SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Get a good job first, fix your life instead of craving to have a girlfriend, you sound unserious

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Papertrail11:


Can we all cut it with this mentality and stop commercializing relationships it brings out the worst in people over time.

Men and women should create an avenue to get to know each other and build something.

They are not lying or saying that it is the right thing. But that's how relationships are in Nigeria of ours, only few girls can show commitment to a broke fella in Nigeria. You're saying how it is ought to be, but you and I knew better.
I knew what I passed through during my time before meeting one who didn't think much about money from me.

benjijosh:
You should be happy because there will be no one to say "I left you for a better package".

Having a girl at 35 aint bad. Get yourself in order first because even if you get a girl tomorrow, it is just a matter of days before she starts complaining about your joblessness.

Hmmm! He shouldn’t wait too long before having a regular and stable income that can sustain a family. At 35 and above, another problem may craw in, and that's getting a girl who will marry a brokeass grandpa. If he has already had a girl by now and both are waiting for each other, that's different. But having to go out and start looking for who to marry when 40 is knocking on the door with not enough money to entice a potential wife will be a little difficult.
Most especially if he's not sociable, extrovert, outdoor person.

franchasng:
majority of guys born in Nigeria face this situation once in their lifetime, only very few guys who were fortunate to come from rich family backgrounds don't experience this phase in their life.


Right now, you should focus on how to improve your life financially.

Getting a job is not the only way to improve your financial life since job isn't coming, explore your skills, your talent, your natural gifts and what have you. Shun pride and shyness and fold your sleeve and do whatever you can do legally to start earning money at least monthly or daily or weekly.

Once your life is sorted out financially, ladies of all kinda will naturally come around.

I used to be a loner who had no girlfriend though out of personal decision and upbringing, but as I progressed in life, ladies started coming around even without me making any effort to my surprise.

Right now I am happily and excited married to my hearthrob and in fact so many ladies don't want to give up on me, some are still sending me threatening messages for settling down oh, which was why I did a very low key wedding strictly by invite, so you can see how life can change for a man once you sort out your financial life


So don't feel odd, it is normal for most Nigerian guys, that's the situation we found ourselves in, don't despair, focus on making money for now.

You can actually liberate yourself financially through internet freelance jobs, trading, marketing, etc.

Wish you the best.


Cc:
contumely2

Good comment, very helpful. But why "f" in front of your moniker? You want to dupe guys here?

SKYloafFISH:
its love. If you have a child, won't the child be rude to you at a point in time?
But the child still loves you as his/her parents

love

Judybash93:
Chase a cheque, never chase a b****h

Future- Mask Off

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

we are in the same shoes bro. But me thinking of having stable source of income first.

dimexy247:
Two things are involved, either hug a live transformer or get lost inside the forest or ocean, either way, you're fuccked for the rest of your fuccked life. Idiot.

E pain am

jackals:


I used to say it " ugly guys have no place in love. And the funny thing is these ugly dude think they're something in life. Looks go a long way in determining if a man will be successful in life or not. Once I see ugly looking idiot hitting on me, I turn the other way. Even if you're rich, once a guy is ugly, that's the end for him. He has no chance of being successful

are you God ? is oshomole obaseki obasanjo, Mr ibu, not successful and happily married, you are just a kid f@@l big f@@l that what you are

I advice you don’t since most of these girls won’t fu..ck you if you are broke

bukkielee:
29 is a very dangerous age. Man's problems are either surpressed or aggravated

Have you checked out 19?

Ladylite:


Join gold1p on Instagram and be added to their Whatsapp group. They do match making and also connect people. You can thank me later.

The major issue is finances. Girls dey worry these days. Without money it's best to stay on your own cos these ladies don't understand

Be thanking to God for your life, I know someone at 46 without shelter who is still trusting God for a wife and shelter. Mind you, lay your hands on anything positive you can find for now. Don't forget the day of little beginning. Learn a trade or a skill of your choice, and look for any company related to your job and approach them for a volunteering job. God be with you.

tunary:
Forest is synonymous to gamble

it's not Bro.

DoubleEngine007:
I can relate.. Op just find something doing.. Forget the being a graduate thing.
You can start something,no matter how small.. Refer people to buy properties or rent properties(real estate agent) or even cars,then get your commission ... Bro I'm just giving you an example,there are other ways to make cool cash ,just for the moment,before better source of income comes.. I tell people that relationship is like the human body.. Without blood,the body will die.. So also relationship without money ,is like the human body without blood.. The relationship will die.. Money first before any serious relationship,but you can keep casual girlfrds,and don't try to impress them . Just be frd with them,and learn how their characters are...So that you can choose from them( The one that suits to be a wife) out of them all,when the money starts coming.... Person go spend money go school,and you no go get job.. And one small boy when no go school,go dey drive GLK pass u as you dey trek inside hot sun... This life get as e be.. Who don get investments and better money,no know wetin God do for am...

