Yes. Some girls have a high body count because they've been unlucky in love. Some people try to give their all in their relationships just to maintain it. Some of them can be naive though, that's why they must know opening their legs won't keep a man.

Yes but the risk reward is not in your favour so it’s not a chance worth taking

it depends


as for me I see ladies that open legs for a man that have not reach introduction stage as a corporate prostitute, if I've my way I wouldn't allow any man to marry such woman in the house


many repentant ladies who have went down with many men are still vulnerable in the sense that, the size of dicks that have penetrated that vagina and regrettably if you're on the small size, she might look elsewhere, mostly to those ladies that some porn future star guys have spoilt with sex


my dear brother nothing is good as tear rubber, I swear to God. 97% of non Virgins single ladies are wayward ladies and cannot be entrusted with a loyalty

To copy this joke press 1.

Make I tell him

A girl with a high sexual body count is most cases not wifable to me but they may be meant for someone else's treasure.

I don't judge but I am not naive either.

I have high standard for myself so I expect the women I be with to carry the same though I don't expect anything else but honesty and good times actually.

Some women cheat because they don't feel good enough to live honest so they want love from another that they don't have (for themselves or from their spouse)

GreenArrow1:
Definelty will cheat on you when the opportunity presents itself. My present GF who has been pressuring me for marriage has an astronomical body count. E pass high. How can I now marry someone who if she picks a stone and throws in the marketplace, it will hit at least 5 exes? Even ashawo no get custormer reach the girl.
Then she said something about when she reported someone who beat up her brother to the police. That she told herself that even if it is to just give the police man her kpekus, to have them deal with the boy, she was ready. Underline "just."

That is the testament of a person who doesn't place any value on her body. She gives it out willingly.
She will give it out again. When she goes to look for a job. When she goes to pursue a contract. When she runs into certain exes.

Flee!!!

When she goes out to buy indomie

bobkezel:
Yes a lady with high BC can be faithful, but from my experience, the probability of her cheating is very high, very very high.
I had an experience, withing 6 months of dating her she had already cheated on me with 3 guys and kept lying about it, but she didn't know "I have the video". When I played them apologies started raining.
I had my revenge though..

how did you lay hold of a video. CCTV or you set up a deal with the three guys? It happened in your bunk or what? Yan me story

donestk:
I meant someone with several past relationships that went down with most of them.

Yes, yes, yes
If I was dating you? The surest thing about the union would be the fact of my love for you. This would mean that I would be physically and emotionally attracted to you, and would also mean you are the only one I feel that for. So zero cheating from my end. This is regardless of the number of men I have had before meeting you. I would also not hook up the way I do with you with those exes, even though I am likely to be friends with them still (and which you can’t, and shouldn’t try to stop. You would fail if you attempted though...and may end up curiously asking me about them and about any exploits or gist regarding them. There usually would be. I don’t know how I do it ). Meanwhile the friendships with them and other guys are platonic and almost filial. Because I absolutely know myself.
You would be the only one who makes my body sing and melts my heart romantically. But that same heart is big enough for a lot of people including exes and your relatives and strangers, so you trying to curb it makes me feel you are insecure and small minded and would definitely kill/topple what I feel for you.

So your girl may be like me...or not
Find out, and grow from the experience
Cheers

[quote author=Flier post=88715607]Not all of them goes back to it,but I think it also depends on tribe
Most Igbo ladies don't go back to their past after getting married, let's say 5% goes back compared to
Yoruba about 50 percent goes back to their past while
South South people about 90% I swear to God you're a genius. What a perfect analysis. I have been privileged to live with all the aforementioned tribes. See, you are spot on!!!!

But a man with high body count can marry without raising brows and can be faithful abi ....

Stop judging people from their past and if they haven't cheated on you while dating you I see no reason why her past will bring a problem in the future

Flier:
Try it out yourself, try to have sex with your married igbo ex girl friend
Let’s see if it will be a success
Igbo ladies are the most faithful in marriage

Stopiiiiiit. Don’t say that again !

