Nigerian Feminist and Blogger, Promise Excel is currently before a panel of Judges after he made a post condemning Nigerian women whose only goal in life is to Get Married.

The Blogger said should women won't make a Good wife, according to him;Women should be Equal as men, if he is working, his wife should be Industrious, Nice.. Ladies hope he is a husband Material?

In the light of the foregoing, he said:

I cringe when a bunch of young women gather and all they talk about is getting married.

Finding love...

Damn!

I can't marry a woman whose only goal in life is to marry.

That's too small an ambition. Such pettiness!

Woman, you were not put in this world to marry and bear children.

There's got to be more!

Marriage should not even be a prayer point. Women should not even fast to meet Mr Right.

It's a waste of energy! There are so many problems in the world and a woman not marrying should not be part of it.

You will eventually get tired of this thing called marriage and wish you were single.

When you get bored with living in the same house, seeing the same man and cooking the same food and washing the same dirty clothes, what would become of your life?

Marriage is part of your purpose, it is not your purpose in life.

Nothing is wrong with you if you're not married at the age of 30 yet.

Nobody ever receives and award for being married. Or do they?

All the money spent on organizing single seminars could be used to empower young girls for the future.

And all the tired conversation in these seminars would be around being nice, humble, beautiful and good-looking to attract the right man.

It's depressing that a woman will be preparing all her life to marry, cook, wash and bear children for one proud, reckless and stupid man.

I just don't get it why a girl's education and training should only prepare her for marriage.

Marriage is a beautiful thing! I know

Young women should aspire to be more than being good wives and mothers.

There's so much more you can be!

You are not made for the kitchen and z oza room.

You have so much power in you that you can be all that you want.

You can have it all.

Don't pray to be less successful so you don't scare away men.

Such smallness! Such insult to the one who created you to multiply and subdue.

You can be, do and have more than you already have.

You are a phenomenal woman!

Embrace your awesomeness with elegance and poise.

Whats your opinion?

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Male feminist?

There is always so much emphasis on marriage here. Marry whatever/whoever pleases you. Some men prefer the direct opposite of what you want. All that matters is finding the right partner and being happy.

Women and marriage are like... Wey that Zuma pix?? Dey look how dem go bombard this thread now. They all think and reason the same way.

Sheuns:
Male feminist?

Yesso!

Sheuns:
Male feminist?

Okay na. Keep giving them hopes.

I mean honestly, I don't know this guy but I think I like his persona. I respect the institution of marriage. I respect men and respect their position as the head of the family, but no, marriage doesn't and will never define me.

SoapQueen:



I mean honestly, I don't know this guy but I think I like his persona. I respect the institution of marriage, thankfully, I am not cishet. I respect men and respect their position as the head of the family, but no, marriage doesn't and will never define me.

Really? What about having a possessive husband

So Unknown To Me, I Am A Feminist...

most women are obsessed with marriage cos they're weak and lazy and don't wanna do anything meaningful with their lives,matter of fact it's not like they don't,they can't do sh!t without depending on men and male feminist tho,that's a new special kind of arselicking breed,never thought it'd get this far.

PcNnews:



Really? What about having a possessive husband

I wouldn't tolerate that in the first place. There is enough room during courtship to detect such. Most possessive men are always about themselves. It is only fair that for the preservation of your sanity, you flee.

Sheuns:
Male feminist?

Okay na. Keep giving them hopes.

Hahahahahaha

DeadRat:




So Unknown To Me, I Am A Feminist...

Lol... U want a working wife?

Mandrake007:
most women are obsessed with marriage cos they're weak and lazy and don't wanna do anything meaningful with their lives,matter of fact it's not like they don't,they can't do sh!t without depending on men and male feminist tho,that's a new special kind of arselicking breed,never thought it'd get this far.

Ur tongue is a 2 edged sword

SoapQueen:




I wouldn't tolerate that in the first place. There is enough room during courtship to detect such. Most possessive men are always about themselves. It is only fair that for the preservation of your sanity, you flee.

Can an over possessive man be the same as obsessive?

PcNnews:


Lol... U want a working wife?

I Want An Independent Woman. Who Can Survive Without Me

Mandrake007:
most women are obsessed with marriage cos they're weak and lazy and don't wanna do anything meaningful with their lives,matter of fact it's not like they don't,they can't do sh!t without depending on men and male feminist tho,that's a new special kind of arselicking breed,never thought it'd get this far.

You are very wrong! What a shallow way of reasoning you just displayed here. Women are obsessed with marriage because they are lazy and weak? Is Marriage some poverty alleviating scheme? Do all married men provide for their wives? Do all women just sit around doing nothing in Marriage? Have you an idea what it means and takes to be married?

I find it quite amusing when you all little minded ones confidently type fantasies and fairytales in place of reality. In Some marriages not even all the money in the whole world can pay for what couples go through living together. But here you are in your mighty ignorance typing shiit in place of sense. Grow up!

SoapQueen:



I mean honestly, I don't know this guy but I think I like his persona. I respect the institution of marriage. I respect men and respect their position as the head of the family, but no, marriage doesn't and will never define me.

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OrestesDante:




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Haha...You are right!

RuthDaniels:
You are very wrong! What a shallow way of reasoning you just displayed here. Women are obsessed with marriage because they are lazy and weak? Is Marriage some poverty alleviating scheme? Do all married men provide for their wives? Do all women just sit around doing nothing in Marriage? Have you an idea what it means and takes to be married?

I find it quite amusing when you all little minded ones confidently type fantasies and fairytales in place of reality. In Some marriages not even all the money in the whole world can pay for what couples go through living together. But here you are in your mighty ignorance typing shiit in place of sense. Grow up!

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This is what most Nairaland girls think.
Marriage to them is a poverty alleviating institution. I can start giving names. ∆



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OrestesDante:




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This is what most Nairaland girls think.
Marriage to them is a poverty alleviating institution. I can start giving names. ∆



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Niaraland girls? Well I'm speaking of reality

RuthDaniels:
Niaraland girls? Well I'm speaking of reality

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Okaay

men

Some slay queens will pretend they did not see this thread

What has a guy got to do with feminism? What foolishness is this?


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Mtcheeew

Woman wrapper!

I agree with Promise Excel 100%. I won't even advise any of my loved ones to marry a Nigerian. Many of you - both men and women - have such an unhealthy obsession with marriage that it makes you come across like you're a psychopath. Life does not start and end with marriage. If it did, Nigeria would have been a first world country by now with a high quality standard of living and low crime rate considering all the marrying that you all do.

You all can't even raise your kids right to grow into wholesome adults that is why corruption, pedophilia, rape, cultism, tribalism, drug trafficking, human trafficking, kidnapping, online scam, armed robbery, human blood sacrifice is the order of the day in the Nigerian society and the World generally does not trust the average Nigerian. So you see, you people need to take a closer look at your character and why your country remains a shithole despite all the marrying you all do. I'm just saying.

male feminist? such a wuss

Abeg go sitdown, my parents married before they born me, my mom remains at home and loyal to our boss. I respect any gal that values married with full commitment.

SoapQueen:



I mean honestly, I don't know this guy but I think I like his persona. I respect the institution of marriage. I respect men and respect their position as the head of the family, but no, marriage doesn't and will never define me.

Thanks for taking the time to show him the definition of a feminist.
Let's hope he doesn't forget it in the next 2 seconds.

Exactly

DeadRat:



I Want An Independent Woman. Who Can Survive Without Me