| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by divinelove(m): 7:03am On Jun 20, 2018 |
dammy13:
I met a young lady on Twitter about seven months ago. An issue was trending on twitter back then and we had opposing opinions, we kept attacking each other to the point that she insulted me and called me a novice.
I finally entered her DM with the aim of advising her…but she was waiting with an apology which I accepted and we became pals.
After thirty days of chatting non stop we decided to meet! She lives in Port Harcourt while I’m based in Lagos, she arranged my flight, booked my hotel, without asking for money. She told me to give her when we see. I was touched.
So I met Dara, 29, she is not drop dead gorgeous, not beautiful by the standard of many but the most unusually beautiful girl I have seen. Chatty, funny and charming.
She took me to the hotel and long story short, we had sex. She didn’t spend the night with me but returned the next day to see me.
I returned to Lagos with nothing in my heart but the accomplishment of ‘catching’ another girl. I told my friends everything about her, and they laughed at how easily I laid her.
I stopped chatting with her, avoided her calls for two weeks until I realized I was hooked, not infatuation, not the sex, I was in love. I talked to my friends and they thought I was a fool. They called her ‘cheap’ ‘slut’ and all that, they said she’d sleep with everyone like that.
The thing is I don’t think Dara is like that, I think I seduced her and gave her no room to really resist. I called her and apologized for being MIA. We’ve been good since then, but my greatest regret is talking to my friends about her.
They don’t treat her well, they are convinced she is bad. “No one marries the girl they slept with on the first date” they keep telling me.
I love her, I want to marry her, she has given me no cause to worry… I want to believe my friends are wrong on this! Is there a guy here who married a lady he slept with on the first date? Am I safe? I haven’t proposed but I know I want to marry her…
https://goldmyne.tv/featured/matters-heart-sex-first-time-make-bad/ The girl is loose and far from a wife material, do not say you are not warned. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MRLANNISTER(m): 7:06am On Jun 20, 2018 |
dingbang:
Your friends are bad eggs... Someone has s3x with you on the first date doesn't mean the person is cheap or too easy going. Please warn your friends to desist from such mentality.
If you like her then marry her.. a friend of mine married a girl he slept with on first date and today they are happily married with 2 boys. 9 years and counting. don't be a slowpoke. if she is good she is good. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by andycom(m): 7:17am On Jun 20, 2018 |
[quote author=Saff post=68635679]This is it.
They will tell you “ It doesn’t matter, if you sleep with me on the first date it doesn’t mean anything, we’re all mature”
Behind your back it’s a different story. And it has everything to do with their ego and pride. Never listen to their words, always their actions smh. She even paid for your hotel and flight, and you had the nerve to mock her to your friends? Ungrateful cow, you’re not even ashamed.
Listen, you’re a grown man and if you can’t learn to make decisions without the influence of your friends, you won’t go far in life. If you can’t deal with the shame, spare the babe and let her live her life. All these sissy boys sef, can’t make a simple decision for anything. Always gossiping and crying later like bitches. Spits. [/quote
spits too |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Peterosky(m): 7:19am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Bros I am not sure you would have been happy with that lady if you had traveled as far as Lagos to PH and she denies you sex.For your information, there is nothing wrong about that. I am happily married to a woman I slept with on a first date,and let me shock you a little that surprisingly, she is the only woman I have ever trusted in my life. Your friends are not correct on this. Sleeping with a girl on a first date does not define who she really is. My advice is that you study her properly to know if she is your wife so that you don't miss a wife material. She did that out of love and sympathy for. But what really were you expecting on a journey like that? Kindly go for her if you truly love her. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by dingbang(m): 7:20am On Jun 20, 2018 |
MRLANNISTER:
a friend of mine married a girl he slept with on first date and today they are happily married with 2 boys. 9 years and counting. don't be a slowpoke. if she is good she is good. I tell you brother |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Twoclans(f): 7:29am On Jun 20, 2018 |
I am truly shocked at the maturity of some comments from notable male monikers on this thread .  There is still hope for nairaland .For a while now i was almost thinking everyone in nairaland was feed with bad breast milk including me .  |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by jibs4lv(m): 7:38am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
This is it.
They will tell you “ It doesn’t matter, if you sleep with me on the first date it doesn’t mean anything, we’re all mature”
Behind your back it’s a different story. And it has everything to do with their ego and pride. Never listen to their words, always their actions smh. She even paid for your hotel and flight, and you had the nerve to mock her to your friends? Ungrateful cow, you’re not even ashamed.
