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Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by nukky77(f): 8:05am On Apr 01, 2018
How about husband that has low libido and does not satisfied his woman, should the wife cheat also? You thought is only women that fail in themes of satisfaction.
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by MissRaine69(f): 8:05am On Apr 01, 2018
Women cheat more .....men are stupid enough to get caught there are many men raising kids that have none of their DNA
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:08am On Apr 01, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

The ugly truth is; men must cheat.
If you are a man and you don't cheat then there's a problem.

Every man who has the opportunity and the resources to cheat must cheat.
And by resources I don't mean money. I mean a preek.

A man's preek must stand in admiration when he sees another nàked lady, a man must look back when a pretty woman walks past, a man must yearn to know how the woman next door's tunnel feels like. It's nature.

It is uncontrollable. Even pastors can't control it, born-agains can't....a preek can not get salvation.
If you can't get yourself to cheat, check your self-esteem.

The bible says we should go forth and multiply.
You can't multiply with only one woman, you only add with one woman.
This makes me believe that any man who dies with a bodycount of less than 80 is at risk of going to hellfire for disobedience.
But if you must cheat, cheat with a married woman.

not everything you are capable of doing that you do.

dangote is capable of buying bugatti yet he didn't.
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by walepackage(m): 8:29am On Apr 01, 2018
Evangelistofluv:


It takes thr GRACE OF GOD FROM A REAL BORN AGAIN HEART to resist temptation..... Ability to resist is the KEY
you really get it.Its a difficult task to comeby.Thou,few are exeptional.With this our contemporary era, alot of social vices can easily sway away even the most righteous man.Only the GRACE of GOD will help.

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Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by skales67(m): 8:44am On Apr 01, 2018
GloriaNinja:
undecided MAINLY, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE, WHETHER SEX SATISFACTION OR NOT. IT'S IN THE BLOOD OF MEN ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN MEN.

Congratulations for breaking the world record of dating all Nigerian men to know that cheating is in their blood.
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:49am On Apr 01, 2018
ImaIma1:


Excuses of men that refuse to cultivate self control.

That polygamous in nature thing really irritates my ears. And they actually believe it.
Lol Sis I've given up on some Men.

I've got lots of mentions on this thread justifying the quote... What can be done with people who have chosen to be lost? Lol
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by autaspakladi: 8:51am On Apr 01, 2018
I don't cheat, I only quench the feelings...
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:55am On Apr 01, 2018
GloriaNinja:
undecided MAINLY, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE, WHETHER SEX SATISFACTION OR NOT. IT'S IN THE BLOOD OF MEN ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN MEN.
Lol its in all men not only Nigerian men
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:55am On Apr 01, 2018
RuthDaniels:
You will have to wait cheesy

That's because Ladies tend to be more civil, responsible, cultured and matured than Guys even when hurt. Guys would use derogatory words like biitches, whorres etc to quality ladies that cheat. Would you have us use "Only dogs cheat"?

I have never believed Men and Women are equal, I have always believed Men are babies while Women are their Mothers. Little wonder we always have to clean up your mess and even take the fault. tongue

The red bold face, that's complete hogwash. Women are more emotional when hurt as evidenced from their hysterical outbursts like street fighting, destruction of properties, stabbing and even killing when heartbroken.

You try too hard and this your post just shows it. Trying to prove a point while ignoring facts is just plain stupidity.

You write and reason like a kid. I hope you get well soon. Fake Nigerian Feminist

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Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:58am On Apr 01, 2018
RuthDaniels:
The "Men are polygamous in nature " excuse is the most annoying of all.

There is no justifiable reason to cheat on your partner, all are excuses of a weak man!
You need to understand the term "cheating" first before u conclude. Sex is just peculiar to men. Is there any justifiable reason why a woman should collect money from a man outside and not tell her husband?

Kindly reply
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Lalas247(f): 9:00am On Apr 01, 2018
MissRaine69:
Women cheat more .....men are stupid enough to get caught there are many men raising kids that have none of their DNA
so true!

guys are just too dumb they get caught..
a lady can be in a marriage all 4 kids ain't her husband and he has no clue ... some take it to their grave .....
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by humilitypays(m): 9:03am On Apr 01, 2018
RuthDaniels:
The "Men are polygamous in nature " excuse is the most annoying of all.

