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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 2:46am On Dec 23, 2017
centboy123456:



lol u think men don't spend on his fellow men abi what did u say again u are married

Unless they are secretly gay. Stop fooling yourself. How come u don't see threads about how men expect other men to spend on them?
People spend money because they hope to get something. No one is forcing men to spend. Like I pointed out they don't spend on fellow men because there is nothing to hope to get. Pre-marital stuff costs a lady a lot in all sorts of ways, that's why we try to avoid it, when that's all men want.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by tealaw(m): 3:18am On Dec 23, 2017
My mother is financially independent. Got her own business. She not a burden to my father.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by dru23(m): 3:21am On Dec 23, 2017
MrSavage:
Are the guys to be blamed for tagging ladies as beign materialistic or are the girls actually materialistic.
So men are put on earth to afford a girl's lifestyle. Smh . So because I have the money it means I should spoil the girl . What about the guy.

Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by dru23(m): 3:25am On Dec 23, 2017
MrSavage:
Are the guys to be blamed for tagging ladies as beign materialistic or are the girls actually materialistic.
. What needs to be stress is that. As long as nobody is a burden to each other. Men shouldn't be a liability to the woman and vice versa. If I can't add value in a relationship I don't want to be in . And samething goes for the woman. It shouldn't be about materials things alone
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by dru23(m): 3:30am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


In most cases, YES grin

Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by dru23(m): 3:33am On Dec 23, 2017
Luukasz:
It baffles me when I see all this girls placing their responsibilities on a guy just because he's dating or banging them. If you don't want to submit to their responsibilities then they use break up or no more sex as a leverage.
Pals if that chick wants to break up because you aint taking up her responsibilities leave her and go get a girl who doesn't live off guys, if she says no more sex let her be and go get it elsewhere.
Aint responsible for any bitch, bitches gotta learn to be responsible for their lives and stop leaning on anybody besides most of them are deadweight

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 4:02am On Dec 23, 2017
tealaw:
My mother is financially independent. Got her own business. She not a burden to my father.

If my husband lost his job, I wouldn't mind carrying the family alone. But he is my HUSBAND not some guy hoping for some pre-marital nerve thrill.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by jnfoage: 4:02am On Dec 23, 2017
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makky555:


Information minister of spokesmanship...


You're sure he's richer than me na cuz you're his accountant or I put my money in your bank abi?
I'm greeting Bill Gates is it your business? You're not the greeter or the greeted. why butt in? . just respect your old age and shift
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Madam alakija, Alison madueke and okonja iweala combined on nairaland, you are nothing but a church rat seeking recognition on social media, otherwise, why are you pained and calling him Bill Gates when you know he is not.

Opo are always annoyed when anti-opo comments are posted on social media.

Screen shot of your bank acc balance let's see the non-poverty stricken opo.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 4:24am On Dec 23, 2017
dru23:

So men are put on earth to afford a girl's lifestyle. Smh . So because I have the money it means I should spoil the girl . What about the guy.

I bet u a girl who has friend-zoned a guy would be very happy to split the bill with him or even pay the bill.
It boils down to possibility of sex or at least sexual petting. If u totally remove that possibility men will not be willing to spend a dime.
People spend money because they hope to get something. They are paying for possiblity, for hope. Men don't spend on fellow men because there is no possibility of sex. Also pre-marital stuff costs a lady a lot in all sorts of ways so you can assume that cost is partly what men are paying for.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by makky555(f): 4:40am On Dec 23, 2017
Just because I didn't title you Bill Gates... Is that it?

I am nothing but a church rat right? Agreed but at least this church rat is better than your forefathers and your generations to come.

You should Screenshot your sense here let me use microscope to look for it.
Get your stinking self off my mention. Agbaya oshi
Nincompoop

jnfoage:
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Madam alakija, Alison madueke and okonja iweala combined on nairaland, you are nothing but a church rat seeking recognition on social media, otherwise, why are you pained and calling him Bill Gates when you know he is not.

Opo are always annoyed when anti-opo comments are posted on social media.

Screen shot of your bank acc balance let's see the non-poverty stricken opo.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by vicben27(m): 4:45am On Dec 23, 2017
dollyjoy:
Nobody asked you Madam.
you no get Joy at all!
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by delishpot: 4:58am On Dec 23, 2017
Macgreat:


Thumbs up.


Op, guess what? There are many women like this woman here. Who are not puffed up.

Some ladies, na only Degree dey Swell their head not to talk of having more money.

I remember a certain couple - the woman has BSC while the Man had HND. Come and see the way the woman will be talking down on the man based on this.

Some women are just senseless and lake basic brain cell containing sense.


And you have never seen a man abusing his wife because of her low financial status or lack of education? Or it only becomes a taboo when it's a woman doing it? Men have been known to lord it over wives because they feed them, clothe them, paid bride price etc and we have not seen or heard so much revolt concerning it. Even families of husband's also talk down on wives based on its my brother's /sons money so shut up and let me do what I want. My point is, it is human nature for some people who are given the opportunity in life to be at advantage over others to want to abuse that opportunity and not a trait designed for only one gender. A woman that does so is bad same way a man that does it is also bad.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by geostat(m): 5:02am On Dec 23, 2017
Opo so because we never hit so make we no aim high okwaya?who yo Toto hep sef.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by jnfoage: 5:03am On Dec 23, 2017
makky555:
Just because I didn't title you Bill Gates... Is that it?

