It is possible but it takes a lot of determination, most importantly you have to stay away from relationships, only a fool will go into a relationship with a guy and claim she doesn’t want sex , sooner rather than later it will sure happen

milemimi93:
Why didnt u keep it till marriage? Smh! This generation kids sef

And who says I am ready for marriage

Alexaonfleek:
19 still counting..

For now, u shouldn't bother much about sex but trust me u wouldn't marry a virgin unless u got married very early let's say like next year or two yrs from now.
Secondly it's not a big deal if u marry a virgin or not. Only boring weird guys go around looking for virgin to marry.

Is it still possible for boys and men not to have sex (orally or not) till their wedding night?

Alexaonfleek:
hmmm very true

i want to fork you

This one is strong its possible not to have penetration till you get married.

The only way it is possible in this day and age for a lady to remain a virgin is by marrying earlier, say between 20 and 25. The longer a woman stays unmarried, the more difficult it becomes to remain a virgin.

It is very possible, do not let anybody deceive you with all this 'virginity is overrated' ' it's character that's most important bla bla 'bla if you want to be a virgin till you marry by all means do and stand by what you want. Don't listen to all these lies and deception out there, you can do whatever you want to do if you keep at it.

You want it -go for it.
Get a partner(at the right time) that has the same thought process and yours and also is a no sex before marriage fan. Flee from all appearances of evil(temptation) avoid situations that could get you molested, keep your status of virginity to yourself (and your partner only) this is to avoid bad belies and kill-joy's that will try to make you believe you are wrong for wanting to be a virgin till you marry (they are much on nairaland) then you are good to go.

In this same day and age ladies and guys(yeah thirty something year old guys) get married as virgins it's not a big deal to them its like a way of life they just don't come online to 'loud' it.

Don't be deceived ooo.

Wish you the best.

JamaicanLove:




And who says I am ready for marriage

Oh! We in the same boat. Fvck marriage

Awww.... me too, also planning to keep mine till that special night by his grace.....I think its possible

Very possible, (which is what most girls or all wished for until hmmm...) If you keep your legs shut and avoid some rough play and exercises (bike rides).
Poor lad, I wouldn’t want to be him on your wedding night.

Tamarapetty:
I pray the guy u're keeping it for is totally worth it.

They have come

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

See question oooo


Is it POSSIBLE TO CLOSE YOUR LEGS?


LIKE I'M SUPER HUMAN FOR BEING ONE?

the guy you are keeping it for, will he also keep his? Madam, don't waste your time keeping it coz u might regret it somehow

Tamarapetty:
I pray the guy u're keeping it for is totally worth it.

TALES from a NON Virgin

Alexaonfleek:
its a personal decision
I know there's no need but I just wanna do it

Keep it up. It will save you a lot of troubles

are they still exist??

It is possible dear. its all about your determination. Speak always to yourself that you won't be defiled till your wedding night.

JamaicanLove:




At least I'm better off that you.



What's your body count.


I bet you've lost count.


Gigolo

My body count is 63.. My target is to get to 100 before then end of this year..

Orla234:
My dear, trust me, it's very possible.

Mind your company.
Train your mind to focus on your goal.
If you a Christian, get busy for God.
Empower yourself.
Try not to ask 'them' for your salient needs.
It pays to be chaste my dear.

go to church,get busy for God bla bla bla, dont you knw that even in the church they are lions amogst sheeps? Even pastors and brother emeka the choirmaster are not to be trusted?

oga op is it possible for Togo to win world cup,
is it possible for arsenal to win champions league?
if it possible then yes but if not then no

It's so possible. It's a decision you make n keep to yourself. You are not trying to prove any point to anyone. It doesn't require popular opinion. Set your heart at it n do all it takes. Mind what occupies ur mind, mind places /conpany u find urself.Get busy doing d right things to improve ur life n avoid those films that will get you in d mood for what ur not ready for now. Please it's ur little secret, no let them set you. Up Biko. I attended a secondary school where a group of girls were gisting n said no girl can ever Mary as a virgin.i was almost believing dat lie n drifting until I told myself I can be different. No discussion was ever made on that issue but I kept it till after uni.it didn't make me less sexually active as I read wella. In fact. I am very active.D practise makes perfect gist na poo, them no de teach pikin where to put food. Once you become active, you will naturally enjoy urself especially if u n ur spouse are open to one another.# Team no sex till marriage#
Nb:it is however not a guarantee to a happy marriage/relationship cos u gotta work it out

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Firstly, this is a dangerous platform to ask this questions. In fact you don't ask critical question like this on social media because everyone would basically give you an answer based on their views and experience.

Those that tell you its impossible, only say so, because they have lost theirs.

Listen to me sweetheart, don't listen to anyone telling you that virginity is not important. Its important, its your pride, its your dignity, its invaluable. Hence the Supreme One kept it there for a reason. Preserve it till your wedding night.

The only challenge I have with so-called virgins is that they think they are better that those that lost their and keep making the non-virgins feel bad about themselves
For you been a virgin till now, I think you should thank God for preserving you and keeping you with the Hand of righteousness.

In summary, the virtue of patience pays. Wait till your wedding night and let your husband value you more. However, trust God to lead you aright.

It is very possible. Don't allow these minions from hell to fool you with their lies. They are many on these forum. Listen to that lone voice in the wilderness telling you its possible.

Shugavee:
do u want a realistic answer!! Or just praises n encouragement?

Cause he is right,, it’s almost impossible.

But then again I wish u the best

OLOSHO na OLOSHO no call am Runs Girl



Almost Impossible kè



No wonder I see kids of 16yrs feeling PROUD that they are VIRGINS and I'm like WTF




Are U suppose to NOT be a VIRGIN at this YOUNG AGE?

Alexaonfleek:
19 still counting..

Good girl.

Keep it up!

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

It's very possible, am in this situation. I met my girlfriend last year who is 27yrs, a graduate and a working class. She happens to be a virgin and she want to uphold her dignity till after marriage, am not that bothered sha, it's her principle and i understand her for that. Am so fortune to have dated five ladies in the past of which three were virgins. To me o, i don't know of others, am used to dating virgins which two of them uses left hand. I just find that unique.

I know a 23 year old girl that’s still a virgin

....

milemimi93:
Oh! We in the same boat. Fvck marriage

Mine is YACHT