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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:50pm On Aug 31, 2019
Originalsly:
Very foolish to both Nigerian ladies because a Nigerian guy is dating/marries a White foreigner. If any bashing ... it should be the guy. Besides for papers and ehmmm.... sexual release if he is in a White country.... why should a guy look to date and marry someone from a totally different culture? ... he is a learner when it comes to her culture... and almost all the time... she does not fully accept his...but...it's ok by him. He will bend backwards and be very understanding and forgiving ...be fully in control of his temper and tone of voice... wash the dishes... the clothes if she says she is tired.... but God forbid... should the Black Nigerian gf dare ask him to wash the dishes....hot slaps would be the reply. Most Black men become real soft and submissive when dating a White. No grounds for bashing Nigerian women.


Are you a guy? I have to ask.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 8:21pm On Aug 31, 2019
uckennety:


Linus!

Come n date me n see if we won't share quota 50/50
Eheeeeen? Well, that's u
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by fuckpro: 8:33pm On Aug 31, 2019
aseosa:
Respect us women. We love you all men.
You know a relationship without wahala is so boring.
No wonder the rate of divorce in abroad is high.
Enjoy us ooo.
So you would live long.
And not die of boredom. grin cheesy cool
...drama queen!!! Try make yourself useful ... friendship is not a peacekeeping mission ooo grin grin
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nonye1234: 8:58pm On Aug 31, 2019
ednut1:
bros let us bash them so they can repent. Many 9ja gals see relationship and marriage as poverty allievation schemes . Most white girls have been working since college 16 and above even while in school. They can ask you for uber money, hair money . If you go out una go split bills. 9ja babe even from dating u don dey take care of her and her family. Thunder fire them . Even working class girl on 250k salary go dey ask for uber money.


If the economy of Nigeria is good and there are enough jobs for even 16 year olds to do...

You compare Nigerian girls with foreigners who have everything at least manageable for them;security, education,jobs, electricity...come on

BTW:
I don't think it's making sense to bill guys for everything
Everybody dey hustle to wake up tomorrow
You sef hustle rightly
It's all this things ya doing that's making all guys generalise sey all women no useful
Make your own way so a man can see you and know he'll prosper if he is with you
Not the opposite
God bless you

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nonye1234: 8:59pm On Aug 31, 2019
skywalker240:

This is a clear proof

A Foreign girl would never reply me the way this loosed ass olosho just did cheesy

Lol
Have you met all foreigners?
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Originalsly: 9:01pm On Aug 31, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Are you a guy? I have to ask.



Yep.... trying to keep it real.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by juggernaut35(m): 9:12pm On Aug 31, 2019
They'll now come up with this you know I'm a woman and there are some things I need as a woman, and funny enough girls I've encountered that say this have got means of livelihood, the more reason I have zero respect for a whole lot of Nigerian bitches. angry
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by theadams(m): 9:46pm On Aug 31, 2019
nuelsam:
There aint nothing wrong marrying a decent naija gyal.... Buh the problem be say.... Where i wan see am na ? Like majority of em have got these stupid sense on entitlement which disgusts me big time..... How can you command me to buy a phone for you cos we in a relationship....... Wait sef, are u mad ni? Na me born u?...... Its just so stupid man

na Wetin dey vex me big time, just bcoz we're in r/ship I must take care of her. who I be? her papa or? one girl come dey ask my padi to buy her phone of almost 100k, I was like what!
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by skywalker240(m): 9:56pm On Aug 31, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



It is only a -0 self esteem guy that will differentiate same gender cos of the colour of their skin, it's just like me saying a foreign guy will not never be stupid to type your first and above comment, ya dig?
and its only a broke ass loosed pussay empty brained slay queen, that would take my harmless comment personal.

now fvck off and go insert some yam tubers in there,

you dig?

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:02pm On Aug 31, 2019
skywalker240:

and its only a broke ass loosed pussay empty brained slay queen, that would take my harmless comment personal.

now fvck off and go insert some yam tubers in there,

you dig?


