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Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Philipmighty(m): 3:51am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that. Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth. But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago. How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means Please help a niqqa brothers Sorry for the long write up! 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Bola146(f): 4:03am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Angelacruz: 6:01am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by StennyB(f): 6:05am On Feb 17, 2021 |
@op The girl might be telling the truth. When you guys eventually have sex be gentle cause you might hurt her. A female friend shared a similar experience with me. She said when she finally had sex at 22 it was horrible. Cause she felt like a saw went through her cause her guy wasn't being gentle at all. 92 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by chatinent: 6:05am On Feb 17, 2021 |
i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth. Story for Zeus. she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her nor matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, Same story told by 99.9% of girls worldwide to sugarcoat their flirtatious nature. Same finishing. Same story told to unsuspecting fooled boyfriends wanting adventure. A tale of two fools fooling themselves. 721 Likes 50 Shares
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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by DaddyRochie1642: 6:08am On Feb 17, 2021 |
To Slap this guy dey hungry me 405 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Mikester: 6:08am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Tell her to look at you in the eyes steadily and testify she's telling the truth. If she can't, well you know what to do. Try that for a start Note: I didn't say it applied to everyone 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by femi4: 6:09am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Philipmighty:Buy totometer. Connect positive to positive and negative to negative. Then watch the meter reads to tell you the no of times 338 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by fernandez1(m): 6:11am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Uncle ur girl friend don do give away. Toto no dey read....... 140 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 6:42am On Feb 17, 2021 |
You're clearly not ready for responsibilites from your statement but that tiny rope between your legs is trying to help you do the thinking by pushing you to have sex with her "just to know if she's telling you the truth". And she's told you if anything happens not to leave her but you still want to go ahead knowing full well that you won't commit to her. My sincere advice. Op, do you have the money to cater for a family now? Use your brain, leave sex out of this relationship. Sex is overrated because after everything, your senses will come back and reality will strike you hard, by what time it is too late. This is how you bring problems for yourselves just because of five mins madness. 217 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Permesso: 6:47am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Like this is the trend now, exactly the same thing this church girl i'm trying to relate with just to know if i can settle with her, she said the same fare tale and claimed her parents is aware of it. I was sceptical, having more doubt it could be their system of defending being lose and promiscuous, Saying Her parents couldn't involve police because there was no money then. Forming she doesn't have a boyfriend and don't like to do it.. what will man pikin believe again. 84 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 7:06am On Feb 17, 2021 |
CalliDora1:sex seems to be the only thing guys gain from relationship 53 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by MikeBetty(m): 7:09am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Are you a kid? Dont fall for it. It is tactics girls adopted to last in a relationship, you will be surprised to see her marry another man the same week you part ways. 83 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 7:10am On Feb 17, 2021 |
You will know if she is sexually active after sleeping with her, unless you are inexperience. 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 7:12am On Feb 17, 2021 |
justosee: What's the gain in having sex with someone you're not married to? Youll only lose. You guys seriously need to change your mentality. 57 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Kurtis02(m): 7:12am On Feb 17, 2021 |
But this format don cast since 2008, how come you still fall for am? 165 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 7:19am On Feb 17, 2021 |
CalliDora1: You don't gain anything, but that seems to be the only satisfaction we get from being in a relationship with women. Hope you are still a virgin? 85 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by deepwater(f): 7:24am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Tajbol4splend(m): 7:27am On Feb 17, 2021 |
You don't ask your woman for sex, you seduce her to make her ask for it, shikena 185 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Philipmighty(m): 8:13am On Feb 17, 2021 |
chatinent:bros calm down na we no dey quarrel 6 Likes |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Philipmighty(m): 8:15am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Permesso:my brother the thing weak me, still on still on aren't gonna give up 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by DSC7: 8:18am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Sametin a girl told me...... Almost made me promise her marriage...... Later found out she is a single mother...... Still tried to carry her along but later realised that she does not worth it......had to move on...... @Op i dont know if she is plain or not but if you know that you are not ready to settle down with her pls control your self..... No go promise heaven on Earth because of few minutes pleasure... May God see you through..... 90 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Philipmighty(m): 8:22am On Feb 17, 2021 |
CalliDora1:I have all the necessary things to take care oh her if in case something happens, but I'm confused she might be lieing to me. I believe that's what some girls do tell to cover up there flirtatious life. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by chatinent: 8:33am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by DaInferno(m): 8:40am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Philipmighty:you know say normally, sex talks suppose dey lowkey between you and your partner-like in the old days. I wonder why you so bent on if she's had sex.She doesn't want to be damaged further, leave her alone. Her story is a pathetic one, but all you think about is if she's lying. well nairaland can tell,they can only feed you with what you actually wanna hear instead of what she told you You need to have a H2H, garner empathy and stick around a woman you value. So Some day, she looks at you like you're the One, and that's a win. When life happens and people get screwed over, they need a trustworthy partner. be one 48 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by blinking001(m): 8:50am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Is it just a coincidence that most if not all Nigerian women always blame Rape as the source of their first sexual encounters? Op that girl is a bloody liar....a woman knows if she's gonna have sex with you from the very first day you two meet so stop deceiving yourself OP......that girl is only trying to prolong the sex thing so her value in your eyes increases...she's a manipulative biitch..break up with that type of woman for your own peace of mind...its obvious that she's playing mind games with you. 84 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Jeon(f): 9:03am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Philipmighty: MUST YOU NIGERIANS ALWAYS HAVE SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP fati2001 come and see! NIGERIANS ARE _________________ 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 9:11am On Feb 17, 2021 |
There are always two sides. 1. She might be telling you the truth 2. She might be keeping you as the real guy believing when you have sex with you, you will flee. So she gets the sex elsewhere where nothing is attached. Probably you keep a close watch on her, check her phone unexpectedly but some girls sharp Sha Dem go delete everything before coming over... 25 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by mattmogan88: 10:26am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Op, I v heard this same story from 3 different All I know is that IF YOU ARE NOT KNACKING YOUR GIRLFRIEND, ANOTHER PERSON IS DOING IT believe it or not. 55 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Philipmighty: You think or believe she's lying to you? Are you a virgin, Sir? Look, if you love a woman, you'll go ahead and marry her. Using her past to determine the workability of your relationship is only being ridiculous because you yourself have a past and prolly so many body counts. Except you don't truly love her then drop it and move on, instead of digging up faults that are best left in the dark. Remember, curiousity killed the cat. She may even be saying the truth but my own in all these is that you guys should shun premarital sex. E get why. 23 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 10:38am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Let me put it to you in easy-to-understand parable. If you go to buy a piece of land in a vast expanse of lands, but you're not sure whether your particular plot has been sold to someone else before you or not, or whether the person trying to sell it to you is even the genuine owner or a scammer; and there's no way to be really sure about this particular plot; what do you do? Go thou forth and doeth the same in this case. 14 Likes 1 Share |
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