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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Unekwunice: 4:40am On Jul 15, 2018
ALL PROTOCOLS ON bashing for slaping her observed. Hmmm my broda it is a very hard one.

You are caught btw using ur head a d using ur heart. It is dangerous to marry a woman who dosen't have self worth , a woman that can be swayed be word without considering how it affects her personality or consider her partner in the decisions she makes . If she can go to the extent of sending nude pix to a married man, then she is f..king other guys trust me.

You where just fortunate to find out. She will do it again if presented with a more secured arrangement , its already in her system. The many guys she had dated are just runs , that is why they don't last.

My candid advise is for both of you to go back to the basis. Brake the relationship and embrace Christ genuinely . Let Him do the healing. You both will be better equipped to deal with forgiveness and a righteous marriage life . And if it doesn't happen btw u guys , you will be better frds.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by khiaa(f): 4:46am On Jul 15, 2018
farellstone:
You gave her three hot slaps. Is she your sister/object? There are ways to deal with a cheating gf/bf. You don't have the right to hit her.

He has no right to slap his sister, imagine that.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by SmartMugu: 4:49am On Jul 15, 2018
shevchenko:

You are useless so becausea you are a taxi driver in the US we will not hear word again?

No wonder your wife abandon you
He goat
Not a taxi driver - I have a professional career and I'm ok professionally and financially. I can actually afford to hire you, your mom, your father and may be 5 of your uncles/aunts depending on your various skill/comprehension levels.

No need to be offensive or rude. How did I offend you for you to come up with these rude remarks about me?

+++never mind, I just read ur other message and found out you've been cursing everyone today. May God bless you, but God punish that papa wey born u with that tiny joystick wey him chook your mama till them mistakenly born you. To dem, dem don born child, but na common yeye pickin dem born, which is YOU.

You no dey look face?? Thunder fire both you and your mama eyes. Una dey mad? Haha, see trouble o. Mad woman dey sleep jeje, u dey go pull him breast. Wetin I do u? I sabi you and your miserable family before? Na me say make ur papa be shoe-maker? Na me turn your mama to olosho? Shuo, which kain mad pickin be this one? I sabi you and ur ancestors before? Why u dey yab me for no reason? God punish all of una for una yard and the demon wey dey live for your brain. If demon no dey rotate for your brain, you suppose shine your eye before you attack anybody wey no offend you, goat.
Abeg, I don't have time for people with your type of mentality.
Peace.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by speedchariot(m): 5:04am On Jul 15, 2018
It will be a mistake to marry her whilst you still have doubts....Fix yourself, know the reason while she did all,then give another girl a shot.It will be bad for you to be unhappy in a long walk.Marriage is forever.Let her go Bro..Yes she confessed..., but I prefer repentance before being caught..
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Green222: 5:10am On Jul 15, 2018
Ops this lady loves you, she is just a victim of social media influence. I will advise you go ahead and continue your relationship with her. For her to change her number and delete FB account means she is really into you and ready to do anything for the love she has for you. Every human being bleeped up at one point or the other but that cannot define who they really are. You are always emphasizing of her dating many men in the past; get her pregnant if you are afraid to erase your fear. You love her and she loves you, that's all that matters.

Forget the advise of all these small boys and girls on NL, most of them have not seen the 4walls of relationship, not to talk of marriage

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by unmask: 5:15am On Jul 15, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.
why will you hit a woman? And you are asking for mature advice.....the only advice I have is not for you, but for women to stay away from you....
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Amberon11: 5:19am On Jul 15, 2018
Your mother and sisters are packaged prostitutes and you're a product of a broken condom from her prostitution.
donstan18:
One thing we should know is that until a lady is married, she's still single and a packaged prostitute.

She might be seen as a retired one once she's married. The earlier we get this the better for us.

Even a wise and intelligent Nigerian lady will agree with me that they are packaged prostitute parading as girlfriend.

OP, you shouldn't have slapped her, she's not your wife, you don't own her, you assumed she must have dated so many men, but you didn't tell us how many ladies you've dated.

Once your girlfriend cheat or misbehave. Kindly break up or forgive.

Don't hit a woman who is not your wife because she cheated. Don't even hit a woman atall, even if she's your wife.

Your action didn't make you a man, learn to act less and think smart when provoked by a woman.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Amberon11: 5:20am On Jul 15, 2018
Like your mother and sisters right?
mimimile93:


Even the married ones are prostitutes..

Any Nigerian lady born from the 80s whether married or single is a prostitute..

I respect the ones at the brothels.. They keep it real.

Not the ones disguised as girlfriends and wives..
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by NickD(m): 5:24am On Jul 15, 2018
Gidilagoon:


Oh wow. Thank you so much. I was extremely provoked, that’s why I did that and I’m so much in love with her and letting go is so fucking hard, so that’s why I overreacted, but thanks,NOTED
That's how domestic violence starts. Learn to keep your anger in check. Always walk away if you have no control. If you're looking for a "sparring" partner hit the gym many men there will oblige you before you kill somebody's daughter in the name of provocation.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by mechanics(m): 5:30am On Jul 15, 2018
if you really love her, you forgive and forget.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by xtervaganza(m): 5:30am On Jul 15, 2018
Gidilagoon:

As far as I'm concerned you should take her back. People make mistakes and judging from your post she really does love you.



