How we've so drifted with the tide of love and balls: the core of life itself! Try as we may, we cannot extensively exhaust its sexy crude chapters. here now, we must move on.

Let him who has ears hear
Let him apply his mind
Man his days

For such is life and its rude design
A call we must all obey in our own terms or otherwise
Such is life

HARDDON:
How we've so drifted with the tide of love and balls: the core of life itself! Try as we may, we cannot extensively exhaust its sexy crude chapters. here now, we must move on.

Let him who have ears hear
Let him apply his mind
Man his days

For such is life and its rude design
A call we must all obey in our own terms or otherwise
Such is life

still waiting for your reply boss

leocollins:


still waiting for your reply boss

Reply?

Did I miss something Phil I mean Leo Collins?

HARDDON:



Reply?

Did I miss something Phil I mean Leo Collins?

yea,I dropped this in the morning,hardon good morning boss,please I need ur help there is a girl I met last week Friday and we talked,then she gave me her number,since then when I call her,she will be like she is busy that she will flash me when she is done ,but she will never flash back,another problem is that when we are chatting on whatapp she makes it boring by giving me monasylabbic chat no matter how hard I try to make it interesting. then all of a sudden she stop picking my calls and wont even call back.yesterday I saw I didn't wana talk to her but she came close and said hy,I asked her why she is behaving that way ,and why has she not be picking my class,she said she didn't know what to say to me,she didn't wana disappoint me anymore, then I asked her if am stalking her she should tell me ,then she said no,I told her okay no problem we will talk later then I left..hardon pls help how can I get this girl. help a brother out..thanks

leocollins:



yea,I dropped this in the morning,hardon good morning boss,please I need ur help there is a girl I met last week Friday and we talked,then she gave me her number,since then when I call her,she will be like she is busy that she will flash me when she is done ,but she will never flash back,another problem is that when we are chatting on whatapp she makes it boring by giving me monasylabbic chat no matter how hard I try to make it interesting. then all of a sudden she stop picking my calls and wont even call back.yesterday I saw I didn't wana talk to her but she came close and said hy,I asked her why she is behaving that way ,and why has she not be picking my class,she said she didn't know what to say to me,she didn't wana disappoint me anymore, then I asked her if am stalking her she should tell me ,then she said no,I told her okay no problem we will talk later then I left..hardon pls help how can I get this girl. help a brother out..thanks

is it that hard to read this thread from scratch? all ur answers are there which is why hardon hasn't responded to u.
like harddon would say, always use cocky and humorous lines wen chatting..
no lady is immune to dat unles she lacks a sense f humour.. if after using the humorous n cocky verses and gal is stil cold, swerve away with alacrity..

leocollins:



yea,I dropped this in the morning,hardon good morning boss,please I need ur help there is a girl I met last week Friday and we talked,then she gave me her number,since then when I call her,she will be like she is busy that she will flash me when she is done ,but she will never flash back,another problem is that when we are chatting on whatapp she makes it boring by giving me monasylabbic chat no matter how hard I try to make it interesting. then all of a sudden she stop picking my calls and wont even call back.yesterday I saw I didn't wana talk to her but she came close and said hy,I asked her why she is behaving that way ,and why has she not be picking my class,she said she didn't know what to say to me,she didn't wana disappoint me anymore, then I asked her if am stalking her she should tell me ,then she said no,I told her okay no problem we will talk later then I left..hardon pls help how can I get this girl. help a brother out..thanks

Oh this. As coleB rightly said, I did ignore it because drLammy had answered you rightly. Took the words off my lips. Sleek.


However, there are few things you should note and some questions for you to rumminate about.

1. Was your meeting fun and did you burn the LON( line of note) image in her mind before she gave you her line or she reluctantly did to get you off her backs?


2. When ladies behave like that, there are 3 things involved:
a) she didn't really fancy your meeting and just gave you her line so she can get rid of you

b) she did really liked meeting you and decided to test if you are man enough by telling you she is busy and she would FLASH U when she is free. This is to turn you into a needy dock. She effectively deballed you when even though she didn't bother to flash, you still kept calling back like a Peacock on heat. You failed the test. This made her shove you down the pecking order and stopped taking your calls. You ain't worth it.

How can you just meet a lady, call her, she busy and with no iota of decorum, tell you she would FLASH YOU back WHEN SHE IS FREE and you Duck n let her get away with it?

"Flash you " means you ain't worth wasting my credit on.
"When I'm free " means I'm in charge here and things must be done my own time and way. Deballed effectively.

Then she DIDNT EVEN BOTHER TO CALL BACK after promising, this means you are of no consequence.


All these behaviour made her stock shoot up where you are and you went wimpey, needy; calling and forcing a chat and crying and pleading( oh you didn't cry and beg?
Of course you did with those lame questions you asked her when you met her again!) and begging for her attention! YUCK, MAN YUCK!


Do yourself some good and invest in your self confidence and balls by reading this thread (1-50) at least and signing up to our Blog.


