highqueen:

transconfusion you mean transmitting the transmission.

Yea,I mean transmitting my sumtin into ur transmission box

pocohantas:


Sadly, what she said is the truth, though I can't confirm the percentage. She didn't say they are not happy, she said they don't love their husbands. I won't even argue if she says lots of Nigerian wives are not happy

Some women marry the most capable man that can be a good father at least (being a good husband is another story, being both doesn't come easy). Men just hook up with the one that's willing to submit and care for the home.

In the long run, the woman finds happiness in her kids.
The man finds it in every other external factor.

Lol. Your comments have really taken a brand new turn.

izzou:


I never said she was lying. But 60%?

Because 9 of your 10 married friends aren't happy with their marriages doesn't make it up to 60%

That even makes it 90percent, sir.

Confirm talk.

BloggersNG:
You Know what Lemme just leave this one to the People standing on the Table she's shaking, I know ya'll have got better replies, lol..
See her post plus her reason behind it below!

News From Ebiwali---
http://www.ebiwalisgossip.com/2018/05/60-of-married-women-dont-really-love.html

Cc; Lalasticlala

This woman said what I have been saying for ages. Most women are in love with marriage not their husbands

Mariinee:
Lol. Your comments have really taken a brand new turn.

Marinee my love, you like or nah?

Martin0:


sorry I missed it from you, please lemme have urs?

Martins oginni?
I did the needed. You didn't respond.
What should I do again?

pocohantas:


Martins oginni?
I did the needed. You didn't respond.
What should I do again?

Sorry for this disturbances, I saw it, but couldn't access due to a problem..

Just make ur written to me down here or probably check my profile, got an accessible one down along the lines... Sorry for this disturbances once again ....

pocohantas:


Marinee my love, you like or nah?

On behalf of Nairaland Men Association, I say we like.

kense88:
No you don't get. She is talking about physical attraction. The kind of attraction you feel, when you see a beautiful lady. The truth is most men don't just care about there looks, unlike ladies.

Any man who isn't in the show biz and concentrate in his look is a womanizer.

highqueen:

aru.

BiggyB242:


Any man who isn't in the show biz and concentrate in his look is a womanizer.

How the heck did you arrive at this conclusion?

Mariinee:
How the heck did you arrive at this conclusion?

the average man cares more about more 10 times more than his looks,infact see can't even sleep over it

She might be right - you know she's a lady, though the precise 60% can't be defended.

Marrying for wrong reasons - financial stability, security, aging etc can cause love to wither away with time. Note that same staggering stat will show up if the table is turned around.

But sincerely, every marriage in this dispensation is acutely threatened. It'll takes serious effort of both partner to go through.

She's so right cos if they really love their husbands then why is it many married ladies go back having secret affairs with their ex. If truth be told most ladies would have preferred marrying their ex but for the reason their ex has not gotten the plum job he so desires or hasn't gotten that big flat cos of the lack of buoyancy in his akant made such ladies to dump the ex for the current husband whose well established financially. That's just the stark truth. Its very few ladies who get married to the men they truly love and desire.. And they are the lucky few.

pyyxxaro:
Brb



Lemme go and ask Aisha if she truly loves Buhari

Aisha got married to Bubu when she was 13 yrs old ba?

Olalan:
She might be saying the truth, cause if they truly love their husbands they wouldn't be getting intimate with their ex boyfriends.
Fact is in this age so many women are still seeing their ex lovers

u are blessed with wisdom. The gods are pleased. So true... Many married women these days always have it still hot with their ex. If the love and attraction is with ur husband then why will ur panties still be getting all wet when ur ex says hello to u and u still be drooling all over his Facebook pics.

BiggyB242:


Any man who isn't in the show biz and concentrate in his look is a womanizer.

how so? What's wrong in looking good for ur wife. It sucks when u see a young man with a huge pot looking stomach and dragging it on the floor all in d name of potbelly. A young man for dat matter oo. some will wear torn or oversized clothes with uncombed hair and if wifey talk dey will tell her to shut up.biko look good for ur wife so she will be proud to flaunt u as her husband.what's the good of ur wife looking fwesh and sweet and u looking like a native doctor beside her. Ain't cool mehn. When a man takes care of himself that doesn't mean he's a womaniser.... Though its kinder gayish if a man is too obsessed with his mirrors sha.

donstan18:
Fact is; Unconditional LOVE doesn't exist in African marriages, so i'll say most partners don't love themselves.

