UjuJoan2. OK tell me your own terms. You have read mine.

Tina1223. We both will be there for the kids. And I will treat you as a wife. But no marriage.

Send me your bbm pin

Touchme222. I don't need to send you money before you believe me. OK.
Keep your thoughts to yourself. That is how you make things worse for yourself when you meet people who can change your life but you choose to be myopic.

Tina1223:
please. I want to ask after the children what next will u just send her away won't she get to be part of the children lives and I have sent you an email but chat me up on 08117935069 let's talk

Questions you need to ask;

1. Can I involve my lawyer?

2. Ask him to state his other monikers (this man I see here is an old time Nairalander)

2. What happens when he goes broke? Promising heaven and earth is not enough o, even a proper husband won't make this kind of future promises.

3. Lastly and most importantly, use your head oo. I don't know whether he's determined but one thing is sure, the man I see here needs serious shagging.

Whether or not he will pay is what I can't tell

FannySwindler1:
Touchme222. I don't need to send you money before you believe me. OK.
Keep your thoughts to yourself. That is how you make things worse for yourself when you meet people who can change your life but you choose to be myopic.

yeye dey smell did i tell u in spanish or danish in ur moda tongue that my life need changing,much less by a crazy broke ass cycopath.

There are so many things that could go wrong with this shady arrangement. I sorry for any girl that agrees.

What about the children? Knowing how close minded Nigeria are they will likely suffer the stigma of being born outside a marital union. I read a story by a woman on Facebook who is still being called a bastard in her old age because her mother bore her out of wedlock.

And the op sounds like he will not be a frequent face in the house with his kids after they are born. I have a feeling he will travel out and leave them in a different country just so he can have his fun. What if the kids are not happy with that arrangement? What if they get upset after seeing their friends' dadies coming to pick them from school or just being present in their lives while op's future kids don't even remember what he looks like?

Op consider your future children before you embark on your selfish and self centered plan. Your need for variety of sexual partners should not make you bring children to this world that will suffer stigma or be called bastard or that will sorely wish their family is normal.

I wish more emphasis is placed on teaching men to be responsible fathers. Its always women that get bombarded with endless lectures of how to be good wives and mothers.

Nonsense thinking like the op's own will be greatly reduced if men are taught to see themselves as a vital and very important part of their children's moral upbringing. Being a father is not only about bringing money.

Touchme222. Thanks for your insult. It's not by force to comment. Not that I can't insult you but will rather not go that route with you. Good luck. Don't mention me.

nahzyla. Thanks for your concerns. I will be always be there for my kids,but won't marry the mother of my kids. That's all. She will be treated as a legally married wife but we won't be getting married. I don't need to travel out. I'm already out of Nigeria for over a decade.
You need to read properly what I have stated here. People should rather ask questions rather than postulate what I have not said or intend to do.

Only two kids?

But why?

Why not just get a surrogate?

Caracta. Thank you for your input. Who will look after the kids if surrogate? I want then to have a good life with father and mother present. Two is ok by me. Don't want more than that. Are you interested or you had like to be a surrogate.

FannySwindler1:
nahzyla. Thanks for your concerns. I will be always be there for my kids,but won't marry the mother of my kids. That's all. She will be treated as a legally married wife but we won't be getting married. I don't need to travel out. I'm already out of Nigeria for over a decade.
You need to read properly what I have stated here. People should rather ask questions rather than postulate what I have not said or intend to do.

You will be there for them how? Will you live under the same roof with them?

What will you do to stop them from suffering the stigma of being called bastard.

FannySwindler1:
Caracta. Thank you for your input. Who will look after the kids if surrogate? I want then to have a good life with father and mother present. Two is ok by me. Don't want more than that. Are you interested or you had like to be a surrogate.

We have babysitters and nannies everywhere. You can never give the children a good life by staying apart. I guess you have carefully considered all options. It's your choice though. All the best.

And no I'm not interested. Not even qualified. I have undivided loyalty to my hubby

Marriage is sweeeet!

nahzyla:


You will be there for them how? Will you live under the same roof with them?

What will you do to stop them from suffering the stigma of being called bastard.

People don't even call them 'bastards''. The upgraded version is "children of contract" or simply 'benefits'

The world is evolving. Whatever rocks their boat.