There is no justifiable reason to cheat on your partner, all are excuses of a weak man!
But that men are polygamous in nature is the only reason men cheat. its in their blood and vein to desire to sleep with any female that entices them sexually.

until u become a man, u wont understand this because there is no way u will believe what u dont know or experience.

it takes absolute fear of God,total commitment to spiritual cause and fear of societal backlash and legal consequences that will make a man have sex with his wife till he departs earth.

white men Nigerian ladies reference as the most faithful men are the worst, it is their laws which favours women when divorce happens that makes them seem faithful out of fear of the law and loosing their wealth, but once they travel out of the country for work or business, they embark on cheating spree...if u have worked with white expatriates u will understand this.


Pastors and spiritual leaders who remain faithful to their wife do so out of spiritual commitment and fear of whatever they worship.


Don't doubt it my sister, its real...its the curse of man, its not easy, pity men if u dont know cry

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Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by humilitypays(m): 9:06am On Apr 01, 2018
Lalas247:

so true!

guys are just too dumb they get caught..
a lady can be in a marriage all 4 kids ain't her husband and he has no clue ... some take it to their grave .....
somehow u are right but once a woman is truly in love, she doesnt cheat....once a woman loves a man and the man provides for her material and financial needs and also cares for her emotionally, she will never cheat, in fact other men will be disgusting to her when they try to act sexual towards her but even a man in love, who is loved by a very hot woman will still want to cheat with another hotter or less hotter looking lady that entices him if he gets the chance and knows no consequences follows if he do.

Note: a man will love his wife and still end up cheating on her, so at times, when a man cheats on his wife, it doesnt mean he doesnt love his wife but before a woman cheats on her husband, emotion, affection and love must have gone.


women mostly cheat when they marry a man they do not love but a man may marry the love of his life and still cheat on her.

men have sex for fun without attaching emotion to it but before a woman have sex, a married woman at that, she must have been emotionally attached to the man she ends up cheating with.


women are emotional beings while men are visual beings.

President Buhari for in stance can go so low to sleep with unknown student girl with no reputation but Aisha Buhari can never imagine a nobody guy sleeping with her, and if she must cheat on Buhari, it must be her long time friend or past love she is emotionally attracted to or a well known man of her husband caliber or even bigger, thats how men and women are wired by nature.

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Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by fatiuabdul: 9:10am On Apr 01, 2018
4. Most men are polygamous in nature: This is one point most men who engage in cheating bounce on.

Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Lalas247(f): 9:10am On Apr 01, 2018
humilitypays:
somehow u are right but once a woman is truly in love, she doesnt cheat....once a woman loves a man and the man provides for her material and financial needs and also cares for her emotionally, she will never cheat, in fact other men will be disgusting to her when they try to act sexual towards her but even a man in love, who is loved by a very hot woman will still want to cheat with another hotter or less hotter looking lady that entices him if he gets the chance and knows no consequences follows if he do

yes when we truly love .. its forever until he gives us a reason not to love again ...

but its true .. even my mum that's no longer with my dad... till today she refuse to date after over 15 year... think its love still

but we ladies love harder ... wink
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 9:11am On Apr 01, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

You need to understand the term "cheating" first before u conclude. Sex is just peculiar to men. Is there any justifiable reason why a woman should collect money from a man outside and not tell her husband?

Kindly reply
You are right, Cheating does not necessarily connote sexual infidelity. One can cheat on a partner emotionally without getting physical with another person.


