Hold on! This is a really dicey topic right? It has been a point of argument for the female and male gender over the years. Being that, there is a theory that says men are polygamous and women are not or should not be, based on their biology or nature.

This has been an excuse for cheating and polygamy for men, and women in a bid of wanting to proof the fact that this theory is false and that one can stay without swinging, decided most recently to take on the polygamous role. Now in some countries, women are marrying more than one man and even in dating. It is commonly seen that there are ladies that have more than one man under their wing. Not just that, they have histories of a long line of men they have been involved with. Now this is not peculiar to women as men have been foremost at this endeavor.

But today is not about the men, today is about women. What are the troubles that comes with having a high body count. That is a long list of men you have been involved with sexually.

1. Stigmatization:
The African society seems to favour men more often than women. Because of this, they excuse the fact that a man can go along with the number of women he chooses to but definitely not the same for a woman. Infact, if a woman cheats on her man, it’s like a premeditated murder for the man, a very serious issue, the man thinks of getting rid of such woman immediately, she’s never Worthy of being with such man. For her to cheat, it means she has to get to a certain level of mental space to be able to do that, “ as seen by the society” but if man does same, the reverse will definitely be the case.

They state that a woman is supposed to be chaste, naive and kept for her husband. In a situation where she has been involved with two or three men before getting married, there is a high chance of getting stigmatized not just by her husband to be family but by the society at large.

The society tends to consider her as “used” item and not desired. It takes an enlightened mind to see past a person’s history and to know that that does not define the present state of a person. Because of this, it is always advisable a woman does not swing like a man, especially in the African society.

2. Emotional Ties:
Based on the construct of women, it is wise to say that a woman will not give herself to another if she does not love, trust or find security in the person. Often, there is a high chance that a lady still has emotions for one or two of the persons she has been involved with. This is why most ladies cheat on their current partners with their “exes”. Even though sleeping around is business for the lady, it does not take away the fact that emotions do come in at some point. This makes it troublesome and it becomes a problem if it is not taken care of.

3. Trust Issues:
When it comes to relationships, what binds two people to each other apart from love, is the level of trust they have for each other. Now, this may a problem for a lady with her current relationship, especially if she has an insecure partner. Any misunderstanding might make him think that she is cheating.

Often it gets worse that the man constantly throws her past in her face when there is an issue. An insecure person might find it hard to believe that his partner has changed even though she is making efforts to do so. This becomes worrisome, and with time strains a relationship. Without trust, there is nothing to hold to in a relationship, whether romantic or platonic.

4. Blackmail:
There are cases where partners come back to threaten the women to get back to them, even though these women have moved on with their lives.This often proves effective especially if the lady kept her previous relationships from their current partners. If they pressure gets to them, they succumb especially when the person blackmailing them has some evidence of their escapades like sex tapes, pictures or chats.

5. Low Self Esteem:
QBreak-ups are usually different for each person. For some ladies, the constant moving on to a new partner is just to find an emotional bank, to augment for the ones they’ve been bankrupt of. Maybe their partner was verbally abusive to them, it rubs off on their person and they end up loosing their self esteem. This is because people (especially women) usually value the opinions of those they love.

This article is in no way exalting the fact that men should go on philandering, instead it is saying that before making any decision, one should consider the consequences and weigh the odds if they are in their favour. And if it isn’t, then they could prepare themselves on how to deal with the resultant effects of their actions if they do decide to make a decision that has a negative outlook.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/11/17/5-reasons-why-having-a-high-body-count-as-a-lady-is-bad/

This ur story long no be small, u don dey threathening me early this morning!!!

joeking2222:
This ur story long no be small, u don dey threathening me early this morning!!!

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What of having high body count as a guy.

2. Emotional Ties:
Based on the construct of women, it is wise to say that a woman will not give herself to another if she does not love, trust or find security in the person. Often, there is a high chance that a lady still has emotions for one or two of the persons she has been involved with. This is why most ladies cheat on their current partners with their “exes”. Even though sleeping around is business for the lady, it does not take away the fact that emotions do come in at some point. This makes it troublesome and it becomes a problem if it is not taken care of.

I beg your pardon but you can still form strong, powerful emotional ties without having sex in a relationship.

I'm talking from experience.

Forget the long story. Common sense is enough to tell a lady she is meant to be upright and chaste.

