collinsoft: I really appreciate all ur comment so far but d question i wanna ask is if its bad to shower someone u love with gift. The relationship we had was nt money based, infact i did all did because i saw the need to do them. She uses a nokia1100 tied with a rubber band because d casing of d phone is bad. I bought her curve4 because i wanted her to appreciate the fact dat i love her n besides i always felt ashamed seeing her use dat kind of phone wen i knw she deserve beta than dat. All d gift i bought was because i wanted her to feel happy in the relationship nt because am a 'moni miss road', bt wen u allow ladies they ask for allowance

You didn't do anything wrong. Cut your loses and move on. But most importantly, learn from this mistake. Ungrateful people (ladies) abound, but you still have some well brought up people (ladies).

Guy you asked for advice and people have given you. Why are you back pedalling again. It's either you take the advice or make the same mistake again. These advice are from people that have more experience than you so quit being naive. You've been warned. For example when her fone was an embarrassment you should have told her that she should change that it's embarrassing to ur image too. That she must save to get another one so whatever amount she can save up u can add some extra money to it. This kind of girl no go drop pass 5k so you sef will add 3k and whateva fone that money can buy then it's ok. Afterall it's people that use torchlight nokia fone. My bb spoilt and i bought nokia torchlight. Na crime. You are not her daddy. Neither are you are husband. Every financial thing you do for her isnt your responsibility. If her parents cant afford bb must she use bb? And if she wants bb must u be the one to buy it for her.

PS: Curve 4 is my new dream fone. I'm infact saving up for it. Assuming you gave me the fone now i would be most grateful and show plenty appreciation. The only thing is I cant give u punny See what punny dey cos oooooo Jst kidding.

collinsoft: I really appreciate all ur comment so far but d question i wanna ask is if its bad to shower someone u love with gift. The relationship we had was nt money based, infact i did all did because i saw the need to do them. She uses a nokia1100 tied with a rubber band because d casing of d phone is bad. I bought her curve4 because i wanted her to appreciate the fact dat i love her n besides i always felt ashamed seeing her use dat kind of phone wen i knw she deserve beta than dat. All d gift i bought was because i wanted her to feel happy in the relationship nt because am a 'moni miss road', bt wen u allow ladies they ask for allowance

If u must buy a phone for a girl,dont buy a blackberry of all phones !!!
Bbm and twitter spoils things,i tell ya.

Nawa ooo for some guys n their kind of advice.I'm sure some of u guys dt are condeming dis poster 4 spending moni on his girlfriend must be real mugus 4 their babes.

@ Topic, this is why my momma told me never to bring home, Yoruba, Ibibio, Calabar, Efik, Ijaw and especailly igbo women.

Men ma dude I feel ur pain, move on, run, jump all is story... Non of us is going thru wot u re going thro right nw. The best thing you can do now is just to relax your mind, free yourself and make you own decision base on d advice you have gotten and be ready to live with the outcome.



And for d gurl! Tradin money for sex, morality @ loose! Try open shop, so we wil know what u do for living and make sure CAC approve your business #chiken brain# I pray u read dis. Even if the op accept you back. Ma angel try and get a life. Beyonce God bless u jare


@ our government (GEJ) make una dey try put naija gurlz for budget, cos it is alarming d way poverty has affectd their mentality... Such dat d only way u can show affection is thro phone and fast food. O wot happen to d dayz of latter's, greeting card nd flower, Change I guess! Lolx

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Guy you asked for advice and people have given you. Why are you back pedalling again. It's either you take the advice or make the same mistake again. These advice are from people that have more experience than you so quit being naive. You've been warned. For example when her fone was an embarrassment you should have told her that she should change that it's embarrassing to ur image too. That she must save to get another one so whatever amount she can save up u can add some extra money to it. This kind of girl no go drop pass 5k so you sef will add 3k and whateva fone that money can buy then it's ok. Afterall it's people that use torchlight nokia fone. My bb spoilt and i bought nokia torchlight. Na crime. You are not her daddy. Neither are you are husband. Every financial thing you do for her isnt your responsibility. If her parents cant afford bb must she use bb? And if she wants bb must u be the one to buy it for her.

