Olusharp:


One of the major reasons why we have a large number of divorced marriage and crash relationship is owing to high rates of infidelity among couples.

Infidelity is an act carried out by one or both couples in terms of sexual activities.

When described in terms of marriage, infidelity can be liken to Adultery, cheating etc.


Infidelity in most cases breeds jealousy, mistrust, hatred and dampen the image of the partner involved.

It should be noted that there is bound to be a rise to have sexual relationship outside marriage but what will hinder it from happening is the self control and willpower from both sides.

In most cases, men are always the culprit of infidelity and cheating.

For men, it is not about the beauty of their wives.

Because in some cases some men are very fortunate to get married to beautiful wives.

The beautiful wives may have the ‘front side’ and ‘back side’ in moderate size but men will still men.

The case of American celebrity couple, Rapper Jay Z and Beyonce comes to mind.

Despite, How beautiful Beyonce is, Jay Z disclosed he had cheated on her.

Now, the main question is why do many married men cheat?

Below are some of the reasons:

1. Sexual Dissatisfaction: One of the reason most men claim push them to cheating is because of sexual dissatisfaction.

They opine that their wives are not satisfying them sexually and they had no option than to look elsewhere.

2. Breakdown in communication link: A poor flow of communication in the family can make either of the two sides seek succour outside marriage.

Once there is a gap in communication link, most men tends to look outside.

3. Insecurities: Many men fear old age, most times they believe the women and themselves are aging fast.

And really no one wants to get old but whether we like it or not, it is inevitable.

Because of fear of getting old, most men turn to young ladies to supposedly ‘renew’ their aging blood.

4. Most men are polygamous in nature: This is one point most men who engage in cheating bounce on.

In fact men are polygamous in nature but it takes being faithful, self control and willpower to combat infidelity.

https://thrillngr.com/2018/03/31/infidelity-reasons-why-many-married-men-cheat/

Bullshyyte!
Men cheat because they turn their back on polygamy, a natural social phenomenon. They choose to live artificially.

Manhood should epitomize, among other things, leadership and moral grace, but salacious men that are captives to their loins have striped manhood of its dignity.
Men are not promiscuous in nature, those who have become, have only chosen to become.

HOLYDICK:



Nah!! every gender cheats no need
Women are gradually overtaking in the cheating game

Have you interviewed every woman to come to that conclusion? You're just putting your limited experience with women on the whole gender to make yourself feel better. Women and men cheat but there is no way for you to conclude who's in the lead.

RuthDaniels:
You will have to wait

That's because Ladies tend to be more civil, responsible, cultured and matured than Guys even when hurt. Guys would use derogatory words like [b]biitches, whorres etc to quality ladies that cheat. Would you have us use "Only dogs cheat"?

I have never believed Men and Women are equal, I have always believed Men are babies while Women are their Mothers. Little wonder we always have to clean up your mess and even take the fault. [/b]

when did bitch turn to a term to describe cheating ladies... Nigerians tho, bitch is a normal word in America, ladies use the term most when they're speaking with fellow ladies. men use it too, it's a normal word in the west.

Mayydayy:
I use to say to myself.I will never do it.now am afraid am becoming like my father.it wasn't my mum's fault.but now I understand my father.

As a man.never say never.

Smh

GloriaNinja:
MAINLY, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE, WHETHER SEX SATISFACTION OR NOT. IT'S IN THE BLOOD OF MEN ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN MEN.

After seen what u get I can stay with u for ever

With over a million sperm it would be difficult not to cheat o.k. Our great grand fathers were lucky to have had more than one wife but these days Christianity has limited our generation to one wife.

RuthDaniels:
Not all men cheat.. that I know, that means some men have been able to overcome the so called polygamous nature of theirs and these men should be emulated.

Yes... A big deal breaker,the problem isn't forgiving him but trusting him again. I hardly trust, when I do, I trust deeply. Breaking that trust is like ending it all.

