wristbangle:


Trying to be sarcastic or what?

Anyway advice guys should pick from your pathetic write-ups is to make money and settle for financially stable ladies.

Broke ladies should go for broke guys.

Rich guys should go for rich ladies.

cool.

TheUpsetGirl:


not working yet.. lemme graduate first
but a lady that earn Less than 90k shouldn't think about marriage

Mchewww..instead of focusing on your education you’re here creating a nuisance on social media...the recent influx of kidults on this forum is a growing concern.

That's just the simple truth....we ladies should have a source of income before venturing into marriage ...it takes two to run a successful home orelse it will get to a point the load will be too much to bear for a average man

rubbish.

talking nonsense

everybody go the claim relationship expert upandan

The fact remains that a lady has to be financially independent so as not to become a liability to the man... She must have something doing

TheUpsetGirl:


not working yet.. lemme graduate first
but a lady that earn Less than 90k shouldn't think about marriage

WOW! But Not Applicable to all, cos not every lady can/will earn that much. and should not stop them from getting married. but it's a good thing.

Tessyama1:
Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin has advised single ladies who don't earn at least N150k a month to forget about marriage for now.
He wrote on Instagram;
"If you’re a single lady and you’re not earning at least N150,000 a month you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage yet. This is for your own security & sanity in marriage. Based on hundreds of mails I receive daily from posters. I’ve noticed a trend in behavior : Commitment before finances. Most ladies go into marriage with the hopes that the man will take care of everything . Some even see marriage as their way out of responsibilities such as paying bills, etc. A lot of married women are unhappy in their homes but can’t leave because they are not independent, some don’t even have transport money to go back to their parents house. Secure the bag first"
https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/04/lady-earning-n150k-month-shouldnt-marriage-joro-olumofin.html

swiz123:
True talk joro

However, not everyone will appreciate this advice, especially my nl friend who works in a buscuit factory

eezeribe:
I hope those hungry girls in romance section would see this especially the UPSET one that sells biscuits and the other office typist that growls like a WOLF.

This post is for those broke hungry nairaland girls like TheUpsetGirl that works in a biscuit factory and earns less than 30k a month

dominique:
I totally agree. Her income doesn't necessarily have to be up to 150k but she should be financially independent to an extent. Over 70% of women wailing on social media about their miserable marriages are ones who can't leave because they can't survive on their own. Going into a marriage with the hopes of becoming a man's responsibility is the biggest mistake any woman can make

exactly
I have a friend who's feeding the family now. Before marriage her husband worked in oil company

chigoziri2403:
It takes the Grace of God for a Lady that earns that amount to be submissive to her husband ,especially if he earns less

Ordinary 150k will make a woman proud? Women that earn 600k nko? Calm down abeg.

TheUpsetGirl:
if that's the case, 80% of Nigerian ladies won't get married. lol

90% of Nigerian ladies are kinda broke.

You mean 90% of girls in your area right?

tunjilana:
He shouldn't put a price tag. My own view for every female around me including those of my household and daughters I have and will have are

---Whatever lifestyle you aspire to live in marriage, work towards being able to afford that lifestyle. When your work has taken you to a point where you can comfortably and sustainably (except life happens) afford close to 60% of that lifestyle, then seek/listen to men who are on the same page with you.

---Don't sit lazy and believe some prince charming will appear from nowhere and make all your dreams come true, it is mutual effort and that way you will have no reason to be bitter or sad. If you both don't hit it, it will be clear you both worked hard to get there and you will likely land in a relatively good place.

This is exactly how to raise a girl child.

No that in marriage, you wish to you wish to travel round the world on vacation, have top-notch healthcare for your kids, wear nice things, feed very well, live in upscale neighborhood and all your aspiration ends at being a school teacher on 30k salary!, when they send you to school your mates are actively hustling 2.1 or firstclass, acquiring skills, trying out businesses but you sit lazy cos the host of heaven have promised you a tears-cleaner husband. You will be dissapointed

If it is beauty, you are not the only beautiful one, if it is bobby or arse, no be only you, good character sef no be only you. And for those kinda guys you have your eyes on, their options are not in any way limited, so there are women with all those physical things you have plus brain, sense of responsibility for ones life and hardwork and the man will pick those before you, If such a man in his delusion of error in judgement mistakingly picks you and you continue with that same mentality, it is only a matter of time before he realizes his mistake then the cheating and resentment starts, he might end up throwing you out for someone who is on same page with him...

