madridguy:
Confirm talk.

Safiaa:
marrying for financial stability, security aging is not stupid and more practical than marrying for love. I’m so sorry, love is just an illusion that you’re only supposed to have for your kids/family. Most older people will tell you this, because life teaches you things.

Elder001:

madridguy I'm telling you.
True love only exist in Asian countries like South Korea, Japan, North Korea, Taiwan, Thailand, China, Philippines, Pakistan and Vietnam.

Safiaa:
Who cares about yellow teeth, really? These are things that teenagers care about. As long as you have the basic human hygiene levels, Provider with money and all things in that sector, we good. When we’re talking about marriage, looks are not super important to women like it is to men. Just saying.

I like your open teeth sha I can tell you’re very clean

1stNumeroUno:


Well, we're almost at the same stance. Only that I believe love do exist and it should be bases of conjugal relationship. Other items like financial stability etc can come in afterward. Note that in every marriage 'love' goes either way - either up or down. And it's the collaboration of the two partners as I mentioned earlier.

madridguy:
Asia love is real love. Naija love is mostly stomach infrastructure, you see a wife hidden her husband property immediately the news of the husband is brought to her. You begin to imagine someone that supposed to be crying will be calling her friends and family to come quick before the arrival of her late husband's family.

madridguy:
Asia love is real love. Naija love is mostly stomach infrastructure, you see a wife hidden her husband property immediately the news of the husband is brought to her. You begin to imagine someone that supposed to be crying will be calling her friends and family to come quick before the arrival of her late husband's family.

lefulefu:
but attraction must be there na. I am not saying that the guy must be some handsome stud brad pit looking guy b4 u say yes. At least there must be some sort of attraction. If u just getting married to a guy cos he's financially stable and he looks like a father figure but u feel no attraction for him biko how u wan take cope? Remember u both will have sex oo. Even when dem talk about inner beauty na d outer beauty dey first attract u to ur better half.Anyway i know u jus saying all these things for saying sake and u probably date guys who are goodlooking. Who no like better tin.yes oooo i don't joke with my hygiene and as for d open teeth..fenks .

lefulefu:
the story one of my guy's aunty who came back from Germany last year November told both of us about one igbo couple over there scared me.

lefulefu:
but attraction must be there na. I am not saying that the guy must be some handsome stud brad pit looking guy b4 u say yes. At least there must be some sort of attraction. If u just getting married to a guy cos he's financially stable and he looks like a father figure but u feel no attraction for him biko how u wan take cope? Remember u both will have sex oo. Even when dem talk about inner beauty na d outer beauty dey first attract u to ur better half.Anyway i know u jus saying all these things for saying sake and u probably date guys who are goodlooking. Who no like better tin.yes oooo i don't joke with my hygiene and as for d open teeth..fenks .

Elder001:
Twoclans good afternoon..

what is that on your dp ?

Safiaa:
90% it goes down, because we normally have expectations that our partners cannot fulfil. We want more than what our partners can give. Human beings are wired to never be satisfied. That’s why we always want what we can’t have, and seek more when we do have. So it’s better to understand this, live your life in peace. I’m all about peace

Safiaa:
women and men are different this is why we can never understand each other. A man who is a provider, will gain that physical attraction you need. Rather have an ugly man with provider qualities than a good looking man who can’t do anything for me. That’s if I had to choose.

Yeah I used to be one of them babes that would only date good looking guys. When I was 18/19. That phase died quick as it should, don’t have time for that anymore Lool.

Twoclans:


Hi Elder001 ,good afternoon

What is wrong with my dp?you don't like it ?

If you don't like it ,I will change it .

ibkayee:

Lmao you always seemed so innocent in that B.B. thread, gwarn girl

Twoclans:


Hi Elder001 ,good afternoon

What is wrong with my dp?you don't like it ?

If you don't like it ,I will change it .

Twoclans:



I hail you the lovely ibkayee.

Don't mind me, I have a wild side to the good girl in me

madridguy:
Share with us.

Elder001:


do you remember what she said on that thread where a guy asked if men can date wealthy women who they're not attracted to?

lefulefu:
i very much remember what she said dat day. Abeg forget wetin safia dey yarn. She no really mean wetin she dey yarn. Look at d guy on her dp. Dat means she has eyes for good tins. If looks don't matter tell me why she no put Mr ibu for her dp.

Twoclans:


Hi Elder001 ,good afternoon

What is wrong with my dp?you don't like it ?

If you don't like it ,I will change it .

lefulefu:
she told both me and my guy that there this igbo man. Quite successful in Germany with a number of properties there. This guy is single so there was a day he came across this pretty looking igbo babe on Facebook. He fell in love instantly with her or with her pix. They got chatting and after sometime he asked her out and she said yes. So he travelled back to Nigeria and they both got married. Processed her papers and brought her with him to Germany. Opened her big business for her and started spoiling her with the good things of life. This my guy's aunty said after some time the lady started giving him hell .showing him disrespect and having affairs with younger Men. This igbo man later died in mysterious circumstances. They said he slept and didn't wake up d next morning. So this my guy's aunty and some friends went to this lady's house to sympathise with her. Instead of seeing her in mourning attire she was well dressed and her face all made up. They were about offering their condolences but she immediately cut them off and was yapping on the phone at the top of her voice that they shouldn't move any of the man's property and that she will be in the bank very soon and blah blah. My guy's aunty said some of the oyibo among them were pinching themselves and looking at the lady curiously as she was making the call. No iota of sadness in her.all she was interested was just her husband's property and money.she said they were all shocked dat day at the lady's behaviour. Some of them starting suspecting she might have poisoned her husband so as to quickly inherit all his properties. She just told us the story so that we should be vigilant in the type of women we get married to. Bro when that my guy aunty yarn this story i just weak...aghhh!.

Safiaa:
women and men are different this is why we can never understand each other. A man who is a provider, will gain that physical attraction you need. Rather have an ugly man with provider qualities than a good looking man who can’t do anything for me. That’s if I had to choose.

Yeah I used to be one of them babes that would only date good looking guys. When I was 18/19. That phase died quick as it should, don’t have time for that anymore Lool.

lefulefu:
the pining for wall no be here oo. They so much into each other. Hey hw u doin?.

Elder001:


Elder001

Elder001:



Bro. .never trust a Nigerian woman.

You better leave her here in Nigeria rather than processing her documents for her to stay with you in Europe or America and she later ruin your life.

If she accuses you of domestic violence even if you didn't lay your hands on her and she doesn't have any reasonable proof you might still be jailed.

If she accuses you of marital rape you're doomed .

Bro.. be careful with Nigerian ladies especially those igbo ladies.

Asowari:
There business !but why marry someone u don't love

Lalas247:

True .... that's just temporary ... looks fade over time ..

lefulefu:
the only lady u can carry along to join u is ur girlfriend who has been with u for sometime. At least dat one will have ur interest at hear. But if u no go get girlfriend and u eventually don port go dat side it wont be so advisable trying to look for a bride back in naija. It was ok doin such 40 something years ago but the world is different now.naija babes don open eye and its only d bad ones dat will stick on u once dey notice u are a jardonite or from Yankee.

Twoclans:


Lol

My darlyn

I have this smile on my face ,you have a way of pressing my buttons