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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 8:24am On Jul 29, 2014
chucky234: It is hard to say goodbye.....

Goodbye!!!
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 8:53am On Jul 29, 2014
chucky234: Please take her home and out of my life, be fast pls.
**waiting for my freecocoa**
U jst missed a virtuous woman brother...
will do as u say & also promise to take good care of her, luv her beyond words dat is wat i will do.
Tnx 1s again!

*Khiaa will always remember this day*
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by chucky234(m): 5:43pm On Jul 29, 2014
Bunchersstab: U jst missed a virtuous woman brother...
will do as u say & also promise to take good care of her, luv her beyond words dat is wat i will do.
Tnx 1s again!
Good for you.
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Nobody: 6:47am On Mar 28, 2016
Oxone:
If you cant influence anyone you're with positively and push them to be better, then you must be doing something wrong but you have to be realistic in your expectations and the way you go about effecting that change. Key thing here should be communication & Approach

FTC...yeyyy for u cheesy
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Oxone(m): 12:05pm On Mar 28, 2016
Oliviaarims:

FTC...yeyyy for u cheesy
Lol..... No pictures
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 3:22pm On Sep 19, 2017
Bunchersstab:
U jst missed a virtuous woman brother...
will do as u say & also promise to take good care of her, luv her beyond words dat is wat i will do.
Tnx 1s again!

*Khiaa will always remember this day*
Khiaa where are you?
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 4:17pm On Sep 19, 2017
Bunchersstab:
Khiaa where are you?

Good morning Buncher. How have you been, I miss seeing you here. How's life treating you?
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by kayneri(m): 5:16pm On Sep 19, 2017
BRAV0O:
That's why you have to be playing the real you role in any relationship cuz no matter how imperfect u ar , there are still pple out there who will care for u and love u just the way you are , unconditionally.
But if you have being hiding under mask and pretending to be who u ar not in any relationship, is like u ar caging urself. And u will end up frustrated so by the time u won't be able to hide ur real self any more was where the problem ly
Some may turns u down today cus of who u ar pls dnt stop being real you
Never change for no 1.
Worst advice ever, please people should learn to work on themselves and dis idea of never change yourself for anyone should not be used in every occasion. People should learn to ask themselves questions like 1) is this behavior good 2) if its not, then work on yourself and change it, don't go on lieing to yourself like. Ok its not good but its not bad, tell yourself the truth and become the person you want others to love as well as be an inspiration to others. If you keep lieing to yourself, you would never change and at least get a friend or two who would tell you the truth about yourself. Then make it your priority to be a better version of yourself, the word is not to change but to modify yourself.

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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 5:13am On Sep 20, 2017
khiaa:


Good morning Buncher. How have you been, I miss seeing you here. How's life treating you?
. I miss reading those sweet things from you...

Well, life has been awesome. How are you doing? Khiaa

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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 5:39am On Sep 20, 2017
Bunchersstab:
. I miss reading those sweet things from you...

Well, life has been awesome. How are you doing? Khiaa

You can PM me. I'm doing fine.
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 9:17am On Oct 28, 2017
Bunchersstab:
. I miss reading those sweet things from you...

Well, life has been awesome. How are you doing? Khiaa

Hi Buncher. smiley
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 9:33pm On Oct 29, 2017
khiaa:


Hi Buncher. smiley
Hello Baby
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 1:04am On Dec 23, 2017
Bunchersstab:
Hello Baby

What have you been up to, I haven't heard from you. sad
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 3:31am On Dec 24, 2017
Bunchersstab:
Hello Baby


cheesy Merry Christmas, I will email you.
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 11:58am On Feb 06, 2018
Bunchersstab:
Hello Baby

The reason for my heart beats. kiss
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 12:04am On Feb 20, 2018
khiaa:


The reason for my heart beats. kiss


My heart desire. The mum of my unborn kids
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 12:04am On Feb 20, 2018
khiaa:


The reason for my heart beats. kiss


My heart desire. The mum of my unborn kids


My passion
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Nobody: 5:01am On Feb 20, 2018
But seriously you have to love me with all my flaws cos I can't be perfect, no one is.
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by dmcdad: 6:38am On Feb 20, 2018
Chikita66:
But seriously you have to love me with all my flaws cos I can't be perfect, no one is.
And does that mean you'll continue to live in imperfection? That's the question...
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 9:05am On Feb 20, 2018
Bunchersstab:


My heart desire. The mum of my unborn kids


My passion

Where have you been? I haven't heard from you since Dec., what's going on with you? cheesy
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 6:31am On Apr 21, 2018
khiaa:


Where have you been? I haven't heard from you since Dec., what's going on with you? cheesy
Am here sweety. Been expecting your DM
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 7:35am On Apr 21, 2018
Bunchersstab:
Am here sweety. Been expecting your DM

Oh my gosh, my heart is throbbing. I miss you so much. kiss Baby forgive me. I should have never let you go.. cry kiss

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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 6:35am On May 24, 2018
khiaa:


Oh my gosh, my heart is throbbing. I miss you so much. kiss Baby forgive me. I should have never let you go.. cry kiss
Honey ,can you DM me?
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by BabbanBura(m): 6:44am On May 24, 2018
mcdokwe:
Often times, we do meet people and fall in love with them despite their many shortcomings. Unfortunately, most books and articles we read these days tell us not to try to change people we are in a relationship with. This has however become the undoing of many unhappy relationships and marriages today, as people don't want to be CHANGED.
The fact is that someone can get committed to a terrible flirt, a drunkard, criminal, an abusive man, nagging woman and other shortcomings, but no one would want to have to cope with your vices for life.

I am of the honest belief that we get into people's life to impact them and bring about a positive behaviour in them even though that shouldn't be motivated by the desire to change the person. Such behaviour modification should come about with love and openness between both parties.

If you happen to have an undesirable character your partner is having a hard time coping with, make yourself amenable to change unless you want your partner to be unhappy thereby making yourself unhappy too. (Now that is a horrible decision to make) friendship should be fun and when it is not, it should be two people commonly dealing with a challenge and not people struggling to stay together.

Am with you Bro 110%. Relationship isn't to add to my baggage but to make me a better person

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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by ibkkk(f): 7:41am On May 24, 2018
mcdokwe:
Often times, we do meet people and fall in love with them despite their many shortcomings. Unfortunately, most books and articles we read these days tell us not to try to change people we are in a relationship with. This has however become the undoing of many unhappy relationships and marriages today, as people don't want to be CHANGED.
The fact is that someone can get committed to a terrible flirt, a drunkard, criminal, an abusive man, nagging woman and other shortcomings, but no one would want to have to cope with your vices for life.

I am of the honest belief that we get into people's life to impact them and bring about a positive behaviour in them even though that shouldn't be motivated by the desire to change the person. Such behaviour modification should come about with love and openness between both parties.

If you happen to have an undesirable character your partner is having a hard time coping with, make yourself amenable to change unless you want your partner to be unhappy thereby making yourself unhappy too. (Now that is a horrible decision to make) friendship should be fun and when it is not, it should be two people commonly dealing with a challenge and not people struggling to stay together.







This makes sense.

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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 5:51pm On Jun 08, 2018
khiaa:


Oh my gosh, my heart is throbbing. I miss you so much. kiss Baby forgive me. I should have never let you go.. cry kiss
am still here for you kiss kiss kiss
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by johnwell(m): 8:38pm On Jun 08, 2018
superior1:
A statement common with people with terrible character

Terrible indeed
Their case is like the DEVIL, even if you remove letter D the result will be EVIL, nothing good can ever come out of such people.

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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 9:00pm On Jun 08, 2018
Bunchersstab:
am still here for you kiss kiss kiss

Are you here now? smiley

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Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jun 20, 2018
Word !
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by Bunchersstab(m): 10:31am On Jul 14, 2018
khiaa:


Are you here now? smiley
yes honey kiss
Re: Love Me As I Am: The Greatest Undoing In Relationships by khiaa(f): 8:57pm On Jul 14, 2018
Bunchersstab:
yes honey kiss

You got mail.

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