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Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by bamisepeters(m): 1:45pm On Jan 10
The problem of most women when it comes to relationship and the only reason that brings fear to every man willing to liberate "his" lady is that most women are so flexible, as in, they can easily be twisted, not by anyone, but by what they want and this is the fear of many men when it comes to investing in the woman they claim to love especially when they want her to be a huge success for herself and their future family.

At times, some women makes it hard for some men to liberate them, it is after much investment have been made and it is time to rip the fruit of the labor story will start changing.

Here is the disturbing post…

“I’m a 26 year old woman and my parents died when I was 14 years old. I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees. I met a guy when I was 16 and he sent me back to school. He sold fruit on the street so that he could pay my school fees. He later got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university. I am now working as a lawyer. My problem is that I feel I cannot continue with this relationship because this guy is not the type of man I would like to marry one day. How best can I tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings? I want someone in my class not truck driver.”

At times some woman will see the show of love from that true man but will not feel reluctant to throw it at his face instead of embracing it so that someone else will not claim what they should have kept to themselves, and will start crying foul play when their new found lover is treating them like trash.

Now, look at this issue critically and tell me if the guy was at fault to have believed and invested in her all in the name of love?

Some women becomes all-knowing after they have been liberated. And to them it is liberation not knowing such liberation leads to nowhere than bondage. Some woman just get the opposite of your intention, this is what makes them what they are and even who they will later be.

I know some men are also like this but it is so disturbing after all your partner have done to make you happy to now make them look stupid instead.

The truth is that if she does not learn to love the man she will regret to have left him for someone she considers to be her type. This is because there is no amount she can return to the man that can replace the time, feelings and all that the man channeled towards her success.

I am not surprised to even see this as humans make series of mistakes, we will see wide road but will love to pass the bushy and narrow part looking for what is not lost.

Of course the man will get over it but he will surely laugh last as what she thinks is the best for her may be the road to complete destruction, and when the man will be laughing is when the reality of what she had done will become clearer to her which will definitely be too late to re-write her wrongs.

As human beings I think we need to start using our head and not allow this emotion to rule over our thinking faculty as what we want at times may not be destined for us and when we force it to come the result becomes disastrous; we should learn to manage what we have to get the best out of it rather than twisting what shouldn’t be twisted.

We need to be appreciative and also remember that giving money is not always the best way to show appreciation, other things are involved depending on the situation.


Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2018/01/a-must-know-single-reason-why-many-men.html

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by ubunja(m): 1:58pm On Jan 10
ubunja:
dont do it.
once she graduates she wont see you as her level and will instead look for someone better than you.
im always amazed that guys read of such stories daily but somehow in their mind they think their gal is special and wont play him like that.they dont know gals do this not coz they are cruel or wanna hurt you. its a natural instinct.like when a pretty gal somehow gets her face burnt in a fire and his BF breaks up with her coz the beauty is gone.its not that the BF is cruel.its a natural instinct in all men to seek for beauty.likewise gals always crave high status men by instinct.while she is under you education-wise you are beautiful to her.but once you bring her to your level she will crave someone better than you coz in her eyes you have lost your beauty.
its like helping a fat chick lose weight.once she gets a sexy trim figure she is leaving you. she is seeking for a 6pack dude.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Ajoboss(m): 1:58pm On Jan 10
D last thing I would do in life na to invest money for woman head
I dey craze?

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Divay22(f): 2:16pm On Jan 10
Lol
I'm not against investing in a lady... But while doing that, try as much as possible to invest in yourself also...
While supporting her, pls support yourself.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by kuchikau1: 2:29pm On Jan 10
My gal dey ask me for her fees. NO MAN SHOULD MAKE SUCH MISTAKE.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by ubunja(m): 2:46pm On Jan 10
Divay22:
Lol
I'm not against investing in a lady... But while doing that, try as much as possible to invest in yourself also...
While supporting her, pls support yourself.
so once a guy upgrades his woman's future he must also work on his.mhmm
i agree.sense is there

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Pataricatering(f): 3:19pm On Jan 10
Same reason why no woman has time for “ potential “ anymore ! Too many women have been backstabbed by the dude with potential that she sacrificed with only to turn Casanova once he blows .

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by DONADAMS(m): 3:19pm On Jan 10
okada...stop me here

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by HeyCorleone(m): 3:19pm On Jan 10
Guys who take ladies serious are next to insane.