By the way, a woman's past is her future. It doesn't matter if she is trying to change, the effects of her past will definitely surface and might bring both her and her current husband down.

In all, it is best to avoid non-virgins. Any man who marries a non-virgin is either weak, inexperienced in relationships or outright stupid.

Kings cum virgins, losers, low value and unfortunate men cum used up women. This has been from the days of old.

Watin concern Olosho with all these gramma?
Some girls puss* na their office. If they no shear am, they no go see food chop. This life done spoil ooh.

Father Christmas is counting the High Body

Generally if I observed sey you don get plenty body counts, no need to approach you in the first place.

I go dey imagine how the previous guys take dey bend her or give her doggy.


On a serious note, I really find it repulsive doing a girl whom I know have had plenty of guys in the past; one reasons why I don't do prostitutes.

It's not segregation or discrimination, I just don't like it personally.

U bad, no one is perfect

It's bad for both genders, also abeg nah December all these lecturing of woman from men is getting stale mehn

I asked my Ex girlfriend about her body count



Shee started counting but I fell asleep.

DamnNigga
Isoright!!

Who body count help ??

Una no dey tire for woman matter, nairaland boys? I thought most of you said you HATE women and will not marry. Why do you all discuss these same recycled topics all day long??

Why are you 'ALPHA Males' always talking about prick and toto matters, shouldn't you all be doing better things, as per the alpha males una be....

But seriously, high body count for both men and women speaks alot about the person. It shows a lack of self control and self worth. And note that I said both genders. I find men who brag about such extremely repulsive. With all these nyamanyama diseases flying around these days, someone will still be sleeping around.

Some ladies are even proud of bodycount.... only a prostitute will have more 2 body count before marriage... as a woman u need to have respect for ur body.... only male dogs sleep around the females don't.... dere is different between a male and a female.... u don't sleep around because u like sex.... u sleep around because u think its right and that's what makes u to be an in-house olosho... stop the rubbish.

I have -0.00 body count.

100% fact. No sensible man wants a lady that has been been fvcked, re-fvcked and de-fvcked by a large number of guys. You will feel like you lost if you end up with such a lady. The thought of how countless number of guys have fvcked her will always haunt you.
I'm saying this from experience. I once dated a girl with a high body count. At first, I thought it didn't matter, but oh! was I wrong. First off, her oil well was nothing to write home about. Secondly, i didn't feel lucky having her. I actually felt angry with myself for asking her out. Thirdly, she was a chronic cheat. I caught her a few times. Funny enough, she was everything I wanted except for the fact that she was a hoe and a liar. That was the deal breaker for me. The disadvantages are endless. Piece of advise, Once you know she's a hoe, just fvck and move on. I won't say more than this

It’s just se..x
Honestly most men/women don’t care about body count.
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There are more important issues to worry about especially health.

If after all the numerous se..x with different people and you’re free from std, count yourself lucky.

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You say what? In this generation, all these things listed is not enough to discourage our ladies not to have. Only to later become "Alpha lady" or feminist.

Pity this generation?!!!

Una don come with this una body count wahala again.

U guys should leave ladies with body counts naaah...

Shebi na their body...

Abeg make una carry go jare...

na wah oh

abeg wetin concern olosho with all this grammar

I pity any man wey go marry a woman with high body counts. But how we go fit know those wey get high body counts when dem dey use vagina tightening cream and alum to tighten their kpekus? The average African babe go always divide her body count by 3 before she tells you . So my brothers, if she say na just 5times, multiply am by 3 and you go get the exact figure. If only kpekus be like Whatsapp wey get LASTSEEN, most people for no gree marry sef. I just dey shake head for who go marry my ex , that guy just dey marry empty orange shell because we don suck the juice finish. Body count counts oooo, don't be deceived. E be like who buy tokunbo car of 5yrs and who buy tokunbo car of 2yrs, difference go always dey for the engine. But that not withstanding sha, na character be wetin dey hold marriage, not low or high body count. But my dear people, make we all try to dey hold ourselves because door wey dem dey use everytime dey quick spoil. Pity the real owner atleast . Blessed are those wey meet their wives as virgins, for they shall have no fear for DNA test for their first pikin.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again "The average 9ja babe go always divide her body count by 3, while others go divide am by 5"

An average Nigerian girl of 16 already has a body count of 20 men. Imagine when this same teenager progresses to the age of 25 to 27 and ready to settle down? Body count will be over a 100.

Hmmm