I am nothing but a church rat right? Agreed but at least this church rat is better than your forefathers and your generations to come.

You should Screenshot your sense here let me use microscope to look for it.
Get your stinking self off my mention. Agbaya oshi
Nincompoop

Pained opo, I'm not Bill Gates and indeed, not even close to him. My forefathers and generation to come don't depend on pay per chuk to feed and are not claiming to be rich on nairaland.

You opo that is rich from pay per chuk from guys, pls let's see your acc balance to prove you a bit better than a church rat. How will your parents feed if opo is no longer paying? That is where the pain is coming from.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by greypencils: 5:10am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me
LOBATAN
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by MdRabx(m): 5:16am On Dec 23, 2017
Miss Financial lane, when you become 30 in your father's house waiting for people in your financial lane, then you ll start running after boys far below your financial lane.. naija girls with their yeye archaic mentality

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by efonat(m): 5:41am On Dec 23, 2017
But shes saying d truth.
dollyjoy:
Nobody asked you Madam.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by mikolo80: 5:45am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


My husband is 2 years older than me. How's that sugar mummy
you're picking the bills
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by efonat(m): 5:52am On Dec 23, 2017
That's wen the lady is from a rich home, not some ladies dat got money from rich men and start forming class, wen u know your background. Nonsense.
9jaDoc:


You misread the OP: she is saying men should date women whose lifestyles they can finance
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Garshyzee(m): 5:57am On Dec 23, 2017
BraidedChannel:

Majority of them have that stvpid mentality.

Its disheartening bro...
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Radiant1020(f): 6:00am On Dec 23, 2017
Hope it applies to guys too? Let the guys also date ladies in their financial lane...

Then no guy will as much as glance at some ladies

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 6:07am On Dec 23, 2017
makky555:
..that man must either be her father or her fiance or her husband and to an extent boyfriend(not compulsory)
it should be husband or father not someone you are dating. I never read anywhere in the bible where it was said that a man was responsible for a lady he was "dating". When a man needs a wife, he either marries almost immediately or serves the lady's family for sometime. The foundation of many relationships are faulty, the reason for failed marriages these days.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by nzubeokafor: 6:12am On Dec 23, 2017
dollyjoy:
Nobody asked you Madam.
nobody even asked you to comment
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Ushiefrank(m): 6:14am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me
9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me
9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me
spoted a real woman with a typical african woman before a switch of mentality
i don't mean hate but commonly find in igbo land
note am not igbo boy before you quote me for long tori
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by SeanDada1(m): 6:14am On Dec 23, 2017
thesicilian:
There are no girls in my financial lane. They are all too poor for my liking.

All begging for money. grin

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by goldedprince: 6:15am On Dec 23, 2017
dollyjoy:
I think she made sense though, don't date a lady you know her lifestyle is way above your financial capacity except you have no future plans with her either way, Go for your mate.
Nobody asked you to repeat what op already said
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 6:21am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


Unless they are secretly gay. Stop fooling yourself. How come u don't see threads about how men expect other men to spend on them?
People spend money because they hope to get something. No one is forcing men to spend. Like I pointed out they don't spend on fellow men because there is nothing to hope to get. Pre-marital stuff costs a lady a lot in all sorts of ways, that's why we try to avoid it, when that's all men want.
why cry after a heartbreak when you are actually being paid for your service... girls and confusion.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by goldedprince: 6:23am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


Unless they are secretly gay. Stop fooling yourself. How come u don't see threads about how men expect other men to spend on them?
People spend money because they hope to get something. No one is forcing men to spend. Like I pointed out they don't spend on fellow men because there is nothing to hope to get. Pre-marital stuff costs a lady a lot in all sorts of ways, that's why we try to avoid it, when that's all men want.
I am as straight as my cock and I spend on my male friend. Last week alone I gave him 5000 dolls, bought him an Blackstone shoe which I bought for myself, bought him a watch worth 300k , and bought enough food to take care of him for the next 2 or 3 months . So yes there are straight guys that spend on other guys. I actually don't think u should spend on someone only when you want to get something in return
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by MENTORCH(m): 6:31am On Dec 23, 2017
A lot of Nigerian girls like to hang themselves on a certain level they don't belong, this girl talking might not be worth 1m but she is talking about financial lane.In America girls know their level and seek men around their level or a little higher. You see a student in school wanting a working class guy.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by michlins(m): 6:35am On Dec 23, 2017
iswallker:


Why can't she keep buying the Gucci..

Na man buy am for am b4

Is she handicapped...

simply leave her na must you will date her

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by michlins(m): 6:35am On Dec 23, 2017
Tajbol4splend:



This doesn't mean she will be loyal to the guy who is able to bear her financial capacity
loyalty is to be earned not given

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Willgates(m): 6:39am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


Lol. This is definition of "non sequitur"

It doesn't follow or you don't understand?

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