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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Espada10: 3:37pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
cstr1001:Yep ...I saw that post ... all the women were supporting the ungrateful girl and telling the man to grow up and shading him ..I pity the man sha...as for me, it is even dicey to invest in a wife talkless of a girlfriend..sometimes, I wonder are men still doing this kind stupid stuff in this era.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
chiefbidemi:who asked for your age? Nigerians ehn 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by hypocriticracy: 3:39pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
scared ke....I invest lots of sperm noni 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Blackhawk03(f): 3:40pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by raficki87(m): 3:41pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
If you understand the concept of hypergamy and briffaults law. This stupid idea of investing in a woman in hopes of marrying her will not be a topic for discussion 4 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Fragileheart(f): 3:41pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
When I look around all I see is selfishness 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
It goes both way actually, but if you want to invest in someone don't do it because you expect loyalty from the person especially women, just do it because you want to and expect nothing, am not sure women are used to that concept of re-paying favour as a man would, because women are used to be catered for naturally unlike a guy. No one gives a fvck about a guy, which is why most guy remember and always pay back the favour when needed however there are some who miss the memo (fvck boys). Me I help anyone and move on with life, that's how i do mine. 2 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Divay22(f): 3:42pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ibietela2:Yeah... Go ahead |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
raficki87: any time i hear the word 'hypergamy' Red Pills and MGTOW comes to mind 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Originalsly: 3:45pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Bro... the word invest makes me believe it's a business.... love has nothing to do with business. If you invest in a lady then it should be cash in.... fees etc.... and cash out. ..ROI. How can you put in cash and expect love in return?...not even with a prostitute. The guy decided to pay for her education..... so she must automatically love him? Nothing wrong in a guy doing that...being a Good Samaritan ....but it is just wrong for him or anyone to expect her to marry him because he helped her financially. If they had come to that agreement then she is in the wrong to want out for the reason given. From her reason...... she is not a person that will marry for love..... status and certification are most important.... doesn't matter if the person loves her or doesn't. It never has been easy to find a wife. ..find someone to marry yes. .. but not to find a wife. .. somewhere some time ago somebody said he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing...and that was wayyyy before 1901. 5 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by cstr1001: 3:46pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Espada10:Investing in a wife is okay. After she has given birth to 1 or 2 children. Atleast, your children will benefit from your investment even if you don't. But investing in a girl-friend or fiancee is a big big tufiakwa. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Bestchoice4me(m): 3:46pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
TwoBottles:My broda,carry on..we dnt wnt 2 hear stories dat touch later,neva take a lady serious yet. 4 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by davillian(m): 3:48pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Even the ones that we don't invest on still bite the finger that fingered them. 3 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 3:48pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
MrMcJay:It is not abnormal. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by bezimo(m): 3:49pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
You know this goes both ways as per my observation recently. Case 1: Guy investing in a lady only for her to dump him later for some other guy after she is made. How to prevent this...secure your investment.lol.For example.If you are sponsoring a girl you love through school and want to marry her. Mid way through the sponsorship make concrete moves to marry her and do it..if she refuses with delaying reasons.then know you will be dumped as soon as she has gotten what she wants. So stop the sponsorship except you want to just be generous. Case 2: Lady standing by her broke bf and financing him and paying almost all the bills only for the guy to hammer and abandone the girl later. How to prevent this..not really sure because you really dont know a guy untill he hammers..then you will know if he truly loves you or not.For example you can make moves to help him get a good job or contract to make him get some money..then watch what he does if he starts philandering..he doesnt love you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by ibietela2(m): 3:49pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Divay22: I mean attach here please |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by killsmith(f): 3:51pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Fragileheart: 5 Likes
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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Divay22(f): 3:51pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Fragileheart:Not selfishness dear. A guy ought to trade carefully when it comes to investing in a lady (sending her to school) because it's the usual story of "you are no longer my class, how much have you spent, my husband to be will pay back) It's not an easy thing..... If my brother tells me he wants to invest in a lady, I won't stop him, but the only thing I'll tell him is what i have already written.. Work on her and work on yourself, and to be on a safer side, don't expect much from her.... If she's studying full time, pls do part time, just be equip... Because when she finally becomes a graduate, she's no longer that naive girl, but a tigeress.. She's well fortified now, it might not necessarily be same level, but try. Expectation we know, sometimes leads to disappointment. 2 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Finest6: 3:52pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
To whom brain is given, sense is also expected. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by beesyb(f): 3:53pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
No woman should expect a man to invest in her. I started working immediately I finished my WAEC. Even after i gained admission,I worked during every single holiday and to the glory of God,I am a graduate currently serving in the south east. Everyone deserves a better future. The guy should have invested the money in himself. Or help the lady with his church mind devoid of any expectation or reward. 2 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by teamv: 3:55pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
beardlessdude:this guy no get respect oh |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Invest in her for the night not for a lifetime. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by gudvibz(f): 3:56pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Sometimes we tend to forget that it's a double edged sword we weld, it's verse versa. The most stupid thing I can ever do is invest in a man cos I've seen what happens after graduation it ain't pretty |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Divay22(f): 3:57pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ibietela2:Our overgrown babies 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Dollabiz: 3:57pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Yes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by deebrownneymar: 3:58pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
bamisepeters: What do you mean 'liberate'? I think that word is too strong. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by adetes: 4:00pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
It depend |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by fatymore(f): 4:03pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Why invest on a lady when she isn't your family.. Me self I can't invest on a guy oooo... |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by deafeyez: 4:04pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Ajoboss: I was banging this girl and one thing led to another and we stopped communication. After months, she called that she was sick and we reconciled. She told me she wanted to learn hair dressing that she has got some money, that I should pay the rest. I told my friend and he warned me never to do so. He explained how he rented a house for his girl when he was doing IT. After the IT, he left for school. He came one night only to meet a guy with his girl in the room he rented. He had to sleep in a neighbor's room n left the next day. 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by sirxbit(m): 4:04pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
TwoBottles:I go be first to comment when u finally create thread of trust no woman 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by vicben27(m): 4:08pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
TwoBottles:ur correct Bro! there are nice ladies out there. got one too! but this is 2018 stop taking two bottles every evening lol 3 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by ibietela2(m): 4:10pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Divay22: Lol thank God you have an overgrown baby........ Me that is still looking for mummy to own me |
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