I laugh anytime I see any dude complaining about his girl. Lol.

Get money and take care of yourself and your parents. Leave these dirty cocksucking backstabbing females alone.

Invest money on a girl only to have her leave you like no man's business.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by nonut: 3:20pm On Jan 10
Invest ke? Na business?

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by TwoBottles(m): 3:20pm On Jan 10
There are exceptional ladies who are worth everything good that a man can give them. I have one of such and I'm ready to go to any length to give her all she needs.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by obaataaokpaewu: 3:20pm On Jan 10
Invest in a lady, is she bitcoin or stock?

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Sunymoore(m): 3:20pm On Jan 10
Invest? Are you fckn kidding me? Seriously?.. The fool that's 'wasted' his money on her can use the same money to upgrade his social status, thereby attracting women of higher class.. Please and please Gs, don't ever make the mistake of training a lady with the hope of marrying her.. Train your brothers and less privileged in the society...

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by chiefbidemi: 3:20pm On Jan 10
See the definition of invest
"put (money) into financial schemes, shares, property, or a commercial venture with the expectation of achieving a profit."

You can only spend on a lady. You cannot invest on any lady. At almost 70yrs, I definitely know what I'm saying

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by MrMcJay(m): 3:20pm On Jan 10
As a man, you should invest in YOURSELF FIRST. That woman you're helping today is still with you because you're in a position to help her. Once she leaves that position, she'll look for other men who can give her what you are unable to give her.

Men and women are wired differently. In matters of looks, money, age, education and class, men date downwards while women date upwards. Having a woman date downwards or sideways is abnormal.

Females only date those above them. They may manage to date those of the same level due to low demand for them but never date lower than them.

For the poor man struggling to take care of his woman so that she'll be well fed and won't look outside, it is the fresh skin of your well-fed woman that would attract the men who would take her away.

Hate me for saying the truth, it's simply evolution at play.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by bola565: 3:20pm On Jan 10
Ladies kills faster than suicide

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Millz404(m): 3:20pm On Jan 10
No collateral attached incase of default

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Maj196(m): 3:20pm On Jan 10
Do dat at your own peril cuz she's going to drop u in d end.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by 6pax: 3:21pm On Jan 10
Question for the investors grin

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by PenisCaP: 3:21pm On Jan 10
angry
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by TOLULOPEMIDEAR(f): 3:21pm On Jan 10
Blood brothers sef dey f**k up not to talk of someone u dont really know. Pls Don't put all your eggs in one basket..... Make sure u help yourself too

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Edge1(m): 3:21pm On Jan 10
I rather invest in MMM or NITEL than investing in a woman
Not in this century biko

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Pavore9: 3:21pm On Jan 10
The man should never fail to invest in himself first. Most times investing in a lady with the intention of marriage is high risk. One would struggle to wash the car, only for another man to just stroll in and drive the car away! angry

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by thanta(m): 3:22pm On Jan 10
Some people are worth it and some people aren't.. The real lesson is don't do something for someone cos u want something back.. Do it without expectations.

Yall should stop trying to complicate life.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by saltyatarodo: 3:22pm On Jan 10
I will only invest in her after i have deposited sperm cells in her after MARRIAGE...

And I must see the fruits of my seeds!

I will not invest in any girl that I am not married to and the investments will be beneficial to both parties

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 3:22pm On Jan 10
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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by stano2(m): 3:22pm On Jan 10
A loud No to that before suicide becomes ur portion or u end up a murderer.
From real life Tory, any lady u wanna invest in should be ur wife already and also should b in the same country with u eg. Nigeria. Any bullshit u send her back to her father's house, not outside country and end up like former Arsenal player Ebuoe.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 3:22pm On Jan 10
The most illogical thing to do as a young man.

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Blackhawk03(f): 3:22pm On Jan 10
ubunja:

so once a guy upgrades his woman's future he must also work on his.mhmm
i agree.sense is there

Of course! It's what any right thinking person will do. Male or female, you shouldn't invest in anyone while playing ping pong with your own life...

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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by rozayx5(m): 3:22pm On Jan 10
only a foolish man will invest in a lady that is not his sister/daughter or wife



most women have short memories and can dump u at the slightest chance


undecided undecided undecided

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