There is no justified reason smiley
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Lalas247(f): 9:11am On Apr 01, 2018
fatiuabdul:


4. Most men are polygamous in nature: This is one point most men who engage in cheating bounce on.

its their go to referrence...
people use this to justify and make it seem OK for guys anyway ..
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 9:22am On Apr 01, 2018
humilitypays:
But that men are polygamous in nature is the only reason men cheat. its in their blood and vein to desire to sleep with any female that entices them sexually.

until u become a man, u wont understand this because there is no way u will believe what u dont know or experience.

it takes absolute fear of God,total commitment to spiritual cause and fear of societal backlash and legal consequences that will make a man have sex with his wife till he departs earth.

white men Nigerian ladies reference as the most faithful men are the worst, it is their laws which favours women when divorce happens that makes them seem faithful out of fear of the law and loosing their wealth, but once they travel out of the country for work or business, they embark on cheating spree...if u have worked with white expatriates u will understand this.


Pastors and spiritual leaders who remain faithful to their wife do so out of spiritual commitment and fear of whatever they worship.


Don't doubt it my sister, its real...its the curse of man, its not easy, pity men if u dont know cry
I am not disputing the fact that men are polygamous in nature, in my conversation with Walepackage, I agree that men are visual beings, moved by what they see.

What I oppose is the unwillingness of some called men to control themselves. The exude men are polygamous is over used, it's boring and annoying. Guys can do better. If you are not ready to tame your testosterone why make marriage vows?

Control is the key. smiley
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Okeji(m): 9:50am On Apr 01, 2018
Originalsly:

Agree or disagree...this is the bitter truth. Allow a man to hoose any woman in the world as his wife.... after a while.... he will see something in another woman that will ehmmm....sexcite him. If his resistance is not strong... he will cheat. Most men hav3 weak resistance when it comes to womem.
Exactly d reason why Allah d most wise recommends that muslim men married 1,2,3 or 4 wives if u are capable n can b equitable amongst them. This would not doubt curbs extramarital affairs we av today. By d time u get married to a tall person as d first wife, second wife not too tall, third wife perhaps, light or fair in complexion n 4th dark in complexion u would av no course to still b cheating on them again

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Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by UDUJ(m): 9:54am On Apr 01, 2018
RuthDaniels:
You will have to wait cheesy

That's because Ladies tend to be more civil, responsible, cultured and matured than Guys even when hurt. Guys would use derogatory words like biitches, whorres etc to quality ladies that cheat. Would you have us use "Only dogs cheat"?

I have never believed Men and Women are equal, I have always believed Men are babies while Women are their Mothers. Little wonder we always have to clean up your mess and even take the fault. tongue


Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


The red bold face, that's complete hogwash. Women are more emotional when hurt as evidenced from their hysterical outbursts like street fighting, destruction of properties, stabbing and even killing when heartbroken.

You try too hard and this your post just shows it. Trying to prove a point while ignoring facts is just plain stupidity.

You write and reason like a kid. I hope you get well soon. Fake Nigerian Feminist

grin grin cheesy waiting for her counter (doubt she has any) lmao

Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Gerrard59(m): 10:01am On Apr 01, 2018
Okeji:
Exactly d reason why Allah d most wise recommends that muslim men married 1,2,3 or 4 wives if u are capable n can b equitable amongst them. This would not doubt curbs extramarital affairs we av today. By d time u get married to a tall person as d first wife, second wife not too tall, third wife perhaps, light or fair in complexion n 4th dark in complexion u would av no course to still b cheating on them again


This is false. Polygamy doesn't reduce or stop men from cheating.
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 01, 2018
UDUJ:





grin grin cheesy waiting for her counter (doubt she has any) lmao
Lol..I only reply people who can sensibly, logically and constructively argue their points and the bbbbbb guy is lacking all these qualities.



It will be a waste on my path to engage in conversation with an unstable, uncultured and unlearned being. Quit the wait Bro, you will be wasting your time.smiley
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by UDUJ(m): 10:04am On Apr 01, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Lol..I only reply people who can sensibly, logically and constructively argue their points and the bbbbbb guy is lacking all these qualities.



It will be a waste on my path to engage in conversation with an unstable, uncultured and unlearned being. Quit the wait Bro, you will be wasting your time.smiley

cheesy grin This Ruth eh, that was harsh. Looks like the two of you had some issues in the past. Anyway have a nice sunday smiley
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 10:10am On Apr 01, 2018
UDUJ:


cheesy grin This Ruth eh, that was harsh. Looks like the two of you had some issues in the past. Anyway have a nice sunday smiley
Lol...I wouldn't know, last time I got a mention from him, he was all sweet. The reason I called him Unstable.


