greiboy:

@ Bolded negate your point

We have oriaku (a woman that eats her husband money) as a feminist

The op once said her only physical duties around the house are house chores, while her husband physical duties is sex, Op is now a self confessed feminist

We have a woman that doesn't really know the definition of independent women now claiming to be feminist

I will also appreciate a list of the characteristics of women who are feminist

RuthDaniels:


Please Miss write can you enlighten these babies Ladies what feminism is all about so we can have some peace

MissWrite:



Lol , SSG! I knew you were going to lure me into long talk.

A woman's social independence from a man doesn't mean she cannot want one. Or that she cannot want to be domestic. Or that she must never accept money from a man. It just means that she's a self-determining entity in society, complete by herself, and free to make choices where an arbitrary man's opinion on the matter is irrelevant. What I mean by that last bit? Choosing to be a teacher or a nurse because men find soldiering or engineering "too hard for a woman"; deciding to buy a hatchback instead of a proper sedan because men would find you "less approachable"; staying in your parents house until you're forty (when you're unmarried) so that men would think you're a good homely girl. So, generally censoring yourself, and refusing to start out your life because you haven't been joined with a man. That's the independence which feminism advocates: you are your own person.

We are not put in boxes of other people's expectations; whether that box be a "traditional housewife" or a "career girl". Feminism allows women value themselves, and give expression to their individual desires. Choice. If as a feminist you feel pressure to become a career woman even when you don't want to be one, then you have not been emancipated. (Please read my article on feminism. To the end)

A woman who has a full understanding of feminism is not going to be pressured by it. It is liberating and makes you (as a woman) the focus of your life. Men shouldn't be intimidated by it either, because a traditional man can still find what he is looking for in the PERSONAL values of a traditional girl. But the notion that feminism tries to kill is that "all women" must fit into this box simply because they're women; and "all men" must fit into that box because they're men. Thereby, it gives every individual (not just women, but men as well) freedom to express themselves beyond the traditional gender roles. Some people cannot handle a world without these boxes because then, whatever inadequacies that have been ascribed to the female gender (or male gender) become your personal inadequacies. So they prefer to hide in those boxes and have all women to be branded weak as a curtesy.

Someone once alluded to the fact that Beyonce's feminism was a sham because she's now married and submissive to a husband who has also got the temerity to cheat on her. What I see here is a person who is already so used to telling a woman what to be and how to react to her situations, doing more of the same. Feminism let's YOU BE YOU. The aim is to eradicate oppression. You are referring to Amara. She isn't less feminist for being married. She's done her basic responsibility as a feminist woman by exercising her right to choose for HERSELF and not society. We aren't all going to want the same things; that's the beauty of individualism. Or feminism.

I've rambled on............and I haven't given you the list you requested. But I don't think a long list is even required. The characteristic of a feminist woman: self esteem, self awareness, self love.

makydebbie:
Asin they can't come to defend her.


For her to think engagement ring is what makes a woman happy, you can see the kind of feminist she is.
One of her threads, she said something like, "Even though, I'm a feminist I still appreciate men". And I asked her why would she say that? Is feminism about giving and not giving men honor when due? She didn't reply. So my dear, you can see where her 'feminism' stand comes from. She thinks as a feminist, she shouldn't praise men.


No disturb your fine head this morning biko.

How can one defend stupidity, it simply means one is stupid too. That's the difference between the real/brilliant feminists and the dumb/confused ones. The latter all ran to her defense.

Lol.. I didn't even see that comment of hers before I concluded she's one of the dumb ones. (apologies amara, mincing words is not just my forte ).
That shows how warped their minds are. It's funny.. lol so because you are a feminist you shouldn't praise men kikikiki . Joke of the millennium! Babe make I just stop before I take whining cause trouble .

Lol... I won't anymore o, what you just typed about that woman weak me! I can't deal. Lemme come and be going

Amarabae:
Cowardice is being afraid to quote me and say that thing you are saying.

When somebody's opinion on social media gets under your skin, then know that you are EMOTIONALLY SICK.

Life don't begin and end on social media.

BiafranBushBoy:


What d fvck is this?

This shoulda been the chapter 1 of a story!!....

Smh..

RuthDaniels:
How can one defend stupidity, it simply means one is stupid too. That's the difference between the real/brilliant feminists and the dumb/confused ones. The latter all ran to her defense.

Lol.. I didn't even see that comment of hers before I concluded she's one of the dumb ones. (apologies amara, mincing words is not just my forte ).
That shows how warped their minds are. It's funny.. lol so because you are a feminist you shouldn't praise men kikikiki . Joke of the millennium! Babe make I just stop before I take whining cause trouble .

Lol... I won't anymore o, what you just typed about that woman weak me! I can't deal. Lemme come and be going

donstan18:
Imagine single, fresh and young ladies teaching an e-goat married woman what it takes to be an intelligent woman

BiafranBushBoy:


Look at all the title you gave yourself @ ur siggy.

All you've achieved is rambling Feminism from one romance thread to another..