FannySwindler1:
Touchme222. Thanks for your insult. It's not by force to comment. Not that I can't insult you but will rather not go that route with you. Good luck. Don't mention me.

imagine! Stating the obvious is now an insult.hmmn...

Caracta. Sorry didn't know you were married. Thanks for your input. Good luck.

nahzyla. I will be there for them like every other responsible father. They will not be living in or brought up in a third world country where average person is judgemental. They will have the best, so will their mum.

Caracta:


People don't even call them 'bastards''. The upgraded version is "children of contract" or simply 'benefits'

The world is evolving. Whatever rocks their boat.

They are called bastards in Nigeria.

FannySwindler1:
nahzyla. I will be there for them like every other responsible father. They will not be living in or brought up in a third world country where average person is judgemental. They will have the best, so will their mum.

So if you are actually going to live in the same house and be a full time dad, provide for their mother like a typical husband, why on earth don't you just do an open marriage instead? Why running away from marriage or what are you not telling us?

nahzyla. Thanks for your words. I have stated here that I can't guarantee any faithfulness from my side. Will you marry me despite knowing that I will not be faithful? Rather than deceiving or pretending to be faithful there is no reason to marry the lucky lady. Open marriage is no marriage. My opinion.

FannySwindler1:
nahzyla. Thanks for your words. I have stated here that I can't guarantee any faithfulness from my side. Will you marry me despite knowing that I will not be faithful? Rather than deceiving or pretending to be faithful there is no reason to marry the lucky lady. Open marriage is no marriage. My opinion.

Why do you think you can never be faithful?love sex too much or you love to be around women?

Temibabie. Nice question. Yeah. Love it too much.

FannySwindler1:
Temibabie. Nice question. Yeah. Love it too much.

Okay but do you know you can stay faithful if you really want to or if you truly love your prospective baby mama? It's a thing of the mind tho

Temibabie. I quite understand. But that won't be instant and can't guarantee it. I know myself. Are you interested?

FannySwindler1: . Nice question. Yeah. Love it too much.

ewww, wakanda lack of self control is this?
No wonder your name is fanny swindler.

FannySwindler1:
nahzyla. Open marriage is no marriage. My opinion.

Open marriage is no marriage but baby mamarism and baby paparism is an ideal family structure ba?

I tell you,this man is married but his wife is unable to conceive,that's why he needs a baby mama.

andergirl. Rather than ask questions you have chosen to conclude haphazardly. Listen to yourself, if married and wife is unable to conceive what stops me from marrying another wife? Or just get any other lady pregnant. I don't do polygamy never ever.

nahzyla:
There are so many things that could go wrong with this shady arrangement. I sorry for any girl that agrees.

What about the children? Knowing how close minded Nigeria are they will likely suffer the stigma of being born outside a marital union. I read a story by a woman on Facebook who is still being called a bastard in her old age because her mother bore her out of wedlock.

And the op sounds like he will not be a frequent face in the house with his kids after they are born. I have a feeling he will travel out and leave them in a different country just so he can have his fun. What if the kids are not happy with that arrangement? What if they get upset after seeing their friends' dadies coming to pick them from school or just being present in their lives while op's future kids don't even remember what he looks like?

Op consider your future children before you embark on your selfish and self centered plan. Your need for variety of sexual partners should not make you bring children to this world that will suffer stigma or be called bastard or that will sorely wish their family is normal.

I wish more emphasis is placed on teaching men to be responsible fathers. Its always women that get bombarded with endless lectures of how to be good wives and mothers.

Nonsense thinking like the op's own will be greatly reduced if men are taught to see themselves as a vital and very important part of their children's moral upbringing. Being a father is not only about bringing money.

Ooh bless your heart bro!!!
You are a wise man indeed...
Responsible Men are the Foundation for a morally Sound Society

Faithful baby mama... Wonders will never end

FannySwindler1:
andergirl. Rather than ask questions you have chosen to conclude haphazardly. Listen to yourself, if married and wife is unable to conceive what stops me from marrying another wife? Or just get any other lady pregnant. I don't do polygamy never ever.

Impregnate and marry. Simple.

NwanyiAwkaetiti. Will you let me impregnate you? Are you interested?

I don't have a bbpin chat me up on WhatsApp instead

FannySwindler1:
NwanyiAwkaetiti. Will you let me impregnate you? Are you interested?

No.