Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,205,004 members, 7,990,777 topics. Date: Friday, 01 November 2024 at 12:57 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ (46862 Views)
I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears / Help: I Am Getting Emotionally Attached To A Married Woman. / My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by ImaIma1(f): 7:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: Hope the sister doesn't become the head of your family. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by galadima77(m): 7:57pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Guy if you let the things women say sink into your heart, you'd only have yourself to blame. Do what you can and free your mind. You're a man, so act like one! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Beatswim: 7:59pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
kannymoore:The reality is that if one accepts the Bible as a book of God, when it does not make perfect sense and contradictions threaten to confound, the reader has two choices: either God’s character or the reader’s understanding of God’s character is a little misguided. In line with the latter, my thoughts have led me to acknowledge that there are divers possibilities as to why Rahab the harlot may have stood out in Canaan.Note that sexual sin is not the only point of discrepancy in the story. If the story is read in the context of the Deuteronomistic history (as opposed to simply reading it as a portion of the Joshua story), then there is seemingly more at stake. In Deuteronomy the Israelites are given two specific commands in regard to seven great nations, including the Canaanites: “Thou shalt smite them, and utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them” (Deuteronomy 7:2). It is interesting then, that as soon as the spies get inside the walls of Jericho, they proceed to enter into an oath with a Canaanite (violating part two of the commandment). The irony, of course, is that it is an oath that essentially swears that they will not utterly destroy Canaan (violating part one of the commandment).But the essence of the story comes in the recognition that the text is significantly less interested in the harlot-ness of Rahab and far more concerned with what comes across as palpable faith. Both Paul and James refer to Rahab as an example of faith, giving her a place in their discourse among Hebrew men such as Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Paul writes, “By faith the harlot Rahab perished not with them that believed not, when she had received the spies with peace” (Hebrews 11:31; see also James 2:25... I will advise u to study the word well before using it to twist the minds of babes in Christianity... |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by meobizy(f): 8:01pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Is this not the same guy who claimed he was hunted in Malawi? A happy200 troll. Mscheew. I bet it’s the same dude. I’m off to the next thread. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Duru009(m): 8:48pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Only TIME will tell..... |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by chubbyG(m): 9:25pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: Is thus behavior new? Or she has been demanding ever since? Stop this attitude before it escalates, have a discussion with her, pour your hearts if she doesn't agree with you, pause the wedding. What will happen will happen. No-one deserves to marry Sad. Show her this thread. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Agboriotejoye(m): 9:51pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000:Divorce her and marry the loving sister 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by extremelygolden: 11:18pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
0KNM: He said they are already legally married in court. I pray he finds a way out of the situation. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by madamgrace: 11:55pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000:What manner of man are you 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by MarianaTrench: 8:11am On Nov 09, 2019 |
pappy2000: The nightmare has not even started! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by osazsky(m): 9:11am On Nov 09, 2019 |
Until I hear her side I will not comment, most men and women like to play d pity game even when they know that they are d prob 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by osazsky(m): 9:14am On Nov 09, 2019 |
madamgrace:d tin weak me,matured in age but sorry to say still behaves like a kid, ,,,this one is neither here nor there,na d girl family they push am,that is y they are d ones spending,he saw an opportunity,to get a car and get married little did he know he was getting into a mess,I pitty him,d more he remains undecided the deeper mess he gets into 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by yeyeosoronga: 9:31am On Nov 09, 2019 |
pappy2000: Why did you start planning a wedding when you know you can't afford one? You should have not pressurised yourself into marriage. You should have let her know you can only do the court for now, and you guys will work together towards a more elaborate one. You gave your word you would do a traditional or big wedding, so why are you complaining now? Meanwhile, Kogi traditional weddings are usually simple occasions and can be done in the compound of the bride's family. Skip the church wedding for now. She's pregnant and planning a wedding at the same time, so she would be irritable and stressed out about no money matters when there are many expenses to sort out. . And don't forget a baby is coming, and that's another huge expense on you people. Start preparing for your baby please, save enough for possible CS or eventualities that can come up during labour. Buy baby things. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Skmoda360(m): 10:55am On Nov 09, 2019 |
LyfeJennings:I knew that but he is just acting because of his current predicament which he needs to shake off and be a man.....he should have save some money from his salary before proposing a wedding...but you are adding more salt to the injury.....advise with caution and suggest solution not adding more fuel to the fire. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Love892(m): 10:56am On Nov 09, 2019 |
From everything written here u should have opted out. From all you have written she is from a rich home. If u continue onto the reln I will know u only want to marry her for her family wealth . Dont be their houseboy! |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Love892(m): 10:58am On Nov 09, 2019 |
osazsky:as in and the way he types this with confidence is beyond me. He shouldnt turn to their houseboy instead of husband |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Love892(m): 10:59am On Nov 09, 2019 |
madamgrace:dont mind him. The girl isnt a fool. Wait for this one to have money. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Love892(m): 11:07am On Nov 09, 2019 |
pappy2000:out of 900k for d wedding, u bring only 70k yet if they say all men stand up u will? H Why force marriage when broke? U dont know how to use condom ba? Your sense of entitlement is very irritating. She should reason with u. Did they force u? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Love892(m): 11:12am On Nov 09, 2019 |
Funkybabee:very lazy. Thinking the sis will still support after wedding |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by djon78(m): 12:06pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
gerizzim: My brother that's general rule of life, not just relationships only. We despise unattractive things, but in them lies blessings, favor, prosperity and good well being. Its a truth I discovered |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by LyfeJennings(m): 1:04pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Skmoda360: Ok sir |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Love892(m): 2:42pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
djon78:story. Everything isnt bible u hear? Faith n work go together. Tomorrow he will write on nl frontpage my wife isn't respecting me, u will still quote bible |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by 2buffagain(m): 3:21pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
pappy2000: There is nothing "irrational" about her behavior. It's actually understandable. Na you dey Bleep up. Of course she feels used. You set wedding date with a woman, but it's not looking like you are going to come through. Add to the fact that you have also done the stupid thing of giving her belle, if you were to cast her now, na she go loose for una matter. So she is just finally applying logic to the matter, and logic demands she be wary and somewhat angry. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by djon78(m): 6:03pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Love892: Mr man you don't just start quoting something you have no clue about. You just jump into a conversation without understanding the root. The person I replied understand where I am coming from Your reply is completely off point I wasn't addressing you in the first place |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Funkybabee(f): 9:20pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by PattyMike(m): 11:44am On Nov 10, 2019 |
ImaIma1:LMAO. You sef notice |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by DaBogu: 12:08pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 10:49pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
thanks everyone for your advice. i know i truly bleeped up but hey what can i do |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Damdammy: 11:02pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
chigoizie7: READ THIS POST AND FOLLOW SUIT!. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Nobody: 11:44pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
Y 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 11:39am On Nov 19, 2019 |
buy my laptop to support my wedding bro nan sister. I need to sell this laptop today, thanks if u are in lagos its just 25k , 4Gb 500 Gb hard disk |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by ThatPetiteChic: 12:44pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Update us bro |
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply)
6 Romantic Gestures That Looks Annoying To The Public / How Do You Tell A Girl That You Want To Date Her?please Help / How Did You React the first time You Met Your Blind Dates?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 49 |