You have been noticed, now go play kid.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:02pm On Aug 31, 2019
Originalsly:


Yep.... trying to keep it real.


Nice.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by skywalker240(m): 10:08pm On Aug 31, 2019
Nonye1234:


Lol
Have you met all foreigners?
wouldnt that be stupid to say yes?

the ones i've chatted with are always calm, nice, and always open. Most of them even starts the convo and add fire to keep it burning.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 31, 2019
fuckpro:
...drama queen!!! Try make yourself useful ... friendship is not a peacekeeping mission ooo grin grin


Come wetin i do you. Mr friendship undecided
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 10:13pm On Aug 31, 2019
Ikpongiton:
nice,because the woman's wrapper trash favour una








Ohh lord pls send down sense upon your hand works. undecided
Na you know wetin dey pain you.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by uckennety(m): 10:15pm On Aug 31, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Eheeeeen? Well, that's u


Come naaaa
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by skywalker240(m): 10:18pm On Aug 31, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


You have been noticed, now go play kid.
you think i like you that much ?
or i fancy mentioning you ?
last we checked, a dummy with the F moniker mentioned me first.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Skmoda360(m): 10:23pm On Aug 31, 2019
aseosa:
Nice write up
It goina be nice to your face now because he is saying the salient truth....but if he is saying you guys should stop your entitlement spirit, you will be squeezing face upandan....� tongue tongue
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 10:28pm On Aug 31, 2019
Skmoda360:

It goina be nice to your face now because he is saying the salient truth....but if he is saying you guys should stop your entitlement spirit, you will be squeezing face upandan....� tongue tongue



Come you guys ooo. Wetin I do u people.
The last time I checked I no offend pesin ooo.

Make una free me . If you don't like wetin I comment.
You can talk to the birds of the air. If they are still flying am sure they are good listeners.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:33pm On Aug 31, 2019
skywalker240:

you think i like you that much ?

or i fancy mentioning you ?

last we checked, a dummy with the F moniker mentioned me first.


Awwn, crying already? Go sleep.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Pearl543(f): 10:37pm On Aug 31, 2019
Nice post though... It's true many Nigeria girls have entitlement mentality but don't be so quick to bash them... Our values, culture and the society at large most times inculcate that mentality in them. They were brought up to be dependent on males but never to be independent on their own. I'm not trying to justify anyone here but comparing Nigeria girls and other foreign girls is a bit too much. Na different lifestyle and background

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 10:42pm On Aug 31, 2019
uckennety:



Come naaaa
No oo. I'm ok
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by skywalker240(m): 10:43pm On Aug 31, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


Awwn, crying already? Go sleep.
Ok, if that makes you cum squirts.
Now bounce.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 11:36pm On Aug 31, 2019
Pearl543:
Nice post though... It's true many Nigeria girls have entitlement mentality but don't be so quick to bash them... Our values, culture and the society at large most times inculcate that mentality in them. They were brought up to be dependent on males but never to be independent on their own. I'm not trying to justify anyone here but comparing Nigeria girls and other foreign girls is a bit too much. Na different lifestyle and background

Apologies to anyone feel offended but I know you don't live in Nigeria. Whatever you hear about Nigerian women's entitlement mentality is nothing compared to what is actually happening on ground.

You need to come here and meet women, hear them speak. Hear them discuss with each other. God knows i am not exaggerating & everything i tell you is true.

First time i dated a woman outside of Nigeria, i had a culture shock for about a week. I was confused all thru. I needed to be patient & Re-learn everything i thought i knew about women.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Pearl543(f): 11:42pm On Aug 31, 2019
truthsayer009:


Apologies to anyone feel offended but I know you don't live in Nigeria. Whatever you hear about Nigerian women's entitlement mentality is nothing compared to what is actually happening on ground.

You need to come here and meet women, hear them speak. Hear them discuss with each other. God knows i am not exaggerating & everything i tell you is true.

First time i dated a woman outside of Nigeria, i had a culture shock for about a week. I was confused all thru. I needed to be patient & Re-learn everything i thought i knew about women.




