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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:17am On Apr 25, 2018
I was thinking aloud, what signal does it pass if you like to hangout with females all weekend long to eat and drink. No sex involved
Lalas247:


It’s the economy ... don’t blame most ..
Also not easy to find work too ... but I how did it get poisoned .. you men conditioned ladies to feel they need it ... it’s like an exchange if u want something you leave something mentality ...
Dating don’t mean you must spend money that’s what ppl fail to realise...

Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:18am On Apr 25, 2018
No referendum, no election
Oyindidi:
No money No erection

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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Only1mi(f): 8:19am On Apr 25, 2018
Home cooked dinner for two, I'll bring the bottle. Netflix on and we're good to go.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Oyindidi(f): 8:20am On Apr 25, 2018
DonPiiko:
No referendum, no election
Good morning Chief, that one no fit happen for naija

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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:23am On Apr 25, 2018
Goodmorning boss lady, kedu ka o di
Oyindidi:
Good morning Chief, that one no fit happen for naija
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Oyindidi(f): 8:24am On Apr 25, 2018
DonPiiko:
Goodmorning boss lady, kedu ka o di
I no understand Igbogrin
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:24am On Apr 25, 2018
Which language do you understand
Oyindidi:
I no understand Igbogrin
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Oyindidi(f): 8:27am On Apr 25, 2018
DonPiiko:
Which language do you understand
Any ijaw language, izon, okrika, Kalahari, nembe etc
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:27am On Apr 25, 2018
LuvSwollenPussy:
Read thru all. Its fact to get ur finances straight first.

However a financially liberated man prefers a woman he knew while he was struggling as a wife.

Many famous young men still regret why they don't gfs before they made it.

And only few girls will be lucky to find made men. Many will end up as baby mamas to broke guys
u no lie sha.this is one main reason why most guys with no girlfriend during when they were less financially buoyant after dem come make am they become playas for life.with d money dem come get na only parasites go dey surround am hence he will just be chopping and cleaning mouth.its advisable when u less bouyant to have a girlfriend or if u dont have and u have made it then date a girl that is not broke.

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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:29am On Apr 25, 2018
Oyindidi:
Good morning Tom! How was your night?
morning to u.my night was fine jor wink
una really enjoy dat big brother cheesy.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Oyindidi(f): 8:30am On Apr 25, 2018
lefulefu:

morning to u.my night was fine jor wink
una really enjoy dat big brother cheesy.
Na so, e better pass to dey play around
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:31am On Apr 25, 2018
One of my friends lives with the amanayabo of Nembe, if I remember I will ask him to tell me small of your language to impress you cool
Oyindidi:
Any ijaw language, izon, okrika, Kalahari, nembe etc
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:32am On Apr 25, 2018
LuvSwollenPussy:
Read thru all. Its fact to get ur finances straight first.

However a financially liberated man prefers a woman he knew while he was struggling as a wife.

Many famous young men still regret why they don't have gfs before they made it

And only few girls will be lucky to find made men. Many will end up as baby mamas to broke guys
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Oyindidi(f): 8:39am On Apr 25, 2018
DonPiiko:
One of my friends lives with the amanayabo of Nembe, if I remember I will ask him to tell me small of your language to impress you cool
I'm not from nembe but I understand their language.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 8:40am On Apr 25, 2018
Oyindidi:
Na so, e better pass to dey play around
i concur cheesy
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by esthy86(f): 9:07am On Apr 25, 2018
it all depends on De person u re dating ,if she z to materialistic,is a no fr me,but if she understands the reality of life ,then is OK




my own view ,don't know fr urs
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by princfred(m): 9:51am On Apr 25, 2018
greiboy:
It goes to show that some ladies are merely financial liabilities


They can't see themselves as financially independent in a relationship, but when anyone confront them with these allegations, they will find it insultive

Here is a fun fact; I am not struggling to get money in order to date a lady that is probably enjoying a romantic experience with another man while I am struggling despite being poor herself, I am hustling for myself and to appreciate those that are ready to stand beside me through the process
I bless the day i started following you guy. Your brain good.

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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by mikejj(m): 9:52am On Apr 25, 2018
lefulefu:

she will still dump the the yankee guy eventually and run with another guy to canada cheesy.happened to one of my colleague"s elder brother.
chai u see life
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by GOFRONT(m): 9:53am On Apr 25, 2018
Nowadayz, I don't even need to be financially gallant before I lay any lady....

Even at my brokest level, all i need do is just make the move and after some weeks of Shakara, I would have written her name in my book of Sin grin

But God help me!!!....I want to seatle down
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 10:32am On Apr 25, 2018
shaybebaby:
Should a woman date if she is struggling with finances?

Date all you want but don't bring kids into the mix. EOD!
Exactly. . .both who are 'dating' should be thinking of how to improve each other's lives and building careers. Not going on fancy outings to expensive restaurants they can't afford. And like you said, NO KIDS, that'll just make everything worse.

