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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by scoundrel(f): 1:40pm On May 11, 2020
You will never find their kind here. It’s only broke idiots who waste time here throwing insults at people they will never come across in life.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by irunoko(m): 1:44pm On May 11, 2020
MrNipplesLover:



you aren't a girl, bro.


no dey set trap for us here cheesy




but the way, which kind name be this your profile name naaah?


ahhhh!


pls, no quote me again, I dey fast.

abeg.
ahannnn no be Wetin dey inside your boxers be the name of my moniker? Kilowan pretend fun? tongue

You dey fast ? Ehennnnnn and so what? tongue
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Seun(m): 1:47pm On May 11, 2020
Seems nice.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 1:49pm On May 11, 2020
I'll drop the theirs part by 4pm , follow for updates
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 1:50pm On May 11, 2020
Dreyton36:
I'll drop the theirs part by 4pm , follow for updates
third
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Grupo(m): 1:52pm On May 11, 2020
Seun:
Seems nice.

Do you have some experience to share with us?
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Lamiri(m): 1:52pm On May 11, 2020
Dreyton36:
third
Bros biko no let my pepper soup cold na do fast

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Chuks2706(m): 1:54pm On May 11, 2020
I think they are hard to come a cross nowadays undecided
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Eillyeillz(m): 1:55pm On May 11, 2020
Dreyton36:
third
. Oga kilo shey yen gan?! Small gist you don dey feel who produce Igodo! Had to login into my NL account because of your Story, you had better not disappoint �

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Treasuredvessel: 1:56pm On May 11, 2020
The same things men accuse women of ,they're also guilty of,when they see ladies who are doing well for themselves they suddenly become leeches.Ladies who are this and more abound,the only issue is that our men are not prepared for a woman who is independent,they often start seeking ways to bring her down,accusing her of being disrespectful and most start feeling useless ,narcissism becomes the order of the day.It's unfortunate that it's difficult for a Nigerian woman to win,you have your own money its a problem,you don't have wahala.But i'll choose having my money over anything else anyone who can't keep up should take the exit.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Chuks2706(m): 1:58pm On May 11, 2020
rapid101:
well
as for me my sef and I
I'm dating one now and I'll marry her cus she is everything I dream in a woman, apart from she's rich, her character is 1001% pure. very respectful, dedicated, not materialistic, a goal getter, beautiful. in fact she's everything u ll dream of in a woman. tank God she came my way.
ok bye

Wait... till the tide turns around my friend

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by valengoski: 2:01pm On May 11, 2020
[]I've dated up to 4 different very rich and influential girls
And I'll kindly share just one of their stories, I mean the first of them

It was 2013 mehn life no be moi moi ooo
I lived in Lagos , Maryland to be precise so I got a job at a catering company then at ikoyi
But not like other catering jobs oo , this one is special into big boys way
We only serve the NNPC_NAPIMS workers
Men go garage up with full swag to go serve rice grin
But it was fun cuz I had my cool Calabar friend with me
I finally had a friend who happened to be an auditor there (female)
Name withheld , she's absolutely gorgeous but a lil older than me i guess
She rides a range Rover , the company has a car park called Park view, for those who knows bayo kuku area in ikoyi you'll know there , big men area

One day I went to serve as usual , I was cashless , after closing hours I almost lost it cuz I had no penny to go home , mehn I trek from ikoyi reach Maryland grin life tire me
The next day again I went to work after borrowing money from my own younger brother grin
And after serving , I was just thinking of how to go home , but I no too dear because that day was Friday and we don't work during weekends
As i went to pack up the used plates, this damsel asked me to pass her bag to her, she gave me some $ upto 15 pieces
I mean dollars not naira ooo , 100 dollars each
Mehn my prick sef stand
I was dumbfounded , to say thank you sef tire me cry
Anyway I left , but I thanked her Sha , but I didn't even know the actual figure of the cash but I know say na load
Trust poor man na , I arrange the dollars inside my wallet and went to a nearby bar to get some cold Heineken and catfish peppersoup grin
After that I headed to obalende park , as usual the conductors don know me as a wahala boy who no they always get money complete grin
I stepped into the bus and put on my headphones in it's loudest volume , as usual the conductor started shouting (owo da)
Because I see fine girls inside bus I start to speak phonetics grin and brought out some dollars that i dont have change , conductor shock grin grin
To cut it short I went home
And I made my biggest mistake
Drop ur comments if I should continue cuz this is the funniest part

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 2:01pm On May 11, 2020
You're the Gold digger then.
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Timijo(m): 2:06pm On May 11, 2020
goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm lipsrsealed sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!
I think the society we live makes a man feels inferior when his girlfriend is financially independent. Our girls also have this entitlement mentality, that is, they believe that it is the responsibility of men to spend for them and the only thing they can bring to the table is their bodies. But this is absolutely wrong, it takes two to tangle in everything. I don't believe it is the sole responsibility of a man to take care of his girlfriend financially, the both should look after themselves without depending on each other. If a lady spends her money on me, I will not see it as her duty but I will appreciate it and reciprocate. This should also be the response of ladies but the reverse is the case here.
A man who understands a mutual relationship will not be upset or feel inferior when his girlfriend spends on him.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by potonicomf(m): 2:06pm On May 11, 2020
Just encounter with one yesterday,the gal dy form big gal but wan finish my noney grin

