Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

Modified

Thanks hopefullandlord for seeing my point of view and clearing the air.

Cc. Onesentence, LordKO

Hmm. Una don start oh

nwanyiugbo122:
you said at a point you were flowing with the kiss,only God knows how long the kiss lasted, the saliva exchange from a total stranger. Guy,you cheated.

Ehya...another woman who can't be objective...how long did the kiss last? 10 secs or less?? 1 hour or 2?? Did he initiate it?? What do you say about a married woman who was so brazen to ask a guy for sex?? I guess that one no be cheater oooo... The way u ladies dey oppose OP eh....I dey fear una o...be logical naaaaaa

passey:


It is cheating if you planned or initiated contact, my brother.
Using the same logic, can we say a woman raped against her wish is also cheating?
If someone touches a girls Bobby without her consent, is it still cheating?
If I want to shock you, you can have sex without necessarily cheating!!!
He did not cheat since there was no intention on his part... Rather, he was "cheated"... If it makes sense...

Lol... brother mi, cheating is not about planning or who initiated the action, it's about consent. The OP consented for a while before coming back to his senses and that's all it takes. The fact that clothes didn't go off is commendable but he goofed even if it was for a while. You get my point now?

JejeNaija:


Hey kissing is not cheating. It happened very fast and I had to nicely stop it to avoid anything further. I can't tell my wife such a thing because she might see it in a different way. However I resisted it 100%

Can you please give me her number, I need to talk sense to her empty head

its only a story!

JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

Greater is a man that exercises self-control than he that conquers a city. You are indeed a champion bro keep it up.

luminouz:


There u go again...being emo all over the place...

He was never emotionally interested or invested...he saw the green lights but never made a move...SHE DID! If HE DID...then i can judge him otherwise!!! Why are u so quick to judge this guy?? I noticed all the female folks here left the woman and focused on the man. Y'all so intent on making him seem like the bad guy here...misplaced priorities if you ask me...

I didn't say he was emotionally invested /interested in her... I was just telling you other stuff that could be classified as cheating to let you know that flowing with /enjoying kissing someone who isn't your significant other for a moment no matter how little isn't as harmless as some of you are trying to make it look.

I'm not trying to make the op look bad,that's far from it... Actually, I commend him for not going all the way. It's just that he isn't a saint in all of this(which most guys here have refused to admit) , and I wouldn't have even pointed that out if you guys weren't attacking the person of Lois (instead of jejely countering her opinion ) from all angles as if she didn't have a point. She may have taken it too personal at some point,but I don't blame her cos most of you (males on NL) would have done the same(concentrated on that small moment of weakness) if op were to be a female.

Now lemme paint another scenario...

1. A guy and a girl go willingly to a hotel...along the line after kissing and romancing, the guy wanted to penetrate..the girl said NO..d guy did it anyway...is that RAPE or not

2. A guy takes a girl to a hotel...he tries to kiss her..she says no...he kissed her anyways and they had sex consensually... Did he rape her or not??

3. A girl smooches a guy and he yells at her to leave him alone... She came hard at him again,abuses him as a weakling and grabs his dick. he pushed her away...she trips over the center table,hits her head on a sharp cornered object and dies...is that murder or self-defense?

4. A guy smooches a lady and she yelled now at him...he came back,yanks her to him,slaps her hard and pressed her boobs..she goes wild and kicks his balls,he doubles over,says hallelujah three times and gives up the ghost...is that self defence or murder

5. I and my gf(who has a big ass) were going by the roadside...her ex stops her,gives her a hug and kissed her on the fuqin mouth...the reaction was sudden and unexpected.. She pushes him away and tells him to behave himself. She introduces me as her new boo...and as the ex looks at me upandan and sneers, I plant my fist in his fvcked up face...he falls down and gives up the ghost..
did my gf cheat on me??(the kiss aspect lasted 5secs)...was she molested?(i didnt know about her ex..just saw a random fool kiss her)Was what I did self defense or murder?



Gimme answers...guys and girls

Lisaflex:


I didn't say he was emotionally invested /interested in her... I was just telling you other stuff that could be classified as cheating to let you know that flowing with /enjoying kissing someone who isn't your significant other for a moment no matter how little isn't as harmless as some of you are trying to make it look.

I'm not trying to make the op look bad,that's far from it... Actually, I commend him for not going all the way. It's just that he isn't a saint in all of this(which most guys here have refused to admit) , and I wouldn't have even pointed that out if you guys weren't attacking the person of Lois (instead of jejely countering her opinion ) from all angles as if she didn't have a point. She may have taken it too personal at some point,but I don't blame her cos most of you (males on NL) would have done the same(concentrated on that small moment of weakness) if op were to be a female.

Like I told you..if na my babe e happen to...no be cheating to me mai dear...she didn't initiate and pulls away..even if the kiss na 10secs...ion care!!!

op maybe u dodged a bullet cos if u had done it wit her who knows if she would have given u a deadly uncurable std.most ladies who just jump about having casual sex with total strangers carry about stds they share with their partners.anyway na her husband i dey feel sorry for pass in dis story cos im no know d type of woman wey im marry.

JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

You are man. A true man and a God fearing one.

Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

Modified

Thanks hopefullandlord for seeing my point of view and clearing the air.

Cc. Onesentence, LordKO

u have a point if d lady has oral herpes den op will share d herpes wit his wife if he kisses her as well.

lefulefu:
u have a point if d lady has oral herpes den op will share d herpes wit his wife if he kisses her as well.

