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NYSC / Re: NYSC 2017 Batch A Corps Members House by Sugardiva(f): 3:40pm On Jun 12, 2017
amijid2012:
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NYSC / Re: CROSS River State Corpers, Batch A 2017. Stream 1 by Sugardiva(f): 11:59am On Jun 12, 2017
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NYSC / Re: If You Were Posted To Cross-rivers State, Batch A,Stream 1,Let's Meet: whatsapp by Sugardiva(f): 5:59pm On May 25, 2017
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NYSC / Re: Whatsapp Groups For All Batch A Stream 1 2017 (all States) by Sugardiva(f): 5:58pm On May 25, 2017
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Career / Re: NYSC Change Of Orientation Camp Venue In Cross River by Sugardiva(f): 5:57pm On May 25, 2017
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NYSC / Re: NYSC Allowance For All States In Nigeria 2017 by Sugardiva(f): 5:55pm On May 25, 2017
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Education / Re: NYSC Important Notification To 2017 Batch A Corpers Deployed To Cross-river Stat by Sugardiva(f): 5:52pm On May 25, 2017
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Politics / Re: Senate Walks Out Hammed Ali, Customs Comptroller General For Not Wearing Uniform by Sugardiva(f): 6:27pm On Mar 19, 2017
hardbody:


Strong point. Well articulated. I wasn't coming from that perspective.

Thank u
Politics / Re: Senate Walks Out Hammed Ali, Customs Comptroller General For Not Wearing Uniform by Sugardiva(f): 2:45pm On Mar 16, 2017
hardbody:


Elementary logical reasoning

The IGP is a career officer in the Police Force

Is the CG a career Customs officer?

Let us even assume he is (which he is not), is it the uniform that will speak to them

I believe in substance over procedure
Then you miss the point entirely. The issue is not the uniform per se, its his disregard for constituted authority and institutions.
If he gets away with disobeying a direct request to wear his uniform from the senate then everyone will feel like they can get away with disregarding the senate. The senate then looses its power. He gives orders and expects to be obeyed but he cant take a simple one?
Besides the leader of a uniform organisation should not go around in mufti. His uniform is his symbol of authority. If he feels the uniform is beneath him, he should resign.
Family / Re: Family Petitions FG Over Polish Man’s Cremation Of Nigerian Wife by Sugardiva(f): 10:40am On Feb 09, 2017
eyinjuege:
Why are the family members querying her death?

Was it under suspicious circumstances? I thought she had a terminal disease?
The husband is her next of kin, and would decide how she would be buried, and even when. There's no question about that.
Cremation is used a lot there, so I'm not surprised she was cremated. They could have asked him for the ashes if they want to keep her close by.
Better still, they can ask the husband for a copy of her death certificate to find out the cause of her death.
If her death was suspicious, her husband would be the first suspect, and the police would have been involved even without being prompted.

Its painful to lose a loved one suddenly without any warning, and it's also easy to lash out at those living closely with them. I think the family is just grieving, and in pains that they would never see her again, or even her burial site.
I pray they receive the closure they need


There is nowhere in the report that states she was suffering under a terminal disease. Please do not misinform. Why is her family quering her death? Let me give you a few reasons.

1. She DID die under suspicious circumstances. The report says she was hale and hearty as at the last phone conversation with her family days before her death. Her hsuband says an accident occured and she died. The nature of the accident, illness and medical care she receieved was not disclosed.

2. Her husband went ahead to cremate not just bury her forestalling permanently any chance of an autopsy being carried out. Although he may be her next of kin it is wrong for him and disrepectful to his late wife to bury her in the absence of her family who were making pland to attend her funeral.

3. It is unreasonable to tell a family to move on from the death of a daughter who's death is still a mystery. How can the family find closure when they could not even see a body? The act of seeing a loved ones dead body and actually burying same is a fundamental part of tge grieving and healing process cos it brings closure.

