MISEDUCATIONS:
which is a fancy way of saying:

Oyindidi:
When you grow older, you'll understand why the Bible said women should be submissive in marriage. For now, keep swimming in your own ocean of wisdom.

Small boy with small empty brain.
You said I created a thread that women should learn to cook, is it wrong?

Oyindidi:
When you grow older, you'll understand why the Bible said women should be submissive in marriage. For now, keep swimming in your own ocean of wisdom.

Small boy with small empty brain.
You said I created a thread that women should learn to cook, is it wrong?

Hanseel1:


Sorry, I don't deal with minors.

funmisticqueen:
cos he is paying you. i would rather submit to a man who earns my respect by doing his responsibilities as a man. how can i pay bills abd contribute 50:50 in a marriage and still give submission to a man, that is pure robbery and is worse than pastorpreneurship. apart from money what else are men good for

funmisticqueen:
definitely, if you can pay for a hymenoplasty everytime you want it, why not. virginity is now cheap. it is no longer the proof of purity

pocohantas:


Truer words have never been spoken.

SamgoldBaba:

Truer words are never spoken
U read that book??

xoxo001:

OK grandpa... sure I am old enough to be your dad. get married first then come here later to tell us what you mean by submission. have a nice day sir

Oyindidi:
When you grow older, you'll understand why the Bible said women should be submissive in marriage. For now, keep swimming in your own ocean of wisdom.

Small boy with small empty brain.
You said I created a thread that women should learn to cook, is it wrong?

Hanseel1:
A low IQ individual who have never left the shores of Africa decided to contaminate this thread by including the Bible.
We all know that the Bible is a sexist book written by misogynistic and sexist men to favour men in so many ways.

Slavery of the mind and slavery of religion can be worse than death.

Oyindidi:
When you grow older, you'll understand why the Bible said women should be submissive in marriage.

WHY DON'T YOU EMPHASISE ON THE VERSES THAT SAYS NON-VIRGINS SHOULD BE STONED TO DEATH. THAT WOMEN ON THEIR PERIOD SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED ANYWHERE NEAR THE CHURCH. OR THE VERSES THAT URGES MEN TO RAPE AS MANY LITTLE GIRLS AS THEY WANT AS LONG AS THEY CAN AFFORD 50 SHEKELS (ONLY IF CAUGHT).

OR YOUR FOCUS IS ONLY ON THE CHAPTERS THAT AGREE WITH YOUR IDĮOTIC IDEAS?

Hanseel1:


When people say romance section is filled with stupid, unintelligent and crazy people, I usually dismiss them as false claims but I've come to realize that they are right.

Your slavery of the mind is beyond redemption.
You created a thread and you advised only women to learn how to cook ,why didn't you tell men to learn how to cook?

You once claimed that you're a mature lady and this section is filled with kid but you were indirectly talking about yourself.

And she's insulting me? I really don't expect much from you. Typical dumb and primitive African lady.

Like I told someone here, until you travel beyond the shores of Africa you won't be wise enough to decipher my massage from this post.

MISEDUCATIONS:

Male Feminists and their overzealousness.
now you even arguing with women themselves who are telling you of your error? whats next you gona want men to hive birth too?

ademoladeji:
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WHY DON'T YOU EMPHASISE ON THE VERSES THAT SAYS NON-VIRGINS SHOULD BE STONED TO DEATH. THAT WOMEN ON THEIR PERIOD SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED ANYWHERE NEAR THE CHURCH. OR THE VERSES THAT URGES MEN TO RAPE AS MANY LITTLE GIRLS AS THEY WANT AS LONG AS THEY CAN AFFORD 50 SHEKELS (ONLY IF CAUGHT).

OR YOUR FOCUS IS ONLY ON THE CHAPTERS THAT AGREE WITH YOUR IDĮOTIC IDEAS?

Hanseel1:


You're too dumb to participate in this debate.

Don't quote me next time, okay?

MISEDUCATIONS:

Male Feminists and their overzealousness.
now you even arguing with women themselves who are telling you of your error? whats next you gona want men to hive birth too?

Cuteamigo1:
NAIRALANDERS WILL NEVER CHANGE.
I have this neighbor, he's a househusband while his wife is the bread winner. He's the one that cooks, cleans, washes etc while the wife makes all the money. He's not ashamed to ask her "sweetheart what will you have for dinner when you return.
We often see him run out of his house to open the gate for his sweetheart and carry her handbag when she returns. The woman in return will "sweetheart him this and that"
They have been married for over 15yrs and just like most couples they are relatively happy. They are also very good Christians, the man will soon be a pastor in his church.. A popular church in Nigeria .......
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When it comes to Marriage, do what works for you......................................................

