joe4christ:


My only question for you is: when u masturbate, who do you think of, as in who do you see in your imagination. A guy or a girl?

Let's start from there first!

Na mammy water e dey see

I actually see nothing wrong with masturbation if you can manage it the way you could have managed normal sex with an opposite sex.

You can still have girlfriends and still be servicing yourself.

Ishitinyourlife:

So what of mtn that changed its name to stay safe.every bank in the world sends that to their customers,they are expected to do so,it is not special at all,don't you get birthday messages from them on your birthday.
There is nothing worth jubilating over here,it's just a norm bro.

They will still charge you for the birthday message sef!!

I wanted to say OP no get sense but i wee not say it

Jackossky:



Pronounce the word 'SMS' verbally and you might notice why it's 'an' and not 'a'

‘A sms’ sound somehow na

yanabasee:



So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...

I was even thinking you have sense before until now!!!

All of you are just talking shit in the very nonsense

If you want to, do it.
If you want to stop, stop.
If you don’t want to, don’t.

Stop shitting yourselves here.

Righteousness89:

Let's not call our President useless.. Even though he is not on the right track.. let's respect the seat of the President...

I thought you wanted to say "even though he is useless"

Obviously you can't help her, you are as naive as she is.

Please take/report her to her family members, seems the parents are late from the chats screenshot.

If the parents are late and she needs financial assistance, it becomes more complicated.

If you can assist her financially please do. She's actually loving you for some benefits she can't get from the family at the time, as soon as she can get those benefits from another person she won't be so obsessed with you like this anymore

If you don't/can't love her, please don't take advantage of her

TheGenius001:


But I simply don't know how to. I have tried in my own best way possible.

If I know, I wouldn't have created this thread

Exam na next Tuesday...
I go pass Sha!!!

[1quote author=lefulefu post=83911978]hope u didnt fail that exam cos of what she did oo.if na woman make me fail exam i will never forgive myself.[/quote]

I'm not crying but I can't stop the tears...

murphyibiam15:

lol, same thing happened to my roommate back then in school, the babe was supposed to come visit him on the same Saturday of her trad, my guy only saw the pics on Facebook, damn!! we cried on his behalf..my guy was a player himself so him no send

See the way you are proffering solution like say na exam hall you dey.

Your solution is so theoretical.

Bro, in practice, i mean in real life scenario...once a girl is into you because of what she is benefiting and not because she loves you, she will keep pressing your mumu button...you want her to show some commitment? she will show you more than commitment since that's what you need...she'll practically do anything to make sure that the benefits she gets from you does not stop.

But when a lady is into you because she loves, but starts giving you the kinda attitude op mentioned just know that she's no longer interested in you.

You should know that most ladies don't marry who they love but who is ready to marry them.

The solution to op's problem is to understand that he's no longer or was not in relationship with the said girl....so, Mr op, goan look for another beautiful lady that will love you....all na by luck.

stanliwiser:
Stop querying and asking her about those guys, that will show your insecurities.

Stop posting her own pictures also, reduce the way you chat and communicate with her, you need to start letting her miss you a little. if she confront you, don't cry and pour out your emotions like a naughty baby, just comport yourself and tell her that you're busy and carried away with job. Don't confess how you feel, if you do she will laugh hard on how important she is in your life. SHOW A GIRL HOW IMPORTANT THEY ACCORDING TO HOW MUCH THEY START BECOMING COMMITED TO YOU. 30% commitment deserve 30% percent compliments and nothing more.

Focus on your life and get your focus on your career and plans. Get busy with your hobbies and work, stop unnecessary expectation from her

Give her some space to miss you, and stop your UNNECESSARY GIFTS, FAVOURS AND LONG CHAT AND HANGING OUT.

You said she don't post your pictures, YOU ARE AN UNDERCOVER LOVER. Open your eyes, You're chasing shadows. Go out and date other girls and don't tell her, if she finds out, tell her it is nothing serious BUT stop this act as soon as she start showing much commitment.

To get her attention you need to respect yourself and understand you deserve someone better than her, follow 50/50 rule, never loves her more than she loves you.

MY CONCLUSION IS THAT YOU TRYING TOO HARD TO LOVE THIS GIRL. SHE OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU TO STOP.

