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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:43am On Dec 23, 2017
michlins:
loyalty is to be earned not given


There's this thing that makes a lady loyal to you, I don't think it is money
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by judgedredd22(m): 6:46am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


At least one honest Nairalander. Kudos.

Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Electronics: 6:47am On Dec 23, 2017
I don't understand, y would you be financing another woman's lifestyle. Someone cannot love in peace again.. Na wa o.
9jaDoc:


You misread the OP: she is saying men should date women whose lifestyles they can finance
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 6:50am On Dec 23, 2017
Nairaland guys and their ways of quoting people out of context. The lady is right in every sense of her post but most of you won't reason properly before dissing out insults to her and ladies.

A guy who's on a 50k monthly salary will be chasing a girl that probably knows all the designers in US, UK, and Paris. Whether you all like it or not, there's no relationship that'll survive without finance. Go for a lady that's within your class, not one whose lifestyle you can't fund. It's for your own good.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 6:50am On Dec 23, 2017
majekdom2:
why cry after a heartbreak when you are actually being paid for your service... girls and confusion.

Don't tell me u r totally clueless. U r expecting and hoping MARRIAGE. Nothing he pays u can compensate for what u lose. Only marriage can. Now he galivants away, bragging to his friends, a use-and-dump ladies man, while u r now "used/damage goods", olosho.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 6:57am On Dec 23, 2017
goldedprince:

I am as straight as my cock and I spend on my male friend. Last week alone I gave him 5000 dolls, bought him an Blackstone shoe which I bought for myself, bought him a watch worth 300k , and bought enough food to take care of him for the next 2 or 3 months . So yes there are straight guys that spend on other guys. I actually don't think u should spend on someone only when you want to get something in return

Mark my word: u have latent homosexuality subconsciously trying to find an outlet of expression.
Unless in case of charitable philanthropy for a cause, it is simply against HUMAN NATURE.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 7:00am On Dec 23, 2017
Tajbol4splend:



There's this thing that makes a lady loyal to you, I don't think it is money

We r not talking of the long run when all sorts of things come into play. We r talking of the short run.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by bejeria101(m): 7:02am On Dec 23, 2017
Is it written on her head?
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by michlins(m): 7:04am On Dec 23, 2017
Tajbol4splend:



There's this thing that makes a lady loyal to you, I don't think it is money
that's why I said it's earned not given

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Mypeople2(m): 7:04am On Dec 23, 2017
dollyjoy:
Nobody asked you Madam.
She is saying her own .Say yours sister .By the way, not all ladies are broke. It is just that only 0.00001% of ladies give.Some ladies can have N5million in their account yet they will be begging the guy that has only N500 for a bottle of Maltina

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 7:04am On Dec 23, 2017
MENTORCH:
A lot of Nigerian girls like to hang themselves on a certain level they don't belong, this girl talking might not be worth 1m but she is talking about financial lane.In America girls know their level and seek men around their level or a little higher. You see a student in school wanting a working class guy.

Yeah, but we r not talking America. This is 9ja where, let's face it, money makes the world go round!
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by WhoBeThisMan: 7:06am On Dec 23, 2017
dollyjoy:
Nobody asked you Madam.
bad belle

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Nobody: 7:10am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


Don't tell me u r totally clueless. U r expecting and hoping MARRIAGE. Nothing he pays u can compensate for what u lose. Only marriage can. Now he galivants away, bragging to his friends, a use-and-dump ladies man, while u r now "used/damage goods", olosho.
same way when you get sacked you are paid off isn't it. No one expects to be sacked.... so what's your point? If you are expecting marriage, you work towards marriage with a responsible man and not demanding for payment hoping to get married.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by kense88: 7:13am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


Mostly YES - unless the man stays in his lane and not hoping to get pre-marital touchy-feely or sex
So you can start raping all the cucumbers in the market. We can't afford to experience another scarcity of cucumber. Is important for our diet.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 7:13am On Dec 23, 2017
Radiant1020:
Hope it applies to guys too? Let the guys also date ladies in their financial lane...

Then no guy will as much as glance at some ladies

Honestly, men are to blame. They r the ones wanting pre-marital stuff.
I bet u a girl who has friend-zoned a guy would be very happy to split the bill with him or even pay the bill.
It boils down to possibility of sex or at least sexual petting. If u totally remove that possibility men will not be willing to spend a dime.
Guys CANNOT stay in their financial lane because they WANT beauty and sex regardless of finance.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Burgerlomo: 7:20am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:
My husband is less educated and makes less money but he is perfect for me

Iyawo rere lo dede oko.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by kense88: 7:21am On Dec 23, 2017
kimbraa:
Nairaland guys and their ways of quoting people out of context. The lady is right in every sense of her post but most of you won't reason properly before dissing out insults to her and ladies.