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dybala11(m): 2:09pm On May 11, 2020
yuswrld20:
those girls wey u mention are gone extinct.
they big momma wey i dae date don kill me with liability my aim just to chop and she pack n go
OP isn't referring to Nigerian girls, majority of them are broke, proud and always feel entitled. They believe that the clause "beggars don't choose" doesn't apply to them. I can even name a moniker on this forum that falls into this forum.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Serginho(m): 2:11pm On May 11, 2020
fineboynl:
If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.

She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.

I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.

They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills.
She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.

They never collect transport or any money from you.

Well i wouldn't say my girl is that kinda big girl that has girls she gets jobs for or write CVs for but she is kindof comtempted with what she has. The ones her parents provides atleast till she's out of school but she has a connection with this your writeup in that, she spends like a big girl. Most times during my days with her in sch(i just graduated), i use to hold her atm card to avoid she withdrawing extravagantly becus she likes us going out nd she likes the money coming from her. If i pay for all the thing we bought, she'd never leave until she's bought something for us that she paid with her money.

I had to hold her atm to curtail her spendings, she didn't have problems with it anyway, even when we go out, I'm always the one payin but the money isn't always from my pocket. If i buy her stuff as a suprise, she'd never rest until she has reciprocated with sometin even bigger than what i bought for her. So in as much as she doesn't have league of girls she pulld around, she is a big girl when it comes to spending. She doesn't really have much of friends though, just few.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dybala11(m): 2:12pm On May 11, 2020
Hisduchess:


You can't say much sir and it's good like that cool
Is it your say?? Lol
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by MrNipplesLover(m): 2:13pm On May 11, 2020
irunoko:
ahannnn no be Wetin dey inside your boxers be the name of my moniker? Kilowan pretend fun? tongue

You dey fast ? Ehennnnnn and so what? tongue





The worst mistake I ever made was viewing your profile moments ago.

God, pls, forgive and pardon me.



na so I go view one girl profile too last week for front page, the thing I see for her DP na her yellow pawpaw breasts staring at me.



I'm done viewing people's profiles on NL till end of Ramadan.



good bye, bro.


no quote me again, na beg I dey beg.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 2:14pm On May 11, 2020
Eillyeillz:
. Oga kilo shey yen gan?! Small gist you don dey feel who produce Igodo! Had to login into my NL account because of your Story, you had better not disappoint �
ok boss I'm updating soon sir grin
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 2:15pm On May 11, 2020
Lamiri:
Bros biko no let my pepper soup cold na do fast
no vex boss I'm typing right away grin
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dybala11(m): 2:21pm On May 11, 2020
Samfloxin:

Try and marry her and you will see the other side of her she kept inside fridge for you
Chai, you no get joy o. Lol
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by ahmEenu(m): 2:24pm On May 11, 2020
asobo:
Ogbeni continue.
where do y'all want that guy to continue? isn't it obvious that he is lying he' said he trekked from ikoyi to Maryland. it will take anyone 30 hours to trek that distance. haba.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by amoreobansu: 2:24pm On May 11, 2020
[quote author=fineboynl post=89400110]Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Slayqueens or Slaymamas cheesy
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by ahmEenu(m): 2:25pm On May 11, 2020
emusmithyy:


You went to a bar to drink? And you had no transport? Hmmm
that guy is lying through his teeth. infact lie Muhammad dey learn work. he said he trekked from ikoyi to Maryland. that's about 30 hours journey with legs.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by ahmEenu(m): 2:32pm On May 11, 2020
Dreyton36:

Nas once said: not everybody deserves the truth , I'm sorry that you find it hard to accept the truth
that story is a lie. how can u trek from ikoyi to Maryland d people liking that story don't know anything about Lagos. undecided
Dreyton36:

Nas once said: not everybody deserves the truth , I'm sorry that you find it hard to accept the truth
that story is a lie. how can u trek from ikoyi to Maryland d people liking that story don't know anything about Lagos.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by eedimo(m): 2:37pm On May 11, 2020
Liposure:
u just lost ur helper
God has been faithful to me bro.
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 2:38pm On May 11, 2020
I can hook you up with one.
Seun:
Seems nice.
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by rapid101(m): 2:40pm On May 11, 2020
Chuks2706:


Wait... till the tide turns around my friend
I reject am for u. can't u guys just be positive for a nigger for once
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Emu4life(m): 2:44pm On May 11, 2020
Dreyton36:
no vex boss I'm typing right away grin
Abeg mention me when you finish. Dz fasting dey make me see triple but i go reserve energy for your next episodegrin
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Liposure: 2:45pm On May 11, 2020
eedimo:

God has been faithful to me bro.
how? dat woman was godsent
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by protonz(m): 2:45pm On May 11, 2020

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