Smiles... I'm a Nigerian and I live here, but I assure you, every 9ja girl isn't like that.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 11:42pm On Aug 31, 2019
Lonestar124:
Comparing nigerian girls and american girls should be the same with the level of governmental developments in both countries when measured..The rate of unemployment in nigeria is higher than those white countries, the monthly minimiun wage of a nigeria worker is one percent to those white countries you are praising and many things that bring differentiation as countries.

A average nigeria woman is hardworking than any white woman if the chance is given to her.

The problem with nigeria and africa as a continent is there is no thriving ground for her people especially for the women that are victim of discrimination.

The extended system of family we pratice is pushing the unfair dispensation.

The rate of unemployment affects both genders. Maybe you forgot, just reminding you.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Nobody: 11:44pm On Aug 31, 2019
Pearl543:





Smiles... I'm a Nigerian and I live here, but I assure you, every 9ja girl isn't like that.

Surely not every. I am too sure i never said every in my post. To be honest, I'm not complaining of it. I have accepted the realities and moved on happily.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by uckennety(m): 12:05am On Sep 01, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
No oo. I'm ok

Women una get problem

We give money! Ops ur spending much do u think u can buy me with money

We don't give! Ops what kind of a man are you! Your so uncaring and stingy

God save us from women
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Originalsly: 12:17am On Sep 01, 2019
Pearl543:


Our values, culture and the society at large most times inculcate that mentality in them.


You nailed it!

...a big contributor to the entitlement mentality that we don't consider.

The man must provide all the needs...and wants of the wife and family.

When dating... the gf is testing of the man is willing... and able to provide. If he can't provide for her..bow can he provide for the family?

When the barely working man is complaining about finding a fiancee.... what does his fellow men advise him?...forget about women.... go and make money... when you do... women would come in droves.

Entitlement is part of our culture... propped up by both men and women... so why point fingers?

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Pearl543(f): 12:19am On Sep 01, 2019
truthsayer009:


Surely not every. I am too sure i never said every in my post. To be honest, I'm not complaining of it. I have accepted the realities and moved on happily.


Okay dear... Life is too short to be unhappy anyways, good thing you have moved on. Goodnight

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by Pearl543(f): 12:24am On Sep 01, 2019
Originalsly:


You nailed it!

...a big contributor to the entitlement mentality that we don't consider.

The man must provide all the needs...and wants of the wife and family.

When dating... the gf is testing of the man is willing... and able to provide. If he can't provide for her..bow can he provide for the family?

When the barely working man is complaining about finding a fiancee.... what does his fellow men advise him?...forget about women.... go and make money... when you do... women would come in droves.

Entitlement is part of our culture... propped up by both men and women... so why point fingers?


Thank you. I am really glad you got the point. They keep making girls feel entitled about everything and they fail to see that. Charity begins at home as they would always say... If maybe, parents train their female child to be independent, I guess Nigeria will get a lot better

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by naijacentric(m): 12:25am On Sep 01, 2019
Lonestar124:
Comparing nigerian girls and american girls should be the same with the level of governmental developments in both countries when measured..The rate of unemployment in nigeria is higher than those white countries, the monthly minimiun wage of a nigeria worker is one percent to those white countries you are praising and many things that bring differentiation as countries.

A average nigeria woman is hardworking than any white woman if the chance is given to her.

The problem with nigeria and africa as a continent is there is no thriving ground for her people especially for the women that are victim of discrimination.

The extended system of family we pratice is pushing the unfair dispensation.
stop defending dem na all white rich ni our african sisters nko are dey nor suffering also but are dey not better dan naija gurls.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Should Stop Comparing Nigerian Ladies To Foreign Ladies by naijacentric(m): 12:27am On Sep 01, 2019
aseosa:
Respect us women. We love you all men.
You know a relationship without wahala is so boring.
No wonder the rate of divorce in abroad is high.
Enjoy us ooo.
So you would live long.
And not die of boredom. grin cheesy cool
foreign women would neva say such Imagine without wahala its so boring

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