While at it, IGNORE HER COMPLETELY. No calls, chats, status read, physical contact, nada!

Go to places you are CELEBRATED not where you are TOLERATED

You are worth much more than these, stop selling short!

@leocollins

The last of the three things is :

She got a boyfriend who found out she met someone and took it out on her. Hence her withdrawal. This is highly unlikely though

HARDDON:
@leocollins

The last of the three things is :

She got a boyfriend who found out she met someone and took it out on her. Hence her withdrawal. This is highly unlikely though

thanks boss,i really appreciate..I now know mistakes..am gona block her and delete her fucking number on my fone..thanks once again

Dmulticore:




When I met u, tot u were some1 I could have intelligent convo with as we drip fun along d line. unfortunately, u r the most boring female being I've ever come across...
From now henceforth, screw ur HIs , F* ur HEYs, choke on ur KKs. U ain't worth a single sec of my precious time. U R HEREBY IGNORED HENCEFORTH MISS BOREDOM 2016 .


SENSE PILL 28:
The Don wud always say: Go to places u r celebrated instead of places u r tolerated !

I wana use those word's on her

leocollins:



I wana use those word's on her

HARDDON:
@leocollins

The last of the three things is :

She got a boyfriend who found out she met someone and took it out on her. Hence her withdrawal. This is highly unlikely though

A girl I truly love but she's too reserved,even though she claims to love me I later got tired of her and told her to go her way so since then I stopped calling her and she never called either... The thing here is that I can't really get her off my head so am thinking of going back to her.

HARDDON Please tell me what to do cus am beginning to regret ever telling her to go her way. Thanks

HARDDON:
She had the sense n smile to be one of my many flowers, d skin n swag to sway me, the sleek n style to out stand but not the physical endowments to entice me, so i walked on by

You know what they say: The eyes must be appeased first b4 d heart .

Yes, i walked on by.

Know your wants!

FreshGuy2:
A girl I truly love but she's too reserved ,even though she claims to love me I later got tired of her and told her to go her way so since then I stopped calling her and she never called either... The thing here is that I can't really get her off my head so am thinking of going back to her.

HARDDON Please tell me what to do cus am beginning to regret ever telling her to go her way. Thanks

By been too reserved you mean....?


*Whispers( she doesn't let you touch her? Isn't so open to remance? Bliv in no s3x before marriage? Religous?)

You know u can talk to me freely.

Greetings Boss being seeing all the good works here, I need your advice on a certain issue. I have being dating a girl for 9 months now but recently her attitude towards me changed . She started to be more secretive etc , i think she cheating on me and even my friend in her school called me to inform about affair with a guy but I don’t want believe it till I have tangible proof. So my question is that I really do love this girl but I don’t how best to confront her about this and how is the fastest way to forget about someone you love

HARDDON:


By been too reserved you mean....?


*Whispers( she doesn't let you touch her? Isn't so open to remance? Bliv in no s3x before marriage? Religous?)

You know u can talk to me freely.

It is really disappointing when guys keep asking questions on easy topics that Harddon has already discussed in detail in the thread. How hard can it be to go through the thread?

All the answers to most of these basic questions being asked have been answered repeatedly.

If you follow or note down some of those sense pills Harddon dropped. You won't have need to ask questions......why because you will already know the line of action to follow at each step.

Please let's do better...193 pages is nothing compared to the profound impact this thread will have in your love life.

HARDDON:


By been too reserved you mean....?


*Whispers( she doesn't let you touch her? Isn't so open to remance? Bliv in no s3x before marriage? Religous?)

You know u can talk to me freely.

HARDDON i really love what your doing.. Here's my problem

I have this ex of mine we broke up since 2016 and she hs been dating other guys while i do the same and recently she started calling me and we will talk for hours on phone and she once told me she has this guy she loves so much and she sometimes tell me she still loves me but doesn't want to get back with me and i love her so much and want to get back with her cos we seemed like perfect match even her friends and mine wants us back together but she's still holding back. Tho i asked her who am i to you and she told me am a `friend' i was just weak. She's currently dating someone. But i still feel he's nt the one for her with the things she has told me about him.
NOTE: We know ourselves too well
What should i do?

leocollins:



thanks boss,i really appreciate..I now know mistakes..am gona block her and delete her fucking number on my fone..thanks once again

Oga..u are still not in the parry.. u don't need all these, just ignore her in full.

Read hardon Blog or read this thread from A-Z and orientate urself

@ HARDDON

How do I respond to a girl who is always taking long calls from guys in my presence? Will ignoring her and pretending not to be bordered be good idea?

HARDDON:


By been too reserved you mean....?


*Whispers( she doesn't let you touch her? Isn't so open to remance? Bliv in no s3x before marriage? Religous?)

You know u can talk to me freely.

Sorry for the late response...


