Babe, before the 4 months elapsed you weren't focused cos if you did you would have known his not meant for you...... Abeg leave us with those excuses, cos we've seen and read about many. Pray God bring your rightful man.

NessaBoo:
All men are cheats biko...the crusaders saying its not true are still naïve, just because they haven't done it yet doesn't mean they won't do it later on, the sooner a lady accepts that, the better for her sanity! It hurts like hell to be cheated on, and I can totally relate to what the lady is feeling.

It depends on the context of ur relationship. All men don’t cheat! There are different types of relationships these days with different priorities and expectations. Most ladies mix up these relationships or go into these relationships wrongly.

Its normal

If ladies have stayed a virgin, even if a guy ditches them, it will been a better ending cus u will kw he isn't d right patient man for u, ,,,,but instead they believe been a virgin is just lack of opportunity, ....if na me b d guy self I go go report my self give my new wife to b, ,,even my family members.....

So dat those nude will b wat day will b exciting waiting to see in a calm mood, foolish girl

lolaben:
God will help ladies of these days and age. Why allow a man you are not yet married to, sleep with you? Once you allow yourself to be taken cheaply, you will be dumped cheaply. Period! If he had not slept with you, he can go ahead and marry whoever he desires and it will take nothing from you. My sister you are hurt that is why you want to ruin his marriage, not that you are trying to help the lady he is getting married to. Mind you, destroying the marriage, does not guarantee him getting married to you, neither will it stop the man from getting married to another.
Just put Him in God's hand, let God take over your disappointment. Sorry for everything and be wise next time. Shield your pride and do not give it out so cheaply.

My BROTHER the way same LADIES open their legs now, like they have RESPIRATORY APPARATUS in between their thighs, amazes me.
Even Prostitutes now have more dignity and charisma..
Most of them spend Time training their ASS, but wouldn’t spend Quality Time Updating the way they think.
The same MEN they Claim Cheat, are amazed at the Level of MORAL DECADENCE existing among our Ladies.

jaxxy:



It depends on the context of ur relationship. All men don’t cheat! There are different types of relationships these days with different priorities and expectations. Most ladies mix up these relationships or go into these relationships wrongly.

Na help some ladies day fine and most guys misquote it for lve, and d moment d guy detects she isn't into him as he tinks, and decide to settle for another person, all hell is let lozed,it's not becus she loved him but becus her supplier of goodies is gone, ,

I can't imagin snapping a nude with a girl who I just met 4 months back which kin love reach dat one, ,even if she give me a Mouth Action, I will not still allow nude,

jaxxy:



It depends on the context of ur relationship. All men don’t cheat! There are different types of relationships these days with different priorities and expectations. Most ladies mix up these relationships or go into these relationships wrongly.

No matter the context, priorities, or expectations in a relationship, I think its psychological for men to cheat...Haba, You guys just can't keep it in your pants!

9jaown:
We men cheat

but Yoruba men ar serial cheat,to dem it's like a way of life as a matter of fact all my yoruba's friends ar chronic cheaters

Sankabson:
she sounded to pained and hurt! She’s ready to go with Mr Ayo Animashawun. At the same time she’s pained cos no one will move her to Lagos Island now.

To me, all these Yeye drama won’t be necessary. Just move on my sister. Karma will surely catch up with people like that. That one sure pa!

Do u kw d funny tin about karma, it do to u what u did to others,
Do u kw d sin d girl committed, and karma is also dealing with her?


There are some ladies dat have wrecked another man's hux and u expect them to go scort free,,,

The lady hand isn't clean, she should go check her self not looking for who to destroy, if d guy didn't marry u, there might be a reason, and I kw fully well some ladies aren't just housewife materials and some guys only come to find out after several months of dating them (hidden characters)

Galaticos444:
but Yoruba men ar serial cheat,to dem it's like a way of life as a matter of fact all my yoruba's friends ar chronic cheaters

Yoruba men cheat, dats true, becus they are polygamous in nature, if not for civilization and change of economic, a yoruba man can't marry 1 wife at home, but still even the one's dat manage to marry 1 wife still hangout with other ladies, some times u just have to kw certain action are already imbibed in the blood already,

It's just like u telling an igbo man not a do business at all and depend on govt salary, u just have to deal with it

NessaBoo:


No matter the context, priorities, or expectations in a relationship, I think its psychological for men to cheat...Haba, You guys just can't keep it in your pants!