No way. Abandon ship!

JasonJidenna:
It's just like a politician who engaged in vote buying and pulled a massive number of votes to beat his opponents....


1. Don't expect him to be FREE and FAIR when he is sworn in.

2. Don't expect him to deliver the DIVIDENDS of democracy.

3. Don't expect him to be FAITHFUL with public funds.

I agree 100/100

flyingdutchman:
Well, if you as a man had a high body count, you have no moral grounds to judge your spouse. IDIAAATS!

Olude193:
It all depends on the lady involved...

At least she was sincere about the body count..


If she says she isn't into it then try to trust her. You could also put her through a test...


I don't understand how we men have more body counts than ladies and still go on to condemn the ladies who are sincere about theirs


Instead of you to enjoy what you are being blessed with

a lady can never be sincere abt her body count, never. They'll tell you it just 5 or 10. Multiply that number times 10, that's the real figure. Many had even forgot those they met

farem:


You can never see an illegitimate child with igbo man. Even if im wife Bleep Shekau and give her belle, as long as he don pay dowry, that bastard belong to Igbo man.
The reason why igbos are not one by blood - many bought from baby factory where benue man is paid to Bleep kidnapped nkechi to produce children. What of many almajiri kidnapped down to Biafra. Chinwe no go fit stop receiving poor Segun big dick and she go still hang am on Nnamdi neck (you know most of them wait for pregnancy before the so called traditional wedding).
This is not a tribal bashing but an empharical life of hypocritical igbos

What's that? some new word?

Omoluabi16:
Yes. Some girls have a high body count because they've been unlucky in love. Some people try to give their all in their relationships just to maintain it. Some of them can be naive though, that's why they must know opening their legs won't keep a man.

The only sensible post on the thread.

Flier:
Not all of them goes back to it,but I think it also depends on tribe
Most Igbo ladies don't go back to their past after getting married, let's say 5% goes back compared to
Yoruba about 50 percent goes back to their past while
South South people about 90%

You have a point because most Igbo ladies go into multiple relationships mostly to make money to survive; pay school fees, help their poor siblings and parents, pay rent, etc while praying to find a rich or okay husband that will help foot their bills so they can love him and quit, while most Yoruba ladies do it for fun, some do it as a form of exploration of handsome guys, just like DJ Cuppy, etc...


So when the Igbo girl marries, she feel financially relieved and quits all her sex escapades to focus on her marriage, unless something goes wrong with her husbands finances, then some of them, not all will go back to use their body to pave way for their family's upkeep by sleeping with men for job, for cash, for contract or for business loan.


But to most Yoruba ladies, being married does not stop them from extra marital affairs cos they are not doing it mostly for money but for fun, for the love of owambe, for the love of exploration and shayo


Hausa-Fulani and southsouth ladies I cannot say much about them

Flier:
Not all of them goes back to it,but I think it also depends on tribe
Most Igbo ladies don't go back to their past after getting married, let's say 5% goes back compared to
Yoruba about 50 percent goes back to their past while
South South people about 90%

What about the North chicks

donestk:
I meant someone with several past relationships that went down with most of them.

Pls can you give a rough estimate of how many men pls ...

Cot it appears I am in same delima

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Lostz:


it is a common knowledge in Delta here that Igbo women sleep around even after marriage.

the Igbo man will always accept back a cheating wife.


don't just sit in your room and come up with figures

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I am not igbo but I know this is a big lie

You probably live in a village and watch too many Nollywood movies

Igbo women hadly cheat , Yoruba cheat more south south cheat like is food

Hausa hadly cheat

You can make her faithful with high libido

GreenArrow1:
Definelty will cheat on you when the opportunity presents itself. My present GF who has been pressuring me for marriage has an astronomical body count. E pass high. How can I now marry someone who if she picks a stone and throws in the marketplace, it will hit at least 5 exes? Even ashawo no get custormer reach the girl.
Then she said something about when she reported someone who beat up her brother to the police. That she told herself that even if it is to just give the police man her kpekus, to have them deal with the boy, she was ready. Underline "just."