Yes doesn't let me touch her, she doesn't even call me unless I call her or when she sees my missed calls and it all looked like I was just the only one trying to make things work between us

BanigoCharlesP:


HARDDON i really love what your doing.. Here's my problem

I have this ex of mine we broke up since 2016 and she hs been dating other guys while i do the same and recently she started calling me and we will talk for hours on phone and she once told me she has this guy she loves so much and she sometimes tell me she still loves me but doesn't want to get back with me and i love her so much and want to get back with her cos we seemed like perfect match even her friends and mine wants us back together but she's still holding back. Tho i asked her who am i to you and she told me am a `friend' i was just weak . She's currently dating someone. But i still feel he's nt the one for her with the things she has told me about him.
NOTE: We know ourselves too well
What should i do?

1. She was the one that broke up with you.
2. She has your emotional switch and oh how she just flip it however she wishes. She is the man where both of you are.
3. She is more mentally balanced than you are. As a matter of fact, she sees you as a toy thing
4. She is manipulative. You are a wimp
5. You have been on da Fzone even while you were seemingly dating.
6. Imagine the effrontery and your wack ways: you sit down and listen to cheap gossips from a lil lady. Gossips about how she gets browsed by other JRods. Here you are ignoring all her body counts and willingly to have her back! Shm.

My Dvise?

Not until you work on yourself by reading this thread and following our blog, Start ignoring her.

Get your balls back mehn.


But whatever you do, YOU REALLY DONT NEED HER NEGATIVE ENEGIES ARROUND YOU.

HARDDON:


1. She was the one that broke up with you.
2. She has your emotional switch and oh how she just flip it however she wishes. She is the man where both of you are.
3. She is more mentally balanced than you are. As a matter of fact, she sees you as a toy thing
4. She is manipulative. You are a wimp
5. You have been on da Fzone even while you were seemingly dating.
6. Imagine the effrontery and your wack ways: you sit down and listen to cheap gossips from a lil lady. Gossips about how she gets browsed by other JRods. Here you are ignoring all her body counts and willingly to have her back! Shm.

My Dvise?

Not until you work on yourself by reading this thread and following our blog, Start ignoring her.

Get your balls back mehn.


But whatever you do, YOU REALLY DONT NEED HER NEGATIVE ENEGIES ARROUND YOU.

Haven't called,texted or sent her a dm on fb or whatsapp for days.. She just flashed me but i didn't pick..

[quote author=HARDDON post=68450103]

By been too reserved you mean....?


*Whispers( she doesn't let you touch her? Isn't so open to remance? Bliv in no s3x before marriage? Religous?)

You know u can talk to me freely.

[/quote
She doesn't let me touch her, doesn't even call me unless I call her or when she sees my missed calls and it all looked like Im just the only one trying to make things work between us

What do I do?

HARDDON:


1. She was the one that broke up with you.
2. She has your emotional switch and oh how she just flip it however she wishes. She is the man where both of you are.
3. She is more mentally balanced than you are. As a matter of fact, she sees you as a toy thing
4. She is manipulative. You are a wimp
5. You have been on da Fzone even while you were seemingly dating.
6. Imagine the effrontery and your wack ways: you sit down and listen to cheap gossips from a lil lady. Gossips about how she gets browsed by other JRods. Here you are ignoring all her body counts and willingly to have her back! Shm.

My Dvise?

Not until you work on yourself by reading this thread and following our blog, Start ignoring her.

Get your balls back mehn.


But whatever you do, YOU REALLY DONT NEED HER NEGATIVE ENEGIES ARROUND YOU.

what do I do sir HARDDON

DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

Having found someone worth loving( with your balls intact), how do we go on from thence, handle all her tests brilliantly?
What are the do's and don't in a relationship?

How can a real guy date and dance yet armed with his sway and balls' swagger?


DRILL NUGGET 23a

Handling Marriage Proposal
When to, how to and every other thing inbtw


b) The Vow and life after

i have actually read this thread from the beginning to the end, and truth be told, the likes of harddon and the rest, u guys are actually doing a nice job tho, can I get added to the group chat please?

Hi guys,

[quote author=HARDDON post=68578915]DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

Having found someone worth loving( with your balls intact), how do we go on from thence, handle all her tests brilliantly?
What are the do's and don't in a relationship?

How can a real guy date and dance yet armed with his sway and balls' swagger?




Harddon
pls come and help a brother
have been following this thread bumper to bumper from 2017...
There's this babe am dating back then in 2015 but due to school we are not staying in the same state again but as of now we're very close that she will chat me up within a day..
but I have this problem with her anytime I went home I normally try to invite her to come over,sometimes she will agree but she won't show up but with this drill I normally act as if it's nothing...pls how can I go about this or I should just let go...

FreshGuy2:
what do I do sir HARDDON

Read my previous reply again. Slowly this time around

iamKelzy:
i have actually read this thread from the beginning to the end, and truth be told, the likes of harddon and the rest, u guys are actually doing a nice job tho, can I get added to the group chat please?

Follow our blog instead.