And u think ladies don’t cheat? Both sexes cheat to me it depends on the factors involved and what u really want. Also try to understand ur partners school of thought and mindset. Sm don’t want to put all their eggs in one basket, sm are sowing their wild oats and others are just dogs by nature.

BornagainThief:
not every men cheat sir

but you can cheat on english,abi

NessaBoo:


Lol, well...I'm not even a religious nut but you know I've said nothing but the ABSOLUTE truth, ALL MEN CHEAT!! *gosh* They are also hypocrites and that's the truth I've come to accept!

lol all men cheat

the question is who do they cheat with? goats and cows? women do worse and are good in it, let that sink in

greatnaija01:
LET ANYONE WHO HAS NEVER CHEATED BEFORE CAST THE FIRST STONE..... pots calling kettle BLACK.

If they were real wife materials, would they have been easy prey for such a loose man? MANY LADIES WHO CLAIM THEY WANT GOD FEARING MEN DO NOT FEAR GOD and are not even wife materials.... THE MAN IS CLEARLY A PLAYER AND VERY WRONG FOR BEING A SERIAL DATER... but many of these ladies too are BLIND, for them to read books on relationship or have a relationship counselor or elder who monitors and guides them into marriage is too OLD SCHOOL FOR THEM.....


then when they get hurt they come online to RANT... its useless.

Please, be reasonable. Is it written in his fore head that he is a loose man?

Men like this will go to the end of the world to make you feel you're their one and only. They've mastered the art of deception so well that you won't suspect till wedding IV and pre wedding pics of him and another girl starts trending.
Let that lady drag him, I totally support.

when you think about it though, the guy is DEVIL

this is pure wickedness.

Guys oh, abeg 6 months to your wedging, quit every other relationship and settle with every side chick and let them understand that it can't lead to marriage.

Don't ever promise any lady marriage untill you are well convinced that she is your wife and you have set a date in your mind to go and pay her dowry!

There is husband scarcity all over the world due to harsh economy of the world and overpopulation, making it difficult for ladies to find worthy guys to marry, so as a single guy, be very careful with ladies once you are approaching marital age or the age you wish to settle down because many ladies don't joke with marriage, they can kill or destroy to get married to a man doing a bit well financially because to them, it is one of their highest achievement in life no matter how much they have or who they are, its only when they try repeatedly to find a man and fail that they start to form I DON'T NEED ANY MAN or MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE; deep in their heart, they are praying to meet a guy that will marry them even while forming I don't need a man or marriage is not for everyone

If not, why do most ladies desire to keep their virginity till marriage if not to please their future husband

The way Nigerian politicians take election campaign as a do or die affair, that's how ladies all over the world (not only Nigerian ladies) take marriage.

If you think white ladies don't take marriage serious, then why do you think Nigerian Yahoo Yahoo boys doing internet romance scam keep hammering millions

Also if you have a relative in US, UK, or any European country, ask them, once ladies clock 17/18, they start to woo men not waiting for men to even come and majority become babymama, some even spend to please their boyfriends who are usually scared to marry. American and European guys are gradually losing interest in marriage, they prefer boyfriend-girlfriend relationship and co-habiting with their girlfriends forever because of their national laws that favor women, so women all over the world don't joke with marriage, no woman wants to die single or grow old as a single woman, it scares every woman.

Forget Oprah Winfrey, she is an unhappy woman, and if not her wealth, she would have gotten married since or committed suicide

Guys be careful, once you approach 30yrs and still single, date with caution and with your wisdom in tact, don't date anyhow ladies. Date mature and virtuous ladies that have integrity not riffraffs parading as fine girls

Move on sister no be by force to marry you.

i was waiting to hear you say that,the guy was the one that disvirgined you or was your first date .and from what you are spewing here,you have shown that,you are not a material for a wife,so get out from the innocent guy's way.