Women be wise, fathers & brothers educate the women in your lives

bro you just made a whole lot of sense, but funny enough there are some broke lazy girls who would still get married to rich guys. Ofcourse that is the society we find ourselves

Olalan:
Does anyone still takes this guy serious? He talks sometimes as thou he isn't living in Nigeria, or maybe he isn't aware of the realities on ground in the present day world.

but if you marry a wife that is dependent on you for everything even for money to buy sanitary pad,won't you start getting edgy and seeing her as a liability? Hmnn.the Bottom line or crux of his matter is that don't think your husband will sort out 100 percent of your financial problems because he says "I will take care of you" forgetting that he is human and circumstances can make him.change his.decision.get the point and stop looking for loopholes unnecessarily.marriage is an institution not a poverty alleviation program.it's the financial expectations and pressure we women put on men that drains the love they have.everything baby I want this bay I want that as if he is God that supplies all your wants and needs.

space bookers spoted

tspouse:
Nice talk

I beg snap me make I post my pinshur on Facebook

TheUpsetGirl:
hungry girls are going to finish him today

It seems you're the only hungry one o

Na only you waka today o

ireneidiva:

Ordinary 150k will make a woman proud? Women that earn 600k nko? Calm down abeg.

Please be sincere to yourselve, how many girls do you know earn 150k not to talk of 600k?

ireneidiva:

You mean 90% of girls in your area right?

excuse me, what do you have?
I bet you don't have 300k right now in your account

dominique:
I totally agree. Her income doesn't necessarily have to be up to 150k but she should be financially independent to an extent. Over 70% of women wailing on social media about their miserable marriages are ones who can't leave because they can't survive on their own. Going into a marriage with the hopes of becoming a man's responsibility is the biggest mistake any woman can make

Thank u very much for this. Her income doesn't need to be upto 150k but the most important is being financially stable and independent.
Not that except her income is upto a certain amount before she can say yes to marriage in this country where the hustling for a 50k job is real

TheUpsetGirl:
hungry girls are going to finish him today

The only truthful comment from a lady on this thread...

Hungry broke ladies won't like this thread

Jodha:
Joro talks thrash sometimes....

The woman is not suppose to be the bread winner of the family... Provided she's not idle and she doing something to contribute her own little quota to the family ...it's awk...

He doesn't have to put a price tag to it...

P.s we're in Naija.. Most men hardly earn half to that amount not to talk of women...

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Shugarlord213:
My brothers forget about naija women they really have nothing to offer believe me

I disagree. That's hasty generalization.

This thread is the best I have read in Nairaland since I joined 10 years ago. I have always said rich men should avoid broke ladies like a parasitic virus.

that means more than 80percent of Nigerians girls will not marry. only few jobs in Nigeria will a starter earn 150k even federal civil service.

Ellabae:
But I earn 100k monthly . So I should not think of marriage. This one weak me.

lol....

TheUpsetGirl:


why should someone earning 20k think about marriage

Lol 85% of women in Nigeria married jobless even some men don't want a lady to work but raise his kids in d first 7 yes of d marriage

In today's Nigeria less than 5% of women can get married earning 150k n above so it is unrealistic n unreasonable

Tessyama1:
Some even see marriage as their way out of responsibilities such as paying bills, etc. A lot of married women are unhappy in their homes but can’t leave because they are not independent, some don’t even have transport money to go back to their parents house. Secure the bag first[/i]"

Laugh wan kill me o

marvin906:





who kissed you this morning
you finally made sense

His advice is useful for a sensible being,how would u be able to endure each rubbish and considerably hunger since u can't remain on ur possess and they will lie that this is a result of their children that didn't give them opportunity to leave a crazy person beating spouse...

Ladies should attempt to be independents,contribute a value an incentive to ur home and perceive how ur spouse will regard u


It's not about been receiving 150k per month any amount u can manage and stand on it can go

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
He's not serious. So ladies should say no to suitors because they don't earn 150k?

He make sense, I earn 120k/month, and I'm searching for a lady that earns more than that to marry.

MhizzAJ:

otondo
i need you to do me a fav
buh first answer the question i asked

It is always good for a man to be working,and the wife to be working too,and also they should have other investments too,just to guarantee their financial future

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Ladyhippolyta88:
He has a point
But stipulating a particular amount is not it.
Our wants and needs are different
A lady may be earning 20k and she is comfortable and independent and another who may be earning 50k may not.

Will you marry a guy that earn let's say 50k a month ?