Listen, you’re a grown man and if you can’t learn to make decisions without the influence of your friends, you won’t go far in life. If you can’t deal with the shame, spare the babe and let her live her life. All these sissy boys sef, can’t make a simple decision for anything. Always gossiping and crying later like bitches. Spits. madam calm down now. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by gentlegenius(m): 7:41am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
exactly, but then these guys will shout against it completely to get what they want. But behind your back they’re laughing at you. I even think this situation is better because at least they were speaking for a month before they met up. So they were already familiar with each other before having sex. The guy is just an idiott. And there's no way you can advise someone without calling him names?? Damn! This is gross immaturity. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Born2Breed(f): 7:46am On Jun 20, 2018 |
dammy13:
I met a young lady on Twitter about seven months ago. An issue was trending on twitter back then and we had opposing opinions, we kept attacking each other to the point that she insulted me and called me a novice.
I finally entered her DM with the aim of advising her…but she was waiting with an apology which I accepted and we became pals.
After thirty days of chatting non stop we decided to meet! She lives in Port Harcourt while I’m based in Lagos, she arranged my flight, booked my hotel, without asking for money. She told me to give her when we see. I was touched.
So I met Dara, 29, she is not drop dead gorgeous, not beautiful by the standard of many but the most unusually beautiful girl I have seen. Chatty, funny and charming.
She took me to the hotel and long story short, we had sex. She didn’t spend the night with me but returned the next day to see me.
I returned to Lagos with nothing in my heart but the accomplishment of ‘catching’ another girl. I told my friends everything about her, and they laughed at how easily I laid her.
I stopped chatting with her, avoided her calls for two weeks until I realized I was hooked, not infatuation, not the sex, I was in love. I talked to my friends and they thought I was a fool. They called her ‘cheap’ ‘slut’ and all that, they said she’d sleep with everyone like that.
The thing is I don’t think Dara is like that, I think I seduced her and gave her no room to really resist. I called her and apologized for being MIA. We’ve been good since then, but my greatest regret is talking to my friends about her.
They don’t treat her well, they are convinced she is bad. “No one marries the girl they slept with on the first date” they keep telling me.
I love her, I want to marry her, she has given me no cause to worry… I want to believe my friends are wrong on this! Is there a guy here who married a lady he slept with on the first date? Am I safe? I haven’t proposed but I know I want to marry her…
https://goldmyne.tv/featured/matters-heart-sex-first-time-make-bad/ Your thinking determines you and birds of same feather flock together. You and your crew are immature kids or mummy boys. Change your thinking by first changing your circle of friends. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by frozen70(f): 7:49am On Jun 20, 2018 |
dammy13:
I met a young lady on Twitter about seven months ago. An issue was trending on twitter back then and we had opposing opinions, we kept attacking each other to the point that she insulted me and called me a novice.
I finally entered her DM with the aim of advising her…but she was waiting with an apology which I accepted and we became pals.
After thirty days of chatting non stop we decided to meet! She lives in Port Harcourt while I’m based in Lagos, she arranged my flight, booked my hotel, without asking for money. She told me to give her when we see. I was touched.
So I met Dara, 29, she is not drop dead gorgeous, not beautiful by the standard of many but the most unusually beautiful girl I have seen. Chatty, funny and charming.
She took me to the hotel and long story short, we had sex. She didn’t spend the night with me but returned the next day to see me.
I returned to Lagos with nothing in my heart but the accomplishment of ‘catching’ another girl. I told my friends everything about her, and they laughed at how easily I laid her.
I stopped chatting with her, avoided her calls for two weeks until I realized I was hooked, not infatuation, not the sex, I was in love. I talked to my friends and they thought I was a fool. They called her ‘cheap’ ‘slut’ and all that, they said she’d sleep with everyone like that.
The thing is I don’t think Dara is like that, I think I seduced her and gave her no room to really resist. I called her and apologized for being MIA. We’ve been good since then, but my greatest regret is talking to my friends about her.
They don’t treat her well, they are convinced she is bad. “No one marries the girl they slept with on the first date” they keep telling me.
