just take your time to read the book of revelation[color=#990000][/color]
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by dominique(f): 12:37pm On Dec 17, 2017
Deicide:
Christianity is a Joke instead of teaching people to take responsibility for their actions and own up to it its asking them to become born again? what a joke

That's the Nigerian brand of Christianity for you. Commit all types of evil deeds and repent once you're done. You can keep doing the same evil stuff as long as you repent, you have been 'saved by Grace' and you won't be held accountable for your actions.

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Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by arrestdarrester: 12:41pm On Dec 17, 2017
You need help.

Teaching, Counselling and Mentoring is the help that you need.



Separating yourself from every appearance of evil and from those who encourage you in the wrong direction is a decision only you can make.

If you keep relishing the sinful habit that will destroy you, God will let what you allow to be your lot.
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by larryclemperfec(m): 12:42pm On Dec 17, 2017
[right][/right][color=#990000][/color][quote author=costandi post=63357617]Firstly, understand that you are born again once and for all. You can't be born again twice. This doesn't mean you can't back slide. The problem however is that you haven't subdued the flesh.

Bro, if you truly believe in Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour in your heart, you immediately become God's righteousness, if you then confess with your mouth, you're saved....Romans 10:10. Anytime you have heart knowledge of who you're in Christ i.e. God's righteousness, this new identity will guard the way you act....but it takes little time from the day you Born again before you believe your new identity.....anytime the thought to commit come, tell the thought who you are, you are God's righteousness.
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by raymod170(m): 12:50pm On Dec 17, 2017
let's put religion aside and ask yourself certain questions like
1. Why did I begin a habit
2. Why did I allow it control me
3. what must I do to stop this habits

till you think about this things then you would start planning on changing because most times people don't really change the best they can do is try to suppress what ever habit, claiming to be born again and not living a righteous life is totally your fault

There is a saying which says it's best to avoid doing something than to start and face the consequences of your choices

truth be told alot of people have this mentality that is why people come out more than once to give their life to Christ because they keep doing what they claimed to have stopped or something entirely different and ungodly

best regards
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by slimbullet: 12:52pm On Dec 17, 2017
I swear, this OP na stupid man..... grin grin grin. Laugh wan tear my belle for here with dis him post and replies to the quotes.
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by bomsilaga(m): 12:54pm On Dec 17, 2017
Pierohandsome:
we are stil on the same page jst that ur issue of not doing anything is the argument here which i am trying to correct.

If u don't have to do anything hw do people accept christ and stil go back to sin? Didnt they receive the grace?

U dnt have to do anything to receive grace, but u have to do something with the grace to to maintain ur salvation
you go back to sin not because you were not saved.
you go back to sin because the devil wants your relationship with God constantly smeared until you begin to question your salvation

So only your relationship with God is affected and the grace is ever there pleading and advocating on your behalf-that's Grace (you were supposed to be dead, cursed, punished by God but nah He aint doing that to you)
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by valentineuwakwe(m): 12:57pm On Dec 17, 2017
you still dont know what you want from life...my advice is to ask self what you trually want and how to go about it...ask and examine your life and daily aftivities of what is pulling you down from serving jesus christ....then meet a man of God to pray for you and deliver you from this demonic setback....you are blessed
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by enemyofprogress: 1:02pm On Dec 17, 2017
Look for any sister Grace around you
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Rozaytee: 1:02pm On Dec 17, 2017
tayooluwole:
I don't know if any body here is in my shoe... Since I was born I have attended many crusade and church services. During any of the services, any time the instruction is prescribed that all who wish to denounce sin and become born again should come out to receive prayers, me no they carry last to follow go out to be born again at that moment. The issue is, my being born again at any point in time doesn't take much time before it expires. Just at the moment I decide to be born again the holyholy will be there but by the time the holyholy run into 2 to 3 days it begins to desolve till I go back to the status quo. The logic behind this is that, if Jesus is to come withing the shortest time that follows the moment of my being born again that means heaven sure me die but if na after it has expired OYO is my case but Jesus will surely consider my seriousness by looking at the number of times I have come to him...