A guy who's on a 50k monthly salary will be chasing a girl that probably knows all the designers in US, UK, and Paris. Whether you all like it or not, there's no relationship that'll survive without finance. Go for a lady that's within your class, not one whose lifestyle you can't fund. It's for your own good.
what about all those wretched ladies that keeps peeping through our car window. Probably to know if i will show interest. Why can't she carry useless green light to people of her class
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by habakukjss3: 7:23am On Dec 23, 2017
Dillusionist:
whatever undecided

Because some hopeless lazy asses like u have nothing to contribute in a relationship other than boring sex..

Go and get resourceful
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 7:28am On Dec 23, 2017
majekdom2:
same way when you get sacked you are paid off isn't it. No one expects to be sacked.... so what's your point? If you are expecting marriage, you work towards marriage with a responsible man and not demanding for payment hoping to get married.

Only oloshos DEMAND payment. Men don't want that. They want a regular girl hoping for marriage, which they know no amount of money can pay for what they lose if they don't end up marrying them. No one forces them to spend.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by 9jaDoc(f): 7:32am On Dec 23, 2017
kense88:
So you can start raping all the cucumbers in the market. We can't afford to experience another scarcity of cucumber. Is important for our diet.

I'm quite happily married. Thank u. But cucumber is better than some guy bragging to his friends he used and dumped u, or being called ashawo.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by godofuck231: 7:40am On Dec 23, 2017
MrSavage:
Are the guys to be blamed for tagging ladies as beign materialistic or are the girls actually materialistic.

Okay, I see, that's otedolas second daughter talking, no wonder, please how much is your father's net worth and how much do you earn on your yearly salary, (if she even has a job)
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by blessedvisky(m): 7:41am On Dec 23, 2017
Toks2008:


Makes sense.

There are sweeter,fresher and virtuous ladies of your class to date.

Leave the high class lady alone but if you must date them,just be patient until they are in their late 30s...by that time,they will even pray for an agbero.

grin
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by godofuck231: 7:43am On Dec 23, 2017
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When the money stops, the marriage is over, another sugar wife, lol.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by dotedote: 7:45am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


You misread the OP: she is saying men should date women whose lifestyles they can finance


That should be in Nigeria Sweetheart.
Why should a man be the financier of his wife's lifestyle ? In Nigeria right ?
Isn't she working enough to finance her lifestyle ? If she is, where the heck is the money at ?
This is why most African women are slaves in their homes.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by godofuck231: 7:47am On Dec 23, 2017
Toks2008:


Makes sense.

There are sweeter,fresher and virtuous ladies of your class to date.

Leave the high class lady alone but if you must date them,just be patient until they are in their late 30s...by that time,they will even pray for an agbero.


Hungry high class when no fit buy pant if man no send am money by month end? Ohhh plssssss
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by blessedvisky(m): 7:47am On Dec 23, 2017
godofuck231:


When the money stops, the marriage is over, another sugar wife, lol.
Most women date and marry for financial security... Once it's gone, cheating with Rich men takes over
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by dotedote: 7:48am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


Yeah, I know. Some men like to be dominated and some women enjoy feeling dominant. It has to match up for it to work.



Hello
some men like to be dominated ?
Never heard/read/seen this before.
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by jaxxy(m): 7:54am On Dec 23, 2017
bjhaid:
just like a guy using infinix phone approaching a lady using iPhone 7

Sm guys are not just into fones bt dey drive gwagons. Lol bt wazup with gals and money tho. Cant a lady work alil and if she can't work then be humble rather than give drama about money she doesn't have herself.

A gal using iphone8 asking guy using infinix for 20k is a mystery to me. They cant leave within their means and they can't work, they not humble, dey not content, neither faithful wat can these gals really do
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Tajbol4splend(m): 7:58am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


We r not talking of the long run when all sorts of things come into play. We r talking of the short run.


Then you don't call it loyalty
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by MENTORCH(m): 8:05am On Dec 23, 2017
9jaDoc:


Yeah, but we r not talking America. This is 9ja where, let's face it, money makes the world go round!

Yeah so 9ga women should seek guys on their level too.

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Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by firo08(m): 8:09am On Dec 23, 2017
dollyjoy:
Nobody asked you Madam.
why are you crying?
Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by godofuck231: 8:12am On Dec 23, 2017
blessedvisky:

Most women date and marry for financial security... Once it's gone, cheating with Rich men takes over

I beg I get small orijin for fridge can we share, because you are seeing the future clearly, so make u still show me road,.

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