CryptoClub2018:


On your wife,see sometimes our ladies say what they don't mean and may just argue her point to drive home a position she wants to be as at that time. In the end,she might not act what she says and you will find out that she will be the best supportive wife you can ever thing of. One thing you should continue to pray for is financial uplift in your own life and believe me,she will gladly want to assist you even if you don't ask of her assistance. It's nothing to worry about bro
You will be fine and don't let negative advice here put unnecessary thoughts in your mind about your woman. Or better still if she is serious about what she said, then try and change her mindset in a loving manner and stop arguing with her. Do pray for her too but most importantly as I have said, pray to God to make you always financially stable and u will b fine. Bro, seriously it's nothing to worry about. I know u love her pls just continue to love her. Cheers

Also, can you help me with some cash?I'm financially down for now pls. I'll b glad if u can. Thanks

MarieSucre:


She is right. He is the head of the family, she is just a helpmeet. What is the point of the being the head and calling the shots if you will not take care of her needs. Please stop promoting feminism here. Men and women have their sweater roles to play which will never be equal. Now you're asking her to buy clothes for herself, next thing you ask her to tell him to come and be cooking food in the kitchen. A man is the head. Head no be by beans. A worse is enough for the wise.

mistacoco:
is 5 milion worth invest not enov to provide for the family?

Naikkie:
Different strokes for different folks.. Here I am, wanting to split bills with my husband! but 'cos of deep rooted African beliefs he said no...same company, same pay!.. My work is even more time consuming, so he has no choice but to do domestic duties (no house maid abroad).. I am jejely waiting for him to ask what I am doing with my money.

VampireeM:


Ntorrrr.

Naikkie:
Different strokes for different folks.. Here I am, wanting to split bills with my husband! but 'cos of deep rooted African beliefs he said no...same company, same pay!.. My work is even more time consuming, so he has no choice but to do domestic duties (no house maid abroad).. I am jejely waiting for him to ask what I am doing with my money.

Holymann:


Trying to defend her only shows that YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY IS HIGHER THAN I THOUGHT.

citadels:
U will suffer and die she won't contribute dime. what type of human being is she. she is very wicked and selfish please.

Coldfeets:
This is just one of the reasons why I approach every relationship issue with a business mindset.

At least, once the business terms are defined, all parties will be aware of their roles and responsibilities.

pedrilo:
madam I'm sure his pay can take care of tins conveniently. As men, if we hav d financial power, trust me our woman's money is non of our biz.

emelda86:


As a business mogul u are na...lol

IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried?

EkeneElectrons:

Lol na love

Coldfeets:


I said business mindset, not business mogul.

You don't have to be a business mogul before you develop some basic common sense, okay?

Business mindset simply means creating a win-win situation for all concerned.

Buyer is satisfied; seller is satisfied.

50 - 50 in a layman's language.

in a bet9ja lingua franca.

If I sense at any time in the course of the relationship that you are trying to establish a PARASITIC relationship where I will just be giving without receiving and you will be receiving without giving, I cut you off one time!

emelda86:


Someone cannot play with you again? Lol...

Coldfeets:


Na you sabi which kain play you dey play.

Me, I'm just trying to explain myself.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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bobowaja:
Lemme tell you how this is gonna end

You get married to her and give her the 5m ==> you guys have a valid marriage certificate ==> she starts giving you problem and tries to wreck you financially ==> whenever she cant keep up with your bullsh*t anymore she asks for divorce ==> the court will make you give her compensations especially if she have a kid for you==> she will travel abroad and elope with her best friend (yes they are lez and both are playing you).

In one word..... She is not good for your future.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

vannessa7:


You know i always tell my husband the exact same thing, i also tell him, your money is our money while my money is my money , but in reality its just to keep him on his toes, he established a grocery business for me and i always make sure he pays for anything we take for the house and he still pump money into the business, but anyrime he needs funding im the first person to offer him, even my own seperate money, but i always make sure he doesnt relax and rely on the business, so your girl might just be making sure she will not end up being the husband working to sustain the family while you relax, many men begin to slack when their wife is earning, look back at her giving attitude towards you while dating before making your decision, dont throw away something good because of a minor issue, its not easy to find a soul mate, think of it as something to motivate you to become very wealthy so you wont need her money, it will come back and bite her if she doesnt do anything at all because men start feeling like god and she will not have a say in decision making and you may start keeping other women since you dont owe her anything,

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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