I love her, I want to marry her, she has given me no cause to worry… I want to believe my friends are wrong on this! Is there a guy here who married a lady he slept with on the first date? Am I safe? I haven’t proposed but I know I want to marry her…
https://goldmyne.tv/featured/matters-heart-sex-first-time-make-bad/ Try not to loose what you are about getting that will keep you in a permanent happiness you might regret it and then it will be very late to reclaim it. Learn to grow up to be a man of your own decision you are lacking in that aspect. She loves you even without seeing you, so what other prove do you want? |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Nobody: 7:49am On Jun 20, 2018 |
She knows what she wants and went for it. Abi you wanted her flight money to waste  |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by famosh: 7:51am On Jun 20, 2018 |
tunize:
U see your life? U're joking right?
How about the ones u dis-virgin who go come wife dem? abi those one nor be ppl go marry dem? I never disvirgin anybody before, baba! Even if I have, it's not absurd to only want to marry a virgin! I won't care who gets married to them! That's life! Wanting to marry a virgin (which is definitely under the persons control) is way better than you guys who select based on things that aren't even the fault of the opposite sex; for example, weight, height, complexion & other physical features! |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Mhizrohzz(f): 7:56am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
This is it.
They will tell you “ It doesn’t matter, if you sleep with me on the first date it doesn’t mean anything, we’re all mature”
Behind your back it’s a different story. And it has everything to do with their ego and pride. Never listen to their words, always their actions smh. She even paid for your hotel and flight, and you had the nerve to mock her to your friends? Ungrateful cow, you’re not even ashamed.
Listen, you’re a grown man and if you can’t learn to make decisions without the influence of your friends, you won’t go far in life. If you can’t deal with the shame, spare the babe and let her live her life. All these sissy boys sef, can’t make a simple decision for anything. Always gossiping and crying later like bitches. Spits. babe u re priceless if only he knows d amount of guys nd wat lengths they've gone to get wat he got on d first date, but at d end d ladies re been tagged cheap ( awon oni iranu) thanks for ur point ojare |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by OkpaAkuEriEri(m): 8:07am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Pataricatering:
is it that you are under - sexed , unsexed or just a juvenile delinquent? Why do you guys carry sex on your head like it’s a big deal ? Are you ok ? If saff loves fcking nairaland boys did she borrow your genitals to Bleep them ? Limp diicked toad ! Saff , my apologies, just had to respond to this boy that wont know what to do with pvssy even if it landed on his head and slapped him ! Ode! sori.is nt u I wnt. U hv mouth odore. Nt ur biz wt my sex. PM mi if u wnt mi 2 fork u,dnt beef mi |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by OkpaAkuEriEri(m): 8:09am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
ayam afonja
please don’t like me I no. Bt it dnt mata.afonja is nt a dicease |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by mrdna(m): 8:14am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Useless bloggers |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Greystone: 8:15am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
This is it.
They will tell you “ It doesn’t matter, if you sleep with me on the first date it doesn’t mean anything, we’re all mature”
Behind your back it’s a different story. And it has everything to do with their ego and pride. Never listen to their words, always their actions smh. She even paid for your hotel and flight, and you had the nerve to mock her to your friends? Ungrateful cow, you’re not even ashamed.
Listen, you’re a grown man and if you can’t learn to make decisions without the influence of your friends, you won’t go far in life. If you can’t deal with the shame, spare the babe and let her live her life. All these sissy boys sef, can’t make a simple decision for anything. Always gossiping and crying later like bitches. Spits. God bless you. If i could like this post twice, I would. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by erico2k2(m): 8:17am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
exactly, but then these guys will shout against it completely to get what they want. But behind your back they’re laughing at you. I even think this situation is better because at least they were speaking for a month before they met up. So they were already familiar with each other before having sex. The guy is just an idiott. Sex is over rated, sex after how many years of meeting does not in anyway secure one's future with a man. Many guys and girls are guilty of bunk on the 1st date. There is no clear days/months/years count to this. what matters most is your intention and what's in the heart. Loads of us married men had sex with tier then gf who are now the wives and 4 kids later, still feels like the 1st time PS< this should be btw you and your guy, how did the 3rd party know about it? Answer= one of you got a big mouth. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by AdamuAudu: 8:18am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
exactly, but then these guys will shout against it completely to get what they want. But behind your back they’re laughing at you. I even think this situation is better because at least they were speaking for a month before they met up. So they were already familiar with each other before having sex. The guy is just an idiott. You nor dey see him neck? Does that neck any different from an half inch pipe? That boy, to me, is damn to prematured to even marry. He may end up messing her up. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by erico2k2(m): 8:18am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
This is it.
