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Re: .. by Nobody: 7:07am On Aug 08, 2020
Prepare delicious meal for him and serve him the food like you would a king.
After the food, give him a pack of condom and tell him; I know you're cheating on me but I don't want you to contract STDs so play safe.

A man with conscience will beg for your forgiveness and turn a new leaf but a heartless man will thank you very much for the condoms. grin

Also double check with Mr. Karma because if you had slept with married men in your prime days, chances of other girls sleeping with your husband are very high.

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Re: .. by jornwhite: 7:32am On Aug 08, 2020
Ybaby:


I personally believe in following my man's leadership...

That is I do as he do.

And your hubby has opened up your marriage

So look after your body, dress to kill and get a younger richer version of him and cheat right back....

He should not know you are cheating... your kids need their daddy.

But make sure you get entangled and enjoy your lover.

That way resentment does not build up in you and your kids still have mum and dad intact.

If he has 10 lovers, you have 5. Donot over do it - he is still the leader.

Let him be seeing the smoke but never see the fire that is donot get caught! But he must feel the pain of you dressing up, looking good and going out...knowing your new effort is to impress other men NOT him.

No partner has the monopoly of madness..... this is a good time to check within your friend zone, toasters for who qualifies to rumble in your tumble.

I.e Go and see the pain in Will Smith's face in that entanglement video.... that is how to stop a man from cheating.






you slept high n still woke up of high ... smh

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Re: .. by frozen70(f): 7:36am On Aug 08, 2020
Janella29:
I really just want to know.

How do you react to a cheating man that will make him even feel bad. Do you shout at him, threaten to divorce or just keep quiet and keep on like nothing is happening.

Men how would your wife respond to your cheating ways that would make you so terribly afraid?


If you have a cheating husband
Seat him down and talk to him that, there is no time for nonsense and he should concentrate on his family and make things work out

If after doing that several times he refuses to change

Just behave as if nothing happened and plan your life, a time will come when it will be too late for him

When that time comes leave him to suffer the punishment he gave himself

You deserve peace and don't allow him determine your own happiness

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Re: .. by Nobody: 7:40am On Aug 08, 2020
1) Upgrade your dressing skills, look hot
2)Make him feel jealous by acting like someone is seemingly toasting you
3)Pray for him to change
4)Deny his sex (Not always advisable, it might backfire)
5)Have a heart to heart conversation with him and ask him why he is cheating (It unlikely to work, some men are chronic womanizers).

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Re: .. by Nobody: 7:42am On Aug 08, 2020
faceURfront:
while they are seperated, how does she take care of her sexual urge? Abeg complete d advice.

Huh?? Is that the important thing now? She should keep herself now. Is life all about sex?
Re: .. by Nobody: 7:42am On Aug 08, 2020
J111333:
Prepare delicious meal for him and serve him the food like you would a king.
After the food, give him a pack of condom and tell him; I know you're cheating on me but I don't want you to contract STDs so play safe.

A man with conscience will beg for your forgiveness and turn a new leaf but a heartless man will thank you very much for the condoms. grin

Also double check with Mr. Karma because if you had slept with married men in your prime days, chances of other girls sleeping with your husband are very high.
She is indirectly giving him a pat on his back and a go ahead order, most men don't have conscience, they will get the wrong signal.

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Re: .. by Nobody: 7:43am On Aug 08, 2020
Righteousness89:
My Beloved Sister, Two Wrongs don't make a Right!

If you wanna Make Him feel so Bad , Show Him Extra Ordinary care and Love.

Let Him know that you are aware of what He is doing but Don't React! Show him Love.

His Conscience will Prick him . He will come to Respect you
What if he doesn't have conscience, you think its every man that have conscience.

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Re: .. by Righteousness89(m): 7:49am On Aug 08, 2020
Nuttella:
What if he doesn't have conscience, you think its every man that have conscience.

What will you do? Will you also Cheat?
Re: .. by Nobody: 7:51am On Aug 08, 2020
Righteousness89:


What will you do? Will you also Cheat?
I will never cheat on my spouse.

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Re: .. by Righteousness89(m): 7:55am On Aug 08, 2020
Nuttella:
I will never cheat on my spouse.

That's it dear! 2 Wrongs cannot make a Right!

Everyone will Stand Befor God . It's a Solo stuff!