RuthDaniels:
Not all men cheat.. that I know, that means some men have been able to overcome the so called polygamous nature of theirs and these men should be emulated.

Yes... A big deal breaker,the problem isn't forgiving him but trusting him again. I hardly trust, when I do, I trust deeply. Breaking that trust is like ending it all.

I hope the ones you know... are not rich or are clergies.

Before you say you know some that don't cheat... please tell me they have enough money also.

You see there is a difference between money/power and just money. When you have money that gives you power

You won't blink twice to cheat (you will think it is normal)... because no one can condemn you.

When you just have money... little money... you will be scared of attack from outside and home.

Now let me tell you something men also grow out of this but it takes longer time... we call it "seen it all".

Lastly... we can all be all perfect husband... lovey dovey... caring...
And still cheat you won't even smell a rat in 20 years.(women are champion of this though).

pDudd:
We are polygamous in nature, that's it.

Then don't get married to one woman ok?

People cheat because they are married to someone they dont know very well and they dont love them. They just got married for ulterior motive.

GloriaNinja:
MAINLY, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE, WHETHER SEX SATISFACTION OR NOT. IT'S IN THE BLOOD OF MEN ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN MEN.

you have to type all that in caps to prove a point

totorimi:
People cheat because they are married to someone they dont know very well and they dont love them. They just got married for ulterior motive.

Cheating goes beyond what you wrote....

yemre:


Not all men my dear, I'm a man and I'm married! If u don't push him outside either by your character, advise from your single male and female friends or third-party generally, you are hard working and willing to take care of certain things before he gets back from work and give him ffood, his due respect and intimacy when he so desires, honestly, rather than cheat on u, he'll rather wait till he gets home to be with u.

Meanwhile, if u deny him any of these, especially when u are troublesome and kinda rub shoulder with him probably because he is broke or u earn more than him, believe me even if he tells u he isn't cheating, u should not believe him.

No excuse for cheating

Who are the men cheating with? Are you saying that the girls they cheat with are not in a relationship.

It takes two to tangle, for every 1000 men that cheat, about 60% of the girls they do it with are also cheating

iRepNaija1:


Have you interviewed every woman to come to that conclusion? You're just putting your limited experience with women on the whole gender to make yourself feel better. Women and men cheat but there is no way for you to conclude who's in the lead.

Wow u fail to comprehend this simple sentence i just wrote even to the point of stating my limited experience.. Well news flash for you am not talking of only 9ja cos dats wat ur thinking. When i said such am referring to the whole globe .do u even read or see wats going on around the whole world or ur focus is just buhari wahala and 9ja?i said wat i said statistically
Dont get me wrong pls
Happy easter Sunday

when men cheat n caught in d act dey re 4given by their wives,but wen women cheat dey re thrown,mosttimes I wish God as nt given dat grace to Nigerian men..#happyeaster NL,e e rep April 1st I rep April 16th,happy bday to us

Issa awa work ooo.

There is no man that has a 'working' preek that does not cheat. That you have not caught your man cheating doesn't mean he does not cheat or hasn't cheated.

The way women of today even give puscy for free is alarming and it is much worse when they know that you are married.

A married friend of mine told a girl who had been making seductive moves at him 'thank you, sis for the offer but I am sorry, I am a married man with two kids'. She responded furiously "so what? You are even married... that means you are responsible. Now I am more interested. Your wife will not know unless you tell her and i know you won't. Does she have what I have-my tummy is flat as fvck, check me out na".

Now the man is having thoughts and images flying in his head. Madam at home is looking like elderly woman with big tummy, smells awful with unkempt finger and toe nails. Before him is a gorgeous young lady looking sharp, clean, fit and smelling all nice.

And you say the man will not cheat... please.