They will tell you “ It doesn’t matter, if you sleep with me on the first date it doesn’t mean anything, we’re all mature”
Behind your back it’s a different story. And it has everything to do with their ego and pride. Never listen to their words, always their actions smh. She even paid for your hotel and flight, and you had the nerve to mock her to your friends? Ungrateful cow, you’re not even ashamed.
Listen, you’re a grown man and if you can’t learn to make decisions without the influence of your friends, you won’t go far in life. If you can’t deal with the shame, spare the babe and let her live her life. All these sissy boys sef, can’t make a simple decision for anything. Always gossiping and crying later like bitches. Spits. Some of them boys still live with Mum and Dad, no life experience, you can even find loads of them here by their comments. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Nobody: 8:29am On Jun 20, 2018 |
How i wish i met this kind of girl, she even pay ur bills ah u are on long thing..... |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by tunize(m): 8:31am On Jun 20, 2018 |
famosh:
I never disvirgin anybody before, baba! Even if I have, it's not absurd to only want to marry a virgin! I won't care who gets married to them! That's life!
Wanting to marry a virgin (which is definitely under the persons control) is way better than you guys who select based on things that aren't even the fault of the opposite sex; for example, weight, height, complexion & other physical features! Eyah sorry bro i'm not in this category of guyz maybe you are cos if not u wouldn't have ultered the statement u made up there. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by wayodude(m): 8:46am On Jun 20, 2018 |
the second date is dead. if you dont get it on the first date then there is a very high chance there wont be a second date. Lets be all we can be.....  |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Igba123: 9:10am On Jun 20, 2018 |
dammy13:
https://goldmyne.tv/featured/matters-heart-sex-first-time-make-bad/ guy, marriage is not contracted on d social media. Why don't u go to a marriage counsellor? Or follow ur heart n not friends'(immature, prideful minds). I was given some funny advice by friends who felt they knew d lady I want to marry but today I thankGod my ex pulled out for d lady my friends disparaged to come into my life. Be wise buddy. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 9:12am On Jun 20, 2018 |
chinchum:
While it might not be the best of assessment of the character of a lady. Sleeping with a girl on a first date tells a lot about her sexual character. There is a high chance she is sexually loose. As opposed to the guy who is sexually a virgin se? It's almost like its only the girl that had sex on the first date. hypocrites. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 9:13am On Jun 20, 2018 |
derrydinny:
a lot of people saying it has no meaning wont allow their brothers do same, she may have problem with her urge, be careful because she might be a nympho As opposed to the guy who has no problem with his urge se. I'd tell the girl to flee from him too. Her marriage will be full of fighting side chicks and treating STD's. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 9:13am On Jun 20, 2018 |
austyn0:
If the story is true, these things happen....The girl is right to be confused because her friends are kinda right,, if you can straf a guy on the first day of meeting him facially,, who won't have second thoughts abou that guy??
Let's set aside biase and be open-minded for once. fixed. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by souljaboy(m): 9:24am On Jun 20, 2018 |
So when you inserted your 'John Thomas' you weren't confused abi? Bros u be goat ! 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Charly68: 9:28am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Preshy561:
but it's safe to marry you that had sex on first date? That is the hypocrisy of men for you...he didn't consider himself a cheat and cheap ..people can be very funny 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Curry30: 9:31am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:
This is it.
They will tell you “ It doesn’t matter, if you sleep with me on the first date it doesn’t mean anything, we’re all mature”
Behind your back it’s a different story. And it has everything to do with their ego and pride. Never listen to their words, always their actions smh. She even paid for your hotel and flight, and you had the nerve to mock her to your friends? Ungrateful cow, you’re not even ashamed.
Listen, you’re a grown man and if you can’t learn to make decisions without the influence of your friends, you won’t go far in life. If you can’t deal with the shame, spare the babe and let her live her life. All these sissy boys sef, can’t make a simple decision for anything. Always gossiping and crying later like bitches. Spits. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by thedondada(m): 9:34am On Jun 20, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy:
Easy... Easy... Easy...
The story is fiction.
Now breath in and out...
Nice! Lol. @ op The interesting thing is she booked your flight and room in her domain, slept with you went home and came back the next day for further ramming. You and your guys are dull. She bleeped you and not the other way around. |
| Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Emperornice: 9:35am On Jun 20, 2018 |
thats why a grown up never kisses and tells, man up boy |
