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GreatVocalist:
Sorry, but the emboldened is actually wrong; making a condition for helping someone else. That's not genuine help. It's even worse when you tell them, which sends a bad signal.

You shouldn't help people because you want something back from them, you should do that because you're naturally generous and you recognize that people have needs some times. That's selflessness. Love is selfless, and it expects nothing in return.

However, that is not to say you shouldn't ask people you've helped before for help, just don't do that on the premise of that help you rendered. You'll put them in a box, and that's manipulative in a way.

Like I said initially, most people are terrible. If you depend on them to repay your good with good, then be sure to be disappointed. If you get disappointed, you'll definitely not be willing to help anyone anymore. So just be kind and leave it there.

It's never easy, that's why it's important to ask God to reproduce His love in us.

Samueltemi337:
Sir guobe consider him
He has been through alot
He even tried the porn industry one time but it didn't work
He is currently down with so many infections and can't even afford treatment
This is the alternate account of the legend porn analyst Omihanifa AKA Eleporobi OmihaniFARH
He's only line of work currently is posting porn on romance section and linking guys to some hookup girls and they tip him afterwards
but the mods ban him from doing that so he is currently useless
Just help me so he will leave the porn lifestyle alone

Objectivist04:
What happened to the roofs ? Let me tell you, when those houses were being built your ancestors were dragging trees with monkeys.



Admin
This is front page worthy

Threedoorsdown:
Someone that hasn't experience this will call u a liar, lol. Life is a lesson
Street pple wey i de support financially nko i, lol.

Brokeness willq teach u lesson and u must learn

The moment God lifts me up again, i would not revenge or stop being good but omoooooooooo, i will always put myself first o. Big lessons mehn

WhiteIverson:
I am currently there right now and honestly I'm trying to weather the storm. The biggest lesson I've learnt and still learning is only you can pull yourself up. People see me and think I'm not doing my best, even my close family but omo I won't blame them. The only evidence that you're doing your best is when things start working out for you.
What a life!

guobe:
Ok nice .You love big odds alot.
I want you to rollover 1k to 30k in 5 days with your own cash. I want to see if you will be using your big odds to rollover.

Probz:
Thanks so much. Like I say, I’m really not flush myself and have my own financial wahala/issues but I also like to help people, even if I can only afford to do it here and there. Anyone who’s seen the state of current Nigeria would know why. There’s enough suffering going on as it is. Yes, e-dey important to not let yourself be taken for a fool/advantage of (especially in a country like Nigeria) but suffering’s real. And people need to know that there are still some people in this world who would go the extra mile for you when they comfortably can. Not everyone has funny principles about money and is super-tight about what they have. I’m not a fool but I’m not heartless either. There’s a difference between letting yourself be used for 419 and helping people who you know are genuinely struggling. Suffering can never be a myth in Nigeria. Yeah, man can’t really make this too much of a consistent habit but here-and-there it’s still better to give than to receive (and receiving is well-bliss, let’s not lie). I guess I’m just that person.

Sapasenator:

GrandFinale2021:
People still dey write jamb
Stupid people

Matrix137:
Emeka and yours?

AmuOtu:
Our president in waiting.