You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!

To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...

We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.

We never broke up!!!

All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....

She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.

I loved her but see my life now

motionarena:
There is this girl am dating, and we love eachother or so i think.

She is fund of doing something that pisses me off.
She at times uploads her WhatsApp status with random guys but that is not the worrying part.

The strange thing is the caption that follow the status.
She will give d guys pics captions like
"My love, i will always love you"
And stuffs like that.

I have seen her do this for 3 guys on three different occasions.

When i query her and ask her why she will do such, she will say they are just ex-school friend's that the guy in particular has helped her in the past and she is just appreciating them.

And mind u this same girl i think loves me has never uploaded a pic of me on her own status to appreciate me.

I beginning to look stupid.

Any babe wey fit fight for me na she i go marry

odogwu190:
Na 3 things go cause... either d guy is rich or baba can fck or baba na headies king

emsco:
This babe carry o.

Me right now wondering weda the oza room instrument also got burnt!

Kylekent59:
You already said the answer. He looks matured, and manly.

No girl would wanna move with an amature guy.

If you know how bad Nigeria is now, you won't even be reasoning about GF/BF stuffs, you should be reasoning how to make big money.

since you've been reasoning how big is your money?

so if man no make big money he should remain dry....

Nwokem take ya time dia o!!!

you can't be lacking bread and still be lacking butter.

victorian:
Most girls are attracted to guys who are handsome, observant, quiet and looks manly, talks with a deep manly voice when he has to , than to guys who crack jokes like Eddy Murphy.


I hope u get my drift?

Did you just describe me like diz?

TundeBricklayer:

Ok, so no single black man in their board

Them no won dirty their white board....
You can't come and be using charcoal to write on their fine white board.

Go and look for a white chalk to write on your black board....that is if you have board at all!!!

Well said, however you must understand that op is not looking for where to do charity work or where to donate, don;t let us leave the headache and start treating toothache.

Op is not Nigerian govt neither is she one of the wealthy in Nigeria.

Abeg, she's looking for survival which your Nigerian govt is not helping at all.

However, I'm yet to hear from the Rev Sister...

Has anyone heard from her?

I still don't want to comment until i hear from the Rev Sister.

uuzba:

I don't know what you guys expect.
You have to understand what missionary means.

It is now our Nigerian duty to pay all the salaries, other monies needed to run the school.
The Reverend sister there running that place HAS NO MORE CONNECTION WITH UK. She is looking for money to run the school.
Nigerian Governments have not supported the schools. Instead they send double/triple number of students there to over populate the place and run down all the facilities.

This place is for DONATING MONEY. Without Donated Money, the place will TOTALLY collapse. There would be no more education for the poor children.

I need to hear from the Reverend sister first before I comment.

HRHQueenPhil:
Ur wife is now ur wife not a slave to be sent back to father's house when u are annoyed with her. Do these
1. Bring her back immediately
2. Buy her pyjamas and nighties
3.burn all her wrappers
4. Make sure she never leaves ur bedside without putting on appropriate clothing
Congratulations, nothing will spoil ur marraige

Number 3 is not good.

5. Buy her one bag of pants.

On a second thought, she no dey wear panties so that you can free, unlimited and unrestricted access to always fire the action any time any where.
She's a good wife

GOFRONT:
Congratulations!!!

the boy is so ugly....looks like a comrade, let him come and comrado his father o!

Nigerian cup members

Tapout:
I'm not saying we don't have half baked graduates in Nigeria, but u were not there, how can u be so sure it was written by a Corp member??

teebozz:
How does dis affect ur life o.cant u just waka pass since u cant afford it.big mouth!!!

Lolz

teebozz:
A Neatly use,perfect working,original tecno canon c8
Back camera is faulty,fixable with 2k
Lagos(ALlimosho LGA)

A neatly used perfect working, original Canon c8.
Back camera is faulty...

Son of Buhari detected

Make wuna abeg allow Buhari to go and rest and prepare for tonight's debate.... I don't want to any excuses o

Please, i need accommodation of N150k around yaba/sabo axis, can you help

mykwaba:
Yes but workers can stay in some of them

Something good finally came out of Nairaland

Seems the year will be seemly with nairaland