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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by michlins(m): 10:52pm On Dec 22, 2017
9jaDoc:


It's Yahoo Yahoo mentality
lol. Thing is it's easy to tag a woman an olosho than to accept that the man is just over greedy

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 10:52pm On Dec 22, 2017
I blame the stupid men who enable the lifestyles of broke, lazy women who do not know what it means to legitimately and morally earn a dime.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:52pm On Dec 22, 2017
Listen to her @ your own peril. She is the type that will push herself on a rich guy, even when she can't afford to get herself a pad.

useless girl.



. but op you jobless oh

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by tribalistseun: 10:52pm On Dec 22, 2017
9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me
see your mouth like it's ok by me.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by babyfaceafrica: 10:55pm On Dec 22, 2017
Relationship is now all about money

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 10:55pm On Dec 22, 2017
blackbeau1:
Simple but bitter truth. And if for any reason you are bent on dating her, then let her know from the start you can't afford to take care of her at that level. Lay your cards on the table. Don't try to be who you aren't .

They hope against hope she would "fall in love" with them along the line then money won't matter

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Fetula4u: 10:57pm On Dec 22, 2017
What her level....think girls should b ashamed so it a man that needs to maintain u at a paticular level.....sister u don see husband finish.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by HeyCorleone(m): 10:59pm On Dec 22, 2017
Saintsammurai:
If that is the case, then most of these slay Queens online, Hawking their bodies for sex and money, will go broke, which in turn make many ladies poor..
The rich guys that patronized them will have to go for their class, leaving the average slay Queens in poverty..
90% of wealth ladies have all over the world were acquired as a result of their relationship with one rich man and the other..
In truth, dating and relationship should never be based on money or class..

when two people love each other, they should build trust and love together irrespective of their social class..


You're spot on.. Can't agree less.

Females think they're the shit, knowing damn well that almost everything they own come from one guy or the other.

And I don't still understand this whole feminine dependence. Aren't they the ones advocating for gender equality and feminism? So what's the deal if the man can't afford to take of them?!

Truth is most females are living double standard lives.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Blessograo(f): 11:00pm On Dec 22, 2017
9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me
So you mean you control him abi? Cos we no ask you ma.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Gerrard59(m): 11:01pm On Dec 22, 2017
Nothing new. Ladies aka women date/marry up not down, maybe they can in the same level, but not below theirs. Studies have proven this severally, leading even the leftist Economist to say it promotes income inequality or the Brookings:
https://www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2016/04/08/the-rich-marrying-the-rich-makes-the-income-gap-worse-but-its-not-our-biggest-problem/
https://www.economist.com/news/leaders/21640331-importance-intellectual-capital-grows-privilege-has-become-increasingly

A certain Lubayn said same this year, she was roasted on NL and deactivated.


Nothing new.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 11:01pm On Dec 22, 2017
UBGG:
I blame the stupid men who enable the lifestyles of broke, lazy women who do not know what it means to legitimately and morally earn a dime.



Blame tradition and nature. How many times do u hear "househusband", you only hear "housewife"

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by itsRhamzy: 11:01pm On Dec 22, 2017
thesicilian:
There are no girls in my financial lane. They are all too poor for my liking.
lol

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 11:02pm On Dec 22, 2017
shez actually right

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by HeyCorleone(m): 11:02pm On Dec 22, 2017
Like a quote I read today

"men go broke trying to prove they are not broke to women who are broke".

Most of these rich looking ladies we see on the road are being maintained by some man or the other. In other words, women, on their own, are poor.

And I can't quite wrap my head around what the OP is saying. So does it mean that a woman's job is to spend while the man's is to provide?! Is that the only thing women are built for? To spend? Is that why guys enter a relationship? To maintain someone's lifestyle.