Marriage in Africa is an everlasting supposed romantic transaction between two partners, not an institution of LOVE.

The love a woman needs from a man is his fatherly concerns and financial care to the family.
If she isn’t get those things from her man, she won't be happy.

While the man needs loyalty, respect and home builder from a woman.
If he isn't getting those things from her woman, he won't be happy.

And those wants are not suppose to be called LOVE, but give-to-get transactions and commitment.

LOVE is a deceptive scam in a relationship/marriage.

Thsnk you!!! I always say this. Unconditional love is only from a parent to child.

1stNumeroUno:
She might be right - you know she's a lady, though the precise 60% can't be defended.

Marrying for wrong reasons - financial stability, security, aging etc can cause love to wither away with time. Note that same staggering stat will show up if the table is turned around.

But sincerely, every marriage in this dispensation is acutely threatened. It'll takes serious effort of both partner to go through.

marrying for financial stability, security aging is not stupid and more practical than marrying for love. I’m so sorry, love is just an illusion that you’re only supposed to have for your kids/family. Most older people will tell you this, because life teaches you things.

Mariinee:
How the heck did you arrive at this conclusion?

i just hope he ain't one of those young guys wearing those oversize trousers with oversized sandals and wearing those polo shirts tucked into the trousers with the inscription, ' Adieu Mama Iyabo . RIP' . Some ppl will be wearing funeral polo shirts to work. God help us.

Safiaa:
marrying for financial stability, security aging is not stupid and more practical than marrying for love. I’m so sorry, love is just an illusion that you’re only supposed to have for your kids/family. Most older people will tell you this, because life teaches you things.

hmm can u marry Tinubu?

lefulefu:
hmm can u marry Tinubu?

yes if he has the qualities.

She's right... true love doesn't exist

Marriage as an institution is a big scam to humanity.

Safiaa:
yes if he has the qualities.

he has yellow teeth and i will bet my stars he also has mouth odour.so how will u be able to kiss him?.

She's right... true love doesn't exist . an

Marriage as an institution is a big scam to humanity.

lefulefu:
he has yellow teeth and i will bet my stars he also has mouth odour.so how will u be able to kiss him?.

all these things can be sorted. Nobody is perfect please.

She's right...
true love doesn't exist ... anybody who believe there's anything like true love is just deceiving himself.

Marriage as an institution is a big scam to humanity.

To me it's even more than most especially dis part of the world were notin work ,like creating jobs, n skill aquizition for them ,so dat dy will not be force To be married wen tins r lacking

Safiaa:
all these things can be sorted. Nobody is perfect please.

there is this EDSTMA official i just made friends with.He's cool and he knows how to control traffic. He's a graduate as well. One thing i like about him is that he's always smiling. But another tin i noticed is that he has very big teeth. When i say big i mean as very big just like a grasscutter's teeth and they are very yellow. I always wonder how his girlfriend is able to give him French kiss with those teeth. You babes dey try oo i swear.

I actually wonder how people come up with this statistics. Do they go to houses to do a count?

lefulefu:
there is this EDSTMA official i just made friends with.He's cool and he knows how to control traffic. He's a graduate as well. One thing i like about him is that he's always smiling. But another tin i noticed is that he has very big teeth. When i say big i mean as very big just like a grasscutter's teeth and they are very yellow. I always wonder how his girlfriend is able to give him French kiss with those teeth. You babes dey try oo i swear.

Who cares about yellow teeth, really? These are things that teenagers care about. As long as you have the basic human hygiene levels, Provider with money and all things in that sector, we good. When we’re talking about marriage, looks are not super important to women like it is to men. Just saying.

I like your open teeth sha I can tell you’re very clean