D-Explorer:

Skydeep
Sound reasoning - 0 Point

AmBeautiful: i think the judges and the organizer's of this debate should have waited for me to complete my second post by replying Adaeze's second post.
Next time, that should actually be a fair case, except the debater states otherwise!
Anywayz, its all good!

D-Explorer:

Let me make it clear that the judges are ONLY interested in your first post of any round. Further reply is by personal decision and probably for fun. Thank you!

AmBeautiful:

i beg your pardon?
Are you saying i cant read?

skydeep: *clears throat*
Good day my unbiased judges and wonderful viewers out there. I remain Skydeep. I still oppose the motion " money sustains romantic love".

My opponent(pearls) made mention of sugar daddies and mummies(sorry I didnt quote her statement) and how they spend money on their lovers for love. Now let me ask DO YOU THINK THESE SUGAR MUMMIES AND DADDIES SPEND THEIR MONEY TO SUSTAIN THE LOVE OR TO SUSTAIN THEIR LOVERS? Now let me tell you that this so call sugar daddies and mummies have wives and husbands at home. Now despite the money they have and spend on their wives(sugar mummies) which you refer to as "sustaining their romantic love", yet they still cheat on their husband. Now tell me if this money spent have any positive effect on their marriage? Same goes to the husband. His wife wears the best and most expensive perfumes, wears the best make-up just to please the husband and yet the husband cant stop flirting outside. Now tell me WHY IS THE WEAPON CALLED MONEY NOT WORKING TO SUSTAIN THE LOVE? Dont tell me you dont know what I am talking about? Sure you do. The big answer is BECAUSE THE LOVE IS NOT THERE BETWEEN THE MAN AND THE WOMAN. They made MONEY their priority in their marriage and not love. I rest my case. Thanks

pearl~hapi:
good day my unbiased judges and opponent
I still can not understand why my opponent keep reading a different meaning to my comments and questions to her!

I said and I still repeat that so many young girls go around sugar daddies for the so purpose of getting income for their upkeep and general maintanance,these young ladies have their boyfriends who claim to love them and yet allow them go after sugar daddies.now my questions are

Is it right for a girl in love with a guy to go having affairs with older men for money?obviously no

Now do you think if the guys in questions provided for these ladies they claim to love that such social vices will stand?[That's if you see it as such]

My next question is if these guys love the looks of their supposed girlfriends,how does goin an extramile to provide their needs and basic neccesities show it isn't a love based affair but money based?

I also asked if you have ever heard of how ladies in the old days abandoned their spouses who cud not afford their needs for white\european men who were capable of taking care of them.this goes to show that money has always been required in a romantic love even from the days of our fathers and mothers.

Furthermore,talking about sugerdaddies\mummies goin after younger girls despite the money they get is a digression from the topic but I wouldn't leave it unanswered

The major reason most women go after younger guys is as a result of some other factors,money exclusive.

Maybe the so called husbands they are married to are the types who no little or nothing about how romance.any woman who has a wealthy husband that can satisfy her in all areas and show her care wouldn't look out

The men in the other hand are been pushed into chasing and falling for younger ladies because the girls in question call for it.

If an older man asks two three or four young ladies out simply cause he's wealthy and they all turn him down do you think he would go to a fifth?but because most guys have been lacking in their responsibilities[as liitle as these responsibilities are]you see that young girls even throw themselves at the older men and most of them even go as far as goin to the news papers to indicate their want for such men

these are questions we should ask ourselves.thank you

pearl~hapi:

So would you blame an aged man who has the money to spend on a boyfriend care~less about girl for taking care of such girls and getting what they want in return?

pearl~hapi:

if money should'nt be involved in a love affair, then sex shouldn't be involved as well

xynerise: Am proud of you baby

xynerise: Am proud of you baby

Idowuogbo:
Me 2! Go mama andimeru! Go! * blowing whistle*

xynerise: Where is your opponent na? oops! Am I disturbing?

xynerise: Where is your opponent na? oops! Am I disturbing?

skydeep:
Affirmative

pearl~hapi:
ano run oooo,am still here gidigba btw I think we shud hear from the judges befor we go on ryt?

skydeep:
cmon baby, I was responding to his second question. "am I disturbing?"

CrazyMan: But when next another debate comes up, please pair me with MrbrownJ; we've got lots of unfinished business to take care of, and also he's a very strong debater.

One of the best from my opinion.

Mrs..Chima:
I guess I missed another one huh? SMH.

Can I still state my opposing view? I challenge MBJ.

Adaeze003: @ambeautiful.
All this talk about real love and romantic love might be pointless because one leads to the other. And real love cannot exist without romantic love. That said, I hope you understand that this is not an argument between you and me but rather a general debate. So once again telling me that 'you have alot to offer and if I have only the body to offer its fine' is very irrelevant. Also,I never implied that in my post.

Back to the debate. I know that the topic is not all about a guy giving a girl but it can also go the other way round so i ask. How would you see a guy that takes money from his girlfriend in the name of sustaining love?
Note that I'm not against people helping eachother but this does not guarantee you an unending love and that's my point. Give guy/girl money, shower him/her with gifts all you want, when he/she is ready to live he/she will! So remind me again how money sustains romantic love!

I'm also happy to know you agree with me that they are many other things one can offer in a relationship that beats money (in my opinion). For example companionship. Again, give a guy or girl a million dollars and leave them to their own troubles and lets see how this love will be sustained.

And by hook up I didn't mean a one night stand I meant dating and that is true whether you choose to accept it or not.

Here you go with the personal issues once more, about me staying poor and reporting back. Sorry I can't because I have my hands and brain to utilize and not a man or love to pay my bills. About the cleanliness part you can refer to my previous post.

Thanks.