That is the testament of a person who doesn't place any value on her body. She gives it out willingly.
She will give it out again. When she goes to look for a job. When she goes to pursue a contract. When she runs into certain exes.

Flee!!!

Let me shock you.
My ex wife gave a stranger kpekus just to get back at her bf then.where is the patience, torelance trying to know the reason he cheated and work things out. I just pity these present naija generational ladies and whoever wife them. Cus they're cheap is insulting to the word cheap They're born to open legs to eternity, na we guys dey at the winning end na to dey fire their toto dey go anyhow. anyone wey sour, stink and smell we discard am and unto the younger fresher ones.

A true definition of faithfulness in marriage is when a man has a robust bank account and is very influential + perfect at satisfying his woman. Other than these it's a tall order.

I am a married man who has never caught his wife cheating at all yet, I do not rule out totally the possibility.

Women like comfort and pleasures, give these to them....you king

She can be faithful if she wants, it's a choice

When a man has a good car it attracts more ladies to him. When a lady has a good car it repels guys away from her. This is the world we live in.A teenage boy impregnates his teenage girlfriend. The girl drops out of school, the boy continues his education. This is the world we live in.A guy catches his girlfriend with another guy, he fights his girlfriend. A lady catches her guy with another lady, she fights the other lady. This is the world we live in.The older a man becomes, the higher the number of ladies available for him. The older a lady becomes the fewer the number of guys available for her. This is the world we live in.A 76 year old man can still marry a 26 year old lady. A 36 year old lady is tagged too old to get married. This is the world we live in.A man divorces his wife today and the next day he is dating other ladies. Six months later he is married. While the divorced woman is labeled a divorcee and remains single six years later. This is the world we live.A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living. A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "aaah! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. This is the world we are in.A married man is caught in bed with another woman, his wife is asked to forgive him and move on. A married woman is caught in bed with another man, the husband asks her to leave his house. This is the world we live in.A man gets transferred by his company to another state, the entire family relocates with him. The woman gets transferred to another state, she goes alone or resigns from the job. This is the world we live in.‎If a man rises to be the CEO of the company, he got there by hard work and determination. If a woman rises to be the CEO of the company, even if the staff are only women, she is suspected to get there by sleeping with the Board members. This is the world we live in.THIS IS THE WORLD WE LIVE IN.

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doctore212:
Guy nothing dey happen.

Am just waiting for this lockdown make I go meet my babe parents (though na formal Olosho for the place wey I dey stay before).

She don Tey for the job but me I no send.

As far as she dey loyal. What would I have done without her in this lockdown.


She sabi give me kpekus for free.if not, I don't know what I would have done.

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You are an illiterate and think everything is a joke

You can't last two months in marriage

You are a waste of space and not fit to be called a man

Probably a fraudster or a pickpocket

I am sure we have you in our database

Better be warned

NEVER, I REPEAT NEVER...
Says Okafor

Flier:
Not all of them goes back to it,but I think it also depends on tribe
Most Igbo ladies don't go back to their past after getting married, let's say 5% goes back compared to
Yoruba about 50 percent goes back to their past while
South South people about 90%

Where did you get your statistics from?

GreenArrow1:


False sincerity. The reason why most ladies with a high body count are quick to tell you about their past is they are smarter than the naive ones and know that you are going to find out sometime in the near future anyway. So better they tell you themselves. Then you give them credit for sincerity not knowing that they are just trying to cover their bases. It doesn't carry much weight.

How many men have you seen with a high body count who are truly faithful in their marriages? And for how long?
It's the same with women.

Well said

People are just saying what they like. That the relationship didnt work out is not just the fault of the lady. Some people are unlucky with these things. Many of the guys here will say they cant get married to any lady that will not sleep with them before marriage.

After sleeping with them, they come to nairaland to complain about the girl breathing air while he is talking.

There is no perfect human being. The lady in question just told you the truth, and you brought the matter to nairaland.

Maybe ladies should stop saying the truth since it is lies you people like.