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Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by IbnTimothy: 10:45am On Jul 27, 2012
Amya:

Seriously? Well, what are we classless mumus gonna do about it?

Well my Aunt's life is not in trouble, shƺ's a B.tch in her own right and he's a d.ck in his. Ideally suited or what? If there marriage is in trouble, how the hell is that my fault? If he on his own decides to send money for mƺ, I should decline abi? Abegi.

---what is it with Nigerian girls thinking collecting money from men is a good thing? Mugu or no mugu .... if you are clean, please stay clean. You can't teach someone any lesson by activating your greed for money ..... it has nothing to do with you teaching him a lesson, it is your greed at work.

Ok. Accepted you didn't know it will come to this, now you know. So;
Get a job and fend for yourself; Leave your 'bitch' aunty and whatever husband to sought out their lives
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Amya(f): 10:46am On Jul 27, 2012
Okija_juju:


[color=#0000]Biitch you are interested in the guy and if care isnt taken, you have sent him explicit pictures of you as well. You said you were only polite to him because of your Aunty and then turn around to call that same Aunty a biitch. YOU my dear are a harlot! A cheap, low-life, skanky, trashy, suck-a-diick-for-a-dollar prostituting LovePeddler. Biitch you know AIDS is real. Keep fhucking other women's men and soon, you would get a beatdown so bad you will not know what hit you!!


P.S: Amaka!! Yes! I know your name & surname biitch!! I took the liberty of looking you up on Twitter and you are one fat ugly piece of shiit. No wonder you cant land a man. Next time you wanna annonymously talk shit about anyone especially your family and close ones online, make sure you are truely annonymous... You were so dumb you had your picture, first name and last name on your profile and associated it with your Nairaland profile. And you said you were educated... I laugh!!
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hey easy there. You wouldn't want to bust an artery there would you. You nairaland peeps take things way to serious. I'm ugly oh! Never mentioned anywhere that i was a beauty.
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by safeLove(f): 10:47am On Jul 27, 2012
Amya: you guys shouldn't be closeminded. What if i really didn't lead him on in any way? What if i put him off, albeit politely? He says 'sexy niece' because according to him, sexiness runs my family. Just thought he was a nice man who genuinely cares for his wife's family. He chats with my brothers as well. Now people accuse of me of plotting to snatch her husband.
I never sent him photos. I rarely ever use my picture on my dp. He must have gone rummaging for my pix on facebook
OP,abeg live all these people talking here. Once they hear(or read) somebody marry somebody,they think its made in heaven therefore no one must relate. Its your aunty I pity because this guy is obviously a scum. This is the kind of man that will toast all the sisters in law and sleep whatever smiles at him. Himself no get shame. I hope your aunty is trully separated from him because he can kill her one day just to bring in another woman. Stewpid fellow. America ko,puerto rico ni. He can even stoop as low as calling the house girl 'fine girl' just to sleep with her. Rubbish.
Honestly if I were you I'll carry a close member of the family along,play along and deal with him ruthlessly. In fact get him to come to Naija and set him up big time with the family. American reject. They feel they can eat their cakes and still have it(or is it the other way round)..

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Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Limaoscar: 10:48am On Jul 27, 2012
Bingo! You see a poster above mentioned that you were an enabler and with your sebsequent posts inluding this one your true behaviour is coming out.

I was wondering why you would be engaging in sending text with your aunty's husband and why he would be referring to you as his sexy niece. Which uncle does that? And which girl, especially nigerian girls that their eyes are soooooooooooo open, will not know where this guy was heading when he was describing you as sexy ? Which other uncle of yours do you also text ? Or is it just this one because he is in " AA" ? Longthroat you have no shame. And I cannot beleive that all this while that you were sexting this guy that he never sent you any money or gifts. Like a true niger girl, you play the fool when it suits you and then miraculously stop it and open your eyes when it no longer suits you. When you tell your anty make sure you also give her the copies of all the text you exchange with this dude. Your aunty is now a b*tch after you have collected and then ruined her relationship eh ?

Bros...your eye dey "shuk". You just dug-out our sister like easy!!1.....So proud to be Nigerian ...we shoot so straight and don't miss the bulls-eye. All the fake,hungry Aristo-chopping advisers here now go don dey shake!!gringrin
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Okijajuju1(m): 10:49am On Jul 27, 2012
Carlmax:

Exactly.... Wetin una dey talk since...

About how she would fhuck him and instead of cash, he would pay her with green card..

Amya:

hey easy there. You wouldn't want to bust an artery there would you. You nairaland peeps take things way to serious. I'm ugly oh! Never mentioned anywhere that i was a beauty.


Shey you said this was a true story.. Nairalanders take true stpries seriously, especially when the story is about a Prostitute trying to justify fhcuking her sisters Oyinbo husband for Green card and a condo in New York.
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by maclatunji: 10:49am On Jul 27, 2012
Holy Macaroni! This thread is on fire! OP, you are proving to be a bad advert for the "well-educated, working-class Nigerian girl."