PS: Curve 4 is my new dream fone. I'm infact saving up for it. Assuming you gave me the fone now i would be most grateful and show plenty appreciation. The only thing is I cant give u punny See what punny dey cos oooooo Jst kidding.

don't buy anything curve. you'd regret it. The phone is utterly useless. I just dey waka with superglue anyhow in case the button fall wen I no dey house. I don glue like 7 buttons

The simple truth is luv is a bad thing, its "mostly" one sided and dats d problem. For someone like me who luv a lady easily has to learn how to manage d mind when it comes to luving a girl. I really can't explain what am going tru now, its only my job dat is keeping me frm depression and when am at home , I just feel pains. I still call her even when I knw she won't pick. My guy we are in same shoe, just dat mine is worst coz I luv her still even when I knw she is wt someone else now. I just deleted her frm bbm and fbk, so as not to be seeing what hurt me anymore. Women are truly heartless and wicked.

Lmao @ Nokia wit rubber band.

Ungrateful wench. She should be happy she had u for a bf. If it were me, she would still be rockin that Ijebu market Nokia.

Lmao @ Nokia wit rubber band.

Ungrateful wench. She should be happy she had u for a bf. If it were me, she would still be rockin that Ijebu market Nokia.

Never trust any Girl

Gold Diggers

This is an intresting thread can't stop reading

This should make fp

NnamdiN: true to some extent. I believe Love/dating was invented, in the time of our fathers, love came after marriage not before. They hardly divorced, but now, even after all the courting and dating, and being magad like d OP, you still end up with nothing.

I tire and I am sad these days.

2sexy: I tell yah... I have learnt to hide that part of me bro... It only belongs to my wife.

Yeah.

Mercy-u:
Nawa ooo for some guys n their kind of advice.I'm sure some of u guys dt are condeming dis poster 4 spending moni on his girlfriend must be real mugus 4 their babes.

You can say wateva u want but I swear by my integrity. I WILL NEVA BE TAKEN FOR A FOOL AGAIN BY A GIRL IM NOT MARRIED TOO. NOT IN THIS NAIJA. NOT IN THIS LAGOS. I'm too harsh abi? Thank you.

NnamdiN: don't buy anything curve. you'd regret it. The phone is utterly useless. I just dey waka with superglue anyhow in case the button fall wen I no dey house. I don glue like 7 buttons

are u sure it is curve 4. Curve 9360. I heard the fone is solid naaa. My brother uses it.

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are u sure it is curve 4. Curve 9360. I heard the fone is solid naaa. My brother uses it.

I use it and I'm yet to see anyone that uses it without one form of complaint or the other. The trackpad dies first, followed by the buttons falling off, when on 3G u can use it to iron your shirt(it gets extremely hot) the battery=zero. You can try it sha, u might be lucky. I wanna make sure mine dies B4 I throw it away coz I foolishly bought it when it just came out (56k) 2/3 months later, price came down to 42k. Nobody don price am reach 20k, so I go use am till the foolish thing die kpatakpata lol.

owenlyn1: The simple truth is luv is a bad thing, its "mostly" one sided and dats d problem. For someone like me who luv a lady easily has to learn how to manage d mind when it comes to luving a girl. I really can't explain what am going tru now, its only my job dat is keeping me frm depression and when am at home , I just feel pains. I still call her even when I knw she won't pick. My guy we are in same shoe, just dat mine is worst coz I luv her still even when I knw she is wt someone else now. "Success berry" dats her face book I'd, I just deleted her frm bbm and fbk, so as not to be seeing what hurt me anymore. Women are truly heartless and wicked.

bro... seriously, I cant date that kind of girl with serious mind.... I don check out. I just like my ladies to be naturally beautiful. She is though.. but I dont date girls of this nature.

I feel consoled by your responses. Now i knw better n will tread wit care in my next relationship though nt nw. Wit all dis post am beginning to learn women afresh, dnt knw weather to call it ladies101. Am really grateful to all those who leant me their 1cent of experience and advice. Thank u all

Ol' boy,

rename your handle to A.T.M or Mega-Maga!

Ehhen, this economic recession didn't reach your side o.

ON A SERIOUS NOTE

You cannot buy a girl's love with money and lavish gifts. That's how it would appear even though you only wanted show you care. If a girl thinks you want to please her by any means, she'll begin to shakara.
Can such a girl stick to you if (God forbid) you suddenly lose your source of income? I doubt.