Years ago, I accompanied a colleague to meet an intending client. She has already told me the woman in question is a true African woman. She told me how this woman still kneels before her husband and wouldn't stand until he tells her to do so.
On that day we went to visit, her husband was home. She came to enquire what he would eat and like my colleague had already told me, she knelt before him.
Just immediately, his phone rang and he was on the phone for over 20mins and this lady knelt there until the man came to ask her to stand.
I later found out, she has the best things money can buy; rides ,the best cars, tours all over the world courtesy of her husband.... She still brags how her total submission is a means to her luxuriant lifestyle . Her husband is always bragging about how God blessed him with the bone of his bones n he will do everything to make her happy.......
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When it comes to Marriage, do what works for you ............................................................

I once lived with a sister before I got married, she's been married for over 20yrs and in all these years she's has never washed her own panties let alone her husband's clothes, she has never cleaned her house, she has never driven herself. She doesn't cook. If she ever cooks, it's always small chops and finger foods for her hubby alone. She has over 25 domestic staff serving her, her hubby n kids.
Her husband is a multi billionaire who can afford the multitude of domestic staffs in their home.
Her husband has continued to thank our family for giving him such a wife. She is his eyes.. She makes sure nothing goes wrong in his business empire and home.... She is the best wife for him and the man can't stop singing it. Both of them have continued to live happily ever after in their castle
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When it comes to Marriage, do what works for you ..................................................................

There is this man, a family friend who will openly tell people "I will discuss with my wife" I can't take any decisions without her... Whatever both of us agree then I will abide by it"
Both of them must agree on a property to buy before he pays for it. They must agree on a vacation destination, on a car to buy etc before anything...
Even though the wife contributes little or nothing to most of this stuffs, they still abide by mutual decision taking........ Mutual decision taking is the bed rock of their successful marriage of 13 years and both of them are not ashamed to tell it......
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When it comes to Marriage do what works for you ............................................................

I have seen different kinds of UNILATERAL ADVICE dished out to people on how to run their marriages especially on social media...

"A woman must do this and that for her marriage to work". A man must do this and that

Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with seeking for advice but while at it... make sure you look inwards first and ask yourself " is this advice good for me and can it work for me in my home . Then you can make your decision

As far as I'm concerned, the golden rule of any marriage is that which the couples have agreed to do. For as long as the people in the marriage have made that decision and they are both genuinely happy with it then it becomes their ultimate guide .

We must never forget that no two marriages are the same... We may have relative issues in different marriages but no two marriages can ever be the same .



Every marriage is personal to the people in it and they must come together , look inwards and make decisions that would work for them both.

I could sound it over and over again........
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"When it comes to Marriage do what works for you.
What rocks the boat of Mr A may sink the ship of Mr B."

Gracias....
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Hanseel1:



I've come to realize that most African women are so much stucked to Stockholm syndrome to the extent of being beyond redemption.

If she can quote that verse from the bible, she should quote the verse where non virgins are supposed to be stoned and should've no place in the society.

The Bible is against women folks in everything.

MISEDUCATIONS:
now that you have studied all these, how about you tell us what YOU think. not what you read.

Hanseel1:


An intelligent person will know that one who requires submission should be ready to reciprocate it.
But like the dumb African alpha male wannabe, Nigerian men can't reciprocate it.

Cuteamigo1:

Nice observation. what i think and also belive is that respect, submission is not an automatic ticket, it should be earned but also a woman must earn my love for her and for that to happen she must tick some certain boxes in my checklist. look inward and ask yourself what you want then proceed but i dont belive all marriage must follow a single format.

Hanseel1:


When people say romance section is filled with stupid, unintelligent and crazy people, I usually dismiss them as false claims but I've come to realize that they are right.

Your slavery of the mind is beyond redemption.
You created a thread and you advised only women to learn how to cook ,why didn't you tell men to learn how to cook?

You once claimed that you're a mature lady and this section is filled with kid but you were indirectly talking about yourself.

And she's insulting me? I really don't expect much from you. Typical dumb and primitive African lady.

Like I told someone here, until you travel beyond the shores of Africa you won't be wise enough to decipher my massage from this post.