Pls how can someone be permanently born again without much sin ?

Note: he get some things wey Christians go count as sin and wey if ah no do na hunger go kill me...

Christian brothers over to you...
my dear it's just by d grace God
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by mickeymimi: 1:03pm On Dec 17, 2017
IMO > You are still born again. You are conscious and battling with some sins in your life ....causing you to backslide or think you are no longer born again...God created us in such a way that we can never be perfect ......praying and being steadfast in him will keep us going

John said Yes u can sin
1 John 1> 8
*If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.*...........old habit dont t die in one day ....
* 9 > * If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

John said no u cannot sin
1John 3>9 No you cannot sin
"Whoever has been born of God does not sin, for His seed remains in him; and he cannot sin, because he has been born of God.


What is happening here is that John is saying that the one who is born again does not habitually abide in sin. He may fall into it, but he does not practice it as a lifestyle..try as much as possible tio keep away from that sin .....

The most intense part of the Battle is in our Minds....where Satan attacks the Fiercest.....which is why we need to daily put on the armor of God .. ... David Struggled with so many sins.... You would have expected God to take sin away from him ....

Satan stood up against Israel, and provoked *to entice , seduce,persuade* David to number Israel.... fiery darts Satan throw at our minds....lustful thought , condemnation ,....followed by who will know ....what will it matter.
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Roseey0(f): 1:03pm On Dec 17, 2017
Op try the catholic way.
Summon courage and confess to another person
Let the person hold hands with you and pray for forgiveness
Read a Bible passage everyday.

You won't remb sin again.
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by deavicky(m): 1:04pm On Dec 17, 2017
MhizzAJ:
You are simply confused

I guess Fornication is your major stumbling block
gamble
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Pierohandsome: 1:04pm On Dec 17, 2017
bomsilaga:

you go back to sin not because you were not saved.
you go back to sin because the devil wants your relationship with God constantly smeared until you begin to question your salvation

So only your relationship with God is affected and the grace is ever there pleading and advocating on your behalf-that's Grace (you were supposed to be dead, cursed, punished by God but nah He aint doing that to you)
Shall we continu in sin that grace may abound? Romans 6:1, 1 john 3:9. If u claim to be saved and stil commit sin then u are fooling urself, u are not saved but still a sinner. Go and read the above scriptures and meditate on it so u cn stop calling urself a child of God while stil wallowing in sin
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by Rozaytee: 1:09pm On Dec 17, 2017
I believe d op is battling with fornication... cus dats d major sin of we youth dis days.... may God save us
Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by unanonso(m): 1:11pm On Dec 17, 2017
tayooluwole:
I don't know if any body here is in my shoe... Since I was born I have attended many crusade and church services. During any of the services, any time the instruction is prescribed that all who wish to denounce sin and become born again should come out to receive prayers, me no they carry last to follow go out to be born again at that moment. The issue is, my being born again at any point in time doesn't take much time before it expires. Just at the moment I decide to be born again the holyholy will be there but by the time the holyholy run into 2 to 3 days it begins to desolve till I go back to the status quo. The logic behind this is that, if Jesus is to come withing the shortest time that follows the moment of my being born again that means heaven sure me die but if na after it has expired OYO is my case but Jesus will surely consider my seriousness by looking at the number of times I have come to him...

Pls how can someone be permanently born again without much sin ?

Note: he get some things wey Christians go count as sin and wey if ah no do na hunger go kill me...

Christian brothers over to you...

Matthew 5:6 Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.

Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. 10:10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.

May the good Lord give you strength to overcome temptations in Jesus name. Amen.

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Re: I Have Been Born Again For Over 100 Times... Pls Help A Brother by nwoye72: 1:11pm On Dec 17, 2017
My friend,no born again christian that lives without sin,ones u are born again just trust God to guide u in all ur endeavor but for sining is sure for all,even when u have think that evil without doing it,u have sin.now tell me who don't sin.just continue the christian journey as all of believers are in same journey as u.

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