Happy Easter, and have a nice Sunday too smiley
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Lotechi(m): 10:14am On Apr 01, 2018
RuthDaniels:
The "Men are polygamous in nature " excuse is the most annoying of all.

There is no justifiable reason to cheat on your partner, all are excuses of a weak man!
. The truth More often than not can be annoying. I am not supporting anything, just being the "devils advocate".
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 10:17am On Apr 01, 2018
Lotechi:
. The truth More often than not can be annoying. I am not supporting anything, just being the "devils advocate".
grin
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Suleimaan: 10:35am On Apr 01, 2018
greiboy:
People cheat because they want to cheat

Shikena

All of these are just excuses

Even armed robbers have excuses too
A machine will only work effectively if it's used according to the instructions of the maker. Man will only have rest of mind when he submits to the instructions of his creator-Allah, Who's forbidden all forms of extra marital affairs and he permitted polygamous to some degree. Going against it will be fighting against your biological composition. How foolish will that be?
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Nobody: 10:45am On Apr 01, 2018
Suleimaan:

A machine will only work effectively if it's used according to the instructions of the maker. Man will only have rest of mind when he submits to the instructions of his creator-Allah, Who's forbidden all forms of extra marital affairs and he permitted polygamous to some degree. Going against it will be fighting against your biological composition. How foolish will that be?

Unfortunately, these instructions are entirely applicable to Muslims who follow the teachings of the prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) Of which I am not a part of.

I subscribe to the principles of common sense, which makes it comfortable for me to be satisfied with one woman at a time, just like I will expect the woman to be loyal to me.
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Antichristus: 11:25am On Apr 01, 2018
Since the beginning of mankind, men in ancient Hebrew/Jewish, Mesopotamian, Caucasian, African, Native American, Arabian and Aboriginal cultures procreated with as many women as they could. This idea of one man one woman is something the NT church tried to enforce. David with countless wives and concubines remains, as I write, "the man after God's own heart." Most women are actually deceiving themselves thinking their husbands don't have side chicks. They actually do but you don't and won't ever know. If you do and try to rock the boat, you do so at the peril of all concerned. Your great-grandma took it as part of life. Fact! Wise women who discover their husbands having side chicks pretend not to see anything.
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by walepackage(m): 11:27am On Apr 01, 2018
RuthDaniels:
I am not disputing the fact that men are polygamous in nature, in my conversation with Walepackage, I agree that men are visual beings, moved by what they see.

What I oppose is the unwillingness of some called men to control themselves. The exude men are polygamous is over used, it's boring and annoying. Guys can do better. If you are not ready to tame your testosterone why make marriage vows?

Control is the key. smiley
to be candid with you.Its a very difficult situation.For the fact that its an 'innate trait' which many men tend to fight here and there in their social mundane.Total Control of it,is a mere impossible.With the current state of our society, its difficult to adhere to that 'dogma' for long cos the inner impulse of man will always ask.Thats why we 'consciously or unconsciously' do things atimes that we regret/unhappy about.Thou,i am not talking about 'chronic cheaters' in relationship/marriage.
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by Antichristus: 11:32am On Apr 01, 2018
Suleimaan:

A machine will only work effectively if it's used according to the instructions of the maker. Man will only have rest of mind when he submits to the instructions of his creator-Allah, Who's forbidden all forms of extra marital affairs and he permitted polygamous to some degree. Going against it will be fighting against your biological composition. How foolish will that be?

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) had 11 wives and two concubines (side chicks) called Rayhana bint Zayd and Maria al-Qibtiyya. So, what are you talking about man?
Re: Infidelity – Reasons Why Many Married Men Cheat by NwaIgboBoy(m): 11:46am On Apr 01, 2018
The truth is that konji is just like buhari only come to distroy mariages

MY QUESTION
Maried man wey dey too masturbate is he cheating on his wife??

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