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Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by SIaye: 10:45pm On Jan 15, 2018
Had sex with my side Chick last year on Christmas day because my main girlfriend wasn't around for the festive period, I was Hot and I didn't want to feel lonely so I had to call up my side gf who lives in another state, we made arrangements, she came and we had sex and all that, I didn't use protection because I was caught up on the heat of the pre-intimacy, she left on boxing day but we had serious misunderstanding that day before she left due to some issues.
Since then we haven't spoken until yesterday that she called to tell me she missed her period and that she thinks she is pregnant but she is not sure so she is going to run a test tomorrow to confirm if it's true, I said Okay o, ended the call.
So this evening she called, I asked her what the result was and she said positive, she said she is keeping the baby I said Okay but just know this, we are no longer dating o, I don't see myself getting married to you what we had was just a fling. She replied saying she doesn't care. I ended the call.

Abeg guys hie can I get this girl to remove the child because I can't have a child with a girl I don't love, haba, it's just not right, after the second I expected she would take drugs since we didn't use protection, but I am surprised she didn't. I no longer have feelings for this girl because of what she did when we met the last time; she got angry and smashed my laptop because I wasn't giving her attention and all that, had to leave the room for her that morning on boxing day until she left in the evening, she is also very rude and gets upset easily this was why I made her my side Chick just for sex.

But now guys this stuff is slowly moving from Clap to dance, I need way I can curb this before it gets out of hands because I don't want her to bear me a child (I don't want the child to suffer emotionally because her mum won't be there since we aren't together)

I offered to give her 100k to remove it and additional 50k for the stress, she refused, saying she is keeping it, i don't understand how someone can be so cruel, I am feeling bad because it's the child that will suffer all this and my child for that matter, I can't abandon my child if she happens to give birth but still there is this hatred in me for her, I just don't want anything from her, I am thinking of abandoning her and the baby if she decides to keep it because Bleep it I don't want anything to do with her anymore!! angry sad
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 15, 2018
As awful as they sound, the troubles that ashawo joint and masturbation can prevent is dumbfounding.

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Snow02: 10:55pm On Jan 15, 2018
shoulda been more careful, a lot of girls out are looking for a come up you have to suck it up and accept your responsibility you don't have to marry her just do it for your kid nothing wrong in having a baby Mama you messed up but you gotta move forward
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by khingTony(m): 10:57pm On Jan 15, 2018
Listen to your self,
You want to F**k buh don't want to have a child
Be ready to be called papa, grin Nah one Chance you don enter cheesy

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by dollyjoy(f): 10:58pm On Jan 15, 2018
You are a mad man...

You can't have a baby with a lady you do not love but you had unprotected sexual inter course with her..... I pray she refuse to abort the baby.. A poor lady somewhere thinks she is dating a loyal guy.... Cheats everywhere.

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Peachess(f): 11:00pm On Jan 15, 2018
Good for you, I just love it when things like this happens. I hope she keeps the baby so that your 'main chick' (I feel sorry for her) can see the real you (a guy without self control) and dump your cheating ass.

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by SIaye: 11:03pm On Jan 15, 2018
dollyjoy:
You are a mad man...

You can't have a baby with a lady you do not love but you had unprotected sexual inter course with her..... I pray she refuse to abort the baby.. A poor lady somewhere thinks she is dating a loyal guy.... Cheats everywhere.

Abeg swerve mad woman, who call you for here? Them they count fish them still they count crayfish join? I wouldn't need opinion if yours was the only on earth. undecided

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Davryme(m): 11:03pm On Jan 15, 2018
I suggest you let peace reign first between u guys. If possible go see her or tell her to come over. Go see a doctor together to confirm she's pregnant. There is a 50% chance she might be lying to strees you emotionally.

Please next time should you choose to have a side chick, do proper brain assessment. What could have triggered her to broke your laptop ?

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by dollyjoy(f): 11:05pm On Jan 15, 2018
SIaye:


Abeg swerve mad woman, who call you for here? Them they count fish them still they count crayfish join? I wouldn't need opinion if yours was the only on earth. undecided
OK.
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by SIaye: 11:05pm On Jan 15, 2018
khingTony:
Listen to your self,

You want to F**k buh don't want to have a child

Be ready to be called papa, grin Nah one Chance you don enter cheesy

Lol, this na serious matter naw bro
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by ShawttySoFyne(f): 11:06pm On Jan 15, 2018
Haha she's a real trap queen

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by ouzo1(m): 11:09pm On Jan 15, 2018
Bros u knack without condom, what were u expecting??a plasma TV?

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by SIaye: 11:10pm On Jan 15, 2018
Davryme:
I suggest you let peace reign first between u guys. If possible go see her or tell her to come over. Go see a doctor together to confirm she's pregnant. There is a 50% chance she might be lying to strees you emotionally.