These days it seems I'm becoming a little misogynistic, but with the many rubbish I see from females on social media, you just have to hate them.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 11:03pm On Dec 22, 2017
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9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me
ehn

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 11:03pm On Dec 22, 2017
just like a guy using infinix phone approaching a lady using iPhone 7

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by dingbang(m): 11:03pm On Dec 22, 2017
As a single working class guy, let me just respect myself and be enjoying my money.... Some women will just carry their problems and heap on one innocent brother.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 11:04pm On Dec 22, 2017
tribalistseun:
see your mouth like it's ok by me.

This your monika sef. If na me be Seun I go ban u just for that

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 11:05pm On Dec 22, 2017
HeyCorleone:
Like a quote I read today

"men go broke trying to prove they are not broke to women who are broke".

Most of these rich looking ladies we see on the road are being maintained by some man or the other. In other words, women, on their own, are poor.
most of the naija girls are poor, and they're being financed by one maga, that's why I'm not moved when I see a naija lady rocking expensive things

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by mofedamijo(m): 11:05pm On Dec 22, 2017
She jux shot herself in the leg,so if i drive a range rover autobiography,i shouldnt date a girl on legediz benz or toyota corolla,she should be using A Gwagon or something.......iranu abasha....

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:06pm On Dec 22, 2017
Saintsammurai:
Yeah i know but relationship should not be founded on the basics of financial class.
Haha cheesy grin You again you better wake up and face reality.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by blackbeau1(f): 11:06pm On Dec 22, 2017
9jaDoc:


They hope against hope she would "fall in love" with them along the line then money won't matter
lol. Blame Hollywood /nollywood movies
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Luukasz(m): 11:06pm On Dec 22, 2017
It baffles me when I see all this girls placing their responsibilities on a guy just because he's dating or banging them. If you don't want to submit to their responsibilities then they use break up or no more sex as a leverage.
Pals if that chick wants to break up because you aint taking up her responsibilities leave her and go get a girl who doesn't live off guys, if she says no more sex let her be and go get it elsewhere.
Aint responsible for any bitch, bitches gotta learn to be responsible for their lives and stop leaning on anybody besides most of them are deadweight

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 11:07pm On Dec 22, 2017
No girl should date a guy who can't meet up with her financial demand. No guy should date a girl who depends on him for her financial aid. Relationship should never be seen as a poverty alleviation scheme.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 11:07pm On Dec 22, 2017
tribalistseun:
see your mouth like it's ok by me.

It is very much ok by me. I like a man at slight disadvantage, a bit shy. Everybody is different.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Luukasz(m): 11:08pm On Dec 22, 2017
UBGG:
I blame the stupid men who enable the lifestyles of broke, lazy women who do not know what it means to legitimately and morally earn a dime.
Exactly guys are the cause of this while those women has taken it as their right to be spent & lavished upon

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by hassinho707(m): 11:09pm On Dec 22, 2017
I am of the opinion that relationship is not a one way thing. I don't know how our girls reason. you expect only the man to be spending on you? are you in the relationship for what you will gain from the guy?.....oh some girls are just too foolish for my liking.....

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by gurunlocker: 11:10pm On Dec 22, 2017
thesicilian:
There are no girls in my financial lane. They are all too poor for my liking.

Does that mean you are poorer?

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Emekasmart(m): 11:10pm On Dec 22, 2017
When u girls start dating a guy u now believe he should be responsible for all your financial expenditures.... Lazy girls pls go and work and stop depending on men for your daily up keep..

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Luukasz(m): 11:12pm On Dec 22, 2017
9jaDoc:


They hope against hope she would "fall in love" with them along the line then money won't matter
So dating/relationship is now a business/money making opportunity. Girls of this day are leeches, lazy and greedy beings

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Sterope(f): 11:12pm On Dec 22, 2017
Bullshit!

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Liard(m): 11:12pm On Dec 22, 2017
Dating in one's financial lane has nothing to do with one's partner being materialistic. I can be very rich and be frugal in this case a materilisic babe won't work for me and not all materialistic babes are dependent on their spouse or BF for provision. In other words being materialistic is different from being a gold digger.

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