And once you take her back make a list of dos and don'ts.


We all do stupid things at times. Forgive her please I beg you



Lastly, please don't hit her again. I doubt she would make the same mistake again. Any time she gets you angry just her presence to cool your mind off
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Nobody: 5:34am On Jul 15, 2018
Bintabisiriyu:

Kai bad gyal, I need to fu,ck you.

Chai Pocohantas!!! What is this? He wants to do what?! You must have been behaving badly to attract such a comment. Maybe you've been deliberately jiggling your a** while walking. Daddy and Mummy must hear this. shocked shocked shocked
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by xtervaganza(m): 5:37am On Jul 15, 2018
Green222:
Ops this lady loves you, she is just a victim of social media influence. I will advise you go ahead and continue your relationship with her. For her to change her number and delete FB account means she is really into you and ready to do anything for the love she has for you. Every human being bleeped up at one point or the other but that cannot define who they really are. You are always emphasizing of her dating many men in the past; get her pregnant if you are afraid to erase your fear. You love her and she loves you, that's all that matters.

Forget the advise of all these small boys and girls on NL, most of them have not seen the 4walls of relationship, not to talk of marriage










Gidilagoon please don't ignore this advise also.



We have all made stupid mistakes before. Just forgive her . I'm telling you as a married man who knows what's up. There are thousands of girls out there ready to serenade you with love butost of it will be fake. This lady loves you. Please don't push her away just because of this mistake.



And like the guy I quoted rightly said, several guys she has dated in the past is irrelevant. No need for you to fear over it. She's your woman and yours alone. Her past is irrelevant

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Smartmanager(m): 5:37am On Jul 15, 2018
donstan18:
One thing we should know is that until a lady is married, she's still single and a packaged prostitute.

She might be seen as a retired one once she's married. The earlier we get this the better for us.

Even a wise and intelligent Nigerian lady will agree with me that they are packaged prostitute parading as girlfriend.

OP, you shouldn't have slapped her, she's not your wife, you don't own her, you assumed she must have dated so many men, but you didn't tell us how many ladies you've dated.

Once your girlfriend cheat or misbehave. Kindly break up or forgive.

Don't hit a woman who is not your wife because she cheated. Don't even hit a woman atall, even if she's your wife.

Your action didn't make you a man, learn to act less and think smart when provoked by a woman.
U have said it all.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by DonroxyII: 5:40am On Jul 15, 2018
Gidilagoon:


Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.
Once a Dog always a Dog ....
Love ain't stupidity but love without brain is stupidity !!

This one is a film trick, marriage will clear ya eyes !
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by xtervaganza(m): 5:40am On Jul 15, 2018
SmartMugu:

Not a taxi driver - I have a professional career and I'm ok professionally and financially. I can actually afford to hire you, your mom, your father and may be 5 of your uncles/aunts depending on your various skill/comprehension levels.

No need to be offensive or rude. How did I offend you for you to come up with these rude remarks about me?

+++never mind, I just read ur other message and found out you've been cursing everyone today. May God bless you, but God punish that papa wey born u with that tiny joystick wey him chook your mama till them mistakenly born you. To dem, dem don born child, but na common yeye pickin dem born, which is YOU.

You no dey look face?? Thunder fire both you and your mama eyes. Una dey mad? Haha, see trouble o. Mad woman dey sleep jeje, u dey go pull him breast. Wetin I do u? I sabi you and your miserable family before? Na me say make ur papa be shoe-maker? Na me turn your mama to olosho? Shuo, which kain mad pickin be this one? I sabi you and ur ancestors before? Why u dey yab me for no reason? God punish all of una for una yard and the demon wey dey live for your brain. If demon no dey rotate for your brain, you suppose shine your eye before you attack anybody wey no offend you, goat.
Abeg, I don't have time for people with your type of mentality.
Peace.
hahahahahahah you don't have time but you just threw a whole epistle of insults grin grin grin




Oga, take am easy ooo lol

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Smartmanager(m): 5:43am On Jul 15, 2018
Green222:
Ops this lady loves you, she is just a victim of social media influence. I will advise you go ahead and continue your relationship with her. For her to change her number and delete FB account means she is really into you and ready to do anything for the love she has for you. Every human being bleeped up at one point or the other but that cannot define who they really are. You are always emphasizing of her dating many men in the past; get her pregnant if you are afraid to erase your fear. You love her and she loves you, that's all that matters.

Forget the advise of all these small boys and girls on NL, most of them have not seen the 4walls of relationship, not to talk of marriage
And u think she can't activate her Facebook account again? Or welcome back her line? My brother just move on let her go of her. Simple.









Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by IMASTEX: 6:01am On Jul 15, 2018
Babiod:
hope they're not trying to dump her for you since her mates don dey marry...lol
You're not far from the truth.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by IMASTEX: 6:03am On Jul 15, 2018
pocohantas:


You need common sense more. If only it were sexually transmitted, I might oblige you. So, the world can have one less dunderhead to worry about.
Lol. . .Operation reducing the. . .You be bad girl.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Glare247(m): 6:11am On Jul 15, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

I am advising u as a friend,as a family man,forgive and forget,nobody is above mistake,overlook this and move on ,what u must do is to let her realize her mistake,
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by capitalzero: 6:15am On Jul 15, 2018
If you marry her, pray that there is no marital problem. If there is any, she will do it again. she is a social media and internet addict.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by dnapstar(m): 6:27am On Jul 15, 2018
You have no right to lay your hands on a lady.
Perhaps you really are not man enough.
What if she feel down and died the moment you slapped her?? What if I slap your sister or mother or aunty?? How would you feel??
You had no right to slap her. Not even when she is your wife.
Only Weak men put their hands on a lady, strong men walk away. I wish i could come give you 3 hot slap too.
Its your responsibility to protect her and not to hurt her.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by BALLOSKI: 6:27am On Jul 15, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.
grin grin grin

You're very funny.


Leave her and move on. Person wey de use left hand write no fit turn de use right hand.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by zeedof(m): 6:30am On Jul 15, 2018
Hmmmm everyone with is own story... though mistake or past is not prone to woman, we men have ours too. That's only what have been consoling myself with. I decided not to get deep down about my gf past, which I am planning to get married with any time soon but what scared me is that, her punny is not encourage at all... even if my dk is small, have make some girls scream before but she only scream when I finger... aside that her relative and her behaviour is 99%
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by daclemx: 6:31am On Jul 15, 2018
WOW, bro you are the best. Take this advice. Dont even think of anything again. Get that gal. bros, she will never do that. the devill u know is better than the angelll you don't oh.
donstan18:
One thing we should know is that until a lady is married, she's still single and a packaged prostitute.

She might be seen as a retired one once she's married. The earlier we get this the better for us.

Even a wise and intelligent Nigerian lady will agree with me that they are packaged prostitute parading as girlfriend.

OP, you shouldn't have slapped her, she's not your wife, you don't own her, you assumed she must have dated so many men, but you didn't tell us how many ladies you've dated.

Once your girlfriend cheat or misbehave. Kindly break up or forgive.

Don't hit a woman who is not your wife because she cheated. Don't even hit a woman atall, even if she's your wife.

Your action didn't make you a man, learn to act less and think smart when provoked by a woman.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by yhungbrowhne(m): 6:37am On Jul 15, 2018
pocohantas:


There are different types of uncles. Biological, Romantic, Spiritual and Academic. Undercover oloshos are very familiar with the romantic uncle.


Mayweather!

Anyway, are you single now? smiley
Make another babe enter set.
You shouldn't be asking this question.



kuku tell him that u want to enter set.. no dey use style ;-) :-)
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Gwazah(m): 6:50am On Jul 15, 2018
From what I red the op is selfish. but my question is, was the nude send to the boyfriend before u people reunited or not? Accusing her of dating many men is just a jealous heart I know, but remember, cyprian Ekwensi ( I stand to be corrected pls) once said in his book title African Night Entertainment, "u must understand that a girl who has not been married Is like a cloth in a market place who so ever price and win will buy" All I am saying is people must price her and she must respond either negative or positive, if u are not comfortable with that, let her be, don't beat her but let her conscience judge her.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Born2Breed(f): 6:50am On Jul 15, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

Since you have given her two hot slaps, can you please forgive and start afresh.

You beat a kid with the left hand and bring them closer with the right.
She even deleted her account and changed her number, how else do you want her to show remorse and you forgiving.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by africanusvu(m): 6:50am On Jul 15, 2018
[quote author=Gidilagoon post=69326284]Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.[/quote.thanks for opening up.frankly if I may advice from an African culture viewpoint. Don't marry this lady she may not make a gd wife and can't ever be a good mother to ur kids.that dent will ever remain in ur hearth.Satan will always upload d nude photos in ur mind every time forever in ur mind as u try relating to her as wife.don't allow ur list to deceive u.think more of ur kids.wat moral did u think ur kids can get from a woman whose nude is already on net as a mother tomorrow. Besides tomorrow her past must certainly haunt her.some guy might us such nudes as blackmail.pls so far her nudes av gone online.No to marriage
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by JusticeSeeker: 6:52am On Jul 15, 2018
Marry who you love. Are you saying you've never befriended any lady before? Forgive this lady's mistake and checkout the "woman"(submission, teachable, admission of wrongs, etc) in her. If they're there, marry her, she only made a mistake.
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by yinkhar(f): 6:53am On Jul 15, 2018
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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by yinkhar(f): 6:55am On Jul 15, 2018
bezimo:


I am not sure oh .A typical naija girl cannot be trusted..bunch of scumy hoes that are ready to roll with the highest bidder..

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2015/01/nigerian-women-unfaithful-wives-world/amp/
bro, your problem is bigger than I thought. Gracias

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