I knew he will be a Yoruba guy. The sabi pursue woman.

But seriously, I dont support her dragging the man online and posting his pictures and the innocent wife picture, I understand that she is pained and she doesn't always have chykers but she should have inboxed the lady and told the lady, after all she has been dating the man only for 4months, people date for 4years and get dumped at the dying minute.

My future husband should better break up with his girlfriends before marrying me o, I hate this kind of online drama, I will forgive the fact that he had girlfriends and I was the highest shareholder and finally won but I wont forgive the fact that they came to drag us online when we are getting married and to think that I've experienced this kind of drama before, I didn't even find it funny, funny enough, the said guy still broke up with the girl fighting me for him . Some ladies can be bitter sha.

Ishilove:
They justify their philandering with that 'men are polygamous by nature' bullshit. It is a man with a broken moral compass that will still be fooling around with other women and even meeting their families when he knows his wedding date is set. Such devilish behaviour will not stop even after marriage and at the end of the day, it is an innocent woman who will bear the brunt of her he-goat of a husband's infidelity.

Since humankind have become 'too big' and 'too wise' to consult God in the affairs of matrimony, they will keep making mistakes, will keep having miserable marriages, and ultimately the number of broken homes will keep rising.

Men are polygamous by nature.

Even from your Bible.

The only people Paul warned not to marry 2 wives were Bishops.

What you described is not polygamy.

Valerie47:
I knew he will be a Yoruba guy. The sabi pursue woman.

...and the ladies must be Igbo ladies because they can fall cheapily for Yoruba guys once they perceive money or financial success, shame

I have been in her shoes before so I know how it hurts. In my own case he wanted me to keep playing ostrich and pretend that his parents did not want a non Yoruba woman as he claimed but I chose to walk away from that nonsense. A week later huncle got married. Was I angry? Yes! Was I heartbroken? Yes! I chose to hand him over to God and held my peace. A man more worthy of me will find me.

That experience was a lesson to me. It also did not turn me into a misandrist who believed that all men cheat because I do not believe that. There are men who are still faithful and committed to their significant others.

She should not have gone this far. Dragging him on social media may not even end the intended marriage. Many women out there choose to be married to the devil himself even if an angel appears and warns them off. They will rather seek counseling and watch 'War Room' for him to change later. She should move on with her life, count her blessings that she dodged a bullet.

Dear men, sit down and sort yourselves out. If you have made a commitment to a woman you should do the right thing by seeking closure with the ones you are still philandering with. Tie up your loose ends and be free. Leaving a long trail of hurting women is simply messy and silly.

faithfull18:
Undisciplined he- goats everywhere.

And unbridled biatch all around!

faithfull18:
Undisciplined he- goats everywhere.

was the guy his first boyfriend ? from her account,you will know that,she is a she -goat and not a wife material.

Ishilove:
They justify their philandering with that 'men are polygamous by nature' bullshit. It is a man with a broken moral compass that will still be fooling around with other women and even meeting their families when he knows his wedding date is set. Such devilish behaviour will not stop even after marriage and at the end of the day, it is an innocent woman who will bear the brunt of her he-goat of a husband's infidelity.

Since humankind have become 'too big' and 'too wise' to consult God in the affairs of matrimony, they will keep making mistakes, will keep having miserable marriages, and ultimately the number of broken homes will keep rising.

Please,leave somebody's child alone

Ishilove:
They justify their philandering with that 'men are polygamous by nature' bullshit. It is a man with a broken moral compass that will still be fooling around with other women and even meeting their families when he knows his wedding date is set. Such devilish behaviour will not stop even after marriage and at the end of the day, it is an innocent woman who will bear the brunt of her he-goat of a husband's infidelity.

Since humankind have become 'too big' and 'too wise' to consult God in the affairs of matrimony, they will keep making mistakes, will keep having miserable marriages, and ultimately the number of broken homes will keep rising.