You sure you gat responsibilities at home? Or your husband doing all the job while you are a full time house wife shouting feminism up and down!!

MissWrite:





It'll only take a second to scroll past it, boo. Where and how have you been keeping yourself? You've blanked me .

BiafranBushBoy:

Who are the fresh single ladies?
I take that as a joke. Lol

Amarabae:

Your mates are married with kids and managing homes but you sleep on nairaland arguing up and down.

Sort your bitter life out first.
And go get a job.

No responsible guy will be so ideal and wasting his time arguing with a woman online.

Shame.

MissWrite:



Lol , SSG! I knew you were going to lure me into long talk.

A woman's social independence from a man doesn't mean she cannot want one. Or that she cannot want to be domestic. Or that she must never accept money from a man. It just means that she's a self-determining entity in society, complete by herself, and free to make choices where an arbitrary man's opinion on the matter is irrelevant. What I mean by that last bit? Choosing to be a teacher or a nurse because men find soldiering or engineering "too hard for a woman"; deciding to buy a hatchback instead of a proper sedan because men would find you "less approachable"; staying in your parents house until you're forty (when you're unmarried) so that men would think you're a good homely girl. So, generally censoring yourself, and refusing to start out your life because you haven't been joined with a man. That's the independence which feminism advocates: you are your own person.

We are not put in boxes of other people's expectations; whether that box be a "traditional housewife" or a "career girl". Feminism allows women value themselves, and give expression to their individual desires. Choice. If as a feminist you feel pressure to become a career woman even when you don't want to be one, then you have not been emancipated. (Please read my article on feminism. To the end)

A woman who has a full understanding of feminism is not going to be pressured by it. It is liberating and makes you (as a woman) the focus of your life. Men shouldn't be intimidated by it either, because a traditional man can still find what he is looking for in the PERSONAL values of a traditional girl. But the notion that feminism tries to kill is that "all women" must fit into this box simply because they're women; and "all men" must fit into that box because they're men. Thereby, it gives every individual (not just women, but men as well) freedom to express themselves beyond the traditional gender roles. Some people cannot handle a world without these boxes because then, whatever inadequacies that have been ascribed to the female gender (or male gender) become your personal inadequacies. So they prefer to hide in those boxes and have all women to be branded weak as a curtesy.

Someone once alluded to the fact that Beyonce's feminism was a sham because she's now married and submissive to a husband who has also got the temerity to cheat on her. What I see here is a person who is already so used to telling a woman what to be and how to react to her situations, doing more of the same.

Feminism let's YOU BE YOU. The aim is to eradicate oppression. You are referring to Amara. She isn't less feminist for being married. She's done her basic responsibility as a feminist woman by exercising her right to choose for HERSELF and not society. We aren't all going to want the same things; that's the beauty of individualism. Or feminism.

I've rambled on............and I haven't given you the list you requested. But I don't think a long list is even required. The characteristic of a feminist woman: self esteem, self awareness, self love.

donstan18:


At this juncture of troll

They are damsels, not just fresh

MissWrite:





Some people just don't want to know, sweetie.

Lol... Please make out some time to educate some people here, their way of reasoning is bringing shame to Feminism as a whole. Thank you

BTW I saw your reply to Grey.. Nice one

BiafranBushBoy:


Lol...

Oriaku, woman Advocate, Home giver, Fulltime House wife, Queen to a king,

Only you. No go do Midwife work, come here dey shout feminism.

My wife is pregnant, can u help? Madam Midwife oshi radarada...

BiafranBushBoy:

Lol...
Oriaku, woman Advocate, Home giver, Fulltime House wife, Queen to a king,
Only you. No go do Midwife work, come here dey shout feminism.
My wife is pregnant, can u help? Madam Midwife oshi radarada...

BiafranBushBoy:

Lol...
Oriaku, woman Advocate, Home giver, Fulltime House wife, Queen to a king,
Only you. No go do Midwife work, come here dey shout feminism.
My wife is pregnant, can u help? Madam Midwife oshi radarada...

Amarabae:

Because I just remind you of your responsibility,
You now lie that you are married,

Which lady will marry a jobless 24/7 nairaland addict?
So horrible

BiafranBushBoy:

From chapter 1 to 6, I posted just 6 times.
From chapter 1 to 6, you ve posted 45 times...
Oya, who is the addict?
Lol.... Full time housewife feminist like you.

BiafranBushBoy:

From chapter 1 to 6, I posted just 6 times.
From chapter 1 to 6, you ve posted 45 times...
Oya, who is the addict?
Lol.... Full time housewife feminist like you.

greiboy:
I never said I hate her, I simply said i dislike her. Hate is a very strong word.

I explained further in my subsequent post. I don't dislike her just for post, but obvious display of hypocrisy very evident on this thread.

BiafranBushBoy:


From chapter 1 to 6, I posted just 6 times.

From chapter 1 to 6, you ve posted 45 times...

Oya, who is the addict?

Lol.... Full time housewife feminist like you.

Shugavee:
no u dont expect anything from feminist lady!! U don't even hv that right!!