Accept that insulting your aunt on this thread and planning to swindle her unfaithful husband is wrong and be a better person in future.
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by deshclones(m): 10:53am On Jul 27, 2012
Amya:

hey easy there. You wouldn't want to bust an artery there would you. You nairaland peeps take things way to serious. I'm ugly oh! Never mentioned anywhere that i was a beauty.

NNe..i for post your real pics here..you lucky say you be igbo...kindly apologise to desh now...am waitingoooooooooooooooo cool cool cool cool
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Limaoscar: 10:53am On Jul 27, 2012
What you expect from an akata?

Do you really know who qualifies to be called that word up there
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by bold4: 10:59am On Jul 27, 2012
Abeg_gi:

Despite your attempts to paint youself innocent and the victim in this matter, it is obvious to anyone astute enough, that

-you were an enabler
-you absolutely earlier on knew what he was up to, and you entertained it
- you are partly to blame for this mess.

If you must teach anyone a lesson, please start with yourself.
My tots exactly & if i must add to wat he said, u dont nid 2 teach him any lesson. Rem, wat goes around comes around. Just opt out of d relationship b4 u hurt urself
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by emm06: 11:03am On Jul 27, 2012
Amya:

Seriously? Well, what are we classless mumus gonna do about it?

Well my Aunt's life is not in trouble, shƺ's a B.tch in her own right and he's a d.ck in his. Ideally suited or what? If there marriage is in trouble, how the hell is that my fault? If he on his own decides to send money for mƺ, I should decline abi? Abegi.

For dis comment alone U r d real BITCH:......trust me U r gonna live 2 regret ever eating his money....asshole..:::.:::.
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Amya(f): 11:05am On Jul 27, 2012
safeLove:
OP,abeg live all these people talking here. Once they hear(or read) somebody marry somebody,they think its made in heaven therefore no one must relate. Its your aunty I pity because this guy is obviously a scum. This is the kind of man that will toast all the sisters in law and sleep whatever smiles at him. Himself no get shame. I hope your aunty is trully separated from him because he can kill her one day just to bring in another woman. Stewpid fellow. America ko,puerto rico ni. He can even stoop as low as calling the house girl 'fine girl' just to sleep with her. Rubbish.
Honestly if I were you I'll carry a close member of the family along,play along and deal with him ruthlessly. In fact get him to come to Naija and set him up big time with the family. American reject. They feel they can eat their cakes and still have it(or is it the other way round)..

first reasonable post i have seen all day. Just exactly what me and my brothers were saying! Everyone i told including some members of family think the guy is an idiot who should be dealt with.
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by ayobase(m): 11:07am On Jul 27, 2012
Idowuogbo:
Love-hate relationship mister!

Today na hate dey happen

Chillax....

I realised later.
Nice stage performance!
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by ayobase(m): 11:12am On Jul 27, 2012
sexkillz: ^It's cleaned now, and the offenders banned. . .


Thread Re opened

I dey feel u these days!
A new leaf!
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 27, 2012
Amya: And for calling my Aunt a b.tch, I have reason to believe that shƺ sees other men when he's not around. I never told him or anybody. Plus the kind of friends shƺ hangs out with are of questionable character. Portharcourt girls! shƺ didn't go to school. . . . Don't have a job, just hang around the net all day looking for men? Her best friend has been married to 4 white men in the space of two years!

I'm well educated and I work. How much lousy change can the stupid Akata drop sef. Both of them should carry their wahala and go sef. I ain't telling nobody!

Amya:

first reasonable post i have seen all day. Just exactly what me and my brothers were saying! [b]Everyone i told including some members of family [/b]think the guy is an idiot who should be dealt with.


wow, the way lies dey comot like water for both sides of your mouth ehn. grin continue with the excuses
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by HonSuQMaDIQ(m): 11:14am On Jul 27, 2012
@OP. Ur topic should hav read " MY DIABOLIC PLAN TO DESTROY MY AUNT'S MARRIAGE AND CUNNINGLY RIP OFF DOLLARS FROM HER UNSUSPECTING GULLIBLE HUSBAND".
The law of Karma must catch up with u for wittingly enabling a Man who took away u peoples 39yrs old burden into an unnecessary DIVORCE.
U urged him on. If u didnt give him d go ahead green light, ur Aunts marriage might not hav developed d cracks.
Ur own marriage must also b destroyed by another NIECE of urs amen!!!!
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by ayobase(m): 11:14am On Jul 27, 2012
jennykadry:
@Slimyem

Who the hell is that girl? I like her

Finally!
I knew it!
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Nobody: 11:16am On Jul 27, 2012
ayobase:

Finally!
I knew it!

wetin u "knew"
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by ayobase(m): 11:18am On Jul 27, 2012
dollyptosh: ID whr are u? Feeling ur post

Gez she is not been banned!
Hoping to c her around soon!