Of the truth, men are born with very high tendency to become polygamous.

This is biologically made so to ensure procreation continues, and women or female animals are naturally created or made to be selective with their sex (mating) mate. These things are natural.

It takes an absolute self control, discipline and total fear of God or a god or a deity for a man not to desire or go after other appealing females that entices him other than his wife/girlfriend.

It does not mean that he hates or does not love his partner, he is just exhibiting his natural form.

Look at animals, the male animals are usually polygamous mating with uncountable female animals, but the female animals will be mating with just that one male animal in their domain. If you doubt me, start watching Animal world or wildlife documentaries of animals. Remember we humans are just higher animals.

But the extent of meeting different girl's parents that you want to come and marry their daughter even when you are in a relationship with another lady or planning marriage with another lady is total mental disorder on the guy's side.

Any guy that tries such have a multiple mental disorder or he is intentionally being mischievous and stupid and needs his hands burnt with hot iron

Ishilove:
They justify their philandering with that 'men are polygamous by nature' bullshit. It is a man with a broken moral compass that will still be fooling around with other women and even meeting their families when he knows his wedding date is set. Such devilish behaviour will not stop even after marriage and at the end of the day, it is an innocent woman who will bear the brunt of her he-goat of a husband's infidelity.

Since humankind have become 'too big' and 'too wise' to consult God in the affairs of matrimony, they will keep making mistakes, will keep having miserable marriages, and ultimately the number of broken homes will keep rising.

This is the problem. Man has chosen to leave God out of the very institution he created! Just how?

I hope the Titilope girl doesn't marry him. He deserves a fellow scumbag.

internationalman:
Please men don't end with u...
I don't cheat on my girlfriend let alone who I'm planning on marrying..
I know most of y'all won't believe me but it's true..

I believe you.

SassyVixen:
I have been in her shoes before so I know how it hurts. In my own case he wanted me to keep playing ostrich and pretend that his parents did not want a non Yoruba woman as he claimed but I chose to walk away from that nonsense. A week later huncle got married. Was I angry? Yes! Was I heartbroken? Yes! I chose to hand him over to God and held my peace. A man more worthy of me will find me.

That experience was a lesson to me. It also did not turn me into a misandrist who believed that all men cheat because I do not believe that. There are men who are still faithful and committed to their significant others.

She should not have gone this far. Dragging him on social media may not even end the intended marriage. Many women out there choose to be married to the devil himself even if an angel appears and warns them off. They will rather seek counseling and watch 'War Room' for him to change later. She should move on with her life, count her blessings that she dodged a bullet.

Dear men, sit down and sort yourselves out. If you have made a commitment to a woman you should do the right thing by seeking closure with the ones you are still philandering with. Tie up your loose ends and be free. Leaving a long trail of hurting women is simply messy and silly.

Let me use this opportunity to enlighten Igbo ladies, you ladies and other Southsouth ladies should listen carefully to what I want to write now.

Yoruba guys intentionally go after Igbo girls for fun cos to them, catching an Igbo girl is a trophy, a good win, so they go after Igbo girls even when they have a Yoruba girl they have made up their mind to marry simply because it is easy for them to leave the girl when they are done devouring her, how

They will just use the common excuse:

MY PARENTS SAID I CAN'T MARRY IGBO GIRL!

With this excuse, the relationship is completely over and the girl have nothing again to say or fight because in Nigeria, parental consent to marriage is final

So as an Igbo girl, before you accept to date a Yoruba guy, have it in mind that it won't lead to marriage, just take it like you just going for fun no future, if you are okay with it that way, go ahead but if you are aiming for marriage, cancel it or just take it as gamble, so if it works, you thank your luck and thank your God too.

This is the very big disadvantage of intertribal relationship in Nigeria, the disadvantage to ladies mostly

She wants to release his nudes and ladies are not complaining or insulting her. If it was a guy that threatened to do that now, all kinds of insults would have been flying around from the "men are scum" crew.

She should have used her account. Nonsense