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Re: .. by Biglittlelois(f): 8:08am On Aug 08, 2020
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Re: .. by Biglittlelois(f): 8:12am On Aug 08, 2020
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J111333:
Prepare delicious meal for him and serve him the food like you would a king.
After the food, give him a pack of condom and tell him; I know you're cheating on me but I don't want you to contract STDs so play safe.

A man with conscience will beg for your forgiveness and turn a new leaf but a heartless man will thank you very much for the condoms. grin

Also double check with Mr. Karma because if you had slept with married men in your prime days, chances of other girls sleeping with your husband are very high.
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Re: .. by Ybaby: 8:13am On Aug 08, 2020
jornwhite:




you slept high n still woke up of high ... smh

Is that what you said to the poster that said she should pray her husband marries a second wife or the one that said she should be praying.

Oga!!!!!!! Scram!

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Re: .. by Nobody: 10:08am On Aug 08, 2020
Ybaby:


I personally believe in following my man's leadership...

That is I do as he do.

And your hubby has opened up your marriage

So look after your body, dress to kill and get a younger richer version of him and cheat right back....

He should not know you are cheating... your kids need their daddy.

But make sure you get entangled and enjoy your lover.

That way resentment does not build up in you and your kids still have mum and dad intact.

If he has 10 lovers, you have 5. Donot over do it - he is still the leader.

Let him be seeing the smoke but never see the fire that is donot get caught! But he must feel the pain of you dressing up, looking good and going out...knowing your new effort is to impress other men NOT him.

No partner has the monopoly of madness..... this is a good time to check within your friend zone, toasters for who qualifies to rumble in your tumble.

I.e Go and see the pain in Will Smith's face in that entanglement video.... that is how to stop a man from cheating.




Always posting rubbish.

Remember your husband paid bride price. He can do whatever he likes.

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Re: .. by Ybaby: 10:20am On Aug 08, 2020
Elder0001:


Always posting rubbish.

Remember your husband paid bride price. He can do whatever he likes.

Always barking! grin grin grin

Ofcos he can and so can I

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Re: .. by misse1(f): 10:25am On Aug 08, 2020
Just ignore him. If you have kids focus on them . Above all, have a personal relationship with the Holy Spirit. He is our teacher, friend, strengthener when we are down.

In essence make God and your children your priority.

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Re: .. by Nobody: 10:33am On Aug 08, 2020
misse1:
Just ignore him. If you have kids focus on them . Above all, have a personal relationship with the Holy Spirit. He is our teacher, friend, strengthener when we are down.

In essence make God and your children your priority.

Lmao.
So he can continue cheating?

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Re: .. by Nobody: 10:34am On Aug 08, 2020
Ybaby:

Always barking! grin grin grin
Ofcos he can and so can I
He paid your bride price, you belong to him.
Re: .. by misse1(f): 11:10am On Aug 08, 2020
Elder0001:

The man is the only person that can change himself. When he decides to let go of his habit of cheating.
Lmao.
So he can continue cheating?
Re: .. by Ybaby: 11:21am On Aug 08, 2020
Elder0001:


He paid your bride price, you belong to him.

I belong to Jesus!!

grin grin grin grin

Ofcos I belong to him and he belongs to me too.

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Re: .. by mariahAngel(f): 11:49am On Aug 08, 2020
Janella29:
I really just want to know.

How do you react to a cheating man that will make him even feel bad. Do you shout at him, threaten to divorce or just keep quiet and keep on like nothing is happening.

Men how would your wife respond to your cheating ways that would make you so terribly afraid?


How? YOU PUNISH HIM WITH THE WHIP OF YOUR INDIFFERENCE! that's how.

Gbagbuo ya na nkiti that he'll question his relevance in your life.

While you're at it, CHANGE YOUR STYLE.
New hairstyle, new clothes...
New airs about you will intimidate his cheating ass! him papa!
Go to a spa, give yourself a make over, it'll make you feel good to look different.
Rebrand yourself.
Be selfish! Be confident! Focus on you.

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Re: .. by jornwhite: 12:42pm On Aug 08, 2020
Ybaby:


Is that what you said to the poster that said she should pray her husband marries a second wife or the one that said she should be praying.

Oga!!!!!!! Scram!