Please next time should you choose to have a side chick, do proper brain assessment. What could have triggered her to broke your laptop ?
Mehn she has anger issue, I told her to come see me tomorrow, moreover I tried letting peace reign but I don't know what's wrong with this bish, I even suggested we make up told her to apologize, drop her pride and maybe we can work things out and come to a reasonable agreement. She said "excuse me, hey, stop it dear, just stop that, I don't want to have anything to do with you" bro you can imagine, how rude. She wasn't like this at first when I met her, okay you don't want to have anything to do with me why you wan come keep the baby, you wan suffer the child ni angry
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by mediocre(m): 11:14pm On Jan 15, 2018
You are both very stüpid. Apart from the risk of unwanted pregnancy, there are myriads of reasons why you should NEVER fück without a condom. Have you heard of hepatitis, HIV/AIDs, and then those really nasty STIs etcetera etcetera

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by SIaye: 11:17pm On Jan 15, 2018
mediocre:
You are both very stüpid. Apart from the risk of unwanted pregnancy, there are myriads of reasons why you should NEVER fück without a condom. Have you heard of hepatitis, HIV/AIDs, and then those really nasty STIs etcetera etcetera

Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by StrawberryGloss(f): 11:18pm On Jan 15, 2018
The karma of f*cking over a good girl, is the bitch you end up with. She's your karma.

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by khingTony(m): 11:18pm On Jan 15, 2018
SIaye:

Lol, this na serious matter naw bro
What I said isn't serious?
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by mediocre(m): 11:22pm On Jan 15, 2018
SIaye:
..
Your story is a lie though, but I'm just saying ..
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jan 15, 2018
u can make her second wife na cheesy or babymama cheesy afterall tuface has many babymamas

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by siegfried99(m): 11:25pm On Jan 15, 2018
grin

one chance side chick
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jan 15, 2018
siegfried99:
grin

one chance side chick
no,na endtime sidechick
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by greatwhite(m): 11:28pm On Jan 15, 2018
Dude don't abort the baby. Go to your real GF confess. Then register the pregnant lady for anti-natal care. Marriage is an option. Your responsibility is not. Man up
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by SIaye: 11:29pm On Jan 15, 2018
mediocre:
Your story is a lie though, but I'm just saying ..

I hear you. Lie detectors, you think say I be Airforce1 when they jobless ba
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 11:31pm On Jan 15, 2018
dollyjoy:
You are a mad man...

You can't have a baby with a lady you do not love but you had unprotected sexual inter course with her..... I pray she refuse to abort the baby.. A poor lady somewhere thinks she is dating a loyal guy.... Cheats everywhere.
Na him get him money weh he dey spend for the two of them
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by mediocre(m): 11:32pm On Jan 15, 2018
SIaye:


I hear you. Lie detectors, you think say I be Airforce1 when they jobless ba
Keep kwayet and enjoy the attention. Won't last long o
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by donstan18: 11:32pm On Jan 15, 2018
This is what happens when your preeq no get shoulder!


When you were Cumming inside her you didn't see it Coming as a baby for you.

You were feeling like a fvckboi while Cumming , roaring like a lion and your eyeballz turning around like an Akara on fire, now sexy karma dn kolombi you.

Or were you expecting the Cum you gave to form Iphone X or Moi Moi and Come out for you?



Biko!!, don't kill your blood, that baby might be the only hope to dethrone Buhari.

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 11:33pm On Jan 15, 2018
Peachess:
Good for you, I just love it when things like this happens. I hope she keeps the baby so that your 'main chick' (I feel sorry for her) can see the real you (a guy without self control) and dump your cheating ass.
So what happens to the baby with a rash mum and no father figure

Retaliation wish is not d matter on ground
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by femolacqua(m): 11:34pm On Jan 15, 2018
You just got served, she just broke the camels back.
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by SIaye: 11:36pm On Jan 15, 2018
lefulefu:

no,na endtime sidechick

Lol

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jan 15, 2018
Use that 100k and 50k to buy diapers because if una try to remove that innocent, na God go punish two of una.

You mustn't marry a lady because of pregnancy. Congrats on your babydaddyship.

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Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by Safiia(f): 11:37pm On Jan 15, 2018
Baby troll on the way, Congrats. grin
Re: Advice Needed: My Side Chick Says She Is Pregnant. by makydebbie(f): 11:37pm On Jan 15, 2018
Some guys are hypocritical idiots tho.


You call her cruel for not being selfish enough to kill her child. You're giving her 100k to kill her blood and she's not interested even tho you guys are not really cool atm because of that, she's cruel. So what word do we give her if she decides to kill her child for 150k? "considerate"?

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