If he can't get a graduate job, then he need to go for menial jobs. 2 years without salary and he expects any girl (decent or not) to be interested in him? Impossible. He should go and get a job, start earning salary or income, rent a house no matter how small and the women would come. He is likely living in his parents or someone's home. No woman would look his way.

Early marriage is the best my dear

RisenPhoenix:


Bro, if you lack a good job, a girl in your life is the least of your problems right now. Upgrade yourself and try to improve your hustle with clear planning. Women in your life at this moment will just add migraine to your malaria.

By the way, if you are successful financially, different women will just start seeing you carrying ring in vision and your pastor will be hinting you everyday; it will be like a real miracle. So don't worry about getting a wife in the future either.

You don't need a girl now but a viable job to support yourself and take care of the girl you will need.

What's your pride in having a girl when you cannot even feed yourself?

Come off the illusion and get your priority right for once?

Daniel058:
it's not Bro.

What is it then

During your NYSC, why didn't you take advantage of the Saed program? Go and learn a skill.

Lol, I'm sure if we meet on street, you no fit talk for where I dey ball. Pain me? I wrote an update, u mentioned me without sense, I fuccked ur fada and u are still sprewing rubbish.

fergieboy:

E pain am

tunary:
What is it then

buying and selling of currency in pairs.. there is always a reason to buy or sell . Anything one have got no knowledge of and he/she started doing , that automatically becomes gambling. Forex trading like other business/skills takes time to learn .. anybody who tell you that you can understand how to trade in Less than/within a month isn't telling you the truth .

dimexy247:
Lol, I'm sure if we meet on street, you no fit talk for where I dey ball. Pain me? I wrote an update, u mentioned me without sense, I fuccked ur fada and u are still sprewing rubbish.

You be mumu

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Virgin males out number female Virgins by a billion percent. Only 1% of women can keep their legs crossed at your age. The reason why VIRGINITY is placed as a VIRTUE on women in almost every society in the world is because it is a very scarce virtue, hence it is very valued for its scarcity. Women love sex too much, the are the BEST of pretenders. Lesson number one.

Ginaz, geminita1,riele, viifuntop..

Iloveu2:


Virgin males out number female Virgins by a billion percent. Only 1% of women can keep their legs crossed at your age. The reason why VIRGINITY is placed as a VIRTUE on women in almost every society in the world is because it is a very scarce virtue, hence it is very valued for its scarcity. Women love sex too much, the are the BEST of pretenders. Lesson number one.

Ginaz, geminita1,riele, viifuntop..

Where's prove to backup your claims ?

maasoap:


Hmmm! He shouldn’t wait too long before having a regular and stable income that can sustain a family. At 35 and above, another problem may craw in, and that's getting a girl who will marry a brokeass grandpa. If he has already had a girl by now and both are waiting for each other, that's different. But having to go out and start looking for who to marry when 40 is knocking on the door with not enough money to entice a potential wife will be a little difficult.
Most especially if he's not sociable, extrovert, outdoor person.

Boss, nah me u describe up there. It just seems as if I'm getting uglier, more introvert, & more indoor by d day at dt age. Even pepper sellers, vocation apprentice & school dropout now play hard to get for me.

I'm already thinking if I'll ever get a lady to accept to date & marry me now. I'm 35 & 4 months now.

Go Hussle and make some cash, the ladies will always be there for you.

SamOyovwi:
Early marriage is the best my dear

I agree. But it puts limits on a man's achievements. It is difficult for a man to advance financially after marriage. For women however, it is optimal to marry early, because they are usually at the age when they can attract the best prospects.

eniorisha:



Even pepper sellers, vocation apprentice & school dropout now play hard to get for me.

I'm already thinking if I'll ever get a lady to accept to date & marry me now. I'm 35 & 4 months now.

Have you ever asked a lady out??

OP, ehn listen.

For now you need to get busy and productive. In just two years you can learn fashion design or mechanic. Any trade of your choice. Maybe not what dreamed of but still a solid income source.

You can still marry at 33 after training and working for a year.

Do not look at any body's face. Move to another town to learn the trade if you are shy because of your environment.

You can begin dating to test the waters but NOT straight into marriage. Know the expectations of women.

Learn how important money above everything else is to MOST women. Steady income especially. Give a woman money steady for one year. One or two months you do not give, all you have done in the past become irrelevant. Let no online feminist wannabe fool you.

You can use that to know the type of woman you can settle down with.

Gather some experience with it. You cannot jump into marriage with a girl who may have dated 30 men without any experience of your own. You will be a right mugu in the ways of women.

My Broo don't allow this shit to extend beyond this year.

Raalsalghul:

Congrats bro, you've left the shit hole.

I hope to join you soon

wen u don get a good offer jus jakpa