D hubby is not here nor the one complaining, askin her to pray is not wrong whether gud or bad its left to God to answer buh your advice is quiet misleading n solely in d hands of sum1 fallible.

can your billionaire hubby see your comment n be proud ..stop reasoning like olosho o tii marry

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Re: .. by TheArchangel(f): 12:47pm On Aug 08, 2020
squash47:
1. Just keep praying so that he will marry that lady he is cheating with so dat he will stop going outside.

2. Pretend as if u don't know that he is cheating on u. Sometimes, to be happy in life, u have to condition ur mind to accept that everything is alright..

It may surprise you to know that if you report him to anyone or confront him physically, everyone will blame you because in African marriage,a cheating husband is not committing any crime (except he is not taking care of his family very well...then, it becomes a crime.)


What is a sin or crime is for the woman to cheat. It's an abomination for a married woman to cheat on her husband.

My advice is for u to stop suspecting or monitoring anything. Just accept the man the way he is. And focus more on ur children.

Most of our fathers cheated on our mothers yet, our mothers married them for more than 20+ years.

I'm sure your marriage is not upto 20 years. If not, u for don get experience and get used to living with it.



Finally, a husband that cheat is better than d one that will use u and do money ritual.


There are men who use their wives to do money ritual in some part of this country.
What a truck load of garbage

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Re: .. by squash47(m): 12:48pm On Aug 08, 2020
TheArchangel:
What a truck load of garbage
I know...when people say things that you don't like, it becomes garbage
Re: .. by TheArchangel(f): 12:56pm On Aug 08, 2020
Elder0001:


Always posting rubbish.

Remember your husband paid bride price. He can do whatever he likes.
lol. Bride price of less than 2k for a lifetime of agony because he is cheating.

What a joke of the century.

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Re: .. by Nobody: 1:30pm On Aug 08, 2020
How a wowan "like you" should respond to your cheating husband strongly depends on your own personality and desire..

1. Faith and belief system.
2. Marital connection.
3. Marital communication transparency.
4. Family setting
5. Character.
6. Mindset.
7. Decision.
8. Reaping from past.
Et al..

How do you want to respond..? An eye for an eye that totally kills and buries peace and love or a means to restore peace and love? Tell us
Re: .. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Aug 08, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


if you believe that women solely cheat because of sexual needs then you sir are living in la la land.
here is a simple clue:
- some women/men cheat because they are emotionally lacking
- some women/men cheat because they simply dont love you
- some women cheat because some dude showered them with a better/richer/fancier lifestyle than you offered the babe
- some women cheat because they are tired of the same old sex you have been doing for years together
- some people cheat because they are sick in their head and can never be sexually satisfied (aka nymphos)


there isnt a single reason why people cheat thus the only solution is to get rid of that deceitful/dishonest/untrustworthy/unfaithful person.
Hi MrBrownJay1
Re: .. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Aug 08, 2020
TheArchangel:
lol. Bride price of less than 2k for a lifetime of agony because he is cheating.

What a joke of the century.

My reply depends on the personality of the person I'm replying.
That reply was because of the way that Ybaby behaves on here and the kinda stuff she's always supporting.
Re: .. by mariahAngel(f): 2:12pm On Aug 08, 2020
Ybaby:


I personally believe in following my man's leadership...

That is I do as he do.

And your hubby has opened up your marriage

So look after your body, dress to kill and get a younger richer version of him and cheat right back....

He should not know you are cheating... your kids need their daddy.

But make sure you get entangled and enjoy your lover.

That way resentment does not build up in you and your kids still have mum and dad intact.

If he has 10 lovers, you have 5. Donot over do it - he is still the leader.

Let him be seeing the smoke but never see the fire that is donot get caught! But he must feel the pain of you dressing up, looking good and going out...knowing your new effort is to impress other men NOT him.

No partner has the monopoly of madness..... this is a good time to check within your friend zone, toasters for who qualifies to rumble in your tumble.

I.e Go and see the pain in Will Smith's face in that entanglement video.... that is how to stop a man from cheating.




Iya mi, se eyi o wa poju bayi henh? Se emi re le gbe ?
Re: .. by ModestGal(f): 2:38pm On Aug 08, 2020
Biglittlelois:
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I think na only me read those things o, this is why I think African are the worst set of people sometimes.

See advice, Buy gift for your husband that is cheating?

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Re: .. by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:53pm On Aug 08, 2020
Chii59:
Hi MrBrownJay1

HI, it seems you have created a profile pretending to be the old chi59... why is that?

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