For those asking why is the family petitioning the FG, for heaven sakes she is a citizen of Nigeria in a foreign land. Of course the FG should be concerned abt her well being. Nigerians are so base they do not even know the benefits of being a citizen and that FG should aleays play a big brother role for its citizns abroad even if tgey are illegal migrants etc
Crime / Re: B-R-E-A-K-I-N-G N-E-W-S: Bomb Blast In CALABAR... Central Bank Hit...! by Sugardiva(f): 1:20pm On Mar 11, 2016
I heard the explosion wasnt caused by a bomb. All these people milling about what are they waiting for? For naira notes to rain out of the CBN vaults? Smh
Politics / Re: Buhari’s Integrity Increases Power Supply, Says APC: Punch by Sugardiva(f): 8:53am On Aug 21, 2015
MizMyColi:


Mr Ebele has always been a proponent of transformation.
Unlike some dullards who expect that power situation will change overnight, the man was busy laying groundwork and ensuring that even in his exit, sustainability is maintained.
He understood the principle of consolidation.

A principle which his opposition in the APC clearly lack understanding of.

Dont mind them. Are they really so naive and gullible to think that a problem like Nigeria's power problem can be solved overnight? Its laughable

Goodluck set structures on ground. In my state a huge power plant was built within the last 2 years of GEJ tenure. Power improved in my area since the beginning of this year. We began to have 18 to 20 hours of electricity supply daily and they expect me to thank Buhari for that? Not on their lives.

Buhari we know the achievements of GEJ. U cannot fool us. Go and make ur own impact let us see. Chibok girls are still out there, boko still on rampage, the naira is still nose diving etc. There are so many sevtors to show what ure made of. Get working. Unless he wanna tell us he has seen that the job of president na only for mouth e dey easy.

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Romance / Re: Every Bride Should Play This GAME At Her Bridal Shower (photos) by Sugardiva(f): 9:27pm On Aug 14, 2015
omogidi234:
Assuming[b][/b] but not conceding[b][/b] that she picks another guy other than her Bobo?


I put it to you that you are a lawyer! grin cheesy
Phones / Re: How To Download Youtube Video To Phone by Sugardiva(f): 10:22am On Aug 14, 2015
This works for me
1. Copy the url link of the video from your browser.
2. Go to savefrom.net
3. Paste the link and download

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Politics / Re: Top Five Safest States To Live In Nigeria by Sugardiva(f): 12:07pm On Jul 07, 2015
TheSonOfMark:


Sugardiva, can you see this?

Ingrate. You enjoy peace and freedom in . Uyo yet you are ungrateful. Here's a Crossriverian who's disputing your claims.


Already getting aggressive huh? U would be attacking me with a machete by now if u were to see me I'm sure. Akwa ibom and it's people suffer from a severe case of inferiority complex around its big brother cross river. I wonder why because AKS is right now richer and arguably more developed. Yet AKS is always comparing itself to CRS trying to meet up. I guess what they say is true, money can't buy class.

BTW ur foolish assumption that I live in Uyo is laughable. I am not like akwa ibomites who flood our city because u are running away from the witchcraft of urs. Any safety or infrastructural development uyo may have to offer is negated by the wickedness of its people. I live in Cally where the land is green. COME AND LIVE AND BE AT REST.. CALABAR didn't earn that acronym for nothing.

#lastreply
Politics / Re: Top Five Safest States To Live In Nigeria by Sugardiva(f): 9:06pm On Jul 06, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Check the official list ot the safest cities.

Even those in Calabar readily agree that Uyo is the safest. cool

My dear Uyo can never be safer than cally. Calabar is safe. In Uyo u will rent house and your landlord witchcraft will pursue u. There might be no robbery n much kidnapping but the witchcraft is just too much. You can never know who is who. Even buying stuff in the market is prayer point for it to be jazz free. The people are very unfriendly, always squeezing their face as if you are the cause of their problems in life. Annoy an akwa ibom man and the first thing he will do is bring out cutlass. Even if it is a slight annoyance.

Calabar people are open friendly and are not given much to withcraft. Cally's only security challenge is the sColombo boys and we all know they migrated from uyo judging from their thick ibibio accents.

Abeg nor dry deceive people online. CALABAR IS SAFER THAN UYO BY FAR.
Family / Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Sugardiva(f): 6:19pm On Jun 29, 2015
jaybee3:


I don't think you can allow emotions develop if you are close minded about something. Emotion gets triggered if only you let it

These suitors of yours, do you usually feel a need to hear from them or be around them at times?