She's not your wife. So wise up.

That you buy her expensive gifts doesn't mean she cannot be....nyanshing.....one handsome church rat on the side (not saying she does). Find out if the reason she's with you is just for the gifts or if she really loves you.

YOU can do so by complaining that business is not moving or that you had to take a huge paycut to just keep your job and see her action.

mondi_cheeks: can u even afford iphone 2 ?

look at who can afford iPhone 6

2sexy: . . . I doubt you can make a million naira within a year . . .

Me or Monkey_chic

collinsoft: Am calling the relationship quit as soon as i get back to port harcourt. Am currently working at brass bayelsa state. This is the second time am played like an idiot in relationship. Some times i ask if i can find true love or maybe because am eager to settle down with a woman though am 29 i want to start family life soon.
For now am going off with ladies, my heart is closed n i dnt think i can love again, except for.......... Am just confused right now

you dnt ve to close ur hrt so soon..yes der is true luv,buh u cnt find it wiv money or material tins..present ursef d way u're,if she doesnt lyk yu or want yu..dat doesnt reduce yu@all...wiv tym n patience ur missinq rib will come..ok

delkuf: Wht is dis mondi ranting abt. D fact dat parent can afford to buy iphone 5 or 50 dont give u d yardstick to blabing on line. Grow up, girl

Which stup.1d parents . . . Dat orphan that just graduated from the motherless babies home
in flying colors . . . She's a 1st class orphan; parents my a55

mxxpunkxx!:


Me or Monkey_chic

haba na... monkey_chic na... bros, make we yarn abeg... sharp sharp.

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Guy you asked for advice and people have given you. Why are you back pedalling again. It's either you take the advice or make the same mistake again. These advice are from people that have more experience than you so quit being naive. You've been warned. For example when her fone was an embarrassment you should have told her that she should change that it's embarrassing to ur image too. That she must save to get another one so whatever amount she can save up u can add some extra money to it. This kind of girl no go drop pass 5k so you sef will add 3k and whateva fone that money can buy then it's ok. Afterall it's people that use torchlight nokia fone. My bb spoilt and i bought nokia torchlight. Na crime. You are not her daddy. Neither are you are husband. Every financial thing you do for her isnt your responsibility. If her parents cant afford bb must she use bb? And if she wants bb must u be the one to buy it for her.

PS: Curve 4 is my new dream fone. I'm infact saving up for it. Assuming you gave me the fone now i would be most grateful and show plenty appreciation. The only thing is I cant give u punny See what punny dey cos oooooo Jst kidding.

u can give him the other hole . .don't crucify me oh, i am just speculating #noni

2sexy: haba na... monkey_chic na... bros, make we yarn abeg... sharp sharp.

Oya report for facebook #as,e,dey,hot

I only pay for Bleep, I'm not ready for bullshit maga love....

mxxpunkxx!:


u can give him the other hole . .don't crucify me oh, i am just speculating #noni

Thunder fire you

collinsoft: Am sure she read this post on nairaland going by the call i received today. All the same i dont care if U rant all u can shouting at the top of ur voice on the phone.
I knw u will still read this post but before am back to port harcourt, kindly pick all ur piece in my house and go to hell. I really hate ladies, they disgust me, imagine telling me i had s,ex with u severally and as a result i shouldnt complain on the net about asking me for gift. I have had enough of u stay clear my way. Good day

I'm sorry. That girl is an azs.

How could she say 'the bolded'? Were you the only one enjoying the s.ex?
Mtchew! So she was actually having the s.ex because of the cash n gift items not because she had feelings for you? Terrible!

Bad runs-babe . I know one when I see one

mxxpunkxx!:


Oya report for facebook #as,e,dey,hot

I don report oooo

born2fuck: I only pay for Bleep, I'm not ready for bullshit maga love....

born2fuc.k!!!! Take it easy sha..... Anytime I remember that ur ashewo joints thread I always laff. The one at ojota that u described, you actually got the description right in detail. You don waka oooo. It's not too far from house. Only someone who has passed by that road can describe that place like that. Born2fuc.k na u biko.

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Thunder fire you

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