@OP
I can c.....u gels share no bond at all.
Nobody cares abt nobody!
Who is gonna scold u if ur plan worked out.
''to hell with my Aunty and her hubby, I can do whatever I like''
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by member479760: 11:22am On Jul 27, 2012
you go soon chop the one wey go send you to the permanent side. go ahead!
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Nobody: 11:22am On Jul 27, 2012
jennykadry:



wow, the way lies dey comot like water for both sides of your mouth ehn. grin continue with the excuses
Nairaland FBI. . . grin
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by ayobase(m): 11:28am On Jul 27, 2012
jennykadry:

wetin u "knew"

Lets not derail to avoid BANS.
Lets focus on Amya for now!
Whats ur take on the gel?
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Nobody: 11:29am On Jul 27, 2012
sexkillz: Nairaland FBI. . . grin

At ya service sa grin Hey she said nobody knows about it, next thing I see is "everyone I have told even brothers and family members are saying the same thing. Why is she messing with my head like this angry angry cheesy

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Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Nobody: 11:30am On Jul 27, 2012
ayobase:

Lets not derail to avoid BANS.
Lets focus on Amya for now!
Whats ur take on the gel?

It does not change the price of bread in the market cool
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Amya(f): 11:44am On Jul 27, 2012
. . .and to the moderator who rephrased my post topic to serve his perverse needs, a very big SCREW YOU to you!!


Little wonder people come in here all biased minded. Please everyone, read my first post objectively.

It was only in the last line that i 'considered' taking his money as a way of dealing with him. But people advised against it with good reasons. I slept happy, only to wake up this morning to be called a husband snatching w.hor.e!

Take a chill pill people.
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by IbnTimothy: 11:47am On Jul 27, 2012
Amya:

first reasonable post i have seen all day. Just exactly what me and my brothers were saying! Everyone i told including some members of family think the guy is an idiot who should be dealt with.


Oh! Now I see you already made up your mind up on what kind of advice you want to hear

I wish you luck then
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Amya(f): 11:50am On Jul 27, 2012
jennykadry:

At ya service sa grin Hey she said nobody knows about it, next thing I see is "everyone I have told even brothers and family members are saying the same thing. Why is she messing with my head like this angry angry cheesy

aunty in question does not know, but everyone knows now.

The issue on ground is should i tell her?
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Amya(f): 11:54am On Jul 27, 2012
[quote author=Amya]First off, let me start by saying this is a 100% true. If any one knows me on Nl, they'd know I don't make up stories.

My Dad's youngest sister is 39. she just got married last year to an AA guy she met on an online dating site. They got married here in Nigeria, so she has to be in Nigeria for 2 years before gets her green card to join him.

The guy has been to Nigeria a couple of times, but I haven't met him. He sent me a friend request on facebook, and earlier in the year, he asked my Aunty to give him my bb pin. We started chatting innocently. I call him uncle, and he calls me 'my sexy niece' he always try to chat me up every other day. After a while the communication stopped. We didn't chat for 2 months, but I could care less.

Yesterday, he went on full toasting mode. Telling me his marriage between by Aunty and him is over, and how he's always been in love with me and want's to marry me. I was trying to see reasons with him (more out of respect than anything else) why the liaison would never work, because his wife in question is my Aunt! Plus I have a bf I love.

He went on to say "Bleep tradition! Bleep family!!! I want you to be here in new york city with before the end of the year. We'll get married here and bla bla bla" It was shocking and traumatising.

I'll never be foolish enough to fall for that crap. But I may just teach him a few lessons never to mess with a naija girl (by chopping him mugu)

I really don't know whether or not to tell my Aunt about this and make it a family issue. [/quote
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by olabamiji09(m): 11:59am On Jul 27, 2012
If you were in your aunt shoe what will you do,,,think about it before you take any step..
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by klaus3011(m): 12:03pm On Jul 27, 2012
babes.....LIFE IS PER HEAD..(according to my warri friend)....whateva your heart tells you to do....do it..#simples
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Nautillus(m): 12:06pm On Jul 27, 2012
deshclones:
O boy I checked her out too...chic is outright fat and annoyinly unattractive..trying to upload her pics..will do that in a bit..educated morafuckher indeed.

WOW!!!! Amya... i got to hand it to you...you have a thick skin(no porn intended)...and from your diction...you sound rather educated. BUT not justified...you gat a job..you are kinda fulfilled...why else would you keep contact with a family members EX...??..it doesn't sit well...in any way you try to look at the scenario.

just walk away from all this and let it go.

please. you sound rather smart...i'm sure you will do the right thing.EXCEPT that you are just yanking everyone's chain.
Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jul 27, 2012
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Re: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by DExplorerbaba(m): 12:14pm On Jul 27, 2012
Amya:

hey easy there. You wouldn't want to bust an artery there would you. You nairaland peeps take things way to serious. I'm ugly oh! Never mentioned anywhere that i was a beauty.
Wia ur name 'sexy niece' dey com frm if u ugly? Abi no bi sumtim u dey take dey scatter d man brain? U, d man, ur aunty re all joking. What a family

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