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Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 6:49pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Please, I don't know if this is the right place to put this. I stay in Benin and I just got a job on the island (lekki) in Lagos. I don't have a place to stay until I get paid to get my own accomodation. If anyone can assist me, I will be mostly grateful till I'm financially bouyant to take my place. It's very very urgent as I need to resume work on monday. Ps: I'm a female. Mods do the needful please. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carmit(m): 6:52pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Hope some males won't take advantage of this sha |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 6:55pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carmit: I just pray they don't. Mankind just needs to be kind to another 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Nobody: 6:56pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carmit:Am about can't help it... Madam pm for a rent free |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 6:57pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Miniso: Done |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 6:58pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: It would be safer if you resume work on monday, discuss with your female colleagues at work. Im so sure one of them at least will spare you accommodation for a week. Then you can start from there 17 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carmit(m): 6:59pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile:I pray you see oo... I'm a lagosian but don't have the room. I'm male! |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 7:01pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carmit: Thanks |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by nlPoster: 7:08pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
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Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by nlPoster: 7:15pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by flokii: 7:32pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: @OP you should go with this option to be on the safer side.. you might be lucky to get accommodation from the company or your boss. 8 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 7:36pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
flokii: Else ehn... she might just end up with the "Either i bang you or you get outta my house" option 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by flokii: 7:42pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Guys wey dey para.. dem fit go shift her womb with preek. omolomo Nothing is free even in Freetown talkless Naija 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 7:51pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: It's not that easy. Her female colleagues dont know her, she's a new employee. All of them will be sceptical to allow her live with them. None of them will agree sef. Too many complications with women living together, how much more ladies who are strangers to themselves. They will say no. Sighs the only option she has is this medium. And she should pray very well, that bad people won't contact her as helpers. Only the good ones should see this advert and help her. Op just pray for divine connection . Cause nobody trust anybody anymore. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 7:53pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
flokii: Even her boss if Na man, will request for sex every now and then. If he were to accept her live in his place. Times are terrible. Never pray to be at Mercy of any human being. Never. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by bmdmix: 7:53pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: first of all what kind of job, no roomie wants to hear story that touches second, dont u have family in lagos 3rd, drop picture so people go see the girl wen dey wan play nice to |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:01pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: Thanks so much for this. I'm grateful. It's indeed a difficult time as I may loose the job if not in Lagos tomorrow |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:01pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carmit: Antoniosmile: nothing in life is free, especially when begging total strangers on online forum. she should rightfully assume the position she put herself into, and accept what comes with the territory.... and hope that being sexually used/abused is only what she will get from such desperate plight (and not something more sinister like ritual or kidnapping etc) 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:01pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: So true. Thanks for this |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by flokii: 8:02pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: Depends on personality of the individual.. but you're not far from the truth. Times have changed 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:02pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: Basically, you saying that a total stranger is safer than her colleague at work? How do you know her colleagues wont allow her even if its to pass the night? "Divine connection"? Lets be realistic here please Monday is a little over 48hours from now 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:03pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: It's so sad hearing this. Nevertheless, thanks for your candid advice. But I don't think we should have met before, before helping one another |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:10pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: you gotta be honest with yourself and the dangerous madness you want to put yourself (others) into... in this day and age when innocent people are being butchered for ritual etc. here you are gladly hoping that some stranger let you (a stranger) into their home and have you sleep there. i wouldnt trust YOU just like i wouldnt trust ANYONE who accept to have you sleep in their home. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Nat404: 8:10pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
OP, you really need to be careful here. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 8:10pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: Eeyah I wish I can help , I would have invited u over to my place. But due to circumstances beyond my control I can't. But remember one thing, if no one comes up to assist with the accommodation online , just know the job is not meant for you, or the job could bring sorrows instead of joy at the end. And any dissapointment in life after exhausting all efforts is a blessing. Pray this evening for God to touch a good person's heart and let the person send u a pm. If no one contact you, then just thank God. Other jobs will come, a better job that will Not place u in a disadvantage like this. A job u will prosper in and grow to become someone better. So whichever way tonight ends, just thank God. Also let your boss know u don't have anywhere to stay in case they have quarters for staffs coming outside Lagos. But please don't live with him o. The Lord is your strength. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:12pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: See ehn, let me tell you the blunt truth. I live on the mainland but i work on the island This one youre travelling all the way from Benin to work in Lekki,Lagos, and you have no accommodation. Im not trying to discourage you babe.... but Do you think you can get an accommodation easily after you get your first pay? Think about your expenses for the month(Tfare,feeding, e.t.c). You might not even get an accommodation in your preferred location cos of cost or other factors. I am not being negative here 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:15pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Spot on! I have a sister that resides in Obalende sef but i cant refer her cos truth be told.... I DONT TRUST THE O.P as well. Not that am being bad here..... I AM JUST BEING CAREFUL |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by divineappo(m): 8:23pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide:Lol |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 8:24pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Let's be realistic, shes not familiar with anyone at new place of work. Her colleagues are also strangers too. And trust me, no one in her work place will agree to accommodate her except a Randy guy who is single . Abi? Uv forgotten that women don't want any other woman to come in and sleep with their bfs or fiances or husbands. That's how most women brains are wired. If a fellow female colleague needs to squat with them for a while. Except they've been friends for donkey years, if not forget female colleagues helping her. They will see her as competition. What if my man sees her and want to bed her? Will she resist him because most women know u don't give cat, a roasted fish to keep and hold for you. Even Pastor wife will not allow a stranded female to come sleep over in their house, how much more colleagues she has not met before. They don't even know her. Her best bet is online. And if none is forthcoming from now till Monday. Let her come to Lagos, talk to her boss and see if there is staff quarters available. Simple. Op, the job is not a do or die affair Nothing in life is do or die Just keep an open mind, whatever happens at the end, just thank God. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Lamanii22(f): 8:25pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Great idea... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:28pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: bro...let that babe come and explain to us how she will get a place after 30days (with her 1month salary) ..... 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:29pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian:Seems you are advising her based on emotions YOU SAID HER COLLEAGUES DONT KNOW HER?? Well youre wrong..... THEY KNOW HER NOW SINCE THEY ALL WORK IN THE SAME FIRM THE FIRM has all her data..... Aint that safer than she begging for accommodation on NAIRALAND ..... Even if you want to beg..... BEG THE RIGHT PEOPLE 1 Like |
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