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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 25, 2018
mikejj:
chai u see life
yes oo na so life be. There is no guarantee dat a woman go remain with u if na cos of ur money or success make her dey run after u. Sooner or later she go run leave u dey chase after another man wey get plenty money pass u .see some of my edo brothers wey dey jardon or Yankee or jardon. Those wey no get serious girlfriend before them port overseas..dem dey come back quite alright to come marry. But fear no dey let them carry this girls with them back overseas cos dem dey fear dat these ladies will take advantage of the system...divorce them and take over their property or dem go just dump dem and run after a richer boy there. The ones wey u dey see say dey carry dhier wives with them overseas na d ones wey don stay long with such ladies during courtship.d ones wey dey leave their wives back in naija dey only come visit dem during festivity times and wen dem dey overseas dem go dey send dhier wives monthly upkeep money.so na so e jus be.so dats why wen u never buoyant even if u no get gf u go jus try as much as possible to mingle and know wich girl good so dat wen u don hammer u can know d one to choose. To just lock up and shut out urself from women cos u broke...wen u don make am to get good one go dey hard ooo.

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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 25, 2018
Lalas247:
Mo salah said Yes grin why not

You can make a lovely date for two .. by just cooking a meal u gave at home .. take table out .. get few drink from oya sikira .. and wine and dine a chic

Material things will only attract the likes ... she has to see beyond money so yes you can date but options will be limited ... or how the hell did our 4 fathers court .. with Gucci belt and Ferrari abi undecided
I agree with you but are you not a mod? Move this thing to front page please, btw I have a question, are mods like human beings who sit with thier laptop everyday, moving post to front page
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 11:00am On Apr 25, 2018
DonPiiko:
Goodmorning boss lady, kedu ka o di
boss lady? Na lalas title be dat oocheesy
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 25, 2018
mikejj:
. the system of not spending money worked very well during the days of our grandfathers and mother...where u you don't need to date or do courtship before getting a wife.. then when you are a hardworking farmer and you have big barns of yams.nkechi and choima will fall you.
well yams in those days were a form of wealth, now it has transcend to money.. Honestly sha I won't advice any man who is broke to date, if he's dating he should be struggling and make sure the girl is loyal to him through hard times so she will enjoy when he's made eventually.. Ask those who have solid marriages, you will see that no matter what difficulty the wife and husband are going through they always stick to each other for life, I hate females of our generation, only few of them are busy with one creative thing to make money (other than prostitution of course) and those ones are hard to find
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 11:06am On Apr 25, 2018
I call a lot of females boss lady, maybe I will just reserve it for Lalas
lefulefu:
boss lady? Na lalas title be dat oocheesy
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 11:18am On Apr 25, 2018
DonPiiko:
I call a lot of females boss lady, maybe I will just reserve it for Lalas
yesterday there is this lady i saw walking on the road. She was wearing blue jeans trousers and a yellow T shirtcheesy. Inscribed on the chest region of her T shirt in pink bold letters were the words,' BOSS LADY' .immediately i saw dose words my mind went to Lalascheesycheesy.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 25, 2018
I can't even place what Lalas looks like, I think I have seen small photos though, I hope her pre-wedding photos surface here. I am very thin so big ladies will intimidate me.
lefulefu:
yesterday there is this lady i saw walking on the road. She was wearing blue jeans trousers and a yellow T shirtcheesy. Inscribed on the chest region of her T shirt in pink bold letters were the words,' BOSS LADY' .immediately i saw dose words my mind went to Lalascheesycheesy.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 11:29am On Apr 25, 2018
DonPiiko:
I can't even place what Lalas looks like, I think I have seen small photos though, I hope her pre-wedding photos surface here. I am very thin so big ladies will intimidate me.
na waohshocked... So u haven't seen lalas pix? U d second person saying this after donstan. She used to put her pix wella on her dp nacheesy. Dat leopard skin tights she used to wear on her pixs was baecheesy. Well she ain't fat. She's kinder Athletic with wide hips and a protruding behind.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by prechbills1(m): 11:34am On Apr 25, 2018
I'm tired of these one sided questions..
next time ask; should a lady date if she isn't financially stable?
is the guy the only one going to spend?

magas are now becoming wise o undecided


I bind any broke girl that will come my way in Jesus name.


men, make that fvcking $$$

they must pay coolforget about naija babes all of them are broke.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 11:38am On Apr 25, 2018
Oyindidi:
No money No erection

Lol. This is funny because is even those that don't have money that have erection pass.

Everyday baby where are you, can you over? because no job to exhaust their strength so they will like to exhaust it on bae. Lol

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Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by Nobody: 11:40am On Apr 25, 2018
It used to be blurry, I can't place her face. But I never took note of the ASSets
lefulefu:
na waohshocked... So u haven't seen lalas pix? U d second person saying this after donstan. She used to put her pix wella on her dp nacheesy. Dat leopard skin tights she used to wear on her pixs was baecheesy. Well she ain't fat. She's kinder Athletic with wide hips and a protruding behind.
Re: Should A Man Date If He's Struggling With Finances? See Reactions by prechbills1(m): 11:42am On Apr 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin


I agree with the girls... wink The truth must be heard ooo but broke men will be hissing over this matter.. grin

yeah... if we're going by the broke stuff, believe me 80% of Nigerian ladies won't be dating anybody by now because Nigerian ladies are fvcking broke.
Even the ones that can't afford phones with their money will be tagging some people "broke" undecided

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