Is it that you aren't attracted to them physically or you are just scared of being hurt hence the reason why you can't seem to allow them into your world.

You know you can go on dates with open mind without actually being physically involved with these dudes

Just be open minded about things and allow yourself see them in a different light

I am open minded. As a matter of fact there are some I wish I could develop feelings for. They are young, intelligent bla bla bla. If I were simply after money I would have said yes a long time ago cos they are a bit financially stable. But like I said the emotions are not just developing. I put in a lot of effort to spend time with them to try and trigger it but yet nothing. If they don't call me, it takes me 5 days to a week to notice they haven't called. Some of them are just plain boring to put it lightly.

The thing is I've had a great connection with the exes. It usually starts with a deep friendship and then evolves into something more often so quickly that I don't
even know when it happens.

I've known what it feels like to really connect with someone in both my previous relationships. Be the best of friends and companions and have feelings. I am over my exes and am not comparing or expecting anyone to be like them. The only thing that I am confused about is that can this connection and companionship grow with these 'suitors'. Is it right to say yes to someone who does not hold ur attention? And keep waiting to experience connectiin?
Family / Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Sugardiva(f): 5:54pm On Jun 29, 2015
jaybee3:


I only asked you about your employment situation so as to ascertain if your requirement for a money bag has something to do with your view of marriage has a gateway to financial security.

If he is good to you and his persistence which could be easily analysed as him having genuine love for you is not enough for you to see beyond the norm then you might not find a good man going forward.

Below are the key criteria you ought to consider when choosing a partner:

Potential: His he educated and good work ethic
Values: Is he morally upright?
Faith: Does your faith align
Listening skills: Does he allow you contribute or he is a pushover
Accommodating: Does he accommodate your flaws

All the above will help you sustain your home not money

I don't think that this is what the OP meant. I think she means should she agree to date a guy she has known for more than 2 years who is caring and shows her love but she doesn't feel anything for?

I understand her because sometimes i wonder the same thing. I have a number of 'suitors' who check all the right boxes according to ur list. Have potential, aligned faith, same values etc but no matter how much time I try to spend with them I don't get any feeling. No emotions at all beyond maybe friendship. And I'm not in a serious relationship.

The question is do u go ahead and date someone u have absolutely no feelings for just because he checks all the right boxes and treats u right? Will it work out?

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Politics / Re: Cross River State Gov. Prof. Ben Ayade Pays June Salary On The 25th Of June! by Sugardiva(f): 12:32pm On Jun 29, 2015
blesoh:

madam good for u,my frnd who is a teacher has nt been paid since april same here

I'm sorry. I guess my post may have seemed a bit insensitive. We were just so excited to receive the alert we didn't realize local govt. Workers had not been paid.
Politics / Re: Cross River State Gov. Prof. Ben Ayade Pays June Salary On The 25th Of June! by Sugardiva(f): 12:27pm On Jun 29, 2015
tpiadotcom:


my question was what is your justification for claiming Cross River is one of the poorest states?

You should have evidence handy which backs up your stance.

CRS Fed allocation per month is about 2 billion or so, IGR per month is 1. 2 billion on a good month and there are no viable industries except for the coco plantations in ogoja and ikom and the stones in akampka. These industries have not been harnessed to even 1/10 capacity and then some uninformed graph on the internet says CRS is one of the best economies in the country?

I was born in, I live in and work for Cross River State. I know Cross River State. Unverified graphs and statistics are easy to draw. The internet is free enough for that and I guess knowledge is a choice. Like I said before research more and keep urself currently informed before commenting.

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Politics / Re: Cross River State Gov. Prof. Ben Ayade Pays June Salary On The 25th Of June! by Sugardiva(f): 5:41pm On Jun 26, 2015
tpiadotcom:


sweetie, I don't know what you know which other people don't know, but this is the first time I'm hearing Cross River being called a poor state.

perhaps you want to enlighten us further?

My dear what I'm saying is common enough knowledge. This thread I created is to commend the Govenor for attempting to pay timeously despite the financial constraints the state is faced with. If you are contesting the fact that CRS is not a financially challenged state presently then I would say that you should research more and keep up with current affairs. That's all the enlightenment I can offer.