Thank you.

luminouz:

Like I told you..if na my babe e happen to...no be cheating to me mai dear...she didn't initiate and pulls away..even if the kiss na 10secs...ion care!!!

It's okay if you do not agree with the cheating ish. We are different people, and we are bound to disagree on some issues.As long as you aren't biased when the table is turned, then I believe we have found our common ground.

hopefulLandlord:

Cheating isn't limited to YOUR intent, it also comprise ignoring the obvious intent of the person ready to cheat with you and it would take a very obvious biased mind to think the guy in the story didn't read the obvious intent of the woman before the kiss happened. subtle and obvious greenlights were given by her including her metamorphic stalking. cheating doesn't have to be until you sink your dick in the vagina of someone else.


Biglittlelois keeps hammering it not because she thinks its cheating - I think - but because most guys out there would adjudge it to be cheating if the gender were reversed!!!!! this is the subtle point of hers that apparently flew over (almost) everyone's heads which is summed up in the post below




Let me be clear on something though. I'm not saying she's right and I'm not agreeing with her at all. I just think it's unfair how most responders have been tackling her rather than her point. you just took your time to address her point which is what reasonable people should do not going personal

she is known to attack men unjustly on NL..so she is paying for her past sins..I have no pity for her

all you holy than thou , he is only human at least he did not have sex with her. She was the one that initiated the kiss, Please remember.

BluntBoy:
I remembered when I was a pastor. A married woman kissed me suddenly. And even though I wouldn't say I flowed with it, I was initially too shocked to even get away. Anyway, I gave her a good slap. She would remember that slap for the rest of her life.

I don't hate women. In fact, I love women. But I hate indiscipline. I regard cheating as indiscipline.

Endtime married women every wia

babyfaceafrica:
she is known to attack men unjustly on NL..so she is paying for her past sins..I have no pity for her

I would like you to attach comments where I attack men unjustly on NL or forever remain silent if you have nothing worthy to contribute on this thread.

Biglittlelois:



I would like you to attach comments where I attack men unjustly on NL or forever remain silent if you have nothing worthy to contribute on this thread.

k

cooltola:
all you holy than thou , he is only human at least he did not have sex with her. She was the one that initiated the kiss, Please remember.

lolz..OP...has faults too though... he overestimated himself

JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

. Yen Yen ,this are the kind of 0eople that will kilo themselves and their kids when they discover their spouse is cheating, common service to humanity you cannot do ,spit your face ,enjoy your hypocritic likes and shares

JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

Drop the number here � unam

logan2:
. Yen Yen ,this are the kind of 0eople that will kilo themselves and their kids when they discover their spouse is cheating, common service to humanity you cannot do ,spit your face ,enjoy your hypocritic likes and shares

You said **common service to humanity I cannot do** If that's what you call service to humanity I am happy I can't do such.

Now check yourself well **common sense you don't have** but I have a lot of it. So if you want some, I can share some sense for you as my own way of rendering **common service to humanity**

This @op is a joker.
A woman was laughing and falling on your body, u didn't establish boundary at that very moment cos u were enjoying it.
Ur head might not like it but ur dick was responding. Till she cajoled u to abandon the hotel u should lodge in and foolishly follow her?
Who are u deceiving?
That was ur dick following the so called beautiful lady.

The lady wasn't so smart. Assuming she came and stripped u nakeed before u while touching her intimate parts, u will collect and clean mouth.

Imagine ur story. I will follow a man I don't know to his hotel if I am not nursing that dream that something will happen. At least that was the picture u have painted so far.

Next time, u will fall.
I will bet on this.

And u actually cheated.
Wish the case is reversed.
See entitlement.
After collecting kiss and following her to her hotel.

Story story.

luminouz:

Ehya...another woman who can't be objective...how long did the kiss last? 10 secs or less?? 1 hour or 2?? Did he initiate it?? What do you say about a married woman who was so brazen to ask a guy for sex?? I guess that one no be cheater oooo... The way u ladies dey oppose OP eh....I dey fear una o...be logical naaaaaa

U make no sense.
That guy has already cheated with this lady in his mind.
That was why he followed her like sheep to her hotel.
Why did he ran away?
So he can now think properly?
He only thought with his head for only few minutes and that was when he decided to leave the hotel.
The rest was him thinking with his dick.
It's as simple as that.

That the lady seduced him isn't any of our concern but he was too weak to act except when it has gone far after leading the lady.
He is lucky. Next time he might even lose his head for following a random lady to her hotel

litaninja:
So, in summary you advise that he should add lying to his current indiscretion....

Yes, because you don’t tell lies and you have total discretion, your holiness!

sassysure:


U make no sense.
That guy has already cheated with this lady in his mind.
That was why he followed her like sheep to her hotel.
Why did he ran away?
So he can now think properly?
He only thought with his head for only few minutes and that was when he decided to leave the hotel.
The rest was him thinking with his dick.
It's as simple as that.

That the lady seduced him isn't any of our concern but he was too weak to act except when it has gone far after leading the lady.
He is lucky. Next time he might even lose his head for following a random lady to her hotel

And you have entered his mind to know with certainty, well done!

Nice story.

Which nollywood movie is this?

Men Dey find temptation to fall in self but the OP try avoid...
Those who are shouting cheating can continue ooo, it’s their own � now

You for Bleep her Nahh, your life would never be the same...you think spirits, and shapeshifters don't look pretty too..