HALBRIZZ:
The issue of cheating is not perculiar to men only as wives tendto lose interest in sex after having babies and as such shift their attention to their children rather than their husband. Even, cheating is in men DNA cos even the father of faith, lay with his wife's maid.

excuse me read ur bible well it was sarah dat gave him d maid.

RuthDaniels:
The "Men are polygamous in nature " excuse is the most annoying of all.

There is no justifiable reason to cheat on your partner, all are excuses of a weak man!

Excuses of men that refuse to cultivate self control.

That polygamous in nature thing really irritates my ears. And they actually believe it.

don't blame us... even in animal kingdom, male dominates. Be it Lion, elephant, tiger, hippo, dogs... even d birds, seals, name dem.
All does have more than one female. So why cage us with one woman.
Next tym, women call men dogs, pls remind dem male dogs have more than one bitch to smooch.

Nigerian men cheat because our women don't give blow jobs when they get married �

There are three people you can never advice in this world.
1. A woman in love.
2. A man with money.
3. Buhari supporters.

walepackage:
nope.I am talking about the quote of the first commenter which you countered against in your viewpoint.Inbetween,whats your own view of'weakling'

It takes thr GRACE OF GOD FROM A REAL BORN AGAIN HEART to resist temptation..... Ability to resist is the KEY

not all men and women cheat... those(both Men and Women who allow Bible principles to guide their lives doesn't cheat.. and they tend to enjoy dia marriage more and experience marital bliss... while cheat elements plung into many troubles... that's why u see some dying b4 there tym... there's karma if one disobeys God's law especially marriage... be faithful to enjoy the Gift of marriage and enjoy ur life..

only God knows how many ladies are sliding into mopha, hushpuppi, davido, cdq etc Instagram DM. yet men are polygamous in nature. SMH

Thé two sides commit infidels...


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BabaRamota1980:


Bullshyyte!
Men cheat because they turn their back on polygamy, a natural social phenomenon. They choose to live artificially.

Please can you expound on the bolded.

Most a times, men tend to be loyal to their partners but if there is any slight mistake by the girl..Men tend to overreact...but cheating is a choice thing...we can do without cheating if we sit to always see the good in our ladies...

The experience I had abroad marvelled me, you know the Europeans its one man one woman always cuddlled together, constantly pecking each other even in buses and trains, when a lay man looks and sees all this he will believe that the men don't cheat, my finding is that European men even cheap more than African.men, just give me.man any space you will find him in brothel, the Benin babes in Europe there number one customer is the married European men so what am saying I'm essence is to quote my Pastor that it takes only a REGENERATED man not to cheap on his wife, that is can only be achieved with the help of the Holy spirit

NwaAmaikpe:


The ugly truth is; men must cheat.
If you are a man and you don't cheat then there's a problem.

Every man who has the opportunity and the resources to cheat must cheat.
And by resources I don't mean money. I mean a preek.

A man's preek must stand in admiration when he sees another nàked lady, a man must look back when a pretty woman walks past, a man must yearn to know how the woman next door's tunnel feels like. It's nature.

It is uncontrollable. Even pastors can't control it, born-agains can't....a preek can not get salvation.
If you can't get yourself to cheat, check your self-esteem.

The bible says we should go forth and multiply.
You can't multiply with only one woman, you only add with one woman.
This makes me believe that any man who dies with a bodycount of less than 80 is at risk of going to hellfire for disobedience.
But if you must cheat, cheat with a married woman.

Bros. You sound so sure just as sure as you are when narrating how Naija lost to India 99-0. But my dear, your opinion needs a little Extra u- turn. All married men do not cheat.
BUILD YOURSELF RELIGIOUSLY AND SPIRITUALLY and you’ll realise the Possibility.

Answer:
(1) Sexual greed...that is, dude is never satisfied...wants to bang every girl in town...

(2) Ungodliness.

(3) Waywardness.

These are the major things. Every other one is secondary.

dollyjoy:
I think all men cheat. Especially the married ones.

and you dad