Anyway I commend ur eyesight. U are seeing into the future when CRS will be one of the richest and greatest states in this country. It's gonna happen soon

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Politics / Re: Cross River State Gov. Prof. Ben Ayade Pays June Salary On The 25th Of June! by Sugardiva(f): 3:48pm On Jun 26, 2015
tpiadotcom:
How is cross river one of the poorest states?



Op why are you lying nah?

https://www.nairaland.com/549745/government-returns-oil-wells-cross

My dear these days correct and current information is as cheap as the internet to come by. Please avail yourself before commenting. The Supreme Court ruled in favor of Akwa Ibom State and the 76 oil wells were never returned to CRS. The state is no longer considered an oil producing state for more than 3years now. CRS FAC allocation is number 23 on the list in terms of amount given. The state economy is purely run on IGR, tourism and a bit of agriculture.
Politics / Re: Cross River State Gov. Prof. Ben Ayade Pays June Salary On The 25th Of June! by Sugardiva(f): 2:10pm On Jun 26, 2015
HammedSodiqq:
Someone shud pls comfirm this info, cos a frd called me on monday and said they r being owed 3months salaries

Did he pay only june? No arrears owed?

I'm sure ur friend does not work for Cross River State Govt. I do and salaries have been paid to June. June Salary was paid last night.
Politics / Re: Cross River State Gov. Prof. Ben Ayade Pays June Salary On The 25th Of June! by Sugardiva(f): 6:59am On Jun 26, 2015
slap1:
So you don get alert?

#Godwin! cheesy

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Politics / Cross River State Gov. Prof. Ben Ayade Pays June Salary On The 25th Of June! by Sugardiva(f): 6:39am On Jun 26, 2015
While other states are grappling with inability to pay salaries, CRS the pacesetter state leads the way once again. Despite being one of the poorest state on FAC allocation, our new Govenor has kept one of his prominent campaign promises to pay salaries of workers on the 25th of every month. Kudos to Sen. Prof. Ben Ayade.

Cc: lalastica. Front page pls. Let people know that at least some states are working. Thanks

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Business / Re: Breaking: FUEL SCARCITY MAY Affect Telecom Services Soon.. by Sugardiva(f): 3:47pm On May 24, 2015
I hope the scarcity affects their ability to send all their annoying sms. Mtn and glo too
Celebrities / Re: Photo Of The Obama And Family When They Assumed Power And Them Now by Sugardiva(f): 3:42pm On May 24, 2015
Wow. Did money speed up the growth process? Pretty girls tho
Culture / Re: The Fattening Rooms Of The Efik by Sugardiva(f): 1:40pm On May 02, 2015
wahalababe:
get ur facts right. the efik ARENOT domiciled in LARGE parts of Akwa Ibom Stateget ur facts right. the efik ARENOT domiciled in LARGE parts of Akwa Ibom Stateget ur facts right. the efik ARENOT domiciled in LARGE parts of Akwa Ibom State

tell him! Still can't figure out why it's so difficult for other peeps to differentiate between the two states.

@ OP MBOK THERE ARE NO EFIKs IN AKWA IBOM STATE

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Education / Re: Nigerian Universities With The Fastest Masters Degree Programmes by Sugardiva(f): 10:42pm On Apr 23, 2015
suyamasta:
pls any info on Unical and Unijos PG?

Unical has already taken in admission for this year. Visit www.unicalpg.org for more info
Education / Re: Nigerian Universities With The Fastest Masters Degree Programmes by Sugardiva(f): 10:39pm On Apr 23, 2015
[quote author=Adyrin post=33025310]How much does Unical postgraduate and masters program cost in total and W̶̲̥̅̊ђA̶̲̥̅ts the duration?
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Fees depend on ur faculty. Btw 80 to 100k Duration also depends. Masters in most fields is 2 yrs. While post grad diploma is 1 yr.

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Crime / Re: White Cop Shoots Unarmed Black Man 5 Times In The Back, Handcuffs His Dead Body by Sugardiva(f): 10:54